Are Transgender girls hard to deal with as a girl friend?

[bat1]

I moved to San Antonio now this town has many Transgender women
I'm thinking of dating some and maybe have one as a girl friend
but what do I need to do? anything really different over a GG?

[saifan]

I've been in a casual relationship for abut 4 years.

There is one difference and that is about it...

[rjshemalelover]

T-girls are just like any other girls you would meet for the most part. Besides the obvious difference they may have more extreme mood swings than a GG if they take hormones.

If you do end up dating a t-girl please do NOT treat her as a sex object. If the sole reason you want to get in a relationship with a t-girl is for sex then you shouldn't. Too many girls get treated this way by their parteners leading to mistrust. (not that this does not happen with GG's too but I beleive it is much more common with trangender girls)

[BellaBellucci]

Depends on the girl.

~BB~

[Willie Escalade]

Yes and no.

And Bella is right...it depends on the girl.

[danthepoetman]

If someone thinks it's easy to deal with ANY woman, he doesn't know anything about femininity...
Hrmmm! That's it for my participation to this thread... :whistle:

[bluesoul]

I moved to San Antonio now this town has many Transgender women
I'm thinking of dating some and maybe have one as a girl friend
but what do I need to do?

you should date a few and find out if they're different, then tell us.
one thing you need to know though: they have a penis. keep that in mind.

now go out there and do what has to be done

[EvaCassini]

everyone is different, tgirls are just like normal people, because we are. :) Its not like we are girls with cocks.....teehee

[RallyCola]

buy them shiny things and shoes. that usually impresses most other women.

[EvaCassini]

Bat, what are you looking for in a girl? Look and personality wise.

[fred41]

Yes and no.

And Bella is right...it depends on the girl.


I was going to give you a long answer, but.....it's pretty much what Willie said.

[559alphadog]

you know i am finding myself in a similar situation. im actualy moving to texas next spring, i currently reside in california and ive recently started talking to and dating a ts. but as a previous poster stated do not treat her as a sex object, c my x fiance of 3 years was and is a stripper and i met her in the club and it just grew into way more so lol ive had to adapt and learn to accept everything for the most part if i realy care.

[danthepoetman]

Such Luck
Charles Bukowski

we were waiting at this table,
men and women,
after dinner.
somehow
the conversation got
around to
PMS.
one of the ladies
stated firmly that
the only cure for
PMS
was old
age.
there were other
remarks
that I have forgotten,
except for one
which came from this
German guest
once married,
now divorced.
also, I had seen
him with
any number of
beautiful young
girlfriends.
anyhow, after quietly
listening
to our conversation
for some time
he asked us,
"what's PMS?"

now here was one
truly touched
by the angels.

the light was so
bright
we all looked
away.

[MrsKellyPierce]

Oh I am thee worst...

I make you fuck me 3 times a day and you have to cum in my mouth in ass or I'm just not happy..

[Prospero]

LOL at Kelly.

Women?... they are lovely. As girlfriends. Heck - why ever not. Difficult - some are, some aren't. But hey what would life be without difficulty.

[bat1]

Bat, what are you looking for in a girl? Look and personality wise.

just a easy going girl that takes care of her self

Retired Army guy here

[danthepoetman]

Oh I am thee worst...

I make you fuck me 3 times a day and you have to cum in my mouth in ass or I'm just not happy..
LOL!! That's the kind of PMS we guys all dream about, lovely Kelly! <3

[youngblood61]

LOL!! That's the kind of PMS we guys all dream about, lovely Kelly! <3If that's your worst Kelly, what's your best?:)

[danthepoetman]

Here.
And yet, what man wouldn't want femininity in his life? None normal...
Bob Marley No Woman no cry - YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x59kS2AOrGM)

[runround04]

Im sure they're a pain in the ass just like every other girl, except you might get actual ass pain from them on occasion ;)

[dderek123]

In my limited experience. Yes.

[rockabilly]

In my limited experience. Yes.

Lol ironically in my limited experience ... No.

It depends on the girl i suppose. This applies to tg and gg some girls are just difficult to be with. I have a friend who is constantly arguing with her bf and takes his phone to check who he texts , calls and his browser history. She will yell at him in front of mutual friends and slap him and it's no shock to anyone that when they go home he beats her ass like a redheaded stepchild. Im not condoning his actions by any means and have tried to help her leave him and be independent yet she always goes back.
The fucked up thing is that she seeks out these abusive relationships ... No matter if she's dating a man or a woman she becomes a battered woman.

It's sad , she has little to no self worth and keeps allowing it to happen.
But you can't help someone that refuses to help themselves. All i can control is what suit I'll wear to her funeral should we get the call one day.

[Castor_Troy05]

Entirely dependant on the girl as already said. I've had less bother with my TS girlfriend than I had with any other girls previously.

Just treat her as you would any other girl and you'll usually be fine. Good luck

[dderek123]

Lol ironically in my limited experience ... No.

It depends on the girl i suppose. This applies to tg and gg some girls are just difficult to be with. I have a friend who is constantly arguing with her bf and takes his phone to check who he texts , calls and his browser history. She will yell at him in front of mutual friends and slap him and it's no shock to anyone that when they go home he beats her ass like a redheaded stepchild. Im not condoning his actions by any means and have tried to help her leave him and be independent yet she always goes back.
The fucked up thing is that she seeks out these abusive relationships ... No matter if she's dating a man or a woman she becomes a battered woman.

It's sad , she has little to no self worth and keeps allowing it to happen.
But you can't help someone that refuses to help themselves. All i can control is what suit I'll wear to her funeral should we get the call one day.

Sorry to hear that about your friend. As a former teacher, i believe behaviour like that is 100% learned behaviour. Maybe from her parents or whoever is close to her. The good news is that it's possible she could "unlearn" this lifestyle with the right help. I believe there is too much emphasis on genetics and not enough on culture and social learning lately. Is it really genetics or just a self-fulfilling prophecy? But I digress.

Yeah I mentioned "in my limited experience" because I think it's annoying when people think they are a genius and preach to others. The TS I had close relationships were ladyboys over in Thailand. So just the difference in culture and language made it more difficult, nevermind the whole TS thing. I wish the best for them though and still keep in touch with one of me exs.

[MacShreach]

I have not found transwomen to be more difficult to deal with than other women, but my sample is not huge. I think it depends on the girl--if you find a good one, look after her.

[BigDF]

I moved to San Antonio now this town has many Transgender women
I'm thinking of dating some and maybe have one as a girl friend
but what do I need to do? anything really different over a GG?Lord give me strength. I was actually going to start a new thread to make the following announcement, but Bat1's questions give me the perfect opening!

I haven't posted on here much lately because I was tired of the ignorance, mysogyny and pure hate spewed on here by many of the guys who seem to regard every girl on here as some sort of object/toy for them to play with. I'm rather disgusted with myself for wasting so much valuable time trying to correct that behavior when I could have been spending it in the much more pleasant pursuit of expressing my admiration of these hot young ladies who are willing to share images of their naked bodies with us. :Bowdown::Bowdown::Bowdown:

Sorry for hijacking your thread, Bat1 (not really) and I'll answer your questions now.In order, what you need to do is try to remember that you're dealing with another human being, who has the same emotional, physical and spiritual needs as you. Your statement that you're thinking of dating and maybe actually having a t-girlfriend sounds to me as if you regard these special ladies as some sort of second class citizen (oh, Lord here I go again) who should be falling all over themselves just for your attention. That attractive and often incredibly erotic penis that some of these ladies sport is quite simply an inverted vagina.

As far as the real difference between a TG and GG the only physical difference is that the TG cannot reproduce in the same was a GG, regrettably. Medical science only goes so far. That is the only real difference I know of and I can empathize with them because I can't reproduce either.:mad:

[robertlouis]

Lord give me strength. I was actually going to start a new thread to make the following announcement, but Bat1's questions give me the perfect opening!

I haven't posted on here much lately because I was tired of the ignorance, mysogyny and pure hate spewed on here by many of the guys who seem to regard every girl on here as some sort of object/toy for them to play with. I'm rather disgusted with myself for wasting so much valuable time trying to correct that behavior when I could have been spending it in the much more pleasant pursuit of expressing my admiration of these hot young ladies who are willing to share images of their naked bodies with us. :Bowdown::Bowdown::Bowdown:

Sorry for hijacking your thread, Bat1 (not really) and I'll answer your questions now.In order, what you need to do is try to remember that you're dealing with another human being, who has the same emotional, physical and spiritual needs as you. Your statement that you're thinking of dating and maybe actually having a t-girlfriend sounds to me as if you regard these special ladies as some sort of second class citizen (oh, Lord here I go again) who should be falling all over themselves just for your attention. That attractive and often incredibly erotic penis that some of these ladies sport is quite simply an inverted vagina.

As far as the real difference between a TG and GG the only physical difference is that the TG cannot reproduce in the same was a GG, regrettably. Medical science only goes so far. That is the only real difference I know of and I can empathize with them because I can't reproduce either.:mad:


You don't come on here often enough these days old friend. We miss your wisdom and crisp common sense. Stay awhile.

All I will add is that with or without the fetishisation that goes with the girl cock, almost all of your criticism could just as easily be directed at immature males in their attitude to all women, whether they be gg or trans. I don't know if it's the exposure to porn or a generational shift, but the raw sexism and misogyny of so many young males these days is a frightening phenomenon.

[my my my!]

In my experience,

The Transgirls that I've dated, meet so many chasers (in gg terms, just "hounds") that they almost have a higher wall of defense against falling for a guy too quickly.

I've had the experience,that you somehow have to prove yourself more with a tg than with a gg and that's through no fault of theirs or yours.

There's alot of trust issues with guys, and believe it or not, they get alot of chasers telling them the same ol' story "ooh babygirl, dayum you're fine, ill treat you right, im different" blah blah blah.

so, like willie said, yes and no, and depends on the girl.

So, in a way , you really have to convince her and be sincere or else you'll come across as a chaser and not sincere about your intentions of forming a relationship with them.