MrBlonde
06-03-2013, 12:07 AM
Hi gang I am a fledgling writer here and I have a desire to write something from the female perspective in my story. The problem is I have NO frame of reference for what I want to write about.
I have never given a bj and only know what it's like from the receiving side of things. It's ok with me if some of you guys want to chime in with your thoughts as well, I'll use anything I think can help me with what I want to convey.
First if someone could describe in fairly good detail the sensations you feel, the texture, the hardness, so on of the actual act. What does it feel like in your mouth, what do you like or not like about that? How does it feel different when the guy is about to cum, or does it it feel any different at all? Just be as descriptive as you can please. Add anything you like or whatever, please just fill in the blanks so to speak for me.
Next I'd like to know the emotional side of things for the blow job giver. Obviously there are times when little emotion will come into play but lets say it's a relationship your in and you deeply care for the guy you are going down on. What goes through your mind when you are going down on him? Are you mostly concerned with how it is for him or does doing the deed actually bring you real personal satisfaction yourself (physically)? Or are you just getting satisfied knowing you are pleasing him and that's what does it for you? How many out there are "Only" blowing your man because it's something he really wants and would most likely choose not to do it if you didn't have too?
Damn so many questions I have. Sorry if it's a bit redundant but I really have no one I could ask about this without bringing up all kinds of strange reactions and stuff. I do really appreciate any and all info any of you can share about this. Thanks so much!
I have never given a bj and only know what it's like from the receiving side of things. It's ok with me if some of you guys want to chime in with your thoughts as well, I'll use anything I think can help me with what I want to convey.
First if someone could describe in fairly good detail the sensations you feel, the texture, the hardness, so on of the actual act. What does it feel like in your mouth, what do you like or not like about that? How does it feel different when the guy is about to cum, or does it it feel any different at all? Just be as descriptive as you can please. Add anything you like or whatever, please just fill in the blanks so to speak for me.
Next I'd like to know the emotional side of things for the blow job giver. Obviously there are times when little emotion will come into play but lets say it's a relationship your in and you deeply care for the guy you are going down on. What goes through your mind when you are going down on him? Are you mostly concerned with how it is for him or does doing the deed actually bring you real personal satisfaction yourself (physically)? Or are you just getting satisfied knowing you are pleasing him and that's what does it for you? How many out there are "Only" blowing your man because it's something he really wants and would most likely choose not to do it if you didn't have too?
Damn so many questions I have. Sorry if it's a bit redundant but I really have no one I could ask about this without bringing up all kinds of strange reactions and stuff. I do really appreciate any and all info any of you can share about this. Thanks so much!