Would you go out with a girl knowing that no sex will be involved on the date?

[TatianaSummer]

If you knew you won't get any sex, would you still hang out with a girl?

:whistle:

[FIRSTTIMER]

I have done it many times. It's nothing new to me.

But if you are talking about a date date then that all depends on how many dates there were before.

I guess the third date is always almost an guarantee. As per the dating rules. :shrug

[TatianaSummer]

I have done it many times. It's nothing new to me.

But if you are talking about a date date then that all depends on how many dates there were before.

I guess the third date is always almost an guarantee. As per the dating rules. :shrug

do guys expect kiss on a second date?

[FIRSTTIMER]

Some guys if not most expect a kiss on the first date. I mean that's one of those perks of walking her to the front door.

[TatianaSummer]

Some guys if not most expect a kiss on the first date. I mean that's one of those perks walking her to the front door.

ohhh, so when they walk you to your door that's what thy are waiting for? I thought they just wanted you to be safe back home

[FIRSTTIMER]

Getting you home safe is our main priority. Walking you to your door is the gentlemanly way to make sure of that (After opening up the car door and making sure you don't step in a puddle of course ;)).

If there is a kiss and not just a hug or handshake then that means we were respectful and our date shows us that with a kiss.

It doesn't even have to be a kiss on the lips it can be on the cheek with a thank you and a smile. And if the man is a gentleman he will kiss her hand and wish her a goodnight.

[darkrose2000]

You have some expectations it is not interesting.
And sex is not so important, the most important is do you click with the person.
Sometimes a evening, or night spend in interesting talk and topics is much more interesting...

[RallyCola]

for first dates, i hope to get some action but expect that i won't because most girls don't give it up on the first date.

for second and subsequent dates, "i'mma git me sum!" if you seem prudish on the 2nd date, there likely won't be a 3rd.

that said, that's when i am with a girl romantically. i hang around with girls all the time that i have no expectations of...these friends and co-workers for example, i'd bang almost all of them if they offered, but i know that is not part of our friendly or working relationship so i don't expect anything of them.

[LibertyHarkness]

for me i wouldnt give out on a 1/2/3/4/5 date ... if i was seeing someone with the intent of actually having it develop into a committed relationship I would want to make it work mentally first for compatibilty ..

If all i want is a fuck then i would literally just get them to take me out, have a fun night get my sex kicks then i would leave and not call them again ...

My gf and me met kind of this way as a fun kinky meet and we ended up getting along so well we met up again and again and boom here we are 9months later ..

[Prospero]

100 per cent yes... of course.

[Rabbiteyes]

ohhh, so when they walk you to your door that's what thy are waiting for? I thought they just wanted you to be safe back home

There are 2 types of guys...

One wants to get to know a person and find a partner and sees girls as individuals and wants to find a special (compatible) one for himself.

The other sees "women" as interchangeable sex slot machines and are trying to hit jackpot for the lowest amount they can put in (time and money).

[alpha2117]

I'm an ugly ugly man so I wouldn't expect sex after my wedding so how could I expect it after a first date?

Seriously - of course not - first dates are for working out if you even like the person. Some lead to sex but thats freaking rare.

[Willie Escalade]

If you knew you won't get any sex, would you still hang out with a girl?

:whistle:
Yes...have...will again.

[Prospero]

Women are interesting people in prospect. I thoroughly enjoy their company. If sex is later on the agenda, that's cool, but irrelevent to a pleasurable date. I have plenty of platonic relationships with women.

Dating is about the pleasure of meeting and getting to know someone.

[nysprod]

If you knew you won't get any sex, would you still hang out with a girl?

:whistle:

Is this about a first date situation Tatiana?

[amberskyi]

for first dates, i hope to get some action but expect that i won't because most girls don't give it up on the first date.

for second and subsequent dates, "i'mma git me sum!" if you seem prudish on the 2nd date, there likely won't be a 3rd.

that said, that's when i am with a girl romantically. i hang around with girls all the time that i have no expectations of...these friends and co-workers for example, i'd bang almost all of them if they offered, but i know that is not part of our friendly or working relationship so i don't expect anything of them.

So not fucking someone you've only hung out with two times is prudish?? Lmao

[youngblood61]

Yes, it wouldn't matter especially on the first date.:)

[ImpulZ]

I've never had a date :(

[MacShreach]

I'm European. We don't really do dating as Americans understand it. I go out with women I have no intention of going to bed with all the time. And I have been in bed with women after half an hour together. (not counting p4p)

If I take a girl out for a romantic dinner, I will already have met her several times, socially, or for drinks or a walk, cinema, theatre, art gallery. Even dinner does not imply a sexual reward is necessarily the end, even if I pay. It's just different.

[RallyCola]

So not fucking someone you've only hung out with two times is prudish?? Lmao


yup. i'm not in the business of spending $$$ to entertain on the hope of sex. the difference between sex for $$$ and sex for free is that sex for free usually costs more. if you seem, on the 2nd date, like you are not interested in me, why bother with a 3rd? let the girl score free food and fun from another guy, not me.

i know this girl, (22y/o), that said she wouldn't mind joining all the dating sites, just to never have to buy her own dinner. that's a slut of a different kind, IMHO.

hanging out with female friends is totally different than dating.

[Dino Velvet]

If I liked her and had been pursuing her I'd be disappointed if she gave it up too quick and easy.

[NHG]

Yup. A date is to get to know someone that you have an interest in.

[lifeisfiction]

I would be more concern on how the date went. If the date was a horrible, I don't think sex would be on your mind.

[RallyCola]

There are 2 types of guys...

One wants to get to know a person and find a partner and sees girls as individuals and wants to find a special (compatible) one for himself.

The other sees "women" as interchangeable sex slot machines and are trying to hit jackpot for the lowest amount they can put in (time and money).

i contest that there is a 3rd type of guy...the guys like me....one that does not associate sex with love. i see women as the person they are first in terms of personality, then education then looks. i realize that there are only a select few that i could ever be compatible with and have no problem admitting that the rest of the women in the world that I am emotionally incompatible with are interchangeable slots for me to cum in. like it or not....at least i am honest.

[amberskyi]

yup. i'm not in the business of spending $$$ to entertain on the hope of sex. the difference between sex for $$$ and sex for free is that sex for free usually costs more. if you seem, on the 2nd date, like you are not interested in me, why bother with a 3rd? let the girl score free food and fun from another guy, not me.

i know this girl, (22y/o), that said she wouldn't mind joining all the dating sites, just to never have to buy her own dinner. that's a slut of a different kind, IMHO.

hanging out with female friends is totally different than dating.

um you go out with a girl in the hopes of getting to know her and maybe spark a relationship of some kind.
you could be passing up on some really cool girls who are genuinely interested in you but have standards on with whom and when they sleep with someone.
if its always just about the sex why not just see an escort and get ass guaranteed

[RallyCola]

um you go out with a girl in the hopes of getting to know her and maybe spark a relationship of some kind.
you could be passing up on some really cool girls who are genuinely interested in you but have standards on with whom and when they sleep with someone.
if its always just about the sex why not just see an escort and get ass guaranteed


it isn't about standards of timing a sexual relationship...it is about how we interact. as i said, i know that i am emotionally incompatible with many many women either because of shortcomings of my character or how i judge theirs.

as such, my personality is to say and do things to provoke a predictable reaction...if you react in shock and awe, then i'm never going to be emotionally attracted to you. there are many sexy/hot/cute women out there that i'd fuck if they offered just because i want someone to cum in but i would never pursue them because i have no emotional attraction to them at all. women who can't tolerate me emotionally or intellectually are not worth my time and money.

if you react to my purposeful behavior in stride, now, you have my attention beyond sexual stuff. generally, women who are able to handle my personality, usually did the dirty dirty with me in the first 2 or 3 dates. it just comes with the territory of being attracted to me.

[my my my!]

Yes, I've done this many times.

[wiltthestilt]

Pretty much all my first dates since college. And even then I usually never hooked up the first time I hung out with a girl. These days I'm usually not even that attracted to the girls I go out with, so I never push for it anyway.

[TatianaSummer]

There are 2 types of guys...

One wants to get to know a person and find a partner and sees girls as individuals and wants to find a special (compatible) one for himself.

The other sees "women" as interchangeable sex slot machines and are trying to hit jackpot for the lowest amount they can put in (time and money).
lol, :) sounds like a gamble game. btw, was nice chatting the other day!


Is this about a first date situation Tatiana?

no, an example will be someone you met on the internet and ask you to go out. nothing formal but its not like you we are bodies from work either.

[Ben]

If you knew you won't get any sex, would you still hang out with a girl?

:whistle:

Yes. Unquestionably. I mean, if I enjoyed her company -- and she was pleasant to talk to.

[Rusty Eldora]

i contest that there is a 3rd type of guy...the guys like me....one that does not associate sex with love. i see women as the person they are first in terms of personality, then education then looks. ..

That is why I can handle a provider as a girlfriend. The sex she has at work (generally more massage parlor than FS) is business, but her heart is for me. It probably works because she is OK, even encourages me to have sex with others (like over a dozen of her friends over the years), mostly in duos. Sex is a big part of celebrating love but sex is not love.

One of those friends now is exclusive to her boyfriend. I still enjoy taking her out to dinner on my dime because I love her personality and charm, and fully respect her for her choice. I would really love to make love to her again, but only when it is right for her - which may be never, or soon, who knows.

[TatianaSummer]

yup. i'm not in the business of spending $$$ to entertain on the hope of sex. the difference between sex for $$$ and sex for free is that sex for free usually costs more. if you seem, on the 2nd date, like you are not interested in me, why bother with a 3rd? let the girl score free food and fun from another guy, not me.

i know this girl, (22y/o), that said she wouldn't mind joining all the dating sites, just to never have to buy her own dinner. that's a slut of a different kind, IMHO.

hanging out with female friends is totally different than dating.

I wouldn't bet on that, actually I seen some of my girlfriends paying for the guys food sometimes when dating, just because there are girls going on dates only to eat doesn't mean that most are like that. It just sounds like you are a person expecting fast sex around the corner not willing to wait and be patient or maybe you should change dating site. :)

[RallyCola]

I wouldn't bet on that, actually I seen some of my girlfriends paying for the guys food sometimes when dating, just because there are girls going on dates only to eat doesn't mean that most are like that. It just sounds like you are a person expecting fast sex around the corner not willing to wait and be patient or maybe you should change dating site. :)

while i realize that there are some women that pay for dates, i've never encountered one. its an unspoken right/expectation of women everywhere to never HAVE TO pay...especially on a 1st date or any initial dates.

as far as fast sex...again, see my above comment. sex and relationships / emotion / love have NOTHING to do with each other. i dated to find a girl to have fun with and then if it grew to be serious and a relationship blossomed, that's cool. i didn't date to find a long term girlfriend or a wife.

[francisfkudrow]

There are 2 types of guys...

One wants to get to know a person and find a partner and sees girls as individuals and wants to find a special (compatible) one for himself.

The other sees "women" as interchangeable sex slot machines and are trying to hit jackpot for the lowest amount they can put in (time and money).

I'm going to either suggest a 4th type, or revisit the motivations of the 2nd one, depending on how you want to look at it.

A lot of the men who you perceive are trying to "hit the jackpot for the lowest amount they can put in" are just uncertain as to how well things are going. If by the 2nd or 3rd date, they're not seeing at least some progress, they call it a day and move on.

[Idt20082008"]

Absolutely! In fact, just had a nice date last weekend, kissed her on her cheek before she got out of he car, and dropped her off at her door. Had a very nice time and will be taking her out again with no expectations except to have a nice time

[dderek123]

Yes I would go out on a date if I knew there wouldn't be a chance for sex.

Sex or no sex, if I thought that she would play around with her smartphone the whole night there would be no date.

[Chase_Mcthirsty]

yup. i'm not in the business of spending $$$ to entertain on the hope of sex. the difference between sex for $$$ and sex for free is that sex for free usually costs more. if you seem, on the 2nd date, like you are not interested in me, why bother with a 3rd? let the girl score free food and fun from another guy, not me.

i know this girl, (22y/o), that said she wouldn't mind joining all the dating sites, just to never have to buy her own dinner. that's a slut of a different kind, IMHO.

hanging out with female friends is totally different than dating.

Gotta agree with this post. But don't blame us blame chicks like the one on the first page of this thread talking that 1,2,3,4,5....dates with no payoff crap. But will fuck a random guy after one night for a fling.

It's not like this "ritual" has won her a husband just a list of fuck buddies and blue ball ridden fools. So In this instance which guy's the real winner?

[robertlouis]

Yes. Unquestionably. I mean, if I enjoyed her company -- and she was pleasant to talk to.

Always the gentleman, Ben.

And I agree with you. If a first date involves sex, chances are it will turn out to have been a one-night stand.

If, like me, you're interested in a relationship with the entire person, then enjoy the chase, and, I know it's an old-fashioned word, the courtship.

[danthepoetman]

If you knew you won't get any sex, would you still hang out with a girl?

:whistle:
Oh! yes, I would! I’m a “guy” in the worst possible sense of the word. I wear underwear and shirts with holes in them (golf clothings… lol), I drink whatever is in the fridge from the bottle, I fart, have hair coming out of -and growing on- my ears, am sometimes loud, drink too much and so on. When I see a being that takes care of herself, is lovely, big eyes, soft skin, high pitch, melodious voice, dressed with care and a lovely sense of aesthetic, is delicately perfumed, I just feel SHE is the one to concede something to me with her company. I know I will probably sound terribly, terribly corny, once again, but to me, the presence and the company of a woman is always a privilege for a man. Besides, women are so much more interesting then men in general, they are so much more colourful and delicate in their perspectives and have so much more to talk about than we guys do with our sports and our cars. God! Hanging out with guys can sometimes be a huge drag (no pun)!! I can’t even put a proportion on how much more I appreciate the company of a woman to that of a man.
No, I’ve never expected sex on the first date, and nor a kiss either on the first or second. I don’t mean to say I never wished for it or never tried to have one or the other on the first date, on the contrary: I almost always have hoped for it. But just the privilege of getting to know a beautiful woman has always been wonderful to me.

When should that happen if you develop a steady relationship? Well, you have to let it go, and not put dead lines on anything. I once dated a girl who didn’t give me anything for more than a month. We were seeing each other every day and the communication was tremendous. She was giving me little, timid signs, from time to time, like putting her leg on mine for a long time, or playfully grabbing one of my finger on the table for a while, etc. I was trying myself from time to time, without being too pushy, but she was diverting it to something else. When we started kissing, it just came naturally; we had sex the same night and it was to create a fabulous relationship.

[whiteitalianchocolate36]

If it's a first, second, or even third date then yes I would, but after the third date you haven't had sex or messed around in some way then there must not be much of a connection and I would leave it alone.

[whiteitalianchocolate36]

yup. i'm not in the business of spending $$$ to entertain on the hope of sex. the difference between sex for $$$ and sex for free is that sex for free usually costs more. if you seem, on the 2nd date, like you are not interested in me, why bother with a 3rd? let the girl score free food and fun from another guy, not me.

i know this girl, (22y/o), that said she wouldn't mind joining all the dating sites, just to never have to buy her own dinner. that's a slut of a different kind, IMHO.

hanging out with female friends is totally different than dating.

I definitely understand where you are coming from. I also know some girls that have actually told me they go out with guys for free dinners and a night out with no hopes of entertaining the guy sexually. They think their company is enough LOL. This happened to me with 1 girl. I was seeing her for 6 months and went on like 10 - 15 dates and I got nothing. I gave her the benefit of the doubt and all, but she turned out to be a bullshitter and a liar. I found out she was fucking other guys and didn't even want a relationship.

Women have to try to understand this from a guys viewpoint as well. It goes both ways. Then again if you are one of those scheming women or just ignorant to the fact that women DO play men then you will not understand or care to understand.

After her, I promised myself that if there was no sign of anything after like a 3rd date then I would leave the girl alone. Some women are scandalous and they ruin it for good women, but the same goes for scandalous men making it harder for good men. Everyone needs to be careful when evaluating their dating situations.

:shrug

[runround04]

Yeah, that means they arent a slut and worth seeing for a relationship.

1st date, hug.
2nd- kiss
3rd more kissing, maybe some teasing ect..
4th-5th and a month-ish later, sex.

Thats just for a relationship goal.

[bluesoul]

If you knew you won't get any sex, would you still hang out with a girl?

:whistle:

i do. i usually call them friends. some are even co-workers.

[giovanni_hotel]

Nowadays if you aren't kissing on the 2nd date or at least getting that bullshit explanation about why she wants to wait,(which would only be 1-2 more dates), you're being an idiot.

EVERY WOMAN has fucked a guy HOURS after meeting him. Dudes forget this.
Every chick has had her 'slut' moment.

If you aren't in love with a woman, I don't know why you'd stick around for more than 3-4 dates with no sex, unless you're dating multiple women and getting sex somewhere else.;)

[Rabbiteyes]

lol, :) sounds like a gamble game. btw, was nice chatting the other day!


Yea ~_~ A lot of guys treat it as a gamble game ~_~ They grudgingly go through some motions and hope they get sex ASAP...and if they don't...they lose interest and try again with another interchangeable flesh-thing.

Was nice chatting with you the other day too :)



i contest that there is a 3rd type of guy...the guys like me....one that does not associate sex with love. i see women as the person they are first in terms of personality, then education then looks. ..

Humm, sorry, you are the 2nd type of guy lol.

[TatianaSummer]

Yes I would go out on a date if I knew there wouldn't be a chance for sex.

Sex or no sex, if I thought that she would play around with her smartphone the whole night there would be no date.

I love this Idea for a new thread! which will be on in a few moments

[whiteitalianchocolate36]

Nowadays if you aren't kissing on the 2nd date or at least getting that bullshit explanation about why she wants to wait,(which would only be 1-2 more dates), you're being an idiot.

EVERY WOMAN has fucked a guy HOURS after meeting him. Dudes forget this.
Every chick has had her 'slut' moment.

If you aren't in love with a woman, I don't know why you'd stick around for more than 3-4 dates with no sex, unless you're dating multiple women and getting sex somewhere else.;)

More like infatuation and not in love.

We all have to learn the hard way through experience LOL

[Rusty Eldora]

Always the gentleman, Ben.

And I agree with you. If a first date involves sex, chances are it will turn out to have been a one-night stand.

If, like me, you're interested in a relationship with the entire person, then enjoy the chase, and, I know it's an old-fashioned word, the courtship.

About a decade ago, I connected with a woman I REALLY wanted at a party, we did have a lot of sex that night. I intentionally shied away from sex on the next two dates so she knew that I wanted her, not just want to bang her. It worked, we are great friends and real fuck buddies.

[be2378]

I guess Im old fashion. But I'm not looking for sex on the first date.

[SpoogeMonkey]

If you knew you won't get any sex, would you still hang out with a girl?

:whistle:

I know this sounds crazy but if theres sex on a first date, its usually not going to last.

sex is a part of a relationship, its a bloody nice part but why reveal all the dangly bits so early. Its so much more fun the build up, the snogging on sofas, the holding hands, the injokes, the shared experiences, the conversation, the squeezing of parts, getting to know each others smells, nuances,... why do we always have to jump each other? whatever happened to waiting for the coy look, the suggestive talk, the feeling that it could happen at any moment and you have to run off behind a bush and suck each other off. why can we not drive each other wild with anticipation, fucking after an hour of meeting is not healthy...

[rasta]

Yes. Of course. Dont want that anyway

[Yeah]

Do it all the time. Damn friendzone

[whiteitalianchocolate36]

Do it all the time. Damn friendzone

Exactly! You're damned if you do and damned if you don't with most women. They want you to be perfect with everything. You can't be too soon or too late with anything because they throw you into categories.

I bet if a guy like Channing Tatum went after them then they would change their tune LOL

[livepersona]

If there is un-deniable attraction between two people the kiss will come in the first two dates if not the first.

[RallyCola]

Exactly! You're damned if you do and damned if you don't with most women. They want you to be perfect with everything. You can't be too soon or too late with anything because they throw you into categories.

I bet if a guy like Channing Tatum went after them then they would change their tune LOL

dude...you don't have to look like channing tatum...clearly it helps a lot, but it is more about attitude and approach. that's why so many shitty little men get hot chicks...they have the attitude that they can...either because of money, power, intellect or a combination of it all.

remember...there are more hot chicks with ugly dudes and hot guys with ugly chicks

[livepersona]

Attitude goes a long way....

[fred41]

If there is un-deniable attraction between two people the kiss will come in the first two dates if not the first.

I have always found this to be true. Always.

When I date someone new because there is a mutual attraction...what livepersona said has always been the case. There may not be sex for a while...and I don't expect it...there will be some type of romantic contact. If there isn't any type of touching whatsoever....then chances are you are fated to be friends at best.

[livepersona]

Nature will always run it's course. We have existed for millions of years for a reason.

[whiteitalianchocolate36]

dude...you don't have to look like channing tatum...clearly it helps a lot, but it is more about attitude and approach. that's why so many shitty little men get hot chicks...they have the attitude that they can...either because of money, power, intellect or a combination of it all.

remember...there are more hot chicks with ugly dudes and hot guys with ugly chicks

I know you don't have to look like him to get these girls, but you ask any of these girls who would get in their pants quicker, Channing Tatum or some other dude that is half as good looking and see what they see. I can't count the times I have heard women see him on tv or in a movie theater and say something like, "Damn he's hot!", or "He can get it any time he wants!".

Bottom line is if you think someone is hot (before they open their mouths) you are more inclined to give them the goodies.

[TheGuard]

Sex is always better after you've known someone for a while in my experience.

[RallyCola]

Sex is always better after you've known someone for a while in my experience.


i think just the opposite...sex is better when its fresh, unknowing and uncluttered.

[danthepoetman]

i think just the opposite...sex is better when its fresh, unknowing and uncluttered.

Naw, RallyCola! No way, man! when you know your partner, it's way better! No competition there!

[Rabbiteyes]

Bottom line is if you think someone is hot (before they open their mouths) you are more inclined to give them the goodies.

Yea, but "hot" isn't always just "classic good looks".

http://www.robertneralich.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/penn-jillette.jpg

This top guy is a BILLION times hotter than this other guy (even though I think the bottom guy is more "pretty" in an aesthetic sense).

http://i124.photobucket.com/albums/p39/calliethekatt/hot-guys.jpg

[RallyCola]

Naw, RallyCola! No way, man! when you know your partner, it's way better! No competition there!

depends on what you are talking about...raw fucking or making love.

one is an adventure of physical desire. the other is an emotional connection. when you are in a normal healthy relationship, you need to fuck and make love depending on the mood you are in and that of your partner. sometimes it is a quickie slam fucking in the handicap stall of the bathroom at work and other times it is a slow, loving and engaged act between satin sheets in your bedroom.

BUT...we are talking about FUCKING A DATE here. I don't believe in love at first sight...i believe in lust at first sight. So if after a couple of dates, you fuck the girl, that's exciting and awesome. that's not relationship level fucking, that's the point of dating.......maybe my point was lost a few posts ago. to me, you date to find someone to fuck so that you may fuck them and perhaps fall in love. fucking comes before an emotional connection which is necessary to making love.

[dderek123]

But fucking can happen while the two partners are already in love.

Make-up sex has usually been the most hardcore fucks I've ever had. It's a bit surprising when it happens because you get caught off guard with the stuff that's going on. You're thinking: "Woah, I never thought she'd let me get away with this!" and then she moans and you keep on slammin'. Then when it's all done both of you are exhausted and all you can do is cuddle. In the morning she gets up before you and does something nice for you like cook you breakfast because she is so thankful for the intense fuckfest from the previous night.

I'm not saying that couldn't happen in a different situation but it definitely can happen while in a relationship.

[RallyCola]

But fucking can happen while the two partners are already in love....

of course...i said that. someones i fuck my wife, sometimes i make love to her. depends on location, mood, motivation and timing.

But that is not what this thread is about. this thread is about dating someone new.

[serial138]

I couldn't disagree more with all these people saying you should or have to wait. My longest relationships (6 years and 3 years) where actually supposed to be one night stands but we enjoyed each other's company enough that we spent the whole next day together and it turned into a relationship. Sure, we aren't together anymore, but I'm also not with any of the girls I waited to have sex with either.

Most guys I know go out just to hang out with a great woman. They prepare for sex (gold bond the nuts, trim them, whatever they're in to) just in case, but usually are content with however the night ends as long as the chick they're with is cool.

[whiteitalianchocolate36]

Yea, but "hot" isn't always just "classic good looks".

http://www.robertneralich.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/penn-jillette.jpg

This top guy is a BILLION times hotter than this other guy (even though I think the bottom guy is more "pretty" in an aesthetic sense).

http://i124.photobucket.com/albums/p39/calliethekatt/hot-guys.jpg

What's your point? Is this pot-AY-to / pot-AH-to? Hot is hot no matter what you think hot is LOL

[honestcountry]

absolutely. I'll act like a big stud around people I know but when it comes down to it I've never been able to have sex after just meeting someone, not that the thought wasn't there I personally don't work that way. but I feel it makes it better because the sexual tension may be there and if and when it finally happens *kaboom* it was worth it! lol I personally have never been a one night stand or hookup kind of guy. more into steady dating or ltr and it just seems to make the whole experience or relationship that much better. I don't know why but it just seems like it doesn't cheapen the whole thing. but like I said that's just me. most people I've know can just have sex with a stranger at any time of any day I've just never been able to.

[youngblood61]

I have and it was no problem.:)