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Andyg125
06-02-2013, 06:28 AM
I heard "horror" stories in the Marines about fellow Marines getting drunk and ended up going back to a "tranny's" house and hooking up. These Marines would either discover after the fact that they got a blowjob from a "tranny" through someone who had fell victim to the same thing as they did, or were surprised in bed that they weren't hooking up with an ordinary woman as they expected and that it was a "chick with a dick." When I first enlisted, even the seasoned Marine leaders would "warn" us and make derogatory jokes about falling victim to the same thing.
When I had gotten out of boot camp and was at my MOS school in California, I had never even really heard of transsexual women. I always thought of transvestites as people who still looked like men, but dressed as women. I was always told growing up by my father and other family members that they were creatures and not real human beings and that "sucking dick" is for faggots, blah blah blah... When I got to California, we finally got some liberty to walk around Oceanside and get away from the military life and have somewhat of a normal life on our time off. We would go to bars, strip clubs, porn stores, movies, the beach, etc. I was loving California because I was young, and new to the concept that I could make my own decisions. I loved the weather and how different the culture was as opposed to the east coast. I remember hearing all the "warnings" about checking for Adam's apples and the "bulge" on the women out there before you got intimate with them so you didn't make the mistake of hooking up with a "dude." I brushed it off at the time and kind of followed the older Marines' advice on how to not make that mistake, since I had not at all had any attraction to transsexual women.
This one Saturday, we had our first weekend off and me and a few buddies were outside the base and my buddies pointed out that another Marine (who just happened to be stationed on the base and we didn't know) was hitting on a transsexual and talked about how funny it was. I saw this and thought to myself that this wasn't an ordinary transvestite that I thought everyone had been talking about and that I had perceived a transsexual to look like. I found that she was rather very attractive and didn't show any manly features that I could see from afar. What I did notice was that the Marine that was talking to her was very interested in her in a way that I hadn't seen a man interested in a women before. He must've known that she was a transsexual, but had seen through that and believed he was talking to a beautiful woman and not this creature that everyone else had been portraying these women to be.
I shrugged it off with a little curiosity and didn't think much about it at all for the rest of the day, as we went out and hit on other women and got drunk and enjoyed the coolness that came with being a young Marine and thinking about how cool it was to tell everyone that we were to sound like badasses. Anyways, I got back to the barracks and we slept in a bay with everyone else in our platoon, but while everyone else was talking to loved ones, mainly their girlfriends from back home, on the phone, I had started thinking to myself about how cool it would be to have a girlfriend at this time in my life. I started thinking about the hott girls that I went to school with and how they would want me even more now that I was a Marine and this and that. Then I thought back to the Marine and the attractive transsexual woman I had seen out in town over the weekend. I had no knowledge whatsoever about transsexual women and started doing research on the internet. I came across a few sites where I watched some "shemale" porn and was extremely surprised at how aroused I was getting by these beautiful women. I was in an internet cafe and hid in the corner and browsed through these pictures so my buddies wouldn't catch me and was so intrigued by what I was seeing, as to what everyone else had been portraying about these women. These women were more beautiful than more genetic women I'd seen, had perfect bodies, no many features, beautiful faces, small/tight bodies, and the coolest personalities ever that no woman I had ever met could even come close to matching. I was hooked and kept watching more and more transsexual porn than I did genetic women porn. Within about 3 months, I couldn't even get aroused to the levels I was getting aroused looking at transsexual women as I did genetic women. It wasn't even close. But I always thought in the back of my mind that these women are actually men and outcasts in society. I kept watching and watching, til I eventually started talking to real ts women on myspace. I even had a desktop background of a ts women and every time someone would look at my screen, they'd always ask, "Who is that hott chick??" I would smirk to myself and tell them it was some beautiful girl I knew. I would talk with ts women for a little bit, online and on the phone, but always backed out of ever meeting them because I was afraid that I was doing the wrong thing and that everyone would judge me, saying that I kissed a man or was gay.
Over the years, I have had beautiful genetic women as girlfriends and always put the thought of ever being with a transsexual woman in the back of my mind, as just a fantasy that would never come true. However, as I've grown older and more mature (27 now), I've come to the realization that everyone else is too think-headed in this world and not open-minded enough to go for what makes them happy and satisfied. I've chatted a lot more with absolutely stunning transsexual women with the intention of actually getting to know them and see if there's any chemistry we could form. I have found these women to be a man's dream and that they are the true definition of what a real women should be perceived as. Genetic women have taken a turn for the worse. Few and far in between, there's girls that will sweep you off your feet, but you go through way to many to finally find the right one for you. Transsexual women are so much different in that they actually want to find love and not play games and be in a happy/loving relationship with a man that thinks she's the best thing since sliced bread. Ts women want to fall in love, get married, even start a family and raise children with another man.
Ever since I began actually taking serious consideration in getting to know, meet, hook-up with, and date transsexual women, I have been such a happier person. I have never told a single person about my secret attraction, only because it hasn't been the right timing and haven't met the right woman to care enough to let my friends and family know. The girl I eventually fall for may not even want anyone to know, because it really is none of anyones business. It's up to her if she wants other people to know as I will respect her privacy and also support her if she does think people should know about her being born in the wrong body.
The other day I was with some friends watching the news and a story popped up about a man being surprised by a transsexual woman in bed, claiming he didn't know she was a ts woman and that he called the cops and somehow the news made a story out of it all. All of my buddies said they'd freak out on the woman and this and that and never would they ever be put in that situation in the first place, and would get out of there if it came down to them finding out, that while in a drunken stooper, they discovered the girl they had taken home or was going back to their place, was a transsexual. If a guy is physically attracted to a ts woman and doesn't know it's not a genetic woman, I don't care who they are, they would be lying if they say they would walk away from her after discovering that she was a transsexual in bed, after being so turned on and horny for her. Most transsexual women who would even be in this situation with a guy are honestly drop dead gorgeous and more woman than most other genetic women are. I know that a lot more men than any of us know, are into ts women privately and would never admit it (I'm that guy), but women like this make me want to show this video to my friends and tell them that this is the type of women I'm into. I know that most of them would deny it and say it's disgusting, but I know that all of them would secretly start watching more videos on their own and become physically and emotionally attracted to ts women. I know that a few of my friends must secretly be attracted to ts women, as they randomly bring it up and want to see my reaction about it. I never say anything, but the next time I am going to get the conversation going and drag it out of them.
I'm so happy that ts women have become more "accepted" into society and I can see them changing the way men think about their attractions, cause I think that ts women will eventually become norm, as the second option of which type of women you should be attracted to. I tried to deny my actual physical attraction to transsexual women when I first saw a beautiful woman in person once, saying that guys don't suck dicks and kiss other guys. The thing is, I look at ts women as women, with something extra that they were mistakenly born with. It's the best of both worlds as many say and I whole heartedly agree with that statement. I don't even get turned on by other genetic women anymore. I am attracted to everything that a ts woman has to offer and have gotten over my fears of guilt and shame about kissing them and giving oral pleasure or whatever makes them happy. I always thought that once I did hook up with a ts woman, that I'd be scarred for life, but it's not the case anymore. I have become more aroused at the fact that I am secure enough in my ownself that I could touch their penises or give them head or be a bottom if that's what made the woman I was with fully pleasured. It's upsetting that my father was so negative about men being attracted to other men and ts women, because he has no clue what he's missing out on. I'm not at all attracted to men, but there's absolutely nothing in this world more sexier than a transsexual women. I can't wait for what the future holds as more and more of society accepts them as women and more men appreciate, date, and marry transsexual women.

We should all start by trying to get our friends attracted to ts women, before they become the hottest tickets around for men. We will regret that we are the ones who never did anything about it when it wasn't as accepted, when ts woman become the new woman that society thinks is who we should be attracted to.

nysprod
06-02-2013, 07:34 AM
Fuck society!

danthepoetman
06-02-2013, 08:25 AM
That's a beautiful testimony, Andy, and a very nice post.
I agree with you that men in our society are often terribly dishonnest with others and even with themselves! Femininity has a whole lot more to do then just a vagina!
You're absolutely right: t-women ARE WOMEN. Nothing to add to this. There is biological data that shows that indeed sexual identity largely develops in a region of the brain called the sexually dimorphic nucleus in the pre-optic area, which is in the center and towards the back, in the occipital region. This specific region develops during the sexual differentiation phase, from very early in foetal developement to an intense period of cell modification called apoptosis, just before and after birth. Anyways, when they tell you they are women, you can believe they are everybit as much women as any other g-woman around. And obviously, the necessary adjustments they need to go through with, they take it to an extent very few women would go through themselves. I agree with you: often, they are much more feminine than many, many genetic women!
You are also totally right to say that anyone should just let go of all the social narrow mindedness and go through with what they feel and what they like. We only have one life, no second try at it, and it goes very fast.

Andy, I appreciate your post and I wish to welcome you to the site. I'm sure you'll become a great contributor to our exchanges!

VictoriaVeil
06-02-2013, 09:51 AM
Rock on Andy... and welcome!

bluesoul
06-02-2013, 10:08 AM
can someone give me the cliff notes? cannot read that wall of words right now (drunk + high as a kite)

p.s. shoutouts to all the dope trannies and posters in this piece. y'all know who y'all are. keep it real like moby dick son

ClareSensual
06-02-2013, 02:29 PM
Very nice post, Andy. I hope you find a very special lady.

nysprod
06-02-2013, 04:10 PM
Is the OP married or have any kids?

MacShreach
06-02-2013, 04:35 PM
This is relevant how?

nysprod
06-02-2013, 05:00 PM
This is relevant how?

The fuck business is it of yours?

MacShreach
06-02-2013, 05:14 PM
The fuck business is it of yours?
Exactly. The fuck business of yours is it what his marital status is?...Except another opportunity for you to snipe from the sidelines, of course...

nysprod
06-03-2013, 06:47 AM
Exactly. The fuck business of yours is it what his marital status is?...Except another opportunity for you to snipe from the sidelines, of course...

Are you bald?

MacShreach
06-03-2013, 09:41 AM
Are you bald?
Nope. But you're an arse.:jerkoff

nysprod
06-03-2013, 02:41 PM
This is relevant how?


The fuck business is it of yours?


Exactly. The fuck business of yours is it what his marital status is?...Except another opportunity for you to snipe from the sidelines, of course...


Are you bald?


Nope. But you're an arse.:jerkoff

You still haven't explained what the fuck business it is or yours...but going beyond that, I was curious because of a few points the op made about his homophobic upbringing.

MacShreach
06-03-2013, 02:45 PM
You still haven't explained what the fuck business it is or yours...but going beyond that, I was curious because of a few points the op made about his homophobic upbringing.
Puerile obfuscation, as usual. My previous stands. The OPs marital circumstances are not relevant. It is none of the fuck your business, and you are engaged in a fishing operation.

And I'm still not bald. Are you?

nysprod
06-03-2013, 02:50 PM
Puerile obfuscation, as usual. My previous stands. The OPs marital circumstances are not relevant. It is none of the fuck your business, and you are engaged in a fishing operation.

And I'm still not bald. Are you?

OK, let's do this intelligently...explain to me why you think that discussing some of the points an op brought up in his first post is off limits to discuss going forward.

MacShreach
06-03-2013, 03:00 PM
'Intelligently' yeah, right, of course. Absolutely. So, you show me where in the OPs post he mentioned anything about his being married or having children. The fact is, it's none of your business. Just the same as the first time I told you.

nysprod
06-03-2013, 03:11 PM
'Intelligently' yeah, right, of course. Absolutely. So, you show me where in the OPs post he mentioned anything about his being married or having children. The fact is, it's none of your business. Just the same as the first time I told you.

He did talk about growing up in a very homophobic family, which is why I was curious, because a single man of a certain age in a homophobic family may have certain problems.

But that still doesn't answer the question of why you think it's any of your business, or did I miss the memo regarding the appointment of you as arbiter of deciding what people's business is?

MacShreach
06-03-2013, 03:36 PM
I'm not. But then, I'm not the one doing the asking. Or fishing. As you will.

MacShreach
06-03-2013, 03:36 PM
And I'm done here; my point is made and you are not progressing.

amberskyi
06-03-2013, 04:55 PM
He did talk about growing up in a very homophobic family, which is why I was curious, because a single man of a certain age in a homophobic family may have certain problems.

But that still doesn't answer the question of why you think it's any of your business, or did I miss the memo regarding the appointment of you as arbiter of deciding what people's business is?

Or he just hasn't found the one yet.this isn't the 60s where one was expected to settle down a.s.a.p and have 2.5 kids.

nysprod
06-03-2013, 05:06 PM
Or he just hasn't found the one yet.this isn't the 60s where one was expected to settle down a.s.a.p and have 2.5 kids.

I said "may" in a very homophobic family, oh queen of the spiritual and sexual realm!

amberskyi
06-03-2013, 06:38 PM
I said "may" in a very homophobic family, oh queen of the spiritual and sexual realm!

and the cerebral...i wear many crowns ;)

nysprod
06-03-2013, 08:43 PM
and the cerebral...i wear many crowns ;)

Your panties aren't bad either...