Help finding...Me!

[TSCorrieK]

I need someone who is exceptionally good at the internet to help me out with something. It does involve sifting through several adult sites looking for some photos of me. I’ve been desperate for going back to school and surgery funds. Your more than welcome to visit my blog and read about me.

A brief history. Early in April I met someone. We got serious and it turns out she did some work of her own. Well she set me up, had me send her some pics and got it going. I never saw a thing but she kept giving me totals, by mid may it was upwards of $5000 allegedly. She was always very rude about it when I asked her, and would never update or let me see the site. She says it is blocked in Oklahoma/Texas.

If it sounds too good to be true it probably is right?
I won’t get into much more about that it is a mess and a huge error on my part. I let my guard down for one time and was taken advantage of just like that.

Well here is a sample pic. They could be under Corrie Castille, Corrie Castle, Corinne Castille, Corinne Castle or any other variation. I'm assuming it's some amateur site that has all the various types of adult, plus webcams, galleries, videos.

It's been over a month I have yet to see a dime. I realize what has happened is on me, but hopefully I can find the site and ask them to stop while I set it up on my own login etc.

Basically what I want to do is set this up on my own under my control. I have a ton more pictures to upload, fresh, new outfits, that kind of thing but I got burned. Bad. If you find the site and can help me out I will at least try to get you some pics (PM Me) and go from there.

Also if any of the girls on here know a good way for me to get started please let me know. I've done to the two jobs work real hard thing 9 years now and I am in worse shape than I was then. So this is my only shot at maybe surgery before thirty.

Thank you,
Corrie

[GroobySteven]

Hi Corrie
I surf around most sites and have a question.
Did the content of you show a face also? (if so then post your face here).

I very much doubt that the content has made $50 never mind $5000 to be frank.

[TSCorrieK]

No, the content did not show my face. I kind of expected it to be little to none at all. In my own search I came across some token type sites that were like 5 cents a token or something, that made more sense to me. Say 5,000 tokens = $250. There was a few galleries.

[joeninety]

Yes post some actual content that was used to supposedly make/post on your/a site, as nothing is coming back search wise with the pics you have posted here.

Sorry to say it but your story suggests you were scammed, lord knows where headless pics would of been used........

[Genetic]

In all honesty there's no way I could see a newly launched site making $5,000 in a month so you were being lied to without a doubt.

What I don't understand is the angle here. You supplying her with pics isn't a scam unless she intended/intends to blackmail you or just publicly humiliate you. There are plenty of revenge sites around for that but they are generally aimed at publishing pictures of genetic women. If your face isn't in the pictures then they are fairly useless as blackmail or revenge.

So, and I mean this in the kindest way, how much did you pay her to set up the site for you? I suspect that she told you that if you paid her an amount up front to set it up you'd make it back in the first x number of months so you paid her and now haven't seen a cent back. Don't get me wrong, if that's what happened then it happens to a lot of people, I'm simply asking to get the entire picture.

[francisfkudrow]

Well, for what it's worth, Google image search couldn't find anything for any of the 3 pics.

[TSCorrieK]

Those I posted are some of the pics I did send her to upload.

She is actually a coworker. Said she even posts herself and does a cam. We hooked up one weekend in April to. She dropped the love word that Wednesday after.

The deal was I would give her $100 to upload. Not much said after that, she wouldn't discuss terms or anything.

The worst part it is how she plays it. She knows I like her. She will flip anything I say back on me like it's my fault. I'm not even demanding or aggressive, and I tend to wait a few weeks to a day to try and talk to her about it. Simple things like how does it work, when's the pay period, that type of deal.

For awhile I was in denial. Maybe she does care and is just trying to help out.

Then again, for a girl who has all these problems with money, she suddenly seems to have some. Buying candy, buying me lunch, that kind of thing.

It's now been roughly 60 days since I sent her the first galleries. Not a dime sent. She claims she sent me $100 via PayPal. Not in my records. Tried to show her. She says what you don't trust me and says fine I'm done.

What rose a huge red flag to me was her asking for my credit cards and bank account information. The bank account? Sure I understand that. Direct Deposit whatever. Well then came her wanting me credit cards to "protect me" because she knew last time I was depressed I ruined my credit. Then she said that with the numbers she could use those and they would pay on my credit card. :rolleyes:

She also ripped me off bad on Herbalife. Brought me shakes for awhile but stopped suddenly when I got a blender so I could make them for myself on the weekends. (yes this is on me, I should have research it better, but I figured hey if I can replace one McDonalds meal with a protein shake that has to be better).

Well I've never seen the rest of my order. The vitamins she gave me were spoiled rotten and she said "that is how they come" and that I was weird and crazy. She has also screwed over other people at work with Herbalife.

I've tried to give her the benefit of the doubt but even a basic common courtesy level somethings not right. I have been through some really hard times, I barely made my rent this month, and I exhausted my savings (about 4k) just trying to get reliable transportation.

When you know someone is to the point of tears everyday and you have the one key that can save them or at least brighten their mood, you don't sit there and call them weird or crazy and be exceptionally rude and make them look like an idiot to their coworkers/friends.

If I did not work with her I would have dropped her like that but I don't have the friends and family network have so I would have nowhere to go. Worst part is I feel bad about typing all this, but all the signs point to I have been screwed over and taken advantage of at one of the worst points in my life, she saw that, swooped in, and got what she could out of me.

[TSCorrieK]

Appreciate everyone looking. Explains a lot. Now if I can just lose a few more pounds and get some more hair back can really roll with this (even if it is free, I find it fun).

[bluesoul]

Then again, for a girl who has all these problems with money, she suddenly seems to have some. Buying candy, buying me lunch, that kind of thing.

exactly how much candy are we talking here?

[joeninety]

Having just read what you have posted it sounds like you know what she is about.

Sorry to hear how you have been treated but she is obviously taking advantage of you and preying on your vulnerable state of mind.

Best to chalk up the loss, or get angry and tell her you will sue for what is owed (especially if you have proof).

Kick the bitch to the kerb, why would you want something so negative in your life, surely being alone would be preferable to having to deal with a snake day in and day out

[TSCorrieK]

exactly how much candy are we talking here?

Well a huge bag of Cherry Twizzlers, and about half a bag of various vending machine M&Ms, Spree, Skittles, Snickers, and other vending foods over the last month. Though I'm sure she is jealous and trying to make me fat while saving calories of her own.

[TSCorrieK]

Having just read what you have posted it sounds like you know what she is about.

Sorry to hear how you have been treated but she is obviously taking advantage of you and preying on your vulnerable state of mind.

Best to chalk up the loss, or get angry and tell her you will sue for what is owed (especially if you have proof).

Kick the bitch to the kerb, why would you want something so negative in your life, surely being alone would be preferable to having to deal with a snake day in and day out

She played a good game. She asked to use my phone one day she was supposedly having trouble with hers, and proceeded to delete the texts between us. No valid reason for her to do that, they were on my phone, my choice. Fine whatever I had them backed up. Then I made the same mistake again. Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me I suppose.

My phone kept having an insufficient memory error and she was like oh I can fix it. Sure, then she factory resets my phone. Yeah. Well I had just backed it up the night before, whatever, but I straight up said I restored it from April 26, back before she pulled both stunts.

So yeah I'm just trying to fade off. Figure that's the best way working with her. Funny how the more I ignore her the more buddy she gets. Well if anything I know that is the type of girl I do not want to be and will strive everyday not to (though I think I am not by default).

The best part is, a few years ago my heart was broken the same way so I just had some flings with other bi/les girls since then (I have yet to even be with a guy, though I am certainly attracted to some...especially brits). Then it was all my fault so I took it hard.

I learned that it is a lot easier getting over someone when you know they have screwed you over.

[Genetic]

I'm sorry to say this but I think you have been taken advantage of. Her wanting your credi card details show how little she likes you. It happens to everyone and so don't beat yourself up over it just learn from it and move forward.

Don't argue with her or confront her as it's not worth your time or energy. She's already taken enough from you so be civil with her and don't be on bad terms but definitely keep her at arm's length.

In terms of going into business for yourself the website route probably isn't going to generate enough money to make it worthwhile for you. You'd be better off camming or escorting, though considering the hard times you've been through recently I really wouldn't advise escorting.

Go the cam show route by signing up for Cam4 or something and see how that goes.

In terms of not having people around you, sometimes it's better to be in the ocean with nothing than to be in the ocean with an anvil tied to your foot if you get me.

[NightmareX0666]

Trust me while I would love to run across more pics of you somewhere on the net, I think as previous people have said, take the loss and move on. Gay, straight, or bi most of us understand wanting to do things for others especially ones we want to fall in love with, and get burned in the process. I do commend you as you have acknowledge some of the blame, this is a nasty learning experience but it could have been a lot worse.

In my life, I do not have a lot of friends and my family consists of 2 brothers. Even with my gf and her family, I distance myself from their activities - really bad habit of pushing people away. I do however find these folks here are a great bunch of people, they are honest to the point of being brutal but they are also fair.

Now a word from Jude Judy - "Never combine business with pleasure; that's not good business. Got what I mean?"

[bluesoul]

Well a huge bag of Cherry Twizzlers, and about half a bag of various vending machine M&Ms, Spree, Skittles, Snickers, and other vending foods over the last month. Though I'm sure she is jealous and trying to make me fat while saving calories of her own.

you're right- that is a lot of candy. and you said she's using the money you gave her to buy you this candy right? one thing you did right was you never sent her a picture of your face, but in order for me to track this back to this woman, can you send me a picture of your face?

[talon]

Just a layman's opinion, but she sounds like a stone cold manipulator.

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