Do you pay for sex?Prostitution and escorts in general...

[ImmerGeil]

Who's paying here for sex and who payed for sex in the past and those ones of you who have stopped to go to escorts what was the main reason for quiting it?


I have visted escorts in the past,and quited it.I couldnt' deal with the fact that these girls didn't have sex with me because of my attraction,only because of the money i gave them.

What are your thougts on this matter?

Nevertheless Prostituition should be legal in every country and i still support the liberal ideas behind it.

[MacShreach]

I have done in the past. I'm not particularly proud of that, since at the time I was in a relationship; my sole justification is that I only remained in said until my children grew up and my ex and I could part with the minimum of damage to them. I also bought sex after that relationship ended and have no moral issues with it; it was a whole heap of fun.

I may well again in the future, since I have no problem with paying for sexual services any more than a haircut, nor do I see it as a reflection on my virility. Getting laid is easy enough; one pays prostitutes for certainty and the absence of attachment. I'm nice to them, they're nice to me, I give money, we need never see each other again. Simple, neat, convenient. I would reckon that nearly all the girls I have paid for sex were in my target zone were I dating, as far as looks are concerned, but probably a good bit under it as far as education is concerned. So the idea that they wouldn't screw me except for money, frankly never occurred to me.

At the moment I don't because I am in a relationship that means something to me and it would hurt her very badly if I did. So I don't do it.

As to the legal situation, it's quite simple in my view; anyone has the right to do as they will with their bodies, whether for money or not, as long as doing so does not interfere with other people's rights. Selling sex is part of that. I have the right to spend money buying whatever I like, as long as this in turn does not impinge on the rights of others. Buying sex is part of that.

So I think, obviously, that for commercial sex to be illegal is a breach both of my rights and the person who would like to sell it, and as such must be challenged. However, it is not, in my view, appropriate for sex to be sold on the streets in quiet suburban family neighbourhoods, nor is it acceptable (and I know it's rare but it happens) for people who are HIV positive to sell unprotected sex. So some regulation is required. Whether this is done officially or quasi-officilally, as where city authorities, for example, licence massage parlours and require the girls to use condoms and have regular STD checks, or unofficially, where certain cities or parts of cities are accepted 'red light zones' is down to the situation.

The greatest benefits IMO of sympathetic but official regulation are that it bears down heavily on people-trafficking and the involvement of organised criminals; and though it may be unpopular, I don't see why sex-workers should not have to file tax returns just like I do (as is the case in many parts of Europe, for example.)

[LibertyHarkness]

yes i book escorts now and then :) I dont think anything , i dont feel guilty etc ... for me as I am an escort myself .. sometimes i just want to fuck a really fit exotic girl etc .. much easier to just book one dump a couple of hundred pounds and get my kicks then fuck them off and crack back on with my working, day/night etc . x

[rbiller]

Yes, I pay for sex with escorts. The way I look at it, you are going to have to pay for sex one way or another.

[bluesoul]

never paid for sex for a number of reasons:

1. don't think i've ever been that horny to have sex (i mean to the point where i actually needed to pay the other party for it). when i was growing up i had a couple of really slutty friends that took care of those needs- but today, most are married or living somewhere else and in a relationship.

2. i'm somewhat scared of some kind of repercussion to come out of it. it's probably childish of me, but i also don't equate a few minutes/hours of pleasure to be worth the risk of whatever cons come with that kind of activity. basically, pros vs cons: cons outweigh the pros.

3. in a relationship and have been for some time. if i was single, i'd probably have a cougar on lock for companionship

[efdds1]

I'm not a sex tourist, I'm a tourist who has sex.

[RawNY]

No, never had and never will. Just an expensive for of masturbation.

[Nikka]

yes I pay what is the problem

[Jamie French]

Protip. EVERYTHING is an expensive form of masturbation.


No, never had and never will. Just an expensive for of masturbation.

[dderek123]

I've felt guilty every time that I've done it. After I blew my load I kept thinking about how much I would miss that money.

[Prospero]

Yep - all part of life's rich tapestry. I am a sensualist.
It doesn't bother me if they think I'm attractive. I try to ensure we both enjoy ourselves. There are enough others out there i am involved in, one way or another. An old mistress called me today - seeking to reconnect - because she is tired of her husband. There we are.

[Cerberus]

Pay? Unfortunately yes.
I say unfortunately cause I've yet to find an escort that doesn't charge. Funny that!
:confused:

[thestud]

One way or the other we all pay for sex whether it is up front or gradually. Let me give you an example suppose its a friday night and you go out and you hit the clubs. Inside you pocket you have 100 pounds or more and let say you meet a girl she hardly going to come back to your place immediately. So buy her a drink and another and another and then take that girl and hit another and club all the time buying her drinks. Maybe you go back to cash point and you withdrew more money. Finally you going back to her place via a cab in which you are paying for.

At the end of the night you have already spent well over a hundred pounds. The only difference is you spent it gradually maybe in 5, 10 or even 20 and did not even notice but( here the things it all adds up and some will say you work bloody hard for the sex). And here the kicker you probably wont see her again.

When you pay for an escort you pay all once and bypass the drinking, the clubs, etc but the end result is the same.

I do not mind any paying for sex god knows I have but I drawn the line on hookers that stand on street corner offering sex with 20 pounds with no condom. I rather pay 80 pound for licenced escort that allows their customers to use protection.

"I remember once walking down kings cross and saw a hooker standing in the corner and she came up to me and tried to flatter saying you looking cute do you want business and this point I said I play along with her so I asked do you have protection and guess what she said "no" but I am clean I have a daughter so I am trying to say clean. I remember thinking to myself you going out to do your business and you do not even have protection, imagine the things you will catch"

Finally when looking at escorts I look for the line that says:
Do you do bareback? and if the answer is yes then that is a no no for me.

[ed_jaxon]

I have spent thousands on escorts from the time I was 18 and for the most part have always had fun. So long as I am not married or seriously in a relationship I am cool with it.

Gives me a chance to meet girls who often become friends and because I know many of their back stories I know they need the dough. Never moved into a relationship because that rarely happens but fun nonetheless.

I have also had girls I just hook up with and had fun and the same applies to them as well. Many friends made out of hooking up.

Finally I have had a couple of relationships come out of hooking up but as I said never after paying. Never really worked out in the long run but I keep looking for one that will.

[Willie Escalade]

Of course I have. It hasn't happened in a long time due to my financial situation (I considered it a splurge); I've also been lucky...in the right place at the right time.

[bluesoul]

One way or the other we all pay for sex whether it is up front or gradually. Let me give you an example suppose its a friday night and you go out and you hit the clubs. Inside you pocket you have 100 pounds or more and let say you meet a girl she hardly going to come back to your place immediately. So buy her a drink and another and another and then take that girl and hit another and club all the time buying her drinks. Maybe you go back to cash point and you withdrew more money. Finally you going back to her place via a cab in which you are paying for.

At the end of the night you have already spent well over a hundred pounds. The only difference is you spent it gradually maybe in 5, 10 or even 20 and did not even notice but( here the things it all adds up and some will say you work bloody hard for the sex). And here the kicker you probably wont see her again.

the problem i have with this scenario is that you are equating any money spent to indirectly be a payment for sex, which is a very corrupt way of viewing relationships.

do you think if a man met his future wife in such a scenario he paid for his wife? i know that there are cultures that require a dowry payment for the parents of the wife, but this is strictly done as "proof" that one can substantially provide for her care and well being- not because they priced their daughter at a certain amount and anyone willing who can meet the required price point or make a better offer gets the girl. however with a prostitute/escort, this is exactly the case. because if i offered a better price than yours, then it only serves her better business to cancel with you and take my money instead (assuming we both pass whatever screening process she has).

real life doesn't work like that because real life isn't a fantasy for purchase.

[Dino Velvet]

I like to pay but not too much.

[thestud]

the problem i have with this scenario is that you are equating any money spent to indirectly be a payment for sex, which is a very corrupt way of viewing relationships.

do you think if a man met his future wife in such a scenario he paid for his wife? i know that there are cultures that require a dowry payment for the parents of the wife, but this is strictly done as "proof" that one can substantially provide for her care and well being- not because they priced their daughter at a certain amount and anyone willing who can meet the required price point or make a better offer gets the girl. however with a prostitute/escort, this is exactly the case. because if i offered a better price than yours, then it only serves her better business to cancel with you and take my money instead (assuming we both pass whatever screening process she has).

real life doesn't work like that because real life isn't a fantasy for purchase.
but come on if you were down at a club and a guy came up to you or a woman and said hey I like you but I have no money to spend on you would go off them.

My flat mate Jay has a lot of female friends and we quite close, we share everything, stories, girls, and one thing he tells me is that the girls tell him that they would never go for what they call a broke nigger. Hey the nigger word is not racism my flatmate use it all the time and hes black and beside most people are only interested in one night stands.

I rate anyone who has met his future wife this way

The point I making is one way or the other we pay for sex

[youngblood61]

No, but wouldn't be against it.:)

[sukumvit boy]

Hell ,yes! Pay gladly.
"When it comes to cooking and fucking ,it pays to find a professional." LOL

[runround04]

We all pay in one way or another....

[Rusty Eldora]

Well I pay for dentistry, I guess I could do it myself. I take golf lessons which seems OK with us. We are taught everything in life except probably the most important thing for our happiness - sex, romance, and relationships. There we don't even get a decent instruction book.

I'm in my late 50's, have paid for sex for 10 years, best thing I ever did. I used it as a tool, my friends were 90% male before, now 80% female. OK now I have a mix of hourly rental and lease (mistress &/or girlfriends), I long ago did the Own thing - I still can't seen to get anyone to take it off my hands, even though she lives 3,000 miles away.

The variety is good for me, hourly rental as they are paid to go away at the end actually is quite good. Leases have some hassle, but no complaints. The Own thing should only be to have kids (and grandkids). They all have costs

Provider < Dating < Girlfriend << Mistress << Fiancee << Wife <<<<<<< Ex wife.

The Ex wife has a very high cost /performance ratio - no sex but you are really fucked.


There are some very nice people that provide, it can be a good career. Just with Tgirls, I have met 3 already that I am friends with and am glad to call them my friend.

[lixx]

yes. Why?

- It's easy sex
- It's fun, and sex is fun
- I usually have money left over every month after bills, utilities, savings, etc. that needs to be used up lol..

I don't see it as "immoral" (morals don't exist IMO, anything goes in this life), though if they don't find me attractive who cares? they are offering a service, i am paying. It's a misconception anyhow that only men who are bad looking and can't get dates pay for it. It's no more immoral IMO than buying a loaf of bread or a cinema ticket. to say it cheapens sex is bullshit, since friends with benefits is just sex for pleasure is it not? lol...

[Idt20082008"]

I haven't up to this point in my life, in general I subscribe to the George Costanza theory - "Why should I pay for it when if I apply myself, I might get it for free."
That said, I have zero problem with it and have been considering taking the plunge for awhile now...

[alyssaluxor]

Yes ive paid for male escort and no problem with it.

Ive also tipped massage guys who suck my cock lol

I dont feel anything wrong with it i even feel good that im having fun and helping someone with financial needs for their life

[tsadriana]

I like to pay but not too much.
:salad do you pay for salade ?:mad:

[Bobzz]

I think Charley Sheen may have said it best when asked about paying for prostitutes ... "I don't pay women to have sex with me ... I pay them to go away after I'm done."

I guess it depends on your perspective :-)

[reinhardt.lane]

I haven't paid for sex, but wouldn't be necessarily opposed to doing it. We've all paid for porn at one point, which is really the same thing. Only difference is now we get to participate.

And if someone wants to offer their services at a reasonable rate for a guy like me who wouldn't have a shot with them otherwise, then what's the hurt? As long as its safe, and consensual then have fun. People have sex for much more awful reasons than to make money.

If its a pornstar escorting as well, then think of it like the ultimate 'fan service.' Way more rememberable than an autograph or one of those staged photo ops.

[Cedricbi01]

I used to pay... as most of us according to the previous posts ;-)
I only paid for TS escorts - never for GG's - as this is the only way to reach quality in terms of good looking and "service"... though I've always tried to consider my relationships with escorts as "regular dates" implying respect and, as much as possible, pleasure sharing.
I do not pay anymore mostly due to increasing fares... my wallets really did thank me !
I never had any moral problems with this but maybe I've no moral at all !!

[ed_jaxon]

Yes ive paid for male escort and no problem with it.

Ive also tipped massage guys who suck my cock lol

I dont feel anything wrong with it i even feel good that im having fun and helping someone with financial needs for their life


Yeeeaaaahhhh!!!! Bow Chicka wow wow.

Sounds like a great porno I would want to see.

Small girl comes in gets a massage from a guy. Guy has no idea. He finds out and after some initial hesitation blows her.

She busts a nut in his face and pays him and kicks him out of her hotel room.

When are you coming to the US??????

[bluesoul]

but come on if you were down at a club and a guy came up to you or a woman and said hey I like you but I have no money to spend on you would go off them.

My flat mate Jay has a lot of female friends and we quite close, we share everything, stories, girls, and one thing he tells me is that the girls tell him that they would never go for what they call a broke nigger. Hey the nigger word is not racism my flatmate use it all the time and hes black and beside most people are only interested in one night stands.

I rate anyone who has met his future wife this way

The point I making is one way or the other we pay for sex

the women your flatmate jay (and yourself) hang around are very different from the women i hang around. here is an example:

imagine (hypothetically), that your friend jay lost all his money in some kind of circumstance- like a robbery or stock market or he just made really bad business decisions. then his female friends would no longer be around correct? this is because these women only come for money, not for his personality/charm/etc.

also, what do you think would happen if right next door, another guy moved in who had even more money than your flat mate jay?

women who say they'd never be with someone broke are saying they need an incentive to be with you because without your money, you're not good enough.

so again, i don't think "we pay for sex". i think some people do because they have to, and there is nothing wrong with that. i actually think that's one of the pros of having prostitutes in society.

[bluesoul]

i've also never paid to be at a strip club even though i've been to a strip club twice. i did see how it can be addicting to some- because the strippers do make it seem like they really like you- but for me it came off as being a little too much, and quite embarrassing because they literarily cannot take no for an answer. i guess they're not allowed to.

[Dino Velvet]

:salad do you pay for salade ?:mad:

How 'bout I buy you a salad then fuck you up the ass?

[tsadriana]

How 'bout I buy you a salad then fuck you up the ass?

i chocked with my tea when i read it :mad::mad::mad:..Dino ,Dino your fun guy x

[Dino Velvet]

i chocked with my tea when i read it :mad::mad::mad:..Dino ,Dino your fun guy x

I make extra money writing greeting cards.

http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/picture.php?albumid=1486&pictureid=10468

[tsadriana]

I make extra money writing greeting cards.

http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/picture.php?albumid=1486&pictureid=10468
Thats good ,hope you make alot of money for a salade.x:mad:

[Dino Velvet]

Out here I like licking 1000 Island Dressing outta 100 Dollar Ass.

[tsadriana]

Out here I like licking 1000 Island Dressing outta 100 Dollar Ass.
:mad::mad::mad:x

[Dino Velvet]

:mad::mad::mad:x

That's them. You're a lady of refined elegance. I'd adorn you with jewels, both of mine.

[ImmerGeil]

the women your flatmate jay (and yourself) hang around are very different from the women i hang around. here is an example:

imagine (hypothetically), that your friend jay lost all his money in some kind of circumstance- like a robbery or stock market or he just made really bad business decisions. then his female friends would no longer be around correct? this is because these women only come for money, not for his personality/charm/etc.

also, what do you think would happen if right next door, another guy moved in who had even more money than your flat mate jay?

women who say they'd never be with someone broke are saying they need an incentive to be with you because without your money, you're not good enough.

so again, i don't think "we pay for sex". i think some people do because they have to, and there is nothing wrong with that. i actually think that's one of the pros of having prostitutes in society.


These golddigger women are a huge turn off.Many of them looking down on prostitutes but in real life they do the same. If a woman is really attracted by you,she doesn't care if you spent a drink for her.

In Germany it is common practice that a lot of girls in a club make eyes on men,and these desperate men are so sex-starved that they spent a shitload of drinks to impress the girls.In the morning when the party is over the girls are gone and the guys didn't even get their telephone number.:D:D

[RallyCola]

i have never paid a ggirl escort. i have only paid tgirl escorts. i gladly pay to play because it is much easier to get what i am after and there are no strings attached. moreover, just due to sheer numbers/availability, it is easier to attract a ggirl as a mate than a tgirl so before I was married, i was able to always move from relationship to relationship with a ggirl so there has never been a need for a ggirl escort.

i do concur that if you are playing the field, you are paying for sex without actually exchanging money for services buy the whole wining and dining ritual.

[SuzySnappz]

As an escort, my only recommendation to anyone on the fence is DO IT. Lol. It's really not *that* big a deal, and it can be a lot of hassle-free fun. I might not recommend it if you are young and it would be your first sexual experience, or if you are putting a serious relationship at risk. Other than that, go for it. It doesn't make you a loser or mean you won't be able to have a regular girlfriend later on or whatever. All kinds of very successful/desirable guys do it.

As for myself I've never hired one, but I've thought about it... I'm bi and I can't see paying for a guy, it'd be a short/cute ts or tv or maybe Asian gg.

[freak]

It is fine to pay for sex as long as it is not out of hand. A lot of guys just do not want a relationship, they want their time for to do what they want to do. Plus it is cheaper by the hour then you think.

[Rabbiteyes]

These golddigger women are a huge turn off.Many of them looking down on prostitutes but in real life they do the same. If a woman is really attracted by you,she doesn't care if you spent a drink for her.

In Germany it is common practice that a lot of girls in a club make eyes on men,and these desperate men are so sex-starved that they spent a shitload of drinks to impress the girls.In the morning when the party is over the girls are gone and the guys didn't even get their telephone number.:D:D

It doesn't quite work that way. I always find it soooo strange when guys go "well, buying dinner is about the same as just paying a girl for sex".... they are COMPLETELY missing why a girl wants a guy to buy her dinner.

When a guy spends money on me (buys me dinner or drinks or whatever else)... I don't see as them "buying" me (like they would a prostitute), I see it as them putting in the effort to show me they are actually interested in me.

I don't care about the money (I can afford to buy my own dinner :P), it is more about the gesture and that they are willing to spend a little bit to try and impress me and show me they are interested in more than just sex (if they wanted just sex, they can go hire a prostitute for way less trouble...and if I just wanted money, I could go become a prostitute for way less trouble).

When a guy just wants to "hang out"? Doesn't want to take you out, doesn't want to get dressed up, doesn't want to put up any effort and just wants sex? The issue isn't because he is poor and can't afford stuff, the issue is that he can't even be bothered to put in a little effort to try and show you why he is worth seeing (sorry, just wanting to fuck isn't a selling point).

Yea, sometimes girls just want to get laid (and they go out and "hang out" and hookup and whatever else). But when a girl is looking for more and starts demanding a bit more....it is because they are trying to find a guy who doesn't just want easy sex (because that isn't what they are looking for). It isn't about "gold-digging"...it is just about trying to filter out the guys and find ones a little more serious about wanting to see you.

So, to sum it up, spending 100 dollars on a night out with a girl is NOT the same as spending 100 dollars to hire a prostitute for an hour. If you are just after sex, yea, to YOU it might be the same .... but to the girl it isn't.

[Yeah]

It is fine to pay for sex as long as it is not out of hand. A lot of guys just do not want a relationship, they want their time for to do what they want to do. Plus it is cheaper by the hour then you think.

Wow. Who's the girl in your avatar. Thanks

[tranlove]

We all pay for sex one way or another.

[alyssaluxor]

Yeeeaaaahhhh!!!! Bow Chicka wow wow.

Sounds like a great porno I would want to see.

Small girl comes in gets a massage from a guy. Guy has no idea. He finds out and after some initial hesitation blows her.

She busts a nut in his face and pays him and kicks him out of her hotel room.

When are you coming to the US??????

Go go go! Suck it baby!

http://www.lb-69.com/forum/files/thumbs/t_hotpic20_753.jpg

[HI_TSKatie]

I actually respect and appreciate my customers. Without them my transition wouldnt have been possible :-)

[Prospero]

Liberty who has posted on here about seeing female escorts - and works as an escort herself (I've seen her twice. She is fabulous).

I wanted to ask her, as I am genuinely interested, if the GG escorts she occasionally hires freak out or behave oddly when they arrive to find a TS has hired them?

Do you ever get surprising responses from the girls?

I know that quite a few TS escorts simply can't get it on with females.

[thestud]

But when a girl is looking for more and starts demanding a bit more....it is because they are trying to find a guy who doesn't just want easy sex (because that isn't what they are looking for). It isn't about "gold-digging"...it is just about trying to filter out the guys and find ones a little more serious about wanting to see you.


I understand girls trying to weed out the guys what you are reffering to is courting once the guy has the number and his trying to develop a relationship, one can say trying to develop the early begins of a relationship.


So let say a girls want to get laid the above theory you mention applies but when the girl wants to get serious what are the chances of she dating someone that has no money.

I am talking about a girl not looking at you or given you her number because she wants someone better, someone who can take on holiday maybe five times a year, someone who can fly her to paris in moment notice.

Example

I was once coming out of a resturant and opposite the resturant there was a club and this guys pulls out his car must have been at least 30k - 35k he was dressed really sharp, gold chains, expensive designer shoes. I remember everyone circling the car taking pictures. I admit I was one of those people circling the car taking pictures. Damn he had a good car. But the point I was making was that there was lot girls too and each one of and most of them were flirting to get his attention when he came out of the club. I remeber one group of girls saying damn that guy got money.

Now imagine if you were looking to start a relationship after seeing that an ordinary guy came up to you and start to chat you up. What would you say?
instinctively you would compare him to that guy and say nope this guy cannot give me what I want and you probably tell him "nope not interested"

How does a guy commit with that if the girl does not even give him a chance to prove himself and even if she does she just want his money until someone richer can along

I not saying that every single girl is like this you might be the except I don't know but however most her

why do you think younger girls are always dating older guys?
Some date older guys and have a toyboy on the side

[thestud]

At least with an escort there is no pretentense, no false palitudes all she is there is to do a job. She will do whatever you want her, make your fantaties come through, dressing up, watersports if you into that sort of thing all you have to do along is to treat her right and oh pay her.

The thing about escort love them or hate there are up front with you.

[xmattuk]

I have paid for sex in the past, although haven't for a while -but may well do so in the future - I'm often browsing sites looking at *possibilities*, both TS and GG.

I have a GF, and I love her and want a family with her. However, she doesn't quite cut it for me in the sack (and obviously doesn't have the extra bit of fun, when I'm fancying TS time).
That's partially why I haven't been able to bring myself to actually see an escort over the last few years now. The worry of catching something, and then passing onto her, and ruining the relationship has held me back. (Obviously I cover up for penetration with an escort, but being able to catch an STI through oral is a bit devastating. Damn viruses!)

[amberskyi]

I understand girls trying to weed out the guys what you are reffering to is courting once the guy has the number and his trying to develop a relationship, one can say trying to develop the early begins of a relationship.


So let say a girls want to get laid the above theory you mention applies but when the girl wants to get serious what are the chances of she dating someone that has no money.

I am talking about a girl not looking at you or given you her number because she wants someone better, someone who can take on holiday maybe five times a year, someone who can fly her to paris in moment notice.

Example

I was once coming out of a resturant and opposite the resturant there was a club and this guys pulls out his car must have been at least 30k - 35k he was dressed really sharp, gold chains, expensive designer shoes. I remember everyone circling the car taking pictures. I admit I was one of those people circling the car taking pictures. Damn he had a good car. But the point I was making was that there was lot girls too and each one of and most of them were flirting to get his attention when he came out of the club. I remeber one group of girls saying damn that guy got money.

Now imagine if you were looking to start a relationship after seeing that an ordinary guy came up to you and start to chat you up. What would you say?
instinctively you would compare him to that guy and say nope this guy cannot give me what I want and you probably tell him "nope not interested"

How does a guy commit with that if the girl does not even give him a chance to prove himself and even if she does she just want his money until someone richer can along

I not saying that every single girl is like this you might be the except I don't know but however most her

why do you think younger girls are always dating older guys?
Some date older guys and have a toyboy on the side

I've toyed with the idea of dating an older guy for financial stability but since i escort i want my personal life to be as enjoyable and normal as possible.dating an older guy would seem way to much like work and i would feel like I'm never off the clock.
My target audience when it comes to dating are regular 9 to 5 types who are only a few years older than me.no one older than 35

[Rabbiteyes]

But the point I was making was that there was lot girls too and each one of and most of them were flirting to get his attention when he came out of the club. I remeber one group of girls saying damn that guy got money.

Sure, there are some women who look at how much money a guy has... it can be fun to be treated to nice dinners and things. But, just like a guy cruising just for a hot body and sex....the girl is cruising for a short term situation that will make her feel good (a rich guy giving her attention).

I have a friend who gets a lot of attention from really rich guys. She goes on dates with them (and she even had a sugar daddy in her younger years), but they are really short relationships. She typically ends up with the guys who have a decent job (not rich, but just a decent job).

Basically, women aren't really looking for a super rich guy. It is fun, it can be exciting, but the cut-off in terms of money is MUUUCHHH lower.

Though, don't get me wrong! Money is important! Dating a guy who can't afford to go to the movies, or dinner, or even get gas for his car SUCKS. What kind of a life is that? But the level to have a decent life isn't that high (just some education and a career).

I wouldn't want to date a guy without money either. I eat out every night ~_~ I go see movies when I feel like it ~_~ I don't want a guy that I always have to be worried about affording things (or worse, paying for him !_!). Basically, it is a social class type of thing :P

((Oh, for the record, lots of girls are simply attracted to older guys :P They seem more secure, mature, patient, wise....it is pretty sexy :P I don't mean 80 year old guys, but 10-20 years older? Awesome :3))

[tranlove]

If you're not paying your just jacking off

[wiltthestilt]

Yes. Many times. I quite enjoy it. I pay mostly for gg's, but I've seen two TS's and would see TS's more often if a better selection were available where I am. I was on the West Coast on vacation last week and banged a really hot TS and hope to do so again soon.

I would save a lot of money (average $300 per session) if I didn't see escorts, but I wouldn't live any longer, and I want to enjoy my life while I have the chance. You can't take it with you. I don't spend money on alcohol, or fancy cars, or boats, or motorcycles, so I wind up spending a lot less than friends of mine who don't see escorts.

Many people who see escorts make up some kind of excuse for why they do it (I'm married, in a relationship, over-the-hill yada, yada, yada) but I think reality is that very few men, single or not, can bang a fresh hot young lady every few weeks without paying directly for it--and even among those who could, that number nose dives after age 30 or so. I could never get the quality and variety of women I currently get by trolling bars or dating sites. I admit that. If you don't want to pay for sex, don't. I enjoy it and don't give a fuck if others think it's a waste of money. To each his own.

[wiltthestilt]

As an escort, my only recommendation to anyone on the fence is DO IT. Lol. It's really not *that* big a deal, and it can be a lot of hassle-free fun. I might not recommend it if you are young and it would be your first sexual experience, or if you are putting a serious relationship at risk. Other than that, go for it. It doesn't make you a loser or mean you won't be able to have a regular girlfriend later on or whatever. All kinds of very successful/desirable guys do it.

As for myself I've never hired one, but I've thought about it... I'm bi and I can't see paying for a guy, it'd be a short/cute ts or tv or maybe Asian gg.

Agree 100%. It's really not that big a deal. After I got up the courage to do it, I was like, that was easy. If it's not worth it you don't have to do it again. The only caveat is always verify who you are seeing. Google the name, phone number, ect. She should have reviews verifying the pics are accurate and that the ad is not an LE sting. Never call a random BP girl, at least until you know what you're doing.

[CORVETTEDUDE]

I have paid for companionship and sex and, I will do so again. I find it far less of a hassle and overall significantly less expensive than getting married for the same thing.

[nysprod]

Who's paying here for sex and who payed for sex in the past and those ones of you who have stopped to go to escorts what was the main reason for quiting it?


I have visted escorts in the past,and quited it.I couldnt' deal with the fact that these girls didn't have sex with me because of my attraction,only because of the money i gave them.

What are your thougts on this matter?

Nevertheless Prostituition should be legal in every country and i still support the liberal ideas behind it.

Fuck you if me or anyone else here pays for sex, how about that?

[Quiet Reflections]

I never have but I have nothing against those that do

[SheWantsTheD]

At least with an escort there is no pretentense, no false palitudes all she is there is to do a job. She will do whatever you want her, make your fantaties come through, dressing up, watersports if you into that sort of thing all you have to do along is to treat her right and oh pay her.

The thing about escort love them or hate there are up front with you.
Lol this is not always the case. They won't all do what you want even if they agreed on the phone and after payment. They will tell you your cock is too big or not kiss you. Hardly the full girlfriend experience that was promised.
They will also try to rush you to cum so you don't use your full time paid for.

They are not all like this, I haven't seen more than 4 escorts but I've seen enough to see the bullshit.
No more escorts for me.

[wiltthestilt]

Lol this is not always the case. They won't all do what you want even if they agreed on the phone and after payment. They will tell you your cock is too big or not kiss you. Hardly the full girlfriend experience that was promised.
They will also try to rush you to cum so you don't use your full time paid for.

They are not all like this, I haven't seen more than 4 escorts but I've seen enough to see the bullshit.
No more escorts for me.

If you use reputable agencies or reputable providers this will not happen often. The rub is you often have to spend $300 or more to get a real GFE experience with an attractive provider. The providers who have several pages of 95% positive reviews usually have that reputation for a reason.

Many people want to pay no more than $150-$200 to get laid and use a backpage girl that doesn't screen, and you get what you pay for.

[MacShreach]

Lol this is not always the case. They won't all do what you want even if they agreed on the phone and after payment. They will tell you your cock is too big or not kiss you. Hardly the full girlfriend experience that was promised.
They will also try to rush you to cum so you don't use your full time paid for.

They are not all like this, I haven't seen more than 4 escorts but I've seen enough to see the bullshit.
No more escorts for me.

I'm not dissing you but I do have to say that was not my experience. Couple like that, couple of starfish but mostly pretty OK and left feeling I had a fair deal. Just my 2d.

[MacShreach]

If you use reputable agencies or reputable providers this will not happen often. The rub is you often have to spend $300 or more to get a real GFE experience with an attractive provider. The providers who have several pages of 95% positive reviews usually have that reputation for a reason.

Many people want to pay no more than $150-$200 to get laid and use a backpage girl that doesn't screen, and you get what you pay for.
Cough splutter coffee everywhere....shit I am so glad I live in Europe...

[wiltthestilt]

Cough splutter coffee everywhere....shit I am so glad I live in Europe...

Yeah it sucks. Legalization means lower prices. Not much you can do it about it in the USA--since too much of the American public feels their approval is required for other people to have sex. Believe me, I've looked for a better deal. When I try to pay less I wind up having a crappy session every other time, and wind up wasting even more money. There are decent deals for $225 and $250 sometimes, but those are getting rarer.

[Prospero]

And one of the troubles is that when one of the stunning US ladies comes to visit london they take their US price and enhance it (I guess to cover airfares and accommodation). A recent visitor was charging £400 for an hour.

[MacShreach]

And one of the troubles is that when one of the stunning US ladies comes to visit london they take their US price and enhance it (I guess to cover airfares and accommodation). A recent visitor was charging £400 for an hour.
No way and I don't care how hot she is. Sorry. Barcelona is just down the road.

[Prospero]

No way and I don't care how hot she is. Sorry. Barcelona is just down the road.


quite... though my Catalan is pretty poor.

[SheWantsTheD]

If you use reputable agencies or reputable providers this will not happen often. The rub is you often have to spend $300 or more to get a real GFE experience with an attractive provider. The providers who have several pages of 95% positive reviews usually have that reputation for a reason.

Many people want to pay no more than $150-$200 to get laid and use a backpage girl that doesn't screen, and you get what you pay for.
Indeed you get what you pay for. I never spent more than $80 on one.
But since I'm not rich I go with the best things in life are free approach. So that means I have to work hard to find a girl who either isn't an escort or will give me a freebee.

Escorts are good for guys with endless money only.

[ImmerGeil]

If you're not paying your just jacking off

That's just not true.There are so many other possibilities to have sex.If you go to a club you can have one night stands with enough luck and charisma or you can get numbers and have sex a few days later.

If you want sex as fast as possible I can recommend sex dating sites or swinger clubs.For men alone the the access is more expensive but there are enough swinger clubs from 20 to 40 Euro sometimes with drinks for free.

I met a couple in a swinger club who told me from their journey to America and they joined different private sex parties in Florida.

[whiteitalianchocolate36]

I've never been with an escort. At least that I know of LOL

I've never paid. Not saying I never would because I don't think as critically of it as a lot of other people do, but I just never have done it.

After seeing some of the escorts on here I will never say never :party:

[txjr3]

Constantly. It's the quickest cleanest way to go about finding a shag - rarely any loose ends to deal with.

[Rusty Eldora]

If you use reputable agencies or reputable providers this will not happen often. The rub is you often have to spend $300 or more to get a real GFE experience with an attractive provider. The providers who have several pages of 95% positive reviews usually have that reputation for a reason.

Many people want to pay no more than $150-$200 to get laid and use a backpage girl that doesn't screen, and you get what you pay for.

Seattle ranges from the 150-200 BP Tgirl that is barely worth that.

There is some real variability above that, but good providers run 200 to 300. At 3, you can be with the very best.

[whiteitalianchocolate36]

Some girls think they are giving you gold. $300??? For what, an hour??? Is she making me breakfast, lunch, and dinner too? LOL

I know dudes that go to places with good looking girls and spend like $80 - $120 tops!

This one dude I know messes with some hood rats on his block and gives them like $20 and some weed or a couple of drinks LMAO. They aren't high class, but they look decent.

[amberskyi]

Some girls think they are giving you gold. $300??? For what, an hour??? Is she making me breakfast, lunch, and dinner too? LOL

I know dudes that go to places with good looking girls and spend like $80 - $120 tops!

This one dude I know messes with some hood rats on his block and gives them like $20 and some weed or a couple of drinks LMAO. They aren't high class, but they look decent.

you ever heard of you get what you pay for?
imagine how many guys a girl who is charging 20-60 dollars has to see in order to pay her bills.thats ALLOT of guys and potential diseases shes coming in contact with.than you also have to think why is she only charging $50 dollars? what kind of desperate situation makes he under value her self so much (drugs, a pimp, hiv+??).
with a girl who is charging $150+ an hour tends to meet a certain criteria/standard.your are paying for safety and comfort.girls on the higher end of the escort game has the luxury of seeing fewer clients,being selective, and not being in a despreate situation that potetntial could effect you..all this spells less risk for you as a client

[whiteitalianchocolate36]

I understand that Amber, but most guys don't have the money to spend $300 just to have sex. It seems like the transgender population has started becoming more and more intertwined with the escort scene. So this means the guy with little money get's screwed (no pun intended lol). More girls in the escort scene means less girls you can meet and actually date and do it that way.

[whiteitalianchocolate36]

You also have to wrap it up and be a little less worried about the STD thing. High end girls can still get STDs no matter how much money their clientele have. Look at all the rich athletes who are screwing everything in sight, AND without condoms. The girls accept it because money talks.

Would you let Lebron James fuck you raw for $100,000? Be honest!

[amberskyi]

no i wouldnt because i couldnt use that 100,000 to pay god off lol.
obviously one should always wrap it up even with high end girls.i thought that would go with out saying.
it sucks when someone cant afford something but hey thats life.i cant afford an italian sports car (or some other nonsense lol) so either i can step my game up and get a better job or be content with what i can afford

[amberskyi]

I understand that Amber, but most guys don't have the money to spend $300 just to have sex. It seems like the transgender population has started becoming more and more intertwined with the escort scene. So this means the guy with little money get's screwed (no pun intended lol). More girls in the escort scene means less girls you can meet and actually date and do it that way.

and hey escorts want to be loved and have boyfriends too.if thats a deal breaker to you than yea your out of luck.
also there are way more ts woman who dont escort than those who do.however they arent as visible and easy to find because theyre too busy living a more discreet life

[whiteitalianchocolate36]

I can give you the Italian part, but not the car LMAO

[gregorysgirl]

I paid yesterday, but due to the amount of condoms she used I may as well stayed home with a dildo & box of rubbers!

[LibertyHarkness]

awww what she do the old double bagging up routine lol

[wiltthestilt]

Seattle ranges from the 150-200 BP Tgirl that is barely worth that.

There is some real variability above that, but good providers run 200 to 300. At 3, you can be with the very best.

Thats about the same as Jersey where I am. Ive had some great sessions for $200-$225 but if I always look in that range I wind up paying for someone I dont want which is worse than paying $300. A hot college age blond is usually going to go for $$$. A hot TS is usually more than a gg.

[wiltthestilt]

Some girls think they are giving you gold. $300??? For what, an hour??? Is she making me breakfast, lunch, and dinner too? LOL

I know dudes that go to places with good looking girls and spend like $80 - $120 tops!

This one dude I know messes with some hood rats on his block and gives them like $20 and some weed or a couple of drinks LMAO. They aren't high class, but they look decent.

Yeah, fast houses w/ immigrant slave girls and local girls from the projects is where you find the most beautiful escorts, the cleanest venues, and the unrushed experience that everyone is looking for. Instead of using agencies or eros girls I should really be hanging out in Newark w/ a few $20's and a dime bag. Sucks that Ive been doing wrong for so long.

[whiteitalianchocolate36]

I can give you the Italian part, but not the car LMAO


Yeah, fast houses w/ immigrant slave girls and local girls from the projects is where you find the most beautiful escorts, the cleanest venues, and the unrushed experience that everyone is looking for. Instead of using agencies or eros girls I should really be hanging out in Newark w/ a few $20's and a dime bag. Sucks that Ive been doing wrong for so long.

No immigrant slave girls in the Bronx.....unless they are straight from Africa. I was at one strip club in the Bronx and the girls are hotter than you think LOL

You wear a condom and you're all good. 30 minutes to an hour doesn't seem like a rush job to me, unless you are lonely and want to talk about your kids and job with her. I don't need to fuck in a mansion or have a cleaning crew come by twice a week either, sorry LOL