Coming Out... As Straight?

[SheWantsTheD]

This is a thread for the tranny chasers.
The poll is multiple choice.

Have any of you guys into transsexuals ever come out to people you know about this?
Are you still in the closet or in denial about your love of trans women?
How was it for you explaining that you are straight? Or did you explain things differently as I have?

I found when I was telling people that I like transsexuals (I just said ladyboys) they first thought I like it up the bum or that I am gay or maybe all I need is a girlfriend who likes a bit of strap on. This was really making me laugh so to explain things easier I told them that I am Bisexual and that I like women and people who are in the process of becoming women and that I always play the man/dominant role and that I am not interested in men at all.

So far everyone in my life from work to family knows except for my childhood friends who have always been very homophobic. But they are so far away that I never see them anymore so I don't know if there is any point in saying anything.

[danthepoetman]

People close enough to me knows. To me a girl is a girl and a t-girl is no different. I appreciate femininity, like any other straight man, for what it means, and I simply find hypocritical someone who act as if a beautiful girl wasn't just because she wasn't born with a vagina. I try my best to be honnest with myself, and others too when I find I should be.
I know how some people are narrow minded, but they're the ones with a problem. You should never miss an opportunity to explain to them well, what the world is about...

[girl]

You should never miss an opportunity to explain to them well, what the world is about...

What the world is about?

[smoothboi]

I think there should be an option for queer. I've told some people I like tgirls. I'm starting to be more open about my preferences.

[FreddieGomez]

My only problem is, if anybody finds out, especially a baby momma or whatever, she will try to use it to slander me to my kids.

Plus i still love pussy too. I'm not that type that prefers ts or women.

[Willie Escalade]

Most know, but I don't make it obvious.

[giovanni_hotel]

I won't deny my love of tgirls, but I don't volunteer that info either.
As a hetero man, it's kinda hard to explain to family and friends why you really dig TS women, in many cases more than GGs.

Many can't get past the 'born a boy' part and then it's trying to explain your attraction isn't a gay thing necessarily.

THe people my age in my family if I had to I guess I could tell, but the 70+ year olders would never understand.
If I was ever in a this-is-it LTR with a TG, I'd tell who I had to and deal with it.

[BrassVillanueva]

I haven't had a sit-down-and-come-out with anybody, but just from discussions with a few friends and family, some of them know that I don't see any difference between cisgendered and transgendered women. In that vein, there's really no need for me to explain anything. Should I form a relationship with a transwoman, I'd gladly discuss it with anyone who asks about it, but it's not really that big a deal in my mind.

[amberskyi]

My only problem is, if anybody finds out, especially a baby momma or whatever, she will try to use it to slander me to my kids.

Plus i still love pussy too. I'm not that type that prefers ts or women.

If the mother of your kids is the type to slander you she's going to find something, anything any way

[TheGuard]

Anything we go through as guys who admire ts absolutely pales in comparison to what the girls go through telling their friends family and co-workers so I don't have a lot of compassion to give out. My girlfriend knows, and is open to a 3some, most of my family and friends, it's not a big deal really.

[danthepoetman]

What the world is about?
Pleasantry, Girl. I mean flowers and bees, of course; I mean explaining them what transsexuality is about... ;)

[tsadriana]

A very big question: Whats that in being a straight?No one is straight in this world not even a straight guy its straight these days but a girl ?I wasnt straight since i was born.lol

[MHarrigan82]

I have had an attraction to tgirls since I was 16 and now I am 30 years old. I never thought I would ever date or fuck a transwoman homophobic fears but 3 years ago I gave it a shot and have not look back.

[tsadriana]

I have had an attraction to tgirls since I was 16 and now I am 30 years old. I never thought I would ever date or fuck a transwoman homophobic fears but 3 years ago I gave it a shot and have not look back.
Good for you...I like the way you put it transwoman .x

[Ben]

This is a thread for the tranny chasers.
The poll is multiple choice.

Have any of you guys into transsexuals ever come out to people you know about this?
Are you still in the closet or in denial about your love of trans women?
How was it for you explaining that you are straight? Or did you explain things differently as I have?

I found when I was telling people that I like transsexuals (I just said ladyboys) they first thought I like it up the bum or that I am gay or maybe all I need is a girlfriend who likes a bit of strap on. This was really making me laugh so to explain things easier I told them that I am Bisexual and that I like women and people who are in the process of becoming women and that I always play the man/dominant role and that I am not interested in men at all.

So far everyone in my life from work to family knows except for my childhood friends who have always been very homophobic. But they are so far away that I never see them anymore so I don't know if there is any point in saying anything.

I "came out" to a close friend of mine. I told him I was into Kim Devine. He was silent. He wanted to see a pic of Kim Devine. He was curious. I showed him a fully clothed pic of Kim to him. He said she was good looking. And then lo and behold he told me that he, also, was into TG women. He was into Gia Darling.
He hasn't told anyone else. I haven't.
I'm not sure how many people are frank, open and honest about being attracted to TG women. It seems easier to come out of the closet and say one is gay and exclusively attracted to males. Who knows.

[BiBoyinBeantown]

I'm pretty well out as bi. I don't really talk about my tastes in porn with people other than my primary partner, who's a GG. Yes, she knows I like transgender porn, among other things. *shrug*

[SheWantsTheD]

I have had an attraction to tgirls since I was 16 and now I am 30 years old. I never thought I would ever date or fuck a transwoman homophobic fears but 3 years ago I gave it a shot and have not look back.
I read some of your threads about it. You've had quite a journey! I think I got into the tgirl porn around 20 years old but I thought they were not in my country and only in brazil and asia as pornstars.
I think I was 24 when I clicked on an advert to a ts dating site and found out that there were infact 1,000s in my country.
And its only just now that I am official dating a transwoman at the age of 26. I wonder where I'll be at with this when I'm 30.


I'm pretty well out as bi. I don't really talk about my tastes in porn with people other than my primary partner, who's a GG. Yes, she knows I like transgender porn, among other things. *shrug*

I had a GG and I used my attraction to tgirls as an excuse to break up with her so I could go explore my love of them without feeling any guilt for cheating.