Sites for Real Dating and Meaningful Relationships

[SurfSandSun]

I know this has in a way been discussed before.

I am looking for the best way to find that girl of my dreams, to be happy with and be a part of my life. I am a male and, obviously, physically attracted to the intersex/shemale girls only. I don't want one night flings, I want to find someone special like anyone else does!

The TS scene seems to be full of 'escorts' and people looking for just a 'good time', from what I can tell - though I haven't had much experience yet. I was wondering how others looking for real relationships have found what they are looking for.

I have seen TSDating. com but it asks me for money before I can message anyone back and I don't want to take part in a possible internet scam. Plus, since it is porn websites that link to TSDating often, I wonder what kind of crowd that site attracts?

I also have been wondering if anyone uses OKCupid for the TS scene?

I actually once was looking for a biography of Sarina Valentina once, just because I saw a video of her and thought she was amazing. It turned out she had an OKCupid dating biography! I hope it is ok I say that here, or that if Sarina saw I posted she is on that site that it wouldn't attract to her unwanted attention. I was thinking, "wow! She is a real person looking for the same thing and she seems really cool too!" I just mean to say how realistically bummed I was that she lives so far from me! ( Me being in FL ). I would love to reach out to her since she does seem like she wants something meaningful too.

That would be exactly what I was looking for. I suppose this is a bit of a ramble, just wanted some takes on the dating scene.. Experiences.. And information, but all about relationships and not sex/bootycalls. Has anyone.. found the love of their life?

[nysprod]

I know this has in a way been discussed before.

I am looking for the best way to find that girl of my dreams, to be happy with and be a part of my life. I am a male and, obviously, physically attracted to the intersex/shemale girls only. I don't want one night flings, I want to find someone special like anyone else does!

The TS scene seems to be full of 'escorts' and people looking for just a 'good time', from what I can tell - though I haven't had much experience yet. I was wondering how others looking for real relationships have found what they are looking for.

I have seen TSDating. com but it asks me for money before I can message anyone back and I don't want to take part in a possible internet scam. Plus, since it is porn websites that link to TSDating often, I wonder what kind of crowd that site attracts?

I also have been wondering if anyone uses OKCupid for the TS scene?

I actually once was looking for a biography of Sarina Valentina once, just because I saw a video of her and thought she was amazing. It turned out she had an OKCupid dating biography! I hope it is ok I say that here, or that if Sarina saw I posted she is on that site that it wouldn't attract to her unwanted attention. I was thinking, "wow! She is a real person looking for the same thing and she seems really cool too!" I just mean to say how realistically bummed I was that she lives so far from me! ( Me being in FL ). I would love to reach out to her since she does seem like she wants something meaningful too.



I have used OKCupid...there's no way to search for transgendered people that I'm aware of, although you may find a profile randomly. I've never found one though.

You can't search for transgendered on Plenty of Fish either, but I have found several TGirl profiles (randomly).

However, I will say this about free dating sites whether you're looking for a GG or TG; they're a disaster. The reason, IMO, is that when people use a free site they tend to put no value in dating. Worse, pretty much every woman there has either suffered thru one or more bad experiences, and they're not happy.

I would pay to join a transgendered dating site on 1 condition: if the girls had to pay...if it's only the guys who are paying, I think it's better to stick with BP or CL because the results will be the same.

[shermanwt]

I'm pretty sure that both adult friend finder and alt.com have searchable data bases for TG's. There are both free and paid memberships for both sexes depending on the range of options you want for your profile.

[dderek123]

Facebook is good too I imagine.

[nysprod]

I'm pretty sure that both adult friend finder and alt.com have searchable data bases for TG's. There are both free and paid memberships for both sexes depending on the range of options you want for your profile.

AFF is just hookers...

[shermanwt]

AFF is just hookers...

True, there are a ton of hookers, but, there's also non-professionals as well. I've made some legit GG connections there, yes, it takes a little time to thrash the wheat from the chaff, but they are there and they are horny.

[bluesoul]

AFF is just hookers...

hookers need love to.


I know this has in a way been discussed before.

I am looking for the best way to find that girl of my dreams, to be happy with and be a part of my life. I am a male and, obviously, physically attracted to the intersex/shemale girls only. I don't want one night flings, I want to find someone special like anyone else does!

one of those hookers could be the girl of your dreams. besides, the escorts are looking for all the same things you're looking for- if you ignore them, you'll be ignoring a large populous of the transexual citizens. besides, they need your money.

[tao1kiku]

Met my fiance on transgenderdate

[SurfSandSun]

Wow, good on you tao1kiku!

[SurfSandSun]

hookers need love to.



one of those hookers could be the girl of your dreams. besides, the escorts are looking for all the same things you're looking for- if you ignore them, you'll be ignoring a large populous of the transexual citizens. besides, they need your money.

lol dude, I don't know

[MacShreach]

If you like Asians, Thaifriendly, MyThaiLadyboy and Ladyboykisses are all good, with both p4p and non-p4p. The first two allow limited messaging on a free membership too.

[MacShreach]

If you like Asians, Thaifriendly, MyThaiLadyboy and Ladyboykisses are all good, with both p4p and non-p4p. The first two allow limited messaging on a free membership too.
Quoting myself, I know.

Just a few words of advice to anyone using the above sites: First, there are lots of nice girls on there, but a few must-avoids. There are scammers, though all of these sites try hard to stay 'clean'. Some are just head-cases who are beyond any help. Most of those are quite well-known for it, but you'll need to dig around the forums to get the lowdown. (I will blog on this topic at macshreach.wordpress.com.)

Some girls are actually looking for relationships, others are marketing p4p. (ThaiFriendly probably more so than the others.) A LOT of girls will latch onto you like you were the last man on earth. It's very flattering but be cautious.

I would advise setting up a new contact, either through YM or Skype for this. Do not give a girl your cell number till you have met her and decided you want to go further. (Some girls will go completely OTT with texts.) And while a lot of guys, if it gets serious, will come to some financial arrangement just to help the poor dear out, NEVER, ever, send money to someone you haven't met and spent a good period of time with--like a month at least. It's not that the girls are gold-diggers, they're not, it's just that many are more dirt-poor than most Westerners can really imagine, and we appear stratospherically wealthy to them, particularly Filipinas.

Approach it with the right attitude though, and there are some real sweeties to be found.

[amberskyi]

lol dude, I don't know

Ignore his cynicism, obviously he personally hasn't had an luck or experience with ts woman

[Ms.Stepford]

I would pay to join a transgendered dating site on 1 condition: if the girls had to pay...if it's only the guys who are paying, I think it's better to stick with BP or CL because the results will be the same.

Huh? I'd have no problem paying for something if I thought it would give me business, just like I pay for my BP ad.

[be2378]

It's just like all the other dating sites out there, send out a 100 hellos and nice to meet you emails, maybe get 2 back, 1 is complete crazy, and the other one is from some 500 miles away, and really hard to get too.

[babewonder]

yes please something meaningful

[nysprod]

Anyone have experience with http://www.singletransexuals.com/

I google searched a bunch of the profiles and most seemed legit...saw a couple of faces from BP and one or two from FB...sophie bendable had a profile there and I saw a TS that had a profile on a singles dating site who I actually chatted with a while back although nothing came of it.

[Rabbiteyes]

I'm on okcupid, and put transgendered (and trans) in my profile for it to be easier to search for (you can use keywords when searching profiles).

BUT, if you find a trans person you are interested in, make sure to approach them pretty carefully. There are a lot of guys who want to have sex with trans people (and women in general), it really isn't that interesting (why would I just sleep with any random guy?).

So, you need to make it clear you aren't like the majority of guys to get any interest. You need to put some effort into your profile, and be able to talk without asking about sex or trying to perv. Once I start to think a guy just wants sex, I move on (and that happens when they start asking sexual stuff too early... asking anything about what is in my pants will get a guy blocked fast).

Basically, if you are looking for a prostitute, it is their job to put up with that stuff (and let's face it, that is what it is all about...sex comes first). If you are looking for a real relationship with a real trans person with their life together? Then guys need to approach a LLLLOOOOTTT better.

Oh, also, some more tips.

Asking to 'hang out' is code for hookup (so block). Asking for coffee means you are cheap and not really that serious (so, not really worth the time).

So, to make it simple, I'll break it down.

1) Say hello and write more than a single line. Talk about stuff in their profile, say you would love to chat more and get to know them better.

2) Chat for a bit ....

3) Ask them out to dinner or movie.

Oh, also, trans girls tend to be a lot more insecure than normal women. She might avoid seeing you because she feels like she will be rejected (or she is in a variety of phases in transition). Patience helps with that (and asking for more pictures, or pressuring to see them on webcam? That will just make them uncomfortable and think you are just interested in how they look...and they will probably bolt).

And on top of all this you need to have the basics of dating too. They need to be attracted to you (I only see guys who are 30+ years old and 5'10"+). And you need to have a decent job (at least if you want to see a trans with her life together and holding a decent job).

Dating is tricky... and most guys approach it really poorly lol. And then they wonder why they only get dates with girls who are completely bonkers :P Or without jobs :P or all the other stuff ~_~

[SurfSandSun]

Rabbiteyes!
Hey man Thanks! I am actually on OKCupid and have just started to use that search function with Transexual as the keyword. I ended up messaging one and am still having a long conversation with her ( she is a male who has been having hormone therapy and currently saving up for sexual reassignment surgery ) ..

[SurfSandSun]

yes please something meaningful

:) yes!

[bluesoul]

she is a male

that's pretty amazing

[TSLoverIB]

I have used OKCupid...there's no way to search for transgendered people that I'm aware of, although you may find a profile randomly. I've never found one though.

You can't search for transgendered on Plenty of Fish either, but I have found several TGirl profiles (randomly).

However, I will say this about free dating sites whether you're looking for a GG or TG; they're a disaster. The reason, IMO, is that when people use a free site they tend to put no value in dating. Worse, pretty much every woman there has either suffered thru one or more bad experiences, and they're not happy.

I would pay to join a transgendered dating site on 1 condition: if the girls had to pay...if it's only the guys who are paying, I think it's better to stick with BP or CL because the results will be the same.

I agree, i wish some of the site owners would read forums for reviews or wants in a site.

Transgenderdate seems alright with a drawback of the site making the girls full of themselves.
How can a girl take dating seriously if the girl gets 1000 likes, hi's or favorites. When someone opens their mailbox and it has hundreds or thousands of guys leaving hi messages .
If i was the site, i suggest, on a free site
1. LIMIT the mailbox to say 50, this way, the girls would HAVE to go through the mailboxes, and delete the ones not interested, and reply to the ones interested.
2. LIMIT the replies to people until you have deleted some in your index
3. NO < NO< NO< NO comments under pictures
girls get lots and lots of your sexy, your fine comments.
IF YOU WANT TO TAKE DATING SERIOUS, THEN DO IT

[nysprod]

I agree, i wish some of the site owners would read forums for reviews or wants in a site.

Transgenderdate seems alright with a drawback of the site making the girls full of themselves.
How can a girl take dating seriously if the girl gets 1000 likes, hi's or favorites. When someone opens their mailbox and it has hundreds or thousands of guys leaving hi messages .
If i was the site, i suggest, on a free site
1. LIMIT the mailbox to say 50, this way, the girls would HAVE to go through the mailboxes, and delete the ones not interested, and reply to the ones interested.
2. LIMIT the replies to people until you have deleted some in your index
3. NO < NO< NO< NO comments under pictures
girls get lots and lots of your sexy, your fine comments.
IF YOU WANT TO TAKE DATING SERIOUS, THEN DO IT

My 2 cents again...if you're transgendered and are serious about dating, I would suggest match.com.

[Jamie French]

Whatever happened to actually leaving the house, meeting real flesh and blood people, sharpening your social skills, etc? I imagine it would be hard to find a meaningful relationship online because the girls you are looking for have no interest in dudes who fish for chicks from the comfort of there gaming cave. We are much more impressed with people who are out there in the open, living a real life, mixing it up... someone who lives life proactively, someone with social skills is so much more alluring.

"But where am I gonna find tgirls?"

Welp, if your goal is actually starting up a real relationship then a persons junk should be the least of your concerns. Your priority should be the meaningful connection... everything else comes second. If the tgirl thing is still at the forefront of your thoughts then you aren't really looking for a relationship, you are just trying to pursue a convoluted, scenario based sexual fantasy. I see it all the time.

[bluesoul]

Whatever happened to actually leaving the house, meeting real flesh and blood people, sharpening your social skills, etc?

you mean meeting escorts? nah. they're well passed that. this is level 2 stage 1: tranny girlfriend

[nysprod]

Welp, if your goal is actually starting up a real relationship then a persons junk should be the least of your concerns. Your priority should be the meaningful connection... everything else comes second.

Hmmm...then by extension, if you're a straight man looking for a real relationship you should consider having one with another man, since a person's junk should be the least...nah, that won't work.



If the tgirl thing is still at the forefront of your thoughts then you aren't really looking for a relationship, you are just trying to pursue a convoluted, scenario based sexual fantasy. I see it all the time.

Lol...I thought you were a convoluted, scenario-based sexual fantasy...

(Sorry, you fed me a straight line and I couldn't resist)

[Jamie French]

I said nothing about meeting escorts. REREAD my post. I'm clearly talking about meeting someone in order to start a real relationship.


you mean meeting escorts? nah. they're well passed that. this is level 2 stage 1: tranny girlfriend

[bluesoul]

I said nothing about meeting escorts. REREAD my post. I'm clearly talking about meeting someone in order to start a real relationship.

relax. i'm only kidding. i was poking fun that maybe the only contact some have with real people outside of the house is when they go see escorts. that's why i made a video game reference (from your gaming cave reference)

[Jamie French]

You're inference suffers from poorly thought out self imposed limits.
Let's say you did in fact meet a man who you connected with on a level that meets or exceeds your requirements for entering into a relationship. Then you'd have no problem doing just that. You'd be in a homosexual relationship with someone that makes you happy. So what? I don't see how sexuality plays into it. You aren't required to consider the possibility of dating a man but if it pans out that way so what? It's beside the point.

Ok, so you're a straight dude all the way, let's go with that. You'd STILL have to connect with someone that meets your requirements for entering into a relationship. You're personal sexuality does nothing to negate that basic fact.

As for your other statement. I'm totally a sexual fantasy for those who are into what I do. That's my day job. I'm not SEEKING a convoluted sexual fantasy. I have a GF that I met by simply just living life and making healthy well informed decisions.


Hmmm...then by extension, if you're a straight man looking for a real relationship you should consider having one with another man, since a person's junk should be the least...nah, that won't work.

Lol...I thought you were a convoluted, scenario-based sexual fantasy...

(Sorry, you fed me a straight line and I couldn't resist)

[nysprod]

You're inference suffers from poorly thought out self imposed limits.
Let's say you did in fact meet a man who you connected with on a level that meets or exceeds your requirements for entering into a relationship. Then you'd have no problem doing just that. You'd be in a homosexual relationship with someone that makes you happy. So what? I don't see how sexuality plays into it. You aren't required to consider the possibility of dating a man but if it pans out that way so what? It's beside the point.

My limits aren't self-imposed...I was born straight.

The "so what" part is that my junk ain't gonna work with another man. But all kidding aside, I have met plenty of men who exceed my requirements for entering into a relationship with, but I call them friends.


Ok, so you're a straight dude all the way, let's go with that. You'd STILL have to connect with someone that meets your requirements for entering into a relationship. You're personal sexuality does nothing to negate that basic fact.

For better or worse, junk counts.


As for your other statement. I'm totally a sexual fantasy for those who are into what I do. That's my day job. I'm not SEEKING a convoluted sexual fantasy. I have a GF that I met by simply just living life and making healthy well informed decisions.

I was teasing you...btw, how did you and Eva meet?

[EvaCassini]

How Jamie and I met is a ... well...lets just say we could write a book about it. I'll try to "nutshell" it for you.

I used to drive 18 wheelers ( if it wasn't known alrdy ). After I left my last truck, I said fuck it, I want to do what I want to do and have been wanting to do for a few years...PORN!!! "YAY!"

So after speaking with Bella Bellucci about how to get into porn, she directed me to Tiffany and Jamie who were very close to me. ( at the time I was living in San Antonio ) So, I got ahold of Tiff and made some plans and about the same time I got another truck job and had to drive up to Wisconsin for it. On the way, I stopped in Arlington to meet Tiff. Now at the time, I didn't know her and Jamie were dating, just room mates. Well I get there, chat with Tiff, talked a bit them BOOM, we fucked ( Jamie wasn't there btw ). Then she lightly went over how to play Magic cards and then I left, mutually deciding we would see eachother again very soon. "How, cool!"

After about 2-3 weeks, and after getting falsely accused of drunk driving ( even though we had a sober driver *rollseyes*) I found myself on a bus heading back to SA. No shit...sometime during the ~3 weeks I was in Wisconsin, Jamie found out that Tiff broke the "relationship rule" ( which Jamie and I have and we don't break it ) ( "No pay, No play" ) ( Tiff cheated, if you didn't catch that ) and Jamie broke up with Tiff. It was the Dr. Suzy show and Tiff did some shit she wasn't supposed to and when the video came out is when Jamie found out and confronted Tiff about it. OH SHIT RIGHT?!

After about a week, and more talking with Tiff we decided to try to "date". So I drove 5 hrs up to Arlington, knocked, Jamie answered, not knowing who I am, just some "friend" of Tiff. "Hello!"

I was only supposed to visit for about 1-3 days, just to go on a date with Tiff, get to know her and stuff. Turned out to be 7 days. I smoke and so the only place in the apartment to smoke is in Jamie's room, where we found ourselves talking and talking and talking. When 2 or more people smoke in close proximity, they talk and get to know eachother. SO near the end of that week of "dating" Tiff, I realized that Tiff was...not a good person really. "EPIPHANY-O-TIFFANY"

So of course when Jamie and I had our chats, she found out that I really want to do porn, and so Jamie shot my first set Day 6, and Day 7 Jamie and I ......well Im sure you can use your imagination. :p "SEXUALS!"

We talked about anything and everything during our chats from her, me, Tiff, porn, camming, latex to thing we had in common like Top Gear, MST3K, and Monty Python. "TRUTH!"

We fell in love. "Finally"
After that night, the next morning I drove back to SA and 2 weeks went by.......... "TIK TOK TIK TOK"
During this time Tiff had flown out to LA for shoots, met Audrina, they hung together for like 3 days and at the end of the 2 weeks Jamie told me this and said that Tiff wanted Audrina to move in "possibly". SOOoooooo, right then, Jamie and I decided that I could move up. "HUZZAH!"

Moved up, and been here ever since. I love it. I love Jamie and its been 10 months! :D "HUZZAH AGAIN!"

FIN...for now ;)
Tune in next week for rest of our lives!!! :D

P.S. I really tried for the nutshell approach, but like I said we could easily write a book! LMAO

[nysprod]

How Jamie and I met is a ... well...lets just say we could write a book about it. I'll try to "nutshell" it for you.

I used to drive 18 wheelers ( if it wasn't known alrdy ). After I left my last truck, I said fuck it, I want to do what I want to do and have been wanting to do for a few years...PORN!!! "YAY!"

So after speaking with Bella Bellucci about how to get into porn, she directed me to Tiffany and Jamie who were very close to me. ( at the time I was living in San Antonio ) So, I got ahold of Tiff and made some plans and about the same time I got another truck job and had to drive up to Wisconsin for it. On the way, I stopped in Arlington to meet Tiff. Now at the time, I didn't know her and Jamie were dating, just room mates. Well I get there, chat with Tiff, talked a bit them BOOM, we fucked ( Jamie wasn't there btw ). Then she lightly went over how to play Magic cards and then I left, mutually deciding we would see eachother again very soon. "How, cool!"

After about 2-3 weeks, and after getting falsely accused of drunk driving ( even though we had a sober driver *rollseyes*) I found myself on a bus heading back to SA. No shit...sometime during the ~3 weeks I was in Wisconsin, Jamie found out that Tiff broke the "relationship rule" ( which Jamie and I have and we don't break it ) ( "No pay, No play" ) ( Tiff cheated, if you didn't catch that ) and Jamie broke up with Tiff. It was the Dr. Suzy show and Tiff did some shit she wasn't supposed to and when the video came out is when Jamie found out and confronted Tiff about it. OH SHIT RIGHT?!

After about a week, and more talking with Tiff we decided to try to "date". So I drove 5 hrs up to Arlington, knocked, Jamie answered, not knowing who I am, just some "friend" of Tiff. "Hello!"

I was only supposed to visit for about 1-3 days, just to go on a date with Tiff, get to know her and stuff. Turned out to be 7 days. I smoke and so the only place in the apartment to smoke is in Jamie's room, where we found ourselves talking and talking and talking. When 2 or more people smoke in close proximity, they talk and get to know eachother. SO near the end of that week of "dating" Tiff, I realized that Tiff was...not a good person really. "EPIPHANY-O-TIFFANY"

So of course when Jamie and I had our chats, she found out that I really want to do porn, and so Jamie shot my first set Day 6, and Day 7 Jamie and I ......well Im sure you can use your imagination. :p "SEXUALS!"

We talked about anything and everything during our chats from her, me, Tiff, porn, camming, latex to thing we had in common like Top Gear, MST3K, and Monty Python. "TRUTH!"

We fell in love. "Finally"
After that night, the next morning I drove back to SA and 2 weeks went by.......... "TIK TOK TIK TOK"
During this time Tiff had flown out to LA for shoots, met Audrina, they hung together for like 3 days and at the end of the 2 weeks Jamie told me this and said that Tiff wanted Audrina to move in "possibly". SOOoooooo, right then, Jamie and I decided that I could move up. "HUZZAH!"

Moved up, and been here ever since. I love it. I love Jamie and its been 10 months! :D "HUZZAH AGAIN!"

FIN...for now ;)
Tune in next week for rest of our lives!!! :D

P.S. I really tried for the nutshell approach, but like I said we could easily write a book! LMAO

Lol...good story about how you guys met...so Tiffany did that scene with Ms. DeLeon and thought she would move in with her? Funny. Jane wants a rican guy with muscles...and tats.

[EvaCassini]

I don't keep track of Tiff at all....Jane?

[nysprod]

I don't keep track of Tiff at all....Jane?

Weren't you talking about Tiffany Starr? She did a scene with Jane Marie aka Audrina DeLeon.

[EvaCassini]

haha not Jane Marie....Audrina aka Addy Rose ( doubt you'll find pics of them together tho lol ) "Addy" did ( i think ) a scene or two ( solo, but them gave up on porn ) , but she used to live with Kelly Claire and when Tiff was in LA she met Audrina "Addy Rose" and after like 2-3 day of playing video games, Tiff posed the question of moving to Dallas 1000+ miles away....about 2-3 weeks later, guess who moved in lol

[SheWantsTheD]

Whatever happened to actually leaving the house, meeting real flesh and blood people, sharpening your social skills, etc? I imagine it would be hard to find a meaningful relationship online because the girls you are looking for have no interest in dudes who fish for chicks from the comfort of there gaming cave. We are much more impressed with people who are out there in the open, living a real life, mixing it up... someone who lives life proactively, someone with social skills is so much more alluring.

"But where am I gonna find tgirls?"

Welp, if your goal is actually starting up a real relationship then a persons junk should be the least of your concerns. Your priority should be the meaningful connection... everything else comes second. If the tgirl thing is still at the forefront of your thoughts then you aren't really looking for a relationship, you are just trying to pursue a convoluted, scenario based sexual fantasy. I see it all the time.
Your way is cool and all but we've been there done that and are still doing that aswell. The online way is like ordering take out to your house. Its quicker and hassle free. Its there for a reason and that is because its convenient and it works.

[EvaCassini]

wanna know something funny?

Before Jamie, I was single for about 3 years.

I tried about every one of those dating sites, and the only thing I noticed is that every time I tried any...all I got were guys fishing for ass.

Apparently, most guys on those sites, whenever they saw or I told them I was a tgirl they just wanted ass, and as far as GG's and TG's...barely made contact with them, and never met any.

I would log on everyday and you know what I would find?
My inbox overflowing the brim with guys asking for sex...not anyone for a "relationship".
Only person that came close was a GG which lived about 4 hrs away from me at the time and we talked on skype like 2 times and that was it...from our skype chat, she told me she was basically a crack-head, among other things, and so I stopped talking with her...very creepy.

YAY Internet Dating Sites!!! WOOHOO....

Notice how I found my love, by leaving the house and living, meeting new people in person.

[bluesoul]

Notice how I found my love, by leaving the house and living, meeting new people in person.


are there any websites you can suggest for recommendations on where to go once you leave the house? :geek:

[EvaCassini]

HAHAHA Google.com, Mydickhurts.com, Throbbinballs.org, and ModernDayTrannyExplorer.com


hope that helps... :) teeheehee

[SheWantsTheD]

wanna know something funny?

Before Jamie, I was single for about 3 years.

I tried about every one of those dating sites, and the only thing I noticed is that every time I tried any...all I got were guys fishing for ass.

Apparently, most guys on those sites, whenever they saw or I told them I was a tgirl they just wanted ass, and as far as GG's and TG's...barely made contact with them, and never met any.

I would log on everyday and you know what I would find?
My inbox overflowing the brim with guys asking for sex...not anyone for a "relationship".
Only person that came close was a GG which lived about 4 hrs away from me at the time and we talked on skype like 2 times and that was it...from our skype chat, she told me she was basically a crack-head, among other things, and so I stopped talking with her...very creepy.

YAY Internet Dating Sites!!! WOOHOO....

Notice how I found my love, by leaving the house and living, meeting new people in person.

Perhaps your profile gave off the wrong impression. In any case gg get the same sex pests aswell on dating sites. I guess its different for a man because we can decide to go on a dating site looking for sex or looking for a relationship and find what we want either way.
There are always horny sluts and always girls seeking commitment.
I still do believe that in the trans world more girls are sluts than the ones looking for commitment. And thats before even considering the sex workers...

Very few tgirls have ever offered to meet me in a public place and go on a few dates before getting to a bedroom. Almost all tgirls invite me to come straight to their house and have sex on the first meet.
And don't forget how much shemales are fetishised. No wonder online dating was bad for you. It does suck on your end I agree, so for you and other tgirls meeting people in person would be the best way but you are limited in venues you can do this at because it needs to be a safe environment with understanding and accepting people who will be attracted to you and not feel guilty about it.

[dderek123]

http://www.dailyhaha.com/_pics/dating-sites.jpg

A friend of mine met a girl on a dating site over in Thailand. He went to her apartment and she was nothing like her description or pictures and not in a good way. Once arriving he quickly excused himself to go have a cigarette on her balcony. He felt trapped for some reason and climbed down from the 2nd floor just to get away.

Yep, dating sites. You never know what you're gonna get.

[thestud]

http://www.dailyhaha.com/_pics/dating-sites.jpg

A friend of mine met a girl on a dating site over in Thailand. He went to her apartment and she was nothing like her description or pictures and not in a good way. Once arriving he quickly excused himself to go have a cigarette on her balcony. He felt trapped for some reason and climbed down from the 2nd floor just to get away.

Yep, dating sites. You never know what you're gonna get.

LOL imagine climbing out of second floor window just to get away she must have being a right minger

[Jamie French]

Questions answered.

http://www.cracked.com/blog/5-reasons-your-online-dating-profile-isnt-working/

[my my my!]

Jamie, loving your avatar pic. you and eva make a cute couple.