Got a new tgirlfriend!

[SheWantsTheD]

Okay, I like you guys so I come to you for help on this.
Before now it was all sex but suddenly I got feelings for this one tgirl.
So I just started seeing this new girl and it looks like we are going to be exclusive.
I've not had an official tgirlfriend before, only one nighters, fuckbuddies, friendships and escorts.
People at work know that I like women and ts but have only ever seen me with gg.
How do I go about introducing my new girl to them?

I also told some of my fuckbuddies and got various reactions. Some seemed jealous and said it will never work. Others gave their blessing. Some still want me to come and play with them on the side.
I want to be faithful though so how do I best deal with these other tgirls from various sites?
Should I delete those profiles? Should I cut off people I have slept with and just keep the ones I haven't as friends?
Or should I keep the profiles but just update them to say I'm in an exclusive relationship and not looking for anyone new?
What do you all think is the best approach for a new admirer and tgirl couple?

[Teydyn]

How do I go about introducing my new girl to them?
"Hi, this is Klaus, erm, Linda. She used to be a man"
or
"Hi, this is my new Girlfriend Linda"

Which one do YOU think you should pick?

[MacShreach]

"Hi, this is Klaus, erm, Linda. She used to be a man"
or
"Hi, this is my new Girlfriend Linda"

Which one do YOU think you should pick?
Seconded.

Just remember that it's for her, not you, to decide who gets told and when they get told. Some girls want it all in the open right up front and can even get shirty if you don't tell, others want to keep their history quiet. To an extent this depends on how passable they are.

Discuss, beforehand, what you are going to do if you decide to say nothing, she gets spooked and some person who needs better manners actually challenges her or you. I mean, she may not really want you to deck the bastard. Whatever you decide together, stick to it. The first public outing is the most stressful.

You really need to discuss it with her with no pressure either way.

BTW, since you have never had a serious relationship beforel, I would share that in my experience, tgirls can be very sensitive, actually more than ordinary girls, so be prepared for, ummmmmmm, emotional fireworks, from time to time. (With luck you'll be getting them in bed too, so it's a fair trade.)

[nysprod]

Okay, I like you guys so I come to you for help on this.

I want to be faithful though so how do I best deal with these other tgirls from various sites?





What sites are you referring to?

[Willie Escalade]

What sites are you referring to?

I'd assume sites like TGPersonals and such...

[Prospero]

Why don't you and the lady figure it out. She's a girl. None of your friends have any right to know what is in her pants ... or anything else about her she doesn't want revealed. Show her respect.

[dderek123]

[1] I want to be faithful though so how do I best deal with these other tgirls from various sites?
[2] Should I delete those profiles?
[3] Should I cut off people I have slept with and just keep the ones I haven't as friends?
[4] Or should I keep the profiles but just update them to say I'm in an exclusive relationship and not looking for anyone new?
[5] What do you all think is the best approach for a new admirer and tgirl couple?

1) If the relationship gets monogamous it's best to move on. My rule of thumb is to find out if your new partner is not comfortable knowing of your sex life prior establishing the relationship. If it makes them real uncomfortable and you want to stay with her then moving on would probably be a wise choice.

2) Yep. If she is not cool with all of that and found out about it she wouldn't be too pleased. Trust in the relationship would take a hit. Maybe 65 HP.

3) Don't keep them as friends if you decide to move on. Once your new SO finds out it could make her incredibly jealous.

4) I would update them explaining your new situation and then delete everything. My current partner found an old message on my facebook from years ago before we met from another ladyboy. She got really upset. But hey that's just me.

5) Honesty, transparency and building trust. I think this is best since she is TS she'll be mindful of guys that just want to use her for sex and will bullshit and lie to do so. In my experience, it takes a while to break down those barriers to be more intimate.

Good luck!

[nysprod]

I'd assume sites like TGPersonals and such...

In NY, TGPersonals had about 7 profiles, 3 of which were escorts, before you got into people who had joined 300 days ago and more.

"And such"?

[yosi]

Okay, I like you guys so I come to you for help on this.
Before now it was all sex but suddenly I got feelings for this one tgirl.
So I just started seeing this new girl and it looks like we are going to be exclusive.
I've not had an official tgirlfriend before, only one nighters, fuckbuddies, friendships and escorts.
People at work know that I like women and ts but have only ever seen me with gg.
How do I go about introducing my new girl to them?

I also told some of my fuckbuddies and got various reactions. Some seemed jealous and said it will never work. Others gave their blessing. Some still want me to come and play with them on the side.
I want to be faithful though so how do I best deal with these other tgirls from various sites?
Should I delete those profiles? Should I cut off people I have slept with and just keep the ones I haven't as friends?
Or should I keep the profiles but just update them to say I'm in an exclusive relationship and not looking for anyone new?
What do you all think is the best approach for a new admirer and tgirl couple?

Introduce her as your new girl .

what to do with your past profiles if your intent exclusive relations with her? do the same as you expect her to do about her past profiles.

[Prospero]

This guy is either attention seeking or hugely emotionally immature.
As i said before - sort it out between you.
Don't come on here asking for help.

[nysprod]

This guy is either attention seeking or hugely emotionally immature.
As i said before - sort it out between you.
Don't come on here asking for help.

Agree...troll-like idiocy.

[amberskyi]

Allot of these questions are super obvious no brainers.he did ask one that was worth mentioning

[dderek123]

Allot of these questions are super obvious no brainers.he did ask one that was worth mentioning

Which one was worth mentioning?

[Jericho]

1 Make videos of you smashing the granny out of her.
2 Post them on xhamster
3 Point all your friends/relatives to that page


It'll save having to answer all those awkward questions later! :shrug

[SheWantsTheD]

Ah some really great answers here thanks everyone. You are right some of these questions are a bit obvious, but when I first started talking to tgirls I was accidentally offending so many people it wasn't even funny!
Also, I've never got a girlfriend in my life from online, I always met the person in real life first.
Last thing is, nearly all the tgirls just wanted nsa which was frustrating and the ones that wanted more I either didn't feel the same or they lived too far away.
So this is the first time I've been in this position and I want to get it right first time.
I really like the suggestions about simply introducing her as a girlfriend and nothing more.
I will talk to her when I next see her about how she wants to be introduced to people and I'll tell her I'm getting rid of these other profiles. I had a few dating profiles here and there.
If it doesn't work out I can go back on them anyway I guess.
But I do want it to work out :banana:


This guy is either attention seeking or hugely emotionally immature.
As i said before - sort it out between you.
Don't come on here asking for help.
I must be emotionally immature. Not had many commitments my whole life. No relationship ever lasted more than 2 years with a girl. Most were done in 3 months!

[bluesoul]

But I do want it to work out :banana:

werd- good luck to you mr shewantsthed. just remember to follow your own advice of giving her the good dick so she sticks around forever :D

[MacShreach]

Don't listen to the cynics, give it your best. Good luck.

[SheWantsTheD]

werd- good luck to you mr shewantsthed. just remember to follow your own advice of giving her the good dick so she sticks around forever :D
Lol! Yeah she likes it, she is really tight right now since she doesn't just give it up to anybody and she doesn't play with toys. Getting there an inch at a time.

Seconded.

Just remember that it's for her, not you, to decide who gets told and when they get told. Some girls want it all in the open right up front and can even get shirty if you don't tell, others want to keep their history quiet. To an extent this depends on how passable they are.

Discuss, beforehand, what you are going to do if you decide to say nothing, she gets spooked and some person who needs better manners actually challenges her or you. I mean, she may not really want you to deck the bastard. Whatever you decide together, stick to it. The first public outing is the most stressful.

You really need to discuss it with her with no pressure either way.

BTW, since you have never had a serious relationship beforel, I would share that in my experience, tgirls can be very sensitive, actually more than ordinary girls, so be prepared for, ummmmmmm, emotional fireworks, from time to time. (With luck you'll be getting them in bed too, so it's a fair trade.)
I've talked to her in person now about this and she said she will tell them she is trans and is going to be 100% woman someday (well maybe not 100%, she is still not sure she will snip her junk yet).
We did some some fireworks aswell, I was in the living room with her and her best friend who is also a tgirl and they were showing off their singing skills to songs from musicals and powerful soul/rock music songs and we were all having a really good laugh. Then me and her friend were talking for a while and suddenly my new girl got in a really big strop with the both of us. Neither of us did anything wrong but she was getting paranoid in her head. After a while she calmed down again and she said its because she isn't used to having a boyfriend and sometimes she thinks maybe none of it is real and I am just bullshitting her.
Calmed her down in the end and her friend had a seperate chat with her and things are going well again lol.
Those fireworks can go off without warning, I wonder what other things might trigger her off.

[MacShreach]

Lol! Yeah she likes it, she is really tight right now since she doesn't just give it up to anybody and she doesn't play with toys. Getting there an inch at a time.

I've talked to her in person now about this and she said she will tell them she is trans and is going to be 100% woman someday (well maybe not 100%, she is still not sure she will snip her junk yet).
We did some some fireworks aswell, I was in the living room with her and her best friend who is also a tgirl and they were showing off their singing skills to songs from musicals and powerful soul/rock music songs and we were all having a really good laugh. Then me and her friend were talking for a while and suddenly my new girl got in a really big strop with the both of us. Neither of us did anything wrong but she was getting paranoid in her head. After a while she calmed down again and she said its because she isn't used to having a boyfriend and sometimes she thinks maybe none of it is real and I am just bullshitting her.
Calmed her down in the end and her friend had a seperate chat with her and things are going well again lol.
Those fireworks can go off without warning, I wonder what other things might trigger her off.

ANYTHING :D

You'll get used to it. 99% of the time she doesn't mean it, it's just either the hormones fucking with her head or the massive insecurities that most transwomen have to deal with.

[amberskyi]

Lol! Yeah she likes it, she is really tight right now since she doesn't just give it up to anybody and she doesn't play with toys. Getting there an inch at a time.

I've talked to her in person now about this and she said she will tell them she is trans and is going to be 100% woman someday (well maybe not 100%, she is still not sure she will snip her junk yet).
We did some some fireworks aswell, I was in the living room with her and her best friend who is also a tgirl and they were showing off their singing skills to songs from musicals and powerful soul/rock music songs and we were all having a really good laugh. Then me and her friend were talking for a while and suddenly my new girl got in a really big strop with the both of us. Neither of us did anything wrong but she was getting paranoid in her head. After a while she calmed down again and she said its because she isn't used to having a boyfriend and sometimes she thinks maybe none of it is real and I am just bullshitting her.
Calmed her down in the end and her friend had a seperate chat with her and things are going well again lol.
Those fireworks can go off without warning, I wonder what other things might trigger her off.


Wow, that was a bit unnecessary.i would love for my roommate and close friend to be cool with the guys i date but unfortunately she has strongly disliked them all :(.

[Rusty Eldora]

Neither of us did anything wrong but she was getting paranoid in her head. After a while she calmed down again and she said its because she isn't used to having a boyfriend and sometimes she thinks maybe none of it is real and I am just bullshitting her. Calmed her down in the end and her friend had a seperate chat with her and things are going well again lol. Those fireworks can go off without warning, I wonder what other things might trigger her off.

I also suspect insecurity, but she must like you as she is possessive. Most people like to possess, but far fewer like to be possessed. Few realize that by having a far looser 'leash', often there is more attachment. It takes a lot of courage to allow that freedom, but the rewards are great.

Show her each day by how you care for her. Yes you might be friends with her roommate, even possibly a threesome some day but both of you need to understand where each one's heart is.

[SheWantsTheD]

I also suspect insecurity, but she must like you as she is possessive. Most people like to possess, but far fewer like to be possessed. Few realize that by having a far looser 'leash', often there is more attachment. It takes a lot of courage to allow that freedom, but the rewards are great.

Show her each day by how you care for her. Yes you might be friends with her roommate, even possibly a threesome some day but both of you need to understand where each one's heart is.
Ah well I am glad that she cares then :)
As for the threesome bit, I've never done that, always turned it down. And I really don't think she would want that either. She acts like a teen having sex while mum/dad is at home. Anytime she hears her friend walking down the hall she grabs the covers and pulls them over us since she hasn't got a lock on her door (they are sharing a flat).
Also @ Mac I was speaking to her today and she told me that if she gets like that next time to just ignore her. Though I don't think I will be able to just ignore that, seems so heartless.

[MHarrigan82]

Congrats man I hope it works. Do you have a picture of her. I am currently dating a transwoman.

[SheWantsTheD]

Congrats man I hope it works. Do you have a picture of her. I am currently dating a transwoman.

Yes if you add me as a friend and click on my profile and go to albums you'll see pictures of her.
Do you have a picture of your wifey for me to view aswell?

[MHarrigan82]

I sent you a friend request and will show u my girl picture.

[MacShreach]

I sent you a friend request and will show u my girl picture.
I'll jump on that train if you boys are up for it, though I'll attach any pix to a pm. (Never sure about the security of the 'friends' area on any forum.) We are agreed any exchanged pix are never made public, here or elsewhere?

[amberskyi]

Very disturbing

[MacShreach]

Very disturbing
Jealous?

[fred41]

Very disturbing

...lol.

[amberskyi]

Jealous?

Not at all, try again boo.my ex boyfriend showed my pictures to his family and friends, not a bunch of random guys on a porn forum lol

[MacShreach]

Not at all, try again boo.my ex boyfriend showed my pictures to his family and friends, not a bunch of random guys on a porn forum lol
Oh this is tame dear, believe me. And anyway we wouldn't share anything we wouldn't show our mothers. If they were alive, that is.

[MacShreach]

Actually, if you really want disturbing male behaviour, check the 'Fellas, What You Got On Your Face And Head As Far As Hair?' thread. It's even got discussion on nostril hair.

[amberskyi]

Actually, if you really want disturbing male behaviour, check the 'Fellas, What You Got On Your Face And Head As Far As Hair?' thread. It's even got discussion on nostril hair.

Lol! Touche

[SheWantsTheD]

I sent you a friend request and will show u my girl picture.
Okay I just accepted you.

I'll jump on that train if you boys are up for it, though I'll attach any pix to a pm. (Never sure about the security of the 'friends' area on any forum.) We are agreed any exchanged pix are never made public, here or elsewhere?
Then we have reached an agreement!

[Ryz]

Is this whole thread worth reading? Or can a nigga get a summary

[Jericho]

Is this whole thread worth reading? Or can a nigga get a summary

Got a new girlfriend...Cool...It won't last...Wanna swap pix? :shrug

[SheWantsTheD]

Is this whole thread worth reading? Or can a nigga get a summary

1. I got a new tgirlfriend
2. All the guys with tgirlfriends are adding each other as friends and masturbating to each other's tgirlfriends.
3. ???
4. Profit!

[Ryz]

Got a new girlfriend...Cool...It won't last...Wanna swap pix? :shrug
I can always count on you bruh


1. I got a new tgirlfriend
2. All the guys with tgirlfriends are adding each other as friends and masturbating to each other's tgirlfriends.
3. ???
4. Profit!

Oh man, I feel so left out. Noone ever includes me.

[MacShreach]

Okay I just accepted you.

Then we have reached an agreement!Nice, check inbox

[MacShreach]

I can always count on you bruh



Oh man, I feel so left out. Noone ever includes me.

Aww feel sorry for you.

[rjshemalelover]

Most of these questions you are asking are things you should be able to answer on your own. The way you treat a t-girl should be no differnt than you would treat a biological female in a relationship. And how you go about introducing her to people is between you and her but if she actually feels that she is female she is NOT going to want people to know her personal business. I have been in a relationship with a transgender girl for over 2 years. The best advice I can give you is to treat her with respect, be up front with her about anything in your past. Girls on other sites ect. (which you will have to cut ties to if you want the relationship to work)


The only real differences you may see in the relationship from a biological female is frequent mood swings if she takes hormones. And if she truley does want a serious relationship make sure thats what you want too because most t-girls who do want a serious relationship have been lied to and used by guys before you because it is hard for t-girls to find a man who actally want a serious relationship. (Thats advise coming from my girlfriend not me)

[Jericho]

Oh man, I feel so left out. Noone ever includes me.

OH CANADA! :hide-1:

[SheWantsTheD]

Most of these questions you are asking are things you should be able to answer on your own. The way you treat a t-girl should be no differnt than you would treat a biological female in a relationship. And how you go about introducing her to people is between you and her but if she actually feels that she is female she is NOT going to want people to know her personal business. I have been in a relationship with a transgender girl for over 2 years. The best advice I can give you is to treat her with respect, be up front with her about anything in your past. Girls on other sites ect. (which you will have to cut ties to if you want the relationship to work)

I noticed she doesn't like to hear anything about previous partners or experiences. She says she doesn't get jealous but I think really she does. We went to a club and another tgirl dropped something on the floor. I helped the girl find whatever it was using the light from my phone and then she kissed me on the cheek. I told my girl what happened and she took offense saying that I mean to get her jealous, but I just wanted her to know to watch out for that one is all.
Then later at the hotel she was arguing with me about the girl who kissed me on the cheek. She claimed that some of the lipstick was also on my lips but my girl is the only person I kissed that night. She said I was probably too drunk to remember if I was kissed on the lips. I really didn't!
I was saying it must have been her own lipstick and she just thought it was different in the lighting but she is adamant that it wasn't.

She also argued with me about how I dealt with a guy that tried to make a move on her right in front of me as we were walking to the club. I'm there with her and her friend and this guy walking past grabs her arm and tries to chat her up. I simply shouldered the guy just to get him to back off but she made a big deal about it later saying that she thought I was going to get into a fight and get arrested. She said she was going to say that I'm her boyfriend but I didn't give her a chance. I apologised for that one since I've never been in such a situation before. I never went to a club with a genetic girl before on a night but if I was out in public with a genetic girl nobody ever tried to make a move on them in front of me. I was offended and if I wasn't such a calm person I would have done alot worse than shoulder him.

So yeah there have been some arguments, but the funniest thing is she was upset about one more thing. She asked me what it was she said to me in the first bar we were in when I was on my first drink but I couldn't remember and this one seemed to really upset her more than anything. Apparently she said to me that she loves me and I didn't acknowledge it. But then she has texted me two or three times now saying stuff like 'love you lots xx' so I just thought it was one of those mannerisms that people have, just a way of saying I miss you or something. But it turns out she is saying that she really does love me. I think its too soon but that is beside the point.
So I just ended up explaining to her that I am new to all of this and I'm sure i did handle alot of stuff in the wrong way that night but I really do care about her and I thought what I was doing at the time was the right thing. I mean, we are still getting to know each other and in time we'll both know how the other likes things to be handled right?
And so the rest of the night got all steamy and the morning aswell I was trying to wake her up so we could leave the hotel but she wasn't waking up no matter what I tried. So I got horny and started to kiss her and fondle her but she wasn't waking up still though she was getting excited in her black lace panties.

I never gave her oral before but since she was asleep and I was so aroused looking at her I thought I'd wake her up porno style and so I gave her O but I must be shit at it because she still didn't wake up!
It was only when I started to dry hump her that she finally woke and everything has been all good since then.

She says she really enjoyed the night out and that the arguments were small and silly. She keeps saying she feels like its all a dream and her life is perfect now that I am here and shes really happy for the dvds I brought her and all the little things I've been doing to show an interest in her transition and her life in general, trying to be supportive and make things easier and make her happy.

We have a long road but I think I'm in there with her, its just these damn fireworks, I need to learn how to avoid lighting them!




The only real differences you may see in the relationship from a biological female is frequent mood swings if she takes hormones. And if she truley does want a serious relationship make sure thats what you want too because most t-girls who do want a serious relationship have been lied to and used by guys before you because it is hard for t-girls to find a man who actally want a serious relationship. (Thats advise coming from my girlfriend not me)
Well I think the part about being lied to and it being hard to find someone good is universal. Its like a virus though, one person gets hurt and then in time they go off and end up hurting someone else. And so it goes.
I was very loyal and romantic in my youth, but these girls smashed my heart over and over. Now its a pig heart or something I don't know lol, but I'm trying to do right by this girl because she is different. And she deserves the best of me.

[nysprod]

I believe none of this and until there are a lot of photos, I won't.

[bluesoul]

I noticed she doesn't like to hear anything about previous partners or experiences. She says she doesn't get jealous but I think really she does. We went to a club and another tgirl dropped something on the floor. I helped the girl find whatever it was using the light from my phone and then she kissed me on the cheek. I told my girl what happened and she took offense saying that I mean to get her jealous, but I just wanted her to know to watch out for that one is all.

dude, you need to start reading the writing on the wall- that other tgirl obviously wanted the d. whenever i go to the club and help a chick pick anything off the floor with my phone i'm getting laid automatically afterwards. it's like etiquette at this point.

your second mistake was telling your tgirlfriend. she obviously knew what time it was (not literally but figuratively) and didn't appreciate it.

next time do what i do: just tell her you saw a bitch getting outta pocket and had to correct that shit asap

[MacShreach]

I noticed she doesn't like to hear anything about previous partners or experiences. She says she doesn't get jealous but I think really she does. We went to a club and another tgirl dropped something on the floor. I helped the girl find whatever it was using the light from my phone and then she kissed me on the cheek. I told my girl what happened and she took offense saying that I mean to get her jealous, but I just wanted her to know to watch out for that one is all.
Then later at the hotel she was arguing with me about the girl who kissed me on the cheek. She claimed that some of the lipstick was also on my lips but my girl is the only person I kissed that night. She said I was probably too drunk to remember if I was kissed on the lips. I really didn't!
I was saying it must have been her own lipstick and she just thought it was different in the lighting but she is adamant that it wasn't.

She also argued with me about how I dealt with a guy that tried to make a move on her right in front of me as we were walking to the club. I'm there with her and her friend and this guy walking past grabs her arm and tries to chat her up. I simply shouldered the guy just to get him to back off but she made a big deal about it later saying that she thought I was going to get into a fight and get arrested. She said she was going to say that I'm her boyfriend but I didn't give her a chance. I apologised for that one since I've never been in such a situation before. I never went to a club with a genetic girl before on a night but if I was out in public with a genetic girl nobody ever tried to make a move on them in front of me. I was offended and if I wasn't such a calm person I would have done alot worse than shoulder him.

So yeah there have been some arguments, but the funniest thing is she was upset about one more thing. She asked me what it was she said to me in the first bar we were in when I was on my first drink but I couldn't remember and this one seemed to really upset her more than anything. Apparently she said to me that she loves me and I didn't acknowledge it. But then she has texted me two or three times now saying stuff like 'love you lots xx' so I just thought it was one of those mannerisms that people have, just a way of saying I miss you or something. But it turns out she is saying that she really does love me. I think its too soon but that is beside the point.
So I just ended up explaining to her that I am new to all of this and I'm sure i did handle alot of stuff in the wrong way that night but I really do care about her and I thought what I was doing at the time was the right thing. I mean, we are still getting to know each other and in time we'll both know how the other likes things to be handled right?
And so the rest of the night got all steamy and the morning aswell I was trying to wake her up so we could leave the hotel but she wasn't waking up no matter what I tried. So I got horny and started to kiss her and fondle her but she wasn't waking up still though she was getting excited in her black lace panties.

I never gave her oral before but since she was asleep and I was so aroused looking at her I thought I'd wake her up porno style and so I gave her O but I must be shit at it because she still didn't wake up!
It was only when I started to dry hump her that she finally woke and everything has been all good since then.

She says she really enjoyed the night out and that the arguments were small and silly. She keeps saying she feels like its all a dream and her life is perfect now that I am here and shes really happy for the dvds I brought her and all the little things I've been doing to show an interest in her transition and her life in general, trying to be supportive and make things easier and make her happy.

We have a long road but I think I'm in there with her, its just these damn fireworks, I need to learn how to avoid lighting them!


Well I think the part about being lied to and it being hard to find someone good is universal. Its like a virus though, one person gets hurt and then in time they go off and end up hurting someone else. And so it goes.
I was very loyal and romantic in my youth, but these girls smashed my heart over and over. Now its a pig heart or something I don't know lol, but I'm trying to do right by this girl because she is different. And she deserves the best of me.
The hormones are definitely an issue but there's also a lot of self-questioning, I think. Transwomen pick over stuff that an ordinary girl would just blow off, you know? It can make them really sensitive. I mean I never met an ordinary girl yet who was worried about being challenged going to the bathroom...you mix these insecurities in with the 'mones and it can get volatile.

Oh btw you probably figured this out already, but she is almost certainly also an expert mind-reader...

[Tim&Erin]

Most of these questions you are asking are things you should be able to answer on your own. The way you treat a t-girl should be no differnt than you would treat a biological female in a relationship. And how you go about introducing her to people is between you and her but if she actually feels that she is female she is NOT going to want people to know her personal business. I have been in a relationship with a transgender girl for over 2 years. The best advice I can give you is to treat her with respect, be up front with her about anything in your past. Girls on other sites ect. (which you will have to cut ties to if you want the relationship to work)


The only real differences you may see in the relationship from a biological female is frequent mood swings if she takes hormones. And if she truley does want a serious relationship make sure thats what you want too because most t-girls who do want a serious relationship have been lied to and used by guys before you because it is hard for t-girls to find a man who actally want a serious relationship. (Thats advise coming from my girlfriend not me)
You hit the nail on the head in this reply. I am in a similar situation and my girlfriend has said the exact same thing. The advice is sound. I treat my girl no different than I would any girl and it works for us. Some of my friends know but we agreed on who to tell. My family does not not know and we have no intentions of changing that. I left those decisions in her hands as it was her life, not mine to decide whether or not to disclose.

[MacShreach]

You hit the nail on the head in this reply. I am in a similar situation and my girlfriend has said the exact same thing. The advice is sound. I treat my girl no different than I would any girl and it works for us. Some of my friends know but we agreed on who to tell. My family does not not know and we have no intentions of changing that. I left those decisions in her hands as it was her life, not mine to decide whether or not to disclose.

I agree:iagree:

[amberskyi]

I believe none of this and until there are a lot of photos, I won't.

It's really none of your business...how arbor you post photos of your girl..actually don't cause that would make you an asshole.
God did i just defend shewantsthed?!?

[amberskyi]

The hormones are definitely an issue but there's also a lot of self-questioning, I think. Transwomen pick over stuff that an ordinary girl would just blow off, you know? It can make them really sensitive. I mean I never met an ordinary girl yet who was worried about being challenged going to the bathroom...you mix these insecurities in with the 'mones and it can get volatile.

Oh btw you probably figured this out already, but she is almost certainly also an expert mind-reader...

Hormones really don't have as much to play as you guys think.after long term use you balance out on them, your body adjusts and that includes the brain.
I'm sure y'all know bat shit crazy genetic girls no matter what the month lol.i know i do

[MacShreach]

Hormones really don't have as much to play as you guys think.after long term use you balance out on them, your body adjusts and that includes the brain.
I'm sure y'all know bat shit crazy genetic girls no matter what the month lol.i know i do

Do I ever? Married one. Although the batshit craziest was 3 weeks angel 1 week insane axe murderer...no, didn't marry her, she would have had me schizo.

I'm sure you're right about the hormone situation balancing out. Some girls are more secure and confident than others, too, there are so many things that affect that. And some are just nice and level-headed....except occasionally...and then....:pissed: :)

BTW the bit I was agreeing with in my previous was that bit about 'treating his girl like any other girl.' I do.

[amberskyi]

Do I ever? Married one. Although the batshit craziest was 3 weeks angel 1 week insane axe murderer...no, didn't marry her, she would have had me schizo.

I'm sure you're right about the hormone situation balancing out. Some girls are more secure and confident than others, too, there are so many things that affect that. And some are just nice and level-headed....except occasionally...and then....:pissed: :)

BTW the bit I was agreeing with in my previous was that bit about 'treating his girl like any other girl.' I do.

I knew what you meant hun lol.
I'm prone to be over emotional but I've been that way my whole life and can't really blame the hormones.my best friend says I'm too empathetic and that's where my problem comes from

[MacShreach]

I knew what you meant hun lol.
I'm prone to be over emotional but I've been that way my whole life and can't really blame the hormones.my best friend says I'm too empathetic and that's where my problem comes from
Kinda thought that about you. It's a nice way to be, just tc you know?

[amberskyi]

Kinda thought that about you. It's a nice way to be, just tc you know?

What's tc?

[MHarrigan82]

Pics of my girl Cynthia 581608

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[MacShreach]

What's tc?
take care :)

[MdR Dave]

I'm sure y'all know bat shit crazy genetic girls no matter what the month lol.i know i do

I specialize in them. Love those chicks.

[nysprod]

It's really none of your business...how arbor you post photos of your girl..actually don't cause that would make you an asshole.
God did i just defend shewantsthed?!?

SWTD made it everyone's business by posting a thread and going into some pretty deep details...if he's not on the dl, I don't see that posting pics would be a problem.

[danthepoetman]

Hormones really don't have as much to play as you guys think.after long term use you balance out on them, your body adjusts and that includes the brain.
I'm sure y'all know bat shit crazy genetic girls no matter what the month lol.i know i do

I specialize in them. Love those chicks.
I’m not sure how to define that, but all girls are… let’s say, a little bit hysterical –please, ladies, don’t be offended. I always attributed that to hormones. I know: not only have I always been with one, I have raised one also. They call it PMS, but the “Pre”, here, is a huge euphemism. They should simply call it indeed “Menstrual Syndrome”, because it is… Hey! that comes with femininity, that’s all. You want what we all love so much about it, beauty, softness, charm, felinity, what have you, you have to take the rest as well: a bit of… well, I’ll say “hysteria” again (drama, suspicion, uncertainty, huge emotions, deluge of words, much extremism at times, etc.) Hell! I’ve even come to love all of it together!


I'm prone to be over emotional but I've been that way my whole life and can't really blame the hormones.my best friend says I'm too empathetic and that's where my problem comes from
Then again, you're right there too, Amber: there is also a matter of temperment to begin with.

[amberskyi]

SWTD made it everyone's business by posting a thread and going into some pretty deep details...if he's not on the dl, I don't see that posting pics would be a problem.

Because i doubt his girl is in the industry and it wouldn't be appropriate to post them.plus just because someone shares a part of their life doesn't mean they're not entitled to some privacy or owe you full disclosure.
Of course you could always set the example and post your own pics :)

[amberskyi]

Pics of my girl

She's pretty homie

[nysprod]

Because i doubt his girl is in the industry and it wouldn't be appropriate to post them.plus just because someone shares a part of their life doesn't mean they're not entitled to some privacy or owe you full disclosure.
Of course you could always set the example and post your own pics :)

I'm not sure what not being in the industry has to do with posting pics on his thread...as far as posting my pics goes, I'm just another faceless guy you might deal with in a typical day...

[SheWantsTheD]

Pics of my girl Cynthia
Your girl is really nice man!


SWTD made it everyone's business by posting a thread and going into some pretty deep details...if he's not on the dl, I don't see that posting pics would be a problem.
Yeah this is a problem of mine, I am too kind and too sharing with strangers online. I wish I could be a mean and nasty guy just once!
And I have pics, its for friends only. If you are going to show pics of your girl I'm willing to show you pics of mine aswell. Ask Mac and MH if I won't.


I believe none of this and until there are a lot of photos, I won't.
You don't need to believe any of it. I'm only asking for a hand with these situations. I'm not used to so many arguments and declarations of love so soon in a relationship.


It's really none of your business...how arbor you post photos of your girl..actually don't cause that would make you an asshole.
God did i just defend shewantsthed?!?
Lol I must say even I am surprised. I thought you were a proper bitch but suddenly you are being nice.

[amberskyi]

im not a bitch,im just opinionated.men often confuse the two in woman lol.
the few people who know me on this forum in real life can vouch for me.im actually quite the sweetheart to decent folk....

[danthepoetman]

im not a bitch,im just opinionated.men often confuse the two in woman lol.
the few people who know me on this forum in real life can vouch for me.im actually quite the sweetheart to decent folk....
You're a sweetheart here too, Amber. You're charming and funny. Besides, you always make a point. Although you ARE indeed opinionated, one never has the feeling that you intervene gratuitously. This place would really not be the same without you... ;)

[MacShreach]

Your girl is really nice man!


Yeah this is a problem of mine, I am too kind and too sharing with strangers online. I wish I could be a mean and nasty guy just once!
And I have pics, its for friends only. If you are going to show pics of your girl I'm willing to show you pics of mine aswell. Ask Mac and MH if I won't.


You don't need to believe any of it. I'm only asking for a hand with these situations. I'm not used to so many arguments and declarations of love so soon in a relationship.


Lol I must say even I am surprised. I thought you were a proper bitch but suddenly you are being nice.

Duly vouchsafed, man of his word.