To the guys: Does your friends and or family knows..?

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

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1. Have you ever told anyone of your close friends/associates and or family that you like and or are into transexuals?

If so, how did they take it or reacted? If not, why have you not told them?

2. Do you care what they think? Yes/No? And why or why not?

~Kisses.

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[Dkg]

One of my friends know but ummm we don't talk about it....he pretty much found out by acciedent. on my comp...twice

LOL so yea, he knows but like I said, we don't talk about it. Why? b/c he wouldn't understand.

[stillies77]

i just told my girlfriend...oops lol

[CaliBoy951]

In my case, I told my wife when we very first started dating, that I had dated a ts, and that we still very good friends. the three of us to party together, but once we got married that changed. But to this day we watch porn that has gg's or ts's.
I had only one friend that knew I was dating a ts, and he didnt really care.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

In my case, I told my wife when we very first started dating, that I had dated a ts, and that we still very good friends. the three of us to party together, but once we got married that changed.

Caliboy951 would you know any reason as to why that changed after getting married? Did your wife tell you as to why she isnt into it as much back when you guys dated and partied with a ts?

3 very positive and good responses..any others care to share? :wink:

~Kisses.

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[hondarobot]

I'm not really "into" anything. I fell pretty hard for a girl once in my life, and that's neither here nor there at this point. I would think being good friends would be the best way to maintain things (She could kick my ass at any moment, so I'm not going to push things any further, hehe)

Beyond that, I would never be interested in any other girl. She's the one I like, she can do anything she want's and I want her to be happy, and I luv her as friend and always will.

Hehe, and I'm not kidding. She's my friend forever, and she can do whatever she wants. I'll always be here for her.

[scorpion]

I told some of my friends when I was 16 that I was gay Then I let the family know some year later. Im 37 now. I dont tell evryone around mee that anymore if the question not comes up. Transexualls yes evrone know that Im attracted of them even transvestites. I have been maried whit a tranny ..this year realy but after onlyafter 9 weeks wee walk diffrent ways. Shit happens.
I think many of the people i work whit have been real surprised when I have told them or they heard about it. I know many dont like gay or transpersons but I dont care. I have my life and I gonna live it as I want it. not as anyone else think I gonna live. The only reason I can see there I should lie about my sexuallity should bee if I risk to bee attaced four it. Or? :roll:
Hmm I should lie in that situation but thats the only one.
Scorpion

[flabbybody]

there are people in my family who feel dating someone from a different religion is commiting an atrocity, so I don't think they'd understand my preference for ts over gg. they're basically retarded, so why bother.

the two really cloose, "best" friends I grew up with know.

a few guys in my office know cause they were drooling over a pic on the net one day and I had to inform them it was a boy. They wanted to know how I knew. I told them it was the best sex I ever had.

[Quinn]

To answer the first part of your question, my wife, my closest friends, and my foremost business partner all know. It hasn’t caused any problems. I think they feel that, given the extreme/unusual nature of many of my interests, the whole transexual thing is actually very mild. These people represent my inner circle of friends and can be trusted to protect my interests.

To say that I am open with my wife, my closest friends, and my foremost business partner is not to say that I am free to be open with everyone. My clients, most of whom are older conservative types, would not take kindly to the revelation of such information. Similarly, some of my other affiliations are with people whom I need to take me seriously. Associations like this would destroy my credibility and be taken as a sign of weakness, which is something that I cannot afford.

Do I care what people think? In general, no, I don’t. In fact, very few things that cause people to feel trepidation (public speaking, violence, etc.) ever even register on my radar. However, when it comes to specific situations – like my financial dealings – then, yes, I care very much. I’ll always protect my financial interests by any and all means necessary.

-Quinn

[Looking 4 Now]

1. Have you ever told anyone of your close friends/associates and or family that you like and or are into transexuals?

Are you crazy

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

1. Have you ever told anyone of your close friends/associates and or family that you like and or are into transexuals?

Are you crazy

Umm..No. Are you indenial or do you hate yourself for liking trannies? :lol: LOL

~Kisses.

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[Ecstatic]

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1. Have you ever told anyone of your close friends/associates and or family that you like and or are into transexuals?

If so, how did they take it or reacted? If not, why have you not told them?

2. Do you care what they think? Yes/No? And why or why not?

~Kisses.

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I think these questions have been asked before, but it's a great topic so I don't mind responding again. My wife knows that I'm into transsexual women and has met my closest TS friend. She's very supportive of GLBT rights (though she's a) totally heterosexual herself and b) not into sex). She knows as much about my encounters with tgirls as she cares to ask (she doesn't want all the details, just enough to know what's going on and to know that I play safe).

Several good friends and a couple of other family members (like my sister-in-law) know that I have TS friends and that I webmaster a TS porn site. They don't know that I sometimes have sex with TS escorts: in some cases, they might freak, but in most it's just that it's something my wife and I would rather keep to ourselves.

I would only care if it would reflect badly on my wife. She is very supportive of my interest in Tgirls, but I would never want her to feel any pressure from family or friends over it, so I keep it separate from any of them who might misread it.

[thmack]

never

[scipio]

1. Have you ever told anyone of your close friends/associates and or family that you like and or are into transexuals?

Are you crazy

Umm..No. Are you indenial or do you hate yourself for liking trannies? :lol: LOL

~Kisses.

HTG

LOL. Well said.

[johnb]

thmack, all questions would be answered in one if your avatar was my girlfriend

[CYCLE_23]

I just told my best friend(he is the first person I have told) at first he was shocked, he thought I was fucking around with him. Now it doesnt matter to him.

[scorpion]

Looking 4 Now why do you think this is a crazy question?
Maybee you just are curios and this is maybee waht you want.. But if it is?
Im proud of my sexuallity.
Scorpion

[DJ_Asia]

i lived in the closet for a few years,and got tired of lying and making excuses why my significant other never came around.most of my close friends knew,and a few even went to TS clubs with me.

I decided to gather my father,his wife,my brother,my uncle,his wife,my grandparents together one afternoon.

I brought with me pictures of girls that I had been dating and showed them all,after everybody had taken a good look and made comments like" wow she is beautiful" I simply said,"Yeah well,they were all born boys."
They had a million questions,and to this day my dad considers me gay,but all remain close and non judgemental to my face.Oddly,prior to that meeting my dads wife and I HATED each other...like HATED...and ever since then has been sweet as could be to me.Go figure.

Recently a TS friend of mine had her b'f do the exact same approach with his family,and that too went over well w/ his family.Their reaction was,as long as she is good to you and you are happy then its cool with us.

my dad has a tough time with it,but we a re still friends.Occasionally he will ask questions and as soon as I answer him,he immediately changes the topic.....whatever.

I wouldnt reccomend telling anybody unless you plan on getting into a LTR w/ a TS,but also wouldnt recommend getting into a LTR until you are man enough to tell those close to you.

DJ Asia

[tsloverdave]

I havent told my family or my friends.... not becuase i'm ashamed or aything just because my sexuality is MY business so i dont think everyone needs to know.... on the other hand was always out and about in the scene (for want of a better term) when i was in the UK and met loads of people, T*girls and other admirers..

SO the upshot of it is i kinda live 2 lives i have my old mates from wayback and we go to bars, restaurants etc and then i have my friends from the T*scene and we go to bars and restaurants.... and that i perfect for me if things change and i decide to tell everyone aboyt my love for T*girls then i will post it on the board..

Great topic... as much as i love the other threads, who is this, who has the biggest cock etc.. i do enjoy answering these kinda questions.

Hope everyoen is having a great day and look forward to reading the other answers

dave
xoxo

[Looking 4 Now]

[quote=Looking 4 Now]1. Have you ever told anyone of your close friends/associates and or family that you like and or are into transexuals?

Are you crazy

Umm..No. Are you indenial or do you hate yourself for liking trannies? :lol: LOL



~Kisses.

HTG[/quote

No and I am not in denial and never have been. It's no ones biz but mine and I prefer to keep it that way. I don't think most people would understand. Once you tell someone there is no going back, so what's the sense.

I know a couple of tgirls who live "normal lives" and I am lucky enough to call them friends. They gave me a great insight of what it's like to be a tranny. They go to str8 bars and seldom tell guys they are a ts. They have great jobs, yet very few of their neighbors or co-workers know they are trannies. Are they in denial?

[trapmasta]

i told one of my frieends now he's hooked to

[Eric27Sweden]

I told my friends , all of them (10) that i grew up with, they laughed and ask if i was bi, my reponse , call me whatever u want, I like beautiful women.

Do I care?
No....if they don't respect my choice of companion then they wouldn't be considered friends any more.
But i know them all to well and we are just as good friends now as before, and i still date gg's today but i sure don't mind if i find a beautiful ts.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

1. Have you ever told anyone of your close friends/associates and or family that you like and or are into transexuals?

Are you crazy

Umm..No. Are you indenial or do you hate yourself for liking trannies? :lol: LOL

~Kisses.

HTG

No and I am not in denial and never have been. It's no ones biz but mine and I prefer to keep it that way. I don't think most people would understand. Once you tell someone there is no going back, so what's the sense.

Then thats a better answer than asking me if Im crazy. Its a legitimate question every guy who likes trannies at some point in their lives have asked themselves. A simple no would have sufficed. :evil:


I know a couple of tgirls who live "normal lives" and I am lucky enough to call them friends. They gave me a great insight of what it's like to be a tranny.

And do they call and consider you their "friend" or are they just being nice and polite with you? No really..LOL. So knowing a couple of tgirls mades you an expert or a professor in transexuality? Better yet a good spokes model/poster boy for all the guys who likes trannies? If so then why answer the question with a question? It sounded like you couldnt handle the reality and admit to anyone except people of this board that you like transexuals. Therefore that makes you a hypocrite and closetted. Atleast some of the guys who responded to this thread had told a close friend or two and are not ashamed of it.


I know a couple of tgirls who live "normal lives" and I am lucky enough to call them friends. They gave me a great insight of what it's like to be a tranny. They go to str8 bars and seldom tell guys they are a ts. They have great jobs, yet very few of their neighbors or co-workers know they are trannies. Are they in denial?

Honey, we all try living our "lives" normal regardless of the type of jobs a trannie has..so what your saying doesnt make much sense. As if indicating tgirls with normal jobs are better than all of us? LOL. Please, these non working tgirls can rival any working tgirl with their own army of lovers (refer to hollywoodbuckstrap's earlier response on another thread). :lol: If they dont make any monetary gain from it all the more they are easily and readily accessible for every tranny hunter such as yourself. So you might as well also sleep with the rest of the guys theyve slept with. :evil: Your overall response to a simple question and attitude reaks of bitterness and denial. Instead of taking it good naturedly (which most of the poster on this tread did). :roll:

~Kisses.

HTG

[TrueBeauty TS]

I wouldnt reccomend telling anybody unless you plan on getting into a LTR w/ a TS,but also wouldnt recommend getting into a LTR until you are man enough to tell those close to you.
DJ Asia


Those are some awesome words, DJ. Well put.

I always say that it's no one's business and I wouldn't want my BF to go around telling everyone we met that I was a TS. HOWEVER, if he was to be asked about it, he better be man enough to admit it and not be ashamed of it.

It's OK to say that it's nobody's business, but don't use that as a cop out to live in the closet and keep your TS girlfriend a dirty little secret.

[laoda8]

I think they can do without me telling them I jack off to shemale porn.

[gaiseric]

All my close friends have known about my preference for Transexuals for well over a year and it doesn't bother any of them a bit. I suppose they think I'm still the same guy so who cares.
The fun came a couple of weeks ago when I visited my parents. I was showing them some pictures of my lady and some shots I took at the Miss TS pageant last year. You could hear chins hit the floor when they found out that my lady is a TS and they weren't impressed when I said that I hoped my relationship would become permanent. As they are both fanatical Jehovah's Witnesses I wasn't too surprised. My father really hadn't a clue what a transexual was so I had to explain it and my step-mother said that if Jehovah didn't like that sort of thing then neither did she. Hardly an awe inspiring arguement but there you go.

I haven't heard from them since so I don't know whether it has been bothering them but I figure that's their problem and not mine. They can either accept my choice of potential partner or make some other decision. I have no intention of worrying about it. My friends give me all the support I need.

[starshine_tara]

Well done gaiseric! :D

Tara xxx

[BeardedOne]

This topic has come 'round before (As well as in other forms), but not so much to get the Baeten Horse award of the evening. :) Besides, what dollar-bill denomination would apply? A four? Damn, I hope not, as a Dominion of Canada four is way-too-expensive these days. :)

As for me: Friends mostly yes, business associates generally yes, co-workers at my 'day' job mostly no (Though the smarter ones can suss it out by how I refer to people I know and react to certain subject matters in discussion), family mostly no (More from lack of contact than any other reason).

If I ever decided to de-hermitize and get into another relationship and if that were with a T-gurl then the numbers in all catagories would ramp up according to social interaction and I'd most likely clue in the few members of the family that still know I'm breathing.

If they don't like it, tough titty! :P

[Looking 4 Now]

1. Have you ever told anyone of your close friends/associates and or family that you like and or are into transexuals?

Are you crazy

Umm..No. Are you indenial or do you hate yourself for liking trannies? :lol: LOL

~Kisses.

HTG

No and I am not in denial and never have been. It's no ones biz but mine and I prefer to keep it that way. I don't think most people would understand. Once you tell someone there is no going back, so what's the sense.

Then thats a better answer than asking me if Im crazy. Its a legitimate question every guy who likes trannies at some point in their lives have asked themselves. A simple no would have sufficed. :evil:


I know a couple of tgirls who live "normal lives" and I am lucky enough to call them friends. They gave me a great insight of what it's like to be a tranny.

And do they call and consider you their "friend" or are they just being nice and polite with you? No really..LOL. So knowing a couple of tgirls mades you an expert or a professor in transexuality? Better yet a good spokes model/poster boy for all the guys who likes trannies? If so then why answer the question with a question? It sounded like you couldnt handle the reality and admit to anyone except people of this board that you like transexuals. Therefore that makes you a hypocrite and closetted. Atleast some of the guys who responded to this thread had told a close friend or two and are not ashamed of it.


I know a couple of tgirls who live "normal lives" and I am lucky enough to call them friends. They gave me a great insight of what it's like to be a tranny. They go to str8 bars and seldom tell guys they are a ts. They have great jobs, yet very few of their neighbors or co-workers know they are trannies. Are they in denial?

Honey, we all try living our "lives" normal regardless of the type of jobs a trannie has..so what your saying doesnt make much sense. As if indicating tgirls with normal jobs are better than all of us? LOL. Please, these non working tgirls can rival any working tgirl with their own army of lovers (refer to hollywoodbuckstrap's earlier response on another thread). :lol: If they dont make any monetary gain from it all the more they are easily and readily accessible for every tranny hunter such as yourself. So you might as well also sleep with the rest of the guys theyve slept with. :evil: Your overall response to a simple question and attitude reaks of bitterness and denial. Instead of taking it good naturedly (which most of the poster on this tread did). :roll:

~Kisses.

HTG

Well HTG....I just think you are reading too much into this

If I offended you or anyone else am sorry

[hwbs]

my family knows...i kinda went the rout that there was a girl i was really in love with, so i wanted to tell my close family...i didnt tell my friends ,but recently one found my myspace page and started calling me pickles, lol....but i suspected he was lurking here and found the link from here ( i had it up for awhile)....so i can imagine who knows now...it doesnt bother me though....i cant live for other people..

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

my family knows...i kinda went the rout that there was a girl i was really in love with, so i wanted to tell my close family...i didnt tell my friends ,but recently one found my myspace page and started calling me pickles, lol....but i suspected he was lurking here and found the link from here ( i had it up for awhile)....so i can imagine who knows now...it doesnt bother me though....i cant live for other people..

Way to go Pickles. Hehe :wink:

~Kisses.

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[dan_drade]

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1. Have you ever told anyone of your close friends/associates and or family that you like and or are into transexuals?

If so, how did they take it or reacted? If not, why have you not told them?

2. Do you care what they think? Yes/No? And why or why not?

~Kisses.

HTG

My sister knows, because she had seen some of my magazines that I had when I was younger and living with my parents. My parents also knew, but I never really got a chance to talk to them about it before they passed away.

When my sister met my last girlfriend I think she knew that shse was a transexual woman even though I think she is totally passasble, she does have kind of a deep voice and rather large hands and feet for a GG. I think my sis picked up on that, but she never said anything to me about it.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

rather large hands and feet for a GG.

LOL. I am having a flashback of a Seinfeld episode! LOL :lol: :wink:

~Kisses.

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[dan_drade]

rather large hands and feet for a GG.

LOL. I am having a flashback of a Seinfeld episode! LOL :lol: :wink:

~Kisses.

HTG

Ya, but she is post-op :)

[callahac]

My wife knows. I am totally open with her. Although sometimes she freaks out there are otehr times where she will actually watch a shemale dvd with me.

[PlayfulJohn]

My wife knows as does my family. Thank God I told them because a blackmail attempt was made against me and I was able to laugh it off.
You really have to be careful with the TS hobby. There are some very unscrupulous Tgurls out there. Not all, so be cautious.

[callahac]

Balckmail, huh? That's nuts! Crazy world we live in. I came out to my wife because I thought it was important that she knew of my fantasies and that I like cock. As I said for the most part she is cool about it. It sure has made life easier, now I don't have to worry about hiding all my shemale porn :D

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

I came out to my wife because I thought it was important that she knew of my fantasies and that I like cock. As I said for the most part she is cool about it. It sure has made life easier, now I don't have to worry about hiding all my shemale porn :D

Kudos to you callahac. That takes alot of courage for a guy to do. :wink:

~Kisses.

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[ballzNnutz]

I think they can do without me telling them I jack off to shemale porn.

thats pretty funny. my thoughts exactly my friend.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

If I ever decided to de-hermitize and get into another relationship and if that were with a T-gurl then the numbers in all catagories would ramp up according to social interaction and I'd most likely clue in the few members of the family that still know I'm breathing.

If they don't like it, tough titty! :P

True. LOL :lol: As hollywoodbuckstrap said "You cant live for other people. :wink:

~Kisses.

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[thecollossus30]

The first relationship I had with a TS she asked that I tell no one for the simple reason that she was a woman and thats how she should be known which made perfect sense to me.
The second gurl actually called my family after we broke up and told them, but it didnt really bother me cause I am my own person and can do as I please.

[werwt22]

I have a friend and a bro who found out by accident. I was checking my email and I closed the window (without signing out) and my friend got on next to check his email but I was still logged on so he went through my email and discovered a few files. I walked in on him and laid him out. I was embarassed and pissed at the same time. My brother was in teh milt our of state and I left the comp running b/c I had to pick up my sister. I knew he was coming home and I hapened to pass him on the road while picking her up and he was on his way home. I had some files dling and when he got home he followed the addess on my comp and found the porn I was looking at and said I should remove it from the computer. Come to find out when he left I did a little searching on his comp and found he's had some porn of a similar type on his comp also. Ever since it's been a dont ask dont tell type deal and I feel uneasy when any subject close to the matter comes up with him around.

[callahac]

Since we are on this topic I am curious about how people react once they know that you are into shemales? Do they think you are a freak, a perv, or just a kinky guy, are your significant others nervous because they feel that they don't have the proper equipment to satisfy you?

[BeardedOne]

Since we are on this topic I am curious about how people react once they know that you are into shemales? Do they think you are a freak, a perv, or just a kinky guy, are your significant others nervous because they feel that they don't have the proper equipment to satisfy you?

I think it's safe to say 'all of the above' for me. They have accepted that I am a freaky, kinky perv. :D

Since I'm pretty open about what goes on in my pointy li'l haid, I've never gotten much of a reaction at all. Usually little more than a 'Spock look' (Where one eyebrow rises above the other and a bit of a knowing smirk appears on the lips), as if to say "Oh, of course". :lol: I guess that such things are expected of me.

As of our last business meeting, my biz partners are not only unmoved by the revelation but rather pleased with how it's been affecting their bottom line of late. :D The one I deal with most likes the fact that I am in a better mood when thinking/talking about all things T. :)

My 'lovers' have always known about my interests, whatever they may be, and I've never known one to openly admit any kind of jealousy or feeling of inadequacy or comparison. Though, on reflection, most fit the women-think-men-can-read-their-minds mold and never actually revealed such thoughts/feelings.

The closest I've experienced to that is how my 'ex' (Though never married, the label satisfies) has always treated me. Though she's never actually spoken the words (I can read her mind, right? :roll: ), it's always been pretty clear that she thinks I'm gay. A friend has a similar mindset based on the concept that "If it involves two dicks, it's gay". These are the kind of people that wouldn't condemn you as an alcoholic if you drink one beer, but if you suck one cock... :shrug

[werwt22]

Since we are on this topic I am curious about how people react once they know that you are into shemales? Do they think you are a freak, a perv, or just a kinky guy, are your significant others nervous because they feel that they don't have the proper equipment to satisfy you?

Like I said for me, it's kind of don't ask don't tell. It's just an awckward situation and makes both sides uncomfortable so it just seems to not be spoken on and we go about our regular lives acting like it never happened. And I'm kind of happy at it too...the fact that they arent trying to spread my business and just let it be.

[LoadedRevolver66]

My wife knows as does my family. Thank God I told them because a blackmail attempt was made against me and I was able to laugh it off.
You really have to be careful with the TS hobby. There are some very unscrupulous Tgurls out there. Not all, so be cautious.

Whoa . . . did NOT see that one coming. Lucky for me, not only does almost everyone I know know about my thing for T-girls, they've all known for quite a while. The parents stumbled across my pics when I was younger and my closer friends know for a fact, one even critiques my T-girl porn for how passable the girls are. As for everyone else, I don't care if they find out or not. The people that would have a problem with it already look down on most of my behavior :twisted:

[Willie Escalade]

1. Have you ever told anyone of your close friends/associates and or family that you like and or are into transexuals?

If so, how did they take it or reacted? If not, why have you not told them?
All in all, my family is fairly liberal...except when it comes to things that "have to do with homosexuality" (notice the quotes). Because of this, I haven't told them...yet. Little by little I'm coming out though.


2. Do you care what they think? Yes/No? And why or why not?

~Kisses.

HTG
Of course, but they have to realize that this is my life and that attitudes are changing a bit. Of course I'm careful with what I do, but eventually I'll have to handle consequences of my decisions.

[ptyseminole]

Answers:

1) Nope. Are you fucking crazy?
2) Of course.


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1. Have you ever told anyone of your close friends/associates and or family that you like and or are into transexuals?

If so, how did they take it or reacted? If not, why have you not told them?

2. Do you care what they think? Yes/No? And why or why not?

~Kisses.

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[popperluv]

I choose to keep it private and I have no desire to share it with everyone.

[SHUTUPNTRAIN]

1. Have you ever told anyone of your close friends/associates and or family that you like and or are into transexuals?

No,....Actually,I guess I am new to all of this,I just am starting to really.....I dunno.



2. Do you care what they think? Yes/No? And why or why not?


I guess I may be afraid of how my family would look at me.....my brothers for sure would have a ball teasing me or hassling me.all in fun though.

[BiGuy4TS]

I have told a few friends, but I don't tell them if a perticular girl I'm seeing is or isn't. It's not their business.

[djbj_2_2_69]

i kept it a secret and my fiance found my porn stash. it really freaked her out, and she ended up leaving me. basically the way i see it, a person i loved very much found out and now she's gone. so i have NO desire to tell others at all.

[callahac]

The cool thing about my wife knowing is that sometimes she adds shemale fantasies to our love making. For example she might watch some shemale porn with me, or while we are having sex she might spread my ass and whisper in my ear "picture a nice hard she cock fucking you" or she might shove her life like dildo in my mouth while we are doing it.

The down side as I mentioned before is sometimes it makes here feel insecure. When she is in that frame of mind she might start asking if the only way I can become aroused is if I fantasize about shemales or if I wish she had a dick. Once we deal through these episodes then things go back to normal.

[Coucoupietre]

1. Have you ever told anyone of your close friends/associates and or family that you like and or are into transexuals?

Once i asked one of my best friend's idea about trannies showing some pictures. Another time i offered my buddy to go and take trannies for the night


If so, how did they take it or reacted? If not, why have you not told them?

First one told me to fuck off, second one said "we are not so horny".


2. Do you care what they think? Yes/No? And why or why not?

Yes i care. Although to be happy in life we need to do what we want to, we are all living in community, so we have to find a way to please ourselves, also care about people living around us. This is what i believe.

[dgtlmstry]

The down side as I mentioned before is sometimes it makes here feel insecure. When she is in that frame of mind she might start asking if the only way I can become aroused is if I fantasize about shemales or if I wish she had a dick. Once we deal through these episodes then things go back to normal.

Im in the same boat. My wife knows but that's about it. No one else knows because I care about my family, and wouldn't want to alienate them. (Given my situation, it makes no sense to push the issue anyway.) She has her moods where it is totally cool with it, and her times when she gets insecure about it. I can't say I blame her...i just re-assure her when she gets like that. For me it started as a fantasy, and even after I actually lived those fantasies out, it still is much like a fantasy. I don't have any illusions of meeting a TS, falling in love, and leaving my wife.

[Coucoupietre]

I would like to have a woman having a hard dick. But in life you can't get always what you want.

But who knows??

:)

[wombat33]

NOT TOO SURE IF THESE QUESTIONS WERE ASKED BEFORE. IF IT IS, MODS PLEASE DELETE THIS. ~THNX. 8)

1. Have you ever told anyone of your close friends/associates and or family that you like and or are into transexuals?

If so, how did they take it or reacted? If not, why have you not told them?

2. Do you care what they think? Yes/No? And why or why not?

~Kisses.

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I have told a few of my female friends about it, but never told any of my male friends. I even have a good friend who is gay and have not even told him about how much I adore and am attracted to T-girls.

LOVE T-girls!!!!!!

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Yes i care. Although to be happy in life we need to do what we want to, we are all living in community, so we have to find a way to please ourselves, also care about people living around us. This is what i believe.

Well said Coucoupietre. :P

~Kisses.

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[Coroner]

I don´t mind to talk about it with my family or friends and "friends". Somehow there´s no reason to do it cause I have no TS-girlfriend and no sex with shemales. Vienna is not a city where you can find them on every corner and there´re no bars, too. I have never seen a transsexual in this city although there´re soem escorts that can be viewed in some papers.

I´ll tell ´em when I´ve dated a shemale. Not untill that and I doubt they will understand. They are not conservative but they just wouldn´t UNDERSTAND. Maybe I should tell my friends to find out who are my real friends and who not. Let´s see.

... sometimes I think my sister has already found out about it through my computer but she doesn´t talk. She might be waiting for my statement.

cheers

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Vienna is not a city where you can find them on every corner and there´re no bars, too.
cheers

Sorry to hear about that Coroner. I know Vienna, Austria is one beautiful city. Its a shame that there arent much Tgirls out there. Maybe you should pack up for a long vacation and come to the US where plenty Tgirls abounds and comes in all color, sizes and shapes. :wink:

~Kisses.

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[south ov da border]

I've told 2 ppl, they were indifferent. My family forget it, those Jesus loving ppl. I don't know what they'd do. My girl wouldn't take it well either, even though I feel her prying sometimes.

I'd be glad to get it all over with just so I don't have to be so skitso around them...

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

I've told 2 ppl, they were indifferent.

As it should be. I'd say if that what makes someone happy then be happy for them! ;)


My family forget it, those Jesus loving ppl. I don't know what they'd do.

LOL. :lol:


My girl wouldn't take it well either, even though I feel her prying sometimes.

Well most women wont take it well either south ov da border. :lol:


I'd be glad to get it all over with just so I don't have to be so skitso around them...

Thats true. :wink: :lol:

~Kisses.

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[qeuqheeg222]

you know this area was easy and hard for me..i had no problem having my friends know that i was seein a transexual,my co workers all met the g"girlfriend" too but the family is the hard part..i let my brother just have it by bringing her by one night and said this is my new girlfriend..kinda of like a deal with it attitude..you know when people have questioned my choice i say what century are we in the 17th,18th,19,no the 21st..wake the fuck up...

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Thats highly admirable qeuqheeg222! :P

~Kisses.

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[Dole]

1. Have you ever told anyone of your close friends/associates and or family that you like and or are into transexuals?

Are you crazy

I was thinking somehting similar.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

1. Have you ever told anyone of your close friends/associates and or family that you like and or are into transexuals?

Are you crazy

I was thinking somehting similar.

LOL :lol: IF only you could spell S-O-M-E-T-H-I-N-G! :twisted: LOL

~Kisses.

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[ballzNnutz]

some of you are very careless when it comes to your "stash". I am a little more computer savy than most of my friends and family so i can thoroughly hide anything I need to hide. i also make it a point to only browse for tgirl related porn on my personal pc. i religiously log out so no one has access to my files. there is an account for anyone else who wants to use my pc which is rare but you never know who is snooping when you arent around. i dont own any dvds or such so finding hard evidence outside of the pc is a non issue.

[Coroner]

Vienna is not a city where you can find them on every corner and there´re no bars, too.
cheers

Sorry to hear about that Coroner. I know Vienna, Austria is one beautiful city. Its a shame that there arent much Tgirls out there. Maybe you should pack up for a long vacation and come to the US where plenty Tgirls abounds and comes in all color, sizes and shapes. :wink:

~Kisses.

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ah, sorry, haven´t seen your post..... well, you´re right, i´ll get my chance to come over to the states but i´m studying now (i am 22 years old :lol: ) and it´s too much to visit america just for fun (although it´s more than fun). but one day i´ll realize my dream to jump over to nyc or l.a. ...... thanks for the post.

cheers

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Youre welcome Coroner. As they say, we only live once..so why not live life to the fullest? Better to have tried, love and lost than never to have tired at all, right? ;)

Besides, every guy has their first time! :P

~Kisses.

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[Bethesnappiest]

I've loved transgendered girls for a long time, but am just now coming to grips with it and being who i am -- getting divorced, found a companion who respects my preferences, and so forth. but I am telling friends and family selectively -- I feel like its a bit of an education they need to understand, and i can't do it in a quick way -- I think little by little. in any event, it pains me that this is an issue. I don't pretend to understand the human mind, but i know that even as the man i am i identify with these women. And they are always women. And i respect so much that they are who they are, when i haven't had the guts till now to show half as much about myself. Complicated. Sorry, my first post here. Cheers.

[PumpDaddy]

I told some of my friends when I was 16 that I was gay Then I let the family know some year later. Im 37 now. I dont tell evryone around mee that anymore if the question not comes up. Transexualls yes evrone know that Im attracted of them even transvestites. I have been maried whit a tranny ..this year realy but after onlyafter 9 weeks wee walk diffrent ways. Shit happens.
I think many of the people i work whit have been real surprised when I have told them or they heard about it. I know many dont like gay or transpersons but I dont care. I have my life and I gonna live it as I want it. not as anyone else think I gonna live. The only reason I can see there I should lie about my sexuallity should bee if I risk to bee attaced four it. Or? :roll:
Hmm I should lie in that situation but thats the only one.
Scorpion

Are you Jimmy "Superfly" Snuka? You have his eloquent way with words!

[PumpDaddy]

I think they can do without me telling them I jack off to shemale porn.

Honesty is always the best policy! Position yourself at the head of the Thanksgiving table this year and while you're carving the bird, with a 12 inch knife in your hand would be the best time to casually mention that you jerk off to she-male porn, if you're anxious to bare your soul while garnering acceptance for your carnal interests!

[gege12]

no nobody knows

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

I think they can do without me telling them I jack off to shemale porn.

Honesty is always the best policy! Position yourself at the head of the Thanksgiving table this year and while you're carving the bird, with a 12 inch knife in your hand would be the best time to casually mention that you jerk off to she-male porn, if you're anxious to bare your soul while garnering acceptance for your carnal interests!

Haha :lol:

Very funny Pumpdaddy. LOL What better time to scare relatives than with a 12 inch knife should they have any objections to what youve just confessed you can run amuck on them. :lol:

~Kisses.

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[callahac]

[quote=laoda8]I think they can do without me telling them I jack off to shemale porn.

I agree why do I need to tell everyone what my sexual desires are? Should people go around annoucing to their family that they are into S&M, foot fetishes, bondage, etc, I don't think so. I only told my wife because it is important that she knows, but with everyone else it is none of their business.

[tsluva]

.

i think very few suspect it ...and wouldn't be suprised if i came
out with the truth, but don't take it all that serious since i'm obvious
dating and around so many GG women ( i date more GGs than TGs )
they probably thinking i'm just more weirdo than gay.

.

[Dino Velvet]

No one knows that I am interested in transsexuals. Hell, I even put my animals in the other room when I am watching tranny porn. My Akita is very smart and cunning and could easily tip off one of my buddies non-verbally that I watch tranny porn and I don't want him to blackmail me for Porterhouse Steaks. For me, dishonesty is the best policy. It's more fun to creep around and pray not to get caught anyway. When anybody, especially women, come over and ask, "Do you mind if I just check my E-Mail?", I answer them politely, "FUCK YES I MIND!!! GET THE HELL AWAY FROM MY GODDAMN COMPUTER!!!"

Here is a thread that I started confessing that I have not knowingly even met a transsexual. I want to though.
http://www.hungangels.com/board/viewtopic.php?t=12726

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

I've loved transgendered girls for a long time, but am just now coming to grips with it and being who i am -- getting divorced, found a companion who respects my preferences, and so forth. but I am telling friends and family selectively -- I feel like its a bit of an education they need to understand, and i can't do it in a quick way -- I think little by little.

Kudos to you Bethesnappiest. :P

~Kisses.

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[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

*Bumpalooza LOL :lol: :wink:

~Kisses.

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[yodajazz]

NOT TOO SURE IF THESE QUESTIONS WERE ASKED BEFORE. IF IT IS, MODS PLEASE DELETE THIS. ~THNX. 8)

1. Have you ever told anyone of your close friends/associates and or family that you like and or are into transexuals?

If so, how did they take it or reacted? If not, why have you not told them?

2. Do you care what they think? Yes/No? And why or why not?

~Kisses.

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Three of my five closest friends know. I feel that I can talk to my best friend, who is straight but there are things that he can't understand. I'm tryling to educate him, but we mostly talk about other things.

I have one friend who is gay but only likes masculine men. There is something in him that does not completely relate, also. He said "why can't you just date a hot guy?"

In my family I have a number of nieces. Years ago I use to worry about what they would have thought, had they known. Their all grown up now.
Now I believe that had they known, they may have grew up to be more open minded adults.

That is one reason why I am on this board is to tell people, not to worry so much about what others think, go for your own happiness.

[Kriss]

I suppose I would only bother to bring it up with family in a LTR scenario but if it came up otherwise, so be it. What is important is how I experience of my life, not how my friends experience my life.

[callahac]

My wife has known for about ten years. I used to hide it from her, then I started showing her some of my pics on my computer, and then we started watching my DVD's together and incorporating shemale fantasies into our love making.

I'm at the point now that I really need to come out to her and let her know my true sexual orientation. The reality is I am not into pussy. When I look at her or any other girl I always feel that there is something missing between their legs. To that end I have joined an online support group for bisexual and gay men that want to come out to their wives.

I just want to lay it all out for her and then let her decide if she can stay with a man that loves her, but is not turned on by her. My wife is beautiful, and would be a catch for any guy. I hope she stays with me, because there is more to life then just sex, but she needs to make that decision with full disclosure from me.

[trannylover_york]

1. Since I married a pre-op girl last year. I am damn sure all my friends and family know of my preferences. I let most of my friends know gradually over the past several years and family members over the past couple.

2. I've had no bad reactions from friends or family. One or two friends/family members confess the don't quite understand but there has been no negative reactions.

[scorpion]

I havent told my new neigbours. a older couple "amasing people" that havent been a reason four this so far. But I guess they gonna find out tomorrow when my T- girl friend comes here four stay some days.
She has been here one time earlier but then they didnt meet eachother.
But this time I think they gonna do it..beacause they have been real familiar whit mee since she was here the last time. And nadia is feminim but not so feminim so you cant see that she is a he.
I guess I have to wait and see how they face it.
Real intressting.

[PhilC]

My girlfriend knows and is fine about it. She has fantasies/sexual interests as well, it is the same thing. She enjoys the occasional lesbian experience and knows that I enjoy the same with a TS. We either play together or the other knows exactly where and who the other is with. We enjoy a loving relationship and have been together 12 months.

[djbj_2_2_69]

some of you are very careless when it comes to your "stash". I am a little more computer savy than most of my friends and family so i can thoroughly hide anything I need to hide. i also make it a point to only browse for tgirl related porn on my personal pc. i religiously log out so no one has access to my files. there is an account for anyone else who wants to use my pc which is rare but you never know who is snooping when you arent around. i dont own any dvds or such so finding hard evidence outside of the pc is a non issue.

Yes that was my issue. I had a box full of DVD's and I got careless with them. Never going to make that mistake again *knocks on wood*.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

What is important is how I experience of my life, not how my friends experience my life. I realised that worrying about people finding out about my tastes was stopping me getting what I really wanted and I was missing out on life.

Co-sign. I likewise dont care what my parents, relatives and friends thought of me for being a transexual. I believe that as long as Im happy with myself and true to myself its all that really matters. They might be shocked initially (My Dad only totally accepted me back in 1995) and gave me a harder time than normal but in the end its my life and I'll live it the way I wanted it to be without regrets nor slight hesitations. :wink:

~Kisses.

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[clipperfan]

no one knows about it.

I joke around with friends but they dont realize im actually serious.

my sister once found trannysurprise.com on the favorites tab but told her it must have been a mistake lol.

than she found some pictures in my folder but didnt make much of it.

[LG]

I've not really told anyone yet. A handful of friends and relatives might be understanding or at least accepting but most would be pretty shocked.

I'm single right now, but I don't know how I would tell a girlfriend or wife. But honesty, I think is the best policy- I would have to let her know.

Sometimes I dream I could just fly over to NYC, meet a beautiful tgirl and live happily ever after with her.

[hentai_ninja]

Well,I think my ex-girlfriend (were good friend btw) knows that I have Bi-Curious tendacies. Im pretty she knows something is up since I dream about her with a dick. Other than that and anohter TS I briefuly talked too,nobody. If anybody from my family knew,theyd disown me. Im Asian so ya know how they are.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Well,I think my ex-girlfriend (were good friend btw) knows that I have Bi-Curious tendacies. Im pretty she knows something is up since I dream about her with a dick. Other than that and anohter TS I briefuly talked too,nobody. If anybody from my family knew,theyd disown me. Im Asian so ya know how they are.

Nice abs hentai_ninja! 8)

~Kisses.

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[sucka4chix]

Nobody knows and they won't hear it from me.Although we have our own lives to live we don't live in a vacuum.We DO have a responsibility to others.Everyone is not the same, and everyone cannot be expected to react the same.If telling someone your secret destroys someone else, it's just selfishness that compels you to tell. I see many are willing to throw away anything and any relationship in order to do what feels good, but I am not.

[hwbs]

ill give U the classic quote I heard my mother tell one of her friends...some people don't know how to keep it down, lol... "im not gonna get any grandchildren with him sleeping with those girls"...I thought it was pretty funny cause I don't take myself so serious...don't really appreciate getting my laundry aired out either...but anyways...don't get it twisted though...I was involved with a ts girl that I wanted to be a permanent part of my life... im not about to go telling people if I just like to beat off to ts porn..that is silly...its not like I know what porn my best friend or my dad or boss likes , so why would I tell them mine....its all different when there is another human being involved..

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Nobody knows and they won't hear it from me.Although we have our own lives to live we don't live in a vacuum.We DO have a responsibility to others.Everyone is not the same, and everyone cannot be expected to react the same.If telling someone your secret destroys someone else, it's just selfishness that compels you to tell. I see many are willing to throw away anything and any relationship in order to do what feels good, but I am not.

I dont think I asked these question so that people could come out in the open and tell all their friends and family about their passion/attraction with transexual women and be disowned, bet up, ridiculed/made fun of etc. Just asked to see how many on here have enough balls and feels comfortable enough to admit not only to themselves but to their closest friends and or family and be honest and truthful about it sucka4chix.

LOL :lol: :wink:

And ofcourse having said those, it boils down to every person's comfort level. To tell or not is everybody's perogative. :P

~Kisses.

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[suckseed]

ill give U the classic quote I heard my mother tell one of her friends...some people don't know how to keep it down, lol... "im not gonna get any grandchildren with him sleeping with those girls"...I thought it was pretty funny cause I don't take myself so serious...don't really appreciate getting my laundry aired out either...but anyways...don't get it twisted though...I was involved with a ts girl that I wanted to be a permanent part of my life... im not about to go telling people if I just like to beat off to ts porn..that is silly...its not like I know what porn my best friend or my dad or boss likes , so why would I tell them mine....its all different when there is another human being involved..
I like this answer. After my short lived date with a ts, I've pretty much resigned myself to the fact that ts girls as pretty as the ones in porn are not what one runs into in real life, at least out here in the northwest. And pretty girls in their 20's probably want an equally hot guy in their age group. To me it's simple math - the subset of cool attractive ts women is a tiny fraction of the available equally attractive gg's. And while I love the extra equipment, I never feel sorry for myself having access to a regular woman. So...I don't say anything to people around me either. It's just been a fun thing to experience while I'm single. At least if I ever do meet a nice ts, I'll be ready (hopefully)...though my reaction to my last date seriously pissed off one of my few ts forum friends. She was disappointed that I reacted to my date's non passable appearance the way I did.

[sucka4chix]

Nobody knows and they won't hear it from me.Although we have our own lives to live we don't live in a vacuum.We DO have a responsibility to others.Everyone is not the same, and everyone cannot be expected to react the same.If telling someone your secret destroys someone else, it's just selfishness that compels you to tell. I see many are willing to throw away anything and any relationship in order to do what feels good, but I am not.

I dont think I asked these question so that people could come out in the open and tell all their friends and family about their passion/attraction with transexual women and be disowned, bet up, ridiculed/made fun of etc. Just asked to see how many on here have enough balls and feels comfortable enough to admit not only to themselves but to their closest friends and or family and be honest and truthful about it sucka4chix.

LOL :lol: :wink:

And ofcourse having said those, it boils down to every person's comfort level. To tell or not is everybody's perogative. :P

~Kisses.

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Yeah, I get that! I just feel like some people believe everything needs to be told and you're less of a person if you can't tell people your business.People don't need to know everything,just ask the government.
BTW-
I love the way you always come up with interesting threads, then actually stay involved (sometimes after months),and some of your responses show glimses of a very sensual person.You have a way of exciting me with just words (wtf---was I just flirting?)

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Yeah, I get that! I just feel like some people believe everything needs to be told and you're less of a person if you can't tell people your business.People don't need to know everything,just ask the government.

I agree totally. I just thought it be a fun thread to do and see how many men out here are "confident" or not! It doesnt really make the other any less as a person. ;)



BTW-
I love the way you always come up with interesting threads, then actually stay involved (sometimes after months),and some of your responses show glimses of a very sensual person.You have a way of exciting me with just words (wtf---was I just flirting?)

Thankyou. No problem at all. I think flirting is perfectly healthy..Im single and you're single too right? :lol:

I get that alot. I guess, Im a pretty "see-thru" type of person. Im a very warm and sensual being. I cant hide what I am. It's alot better being true to one's self than assuming a "mockup" of which you are not. :P

Most my friends said that too and they're teasing me about running a 1-800 phone sex line or an online column. LOL So dont worry about it sweety. :wink:

~Kisses.

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[TrueBeauty TS]

My family knows I am a TS.



:)

[Kabuki]

Nobody knows and they won't hear it from me.Although we have our own lives to live we don't live in a vacuum.We DO have a responsibility to others.Everyone is not the same, and everyone cannot be expected to react the same.If telling someone your secret destroys someone else, it's just selfishness that compels you to tell. I see many are willing to throw away anything and any relationship in order to do what feels good, but I am not.

I dont think I asked these question so that people could come out in the open and tell all their friends and family about their passion/attraction with transexual women and be disowned, bet up, ridiculed/made fun of etc. Just asked to see how many on here have enough balls and feels comfortable enough to admit not only to themselves but to their closest friends and or family and be honest and truthful about it sucka4chix.

LOL :lol: :wink:

And ofcourse having said those, it boils down to every person's comfort level. To tell or not is everybody's perogative. :P

~Kisses.

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Honestly, my friends and family don't know about my interests. I use to have a GG friend who knew though. That relationship was pretty cool. She would send me TG porn all the time. She was bi herself, so it didn't bother her.

I doubt I would talk about my love for TGs, unless I was involved with a TG seriously. My Christian Mother already thinks I'm going to hell. Since I don't attend church. If I was in love with a TG, I would like to think that I wouldn't care what people think. I don't mention my GG relationships much though. Until I think the relationship will last.

I can tell right now which friends could deal with it. I actually had one friend work on my PC, and I had forgotten to erase my internet history. The HA forum was all over the place. He didn't say anything though. I don't think he could handle my interests, but maybe I'm wrong. You never truly know how people will react.

[Kabuki]

My family knows I am a TS.



:)

I would hope so :wink: You're being silly over there :peanutbutter

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

I doubt I would talk about my love for TGs, unless I was involved with a TG seriously.

If I was in love with a TG, I would like to think that I wouldn't care what people think. I don't mention my GG relationships much though. Until I think the relationship will last.

Same here Kabuki. I really dont/wont tell any of my friends and or family wether the guy I'm seeing is my bf. I just dont see any reason to unless ofcourse it's definite and a serious one. :P

~Kisses.

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[sucka4chix]

Isn't one of the T/S cliches that they don't want to be your "dirty little secret"?

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Isn't one of the T/S cliches that they don't want to be your "dirty little secret"?

Yeah that is one..of the very many. LOL I suppose what it means is that if you cant go out with your hunny out in public and or introduce/integrate her into your life..i.e meeting your friends and family but you love being with her indoors then youre basically leading a double life and is certainly ashamed of her. And thats keeping her your dirty little secret in your closet or very many. LOL :wink:

~Kisses.

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[sucka4chix]

so is it wrong to not want to show off your girl cause you don't think she'll "pass" or to think your mother will just use her intuition and sense your girl is different? I mean isn't the goal to blend in? So it's bad for a guy to want his T-girl to blend in?

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

so is it wrong to not want to show off your girl cause you don't think she'll "pass" or to think your mother will just use her intuition and sense your girl is different? I mean isn't the goal to blend in? So it's bad for a guy to want his T-girl to blend in?

Being able to pass is really the most important goal of most if not all transexuals..To "blend-in" and not cause chaos, fuss, tension etc. when out in public. But being ashamed of your girl is another story..I think that's what hurts a tg more. She might not say it to your face but..her "hurt" feelings there even if she denies it. Its not her fault if she isnt as passable as others. Your total acceptance holds more weight and ofcourse will endear you more to her. The point is, you need to give her a chance. Sometimes you need to take the risk and see what happens.

:wink:

~Kisses.

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[peggygee]

so is it wrong to not want to show off your girl cause you don't think she'll "pass" or to think your mother will just use her intuition and sense your girl is different? I mean isn't the goal to blend in? So it's bad for a guy to want his T-girl to blend in?

Being able to pass is really the most important goal of most if not all transexuals..To "blend-in" and not cause chaos, fuss, tension etc. when out in public. But being ashamed of your girl is another story..I think that's what hurts a tg more. She might not say it to your face but..her "hurt" feelings there even if she denies it. Its not her fault if she isnt as passable as others. Your total acceptance holds more weight and ofcourse will endear you more to her. The point is, you need to give her a chance. Sometimes you need to take the risk and see what happens.

:wink:

~Kisses.

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As I followed this thread that actually was my question.

If your girl passes, should you tell others about her status, or
does the issue only arise if there are concerns about her passing.

I think many times guys over react about whether their girl is passing,
that they may think the world knows something that it doesn't.

But no, that dirty little secret thing don't work. :smh

[Dengoza]

QUESTION: Have you ever told anyone of your close friends/associates and or family that you like and or are into transexuals?

ANSWER: It came up intensley once with my best friend, he saw a tg and started making fun and I defended her and it started this whole discussion between me and him, in the end I know he knows I love them but we didnt really talk about it directly.

QUESTION: If so, how did they take it or reacted? If not, why have you not told them?

ANSWER: His reaction was part super surprised and part denial. I would tell if I met a girl I was really serious about for sure and I know my family and true friends would back me up. I have some tg friends I go out with and I am not ashamed at all. I like to be on the down low about it but if confronted I would never duck n run. Anyways most people wont question your motives if your sure of yourself.

QUESTION: Do you care what they think? Yes/No? And why or why not?

ANSWER: Yes and No. Maybe I shouldnt, but I care what people think to a certain extent. It all depends on the situation so sometimes yes and sometimes no. There are situations where I dont voice my opinion or politics because maybe I dont want to jeaprodize my job. Honestly facing it has made me more active in supporting and caring about gay rights in general. So I like to believe I have become more aware in my process. But I know I still neeed to grow more.

[cathare]

Me my familly don't know my preferences but my best friend knows it and he understand it and support my choice..

[SHEMALE-LOVER2]

Nobody Knows.

Some years ago my dad told me about Transsexuals. He said:" Be careful they are looking like woman but they have a ..."
At this time I was not interesting in Transsexuals.
But a few years later I loved it.
I will always remeber my dad words. LOL

Nobody Knows. I think my brother knows but he said nothing.

[Aurora]

Nobody Knows.

Some years ago my dad told me about Transsexuals. He said:" Be careful they are looking like woman but they have a ..."
At this time I was not interesting in Transsexuals.
But a few years later I loved it.
I will always remeber my dad words. LOL

Nobody Knows. I think my brother knows but he said nothing.

Too funny.

[Twinkie_Rameriez]

I haven't came directly out and told anyone close to me, for one I hate labeling oneself in any form. but I know If I told my family they would automatically think of me as gay even though I like GG's too. plus I hate discussing intimacy or anything dealing with relationships with my parents it's severely uncomfortable for me.

Once my best friend said he visited ChickswithDicks.com, I was surprised at this and I asked him if he was serious b/c I thought it would make us even better friends if we were both into Tgirls and I could discuss it openly with someone else. Immediately he responded with "It was an accident" but I'm really not sure what to tihnk of it. Has this scenario happened to anyone else?

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Nobody Knows.

Some years ago my dad told me about Transsexuals. He said:" Be careful they are looking like woman but they have a ..."
At this time I was not interesting in Transsexuals.
But a few years later I loved it.
I will always remeber my dad words. LOL

Nobody Knows. I think my brother knows but he said nothing.

Ironic huh SHEMALE-LOVER2. LOL :lol: Your dad probably wouldnt have guessed! :lol: :wink:

~Kisses.

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[Dengoza]

My parents are very open, I dont think they will have a problem when I bring the right girl home to meet the parents! I have one friend, my best friend that I havent talked about it with really, but I know he knows.

[TJT]

Most of my old friends know,some of the new ones do. My current wife does,but she met me via a drag queen? My thing for TS/TV's was part of the package from the word go and she's never had a problem w/ it. She does get a little snippy when a new girlfriend is too pretty, though?

[Somedude21]

1. Have you ever told anyone of your close friends/associates and or family that you like and or are into transexuals?

Despite the people that I work with online, no.


If so, how did they take it or reacted? If not, why have you not told them?

They were generally accepting, from what I could tell. Though some referred to it as a "fetish", no one has given me any crap about it yet.


2. Do you care what they think? Yes/No? And why or why not?

In real life, yes--to a point. While just everyone in my family think, with the exception of my father would be accepting of me, it's my friends who I worry the most about. Not like they would drop me as a friend, but for the longest time I built up an image of being completely straight around them. I don't know what would happen if that image changed, so...yeah, I guess that it's just that I'm afraid of the unknown here. >_>

[TrueBeauty TS]

Nobody Knows.

Some years ago my dad told me about Transsexuals. He said:" Be careful they are looking like woman but they have a ..."
At this time I was not interesting in Transsexuals.
But a few years later I loved it.
I will always remeber my dad words. LOL



LOL And how did your father know about this..... ????? :lol:


Anyway, if you get caught by your dad, you can always blame him for telling you about them.





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[qeuqheeg222]

everyone i know respects my decisions..like i said before if you are truthfull and decent,most will try to accomodate.

[SHEMALE-LOVER2]

Nobody Knows.

Some years ago my dad told me about Transsexuals. He said:" Be careful they are looking like woman but they have a ..."
At this time I was not interesting in Transsexuals.
But a few years later I loved it.
I will always remeber my dad words. LOL

Nobody Knows. I think my brother knows but he said nothing.

Ironic huh SHEMALE-LOVER2. LOL :lol: Your dad probably wouldnt have guessed! :lol: :wink:

~Kisses.

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Hi Hara Juku

Yes I know it sounds ironic and funny. My Dad thought he did the right thing. But if parents forbid or warn you of something you get a real allure.

LoveU

[SHEMALE-LOVER2]

Nobody Knows.

Some years ago my dad told me about Transsexuals. He said:" Be careful they are looking like woman but they have a ..."
At this time I was not interesting in Transsexuals.
But a few years later I loved it.
I will always remeber my dad words. LOL



LOL And how did your father know about this..... ????? :lol:


Anyway, if you get caught by your dad, you can always blame him for telling you about them.





.

Hi True Beauty

Good Question how did my father know about this?
No Internet, No PC, Maybe pornmagazines
I should had asked him.

Yes I can blame him for telling me about this. LOL


LoveU

[Legend]

None of my family members know but i wouldn't really care if they did,its hard to really even care what people think when they are too busy for you even though i care a great deal for my family i wouldn't care.Freinds LOL are illrelevant to me so by default i don't care if i did have a freind a wouldn't care. I live my life for me and only me because i love only myself.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

None of my family members know but i wouldn't really care if they did,its hard to really even care what people think when they are too busy for you even though i care a great deal for my family i wouldn't care.Freinds LOL are illrelevant to me so by default i don't care if a did have a freind a wouldn't care. I live my life for me and only me because i love only myself.

Well said Legend! Thats a great outlook you have (Im the same). :wink:

~Kisses.

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[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Hi Hara Juku

Yes I know it sounds ironic and funny. My Dad thought he did the right thing. But if parents forbid or warn you of something you get a real allure.

LoveU

I know what you mean. Haha..dont drink, dont smoke, dont do this, dont do that..eventually you do it anyways. LOL ;) Its like the temptation for Thee forbidden fruit.

~Kisses.

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[ottorocket]

I told everyone long ago and nothing changed in my life except alot of my friends are jealous of the hot chicks i've dated, while their wives just get fatter and frumpier haha

[Coroner]

Nobody Knows.

Some years ago my dad told me about Transsexuals. He said:" Be careful they are looking like woman but they have a ..."
At this time I was not interesting in Transsexuals.
But a few years later I loved it.
I will always remeber my dad words. LOL

Nobody Knows. I think my brother knows but he said nothing.

now this some funny shit :lol:

[Legend]

None of my family members know but i wouldn't really care if they did,its hard to really even care what people think when they are too busy for you even though i care a great deal for my family i wouldn't care.Freinds LOL are illrelevant to me so by default i don't care if a did have a freind a wouldn't care. I live my life for me and only me because i love only myself.

Well said Legend! Thats a great outlook you have (Im the same). :wink:

~Kisses.

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Thanks

[naughtyboy]

It was the first time I saw the topic and I read almost the entire thread. Personally my best friend who is gay is the only person who knows. I had a conversation many years ago with my parents about some sexual issues and was purposely ambigious which only made an awkward situation. In retrospect I regret having that conversation as I wasn't ready for it at the time and didn't handle it well. I also date women so I've never broached the subject with my parents again. If I were to tell them, I think my mother would be a bit disappointed as she'd like for me to have children, but it wouldn't mean she didn't love me and I'd always be close with my parents.

One of my other friends I told about some issues about sexual preference about five years ago. I think he suspects my liking of trannies. I don't think he'd care with regard to our friendship, but he has a big mouth and it would get out. I'm not in a place where I"m comfortable with that.

My biggest regret in this is my inability to discuss this with women I've dated. It's a problem on a few levels. Most importantly sexually. I've evolved almost exclusively into a bottom and struggle to get hard enough to have intercourse. Not that I've been naked hundreds of times with women but over the past 5-7years I've been in bed with about 10 women and the only one that made me cum wasn't from fucking.

This in turn made me less reluctant to have sex with women and I was never comfortable enough to tell them about my sexual preference. There are two girls that I probably hurt one in particular and that I deeply regret as she deserved better than that.

[naughtyboy]

I applaud you for creating this thread, and enjoy both your picture and your posts. I am somewhat bothered that you seem to have some sort of agenda on this topic and look down upon those that choose not to broadcast it to the world.

I have always admired the courage that T-Girls have to become the person they desire to be in spite of the hostility that is endured from main-stream society. I especially applaud someone like Allanah who seems like a very special person and is clearly comfortable in her own skin (at least until the next surgery :wink: .

You obviously made a difficult transition, but it seems that you have taken a very tough stand against those that are in the closet. We are all part of the same community and should be friends not haters.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

NOT TOO SURE IF THESE QUESTIONS WERE ASKED BEFORE. IF IT IS, MODS PLEASE DELETE THIS. ~THNX. 8)

1. Have you ever told anyone of your close friends/associates and or family that you like and or are into transexuals?

If so, how did they take it or reacted? If not, why have you not told them?

2. Do you care what they think? Yes/No? And why or why not?

~Kisses.

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I applaud you for creating this thread, and enjoy both your picture and your posts.

You're welcome!



I am somewhat bothered that you seem to have some sort of agenda on this topic and look down upon those that choose not to broadcast it to the world.

And I am ANNOYED that you think that naughtyboy. First fo all, you dont know me on a personal level to be drawing a "conclusion". Why dont you just take these question for what they are? Instead of thinking any motive behind it? :evil:


You obviously made a difficult transition,

Is transitioning at 14 difficult? Yes but Ive managed it. So STFU!


but it seems that you have taken a very tough stand against those that are in the closet. We are all part of the same community and should be friends not haters.

That's BULL. You wanted to know why I asked these questions? Ill tell you why?!

This thread was created in May 8, 2006. The reason I asked them is because the last guy Ive dated wouldnt dare tell his parents about my sexuality. You might say that it shouldnt be a non issue or something to that effect as long as you two loved eachother blah blah blah. But anyways 2 years of being together..Ive met his family, he's met mine. We attended his family functions together (sometimes even with his parents) i.e. uncles birthday, aunties funeral, cousins graduation, college friends weddings (not one but 2), race track, sunday brunches etc. I do feel that after awhile (2 years is awhile) he should have the balls to tell his parents he's dating a transexual. Thats not my responsibility but his. I just gotten tired playing charade (the part of his gf) when for a fact I didnt feel comfortable going to his gigs mingling with these people at different functions who didnt have an idea his gf was a tranny. So there! How would you feel if at every wedding you're asked "So when are you two getting married?". Frankly, It's tiring to hear!

~Kisses.

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[naughtyboy]

HTG:

Clearly you have an opinion and I respect that. As for your issues with your boyfriend, that must be a difficult situation for you but you are CHOOSING to go along with his charade. On the positive side he has included you with his family and his life.

I do not appreciate being told the STFU. I would expect someone who dealt with your transition to be a little more sensitive of others and not just expect them to agree with you on everything.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

HTG:

Clearly you have an opinion and I respect that. As for your issues with your boyfriend, that must be a difficult situation for you but you are CHOOSING to go along with his charade. On the positive side he has included you with his family and his life.

I do not appreciate being told the STFU. I would expect someone who dealt with your transition to be a little more sensitive of others and not just expect them to agree with you on everything.

Then perhaps you need to be sensitive too with your assessments of WHY such a thread was done. I have no hidden agenda contrary to what you have conconted in that small brain of yours. And I likewise will be kinder even gentler replying to your ass! :evil:


Just because you have been hurt does not give you the right to make light of my questions.

Is it possible that I struck a nerve with you?

I'm new to this board and the first thing you do is go in the attack. Not very welcoming. Look at this from my perspective. After reading almost the entire thread about going public (which I gave you credit for creating), I pointed out how harsh you were to some people. Your response to that was:
1. that I don't know you. (Not personally, but you do get a sense of someone's personality by reading their posts).
2. to STFU because I complimented your courage to transition; and
3. to call me gay.

I'd be interested to see if that makes you feel better about yourself.


No need to PM me and tell me Im obnoxious. Youre the newbie yet you act like a total ass.

~Kisses.

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[naughtyboy]

Kinder and Gentler is telling me that I have a small brain and that I'm being an ass???

I wonder what harsher and more hard headed was.

I PM'd you becuase I figured it was better than airing dirty laundry in public.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Kinder and Gentler is telling me that I have a small brain and that I'm being an ass???

I wonder what harsher and more hard headed was.

I PM'd you becuase I figured it was better than airing dirty laundry in public.

Im not a total cunt but get a clue rookie. 20 post is it? And you question the motive or validity of my post? Heck, there are alot more STUPID threads on here (IF learn to read you'll find them). Atleast mines was an issue (dating) within the transgenders community. And what was your issue again? Not being able to cum without playing with your ass? Lmao.. :lol: I see how your issue is plaguing the tg community. LOL

Come on, behave like a newbie! :lol: :wink:

~Kisses.

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[naughtyboy]

I gave a very serious response to this forum and attempted to give you some constructive criticism which has proved to be valid.

Now you are asking me to behave like a newbie? What exactly does that mean?

I wouldn't imagine posting a pm on the forum is something a veteran does especially when it doesn't concern anybody else.

Also I'd like to know what I've said that is stupid.

It strikes me that newbie behavior would be insulting someones sexual issues, calling them stupid and accusing them of being illiterate.

Each of my replies is merely pointing out what you are doing. Each of your resopnses is more insulting.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

I gave a very serious response to this forum and attempted to give you some constructive criticism which has proved to be valid.

Now you are asking me to behave like a newbie? What exactly does that mean?

I wouldn't imagine posting a pm on the forum is something a veteran does especially when it doesn't concern anybody else.

Also I'd like to know what I've said that is stupid.

It strikes me that newbie behavior would be insulting someones sexual issues, calling them stupid and accusing them of being illiterate.

Each of my replies is merely pointing out what you are doing. Each of your resopnses is more insulting.

:sleep

Telling me you're bothered that I seem to have some sort of agenda on this topic isnt insulting?

If you cant figure it out then I PITY you. :evil:

~Kisses.

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PS And for the record, Sure I went along with it dating that guy (The point was not to tell his parents at first so I could be given the chance and for them to get to know me as a person. Sorta getting a foot at the door so to speak without them pre-judging me). Ive given him enough time to muster up the courage and tell his folks and when he didnt I left him. Best decision I ever made. I absolutely have NO REGRETS!

[Fox]

Strange, I thought I responded to this thread before. Must've been one similar. Anyway, I've only told a good friend so far and he was fine with it and was genuinely curious about what I found attractive in a ts. I'm not hiding it (well I hide all my porn, including gg, since I live at home lol), and I'm certainly not ashamed of it.

I think everyone cares what others think of them to some degree, but for me, that degree is a very miniscule one. I had to learn in high school how to deal with narrowminded people. So screw anyone who can't accept it.

You only get one life, and it's a short one to begin with, might as well live it and be happy even if it means cutting ties to loved ones who cannot accept you.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

You only get one life, and it's a short one to begin with, might as well live it and be happy even if it means cutting ties to loved ones who cannot accept you.

Co-sign! Atleast you're views are noble and honest! ;) Unlike "some" poster who's more concerned about bottoming and playing with his ass so he could cum. :evil: Lmao :lol:

Thanks for sharing your thoughts Fox. 8)

~Kisses.

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[franks]

I like the way you handled the situation with your ex; If you're not good enough to be shown for the person you really are (they must have liked you regardless, you went to all of the family functions) then he's not good enough to be your significant other. and to fox I liked your reply; nice to see some youthful maturity; not that it surprises me, it's just that I don't see enough of it. way to go bro. :D

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

I like the way you handled the situation with your ex; If you're not good enough to be shown for the person you really are (they must have liked you regardless, you went to all of the family functions) then he's not good enough to be your significant other.

I agree. But there's more to that tho..He lives at home (he is in his early 30's), has a short temper (always cursing), diagnosed with croahns disease and got a bad back (which meant topping me rarely ever happens. Im sick of always having to do all the work). Not to mention, he is addicted to pain medications and additonally does cocaine. Im not that insane to stay with him forever. I mean, the fact that he couldnt tell his parents about me plus all those things just really withered whatever feelings I had for him. So I FORCED the break-up even when he threatened to harm himself! :evil: LOL ;)

~Kisses.

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[franks]

I like the way you handled the situation with your ex; If you're not good enough to be shown for the person you really are (they must have liked you regardless, you went to all of the family functions) then he's not good enough to be your significant other.

I agree. But there's more to that tho..He lives at home (he is in his early 30's), has a short temper (always cursing), diagnosed with croahns disease and got a bad back (which meant topping me rarely ever happens. Im sick of always having to do all the work). Not to mention, he is addicted to pain medications and additonally does cocaine. Im not that insane to stay with him forever. I mean, the fact that he couldnt tell his parents about me plus all those things just really withered whatever feelings I had for him. So I FORCED the break-up even when he threatened to harm himself! :evil: LOL ;)

~Kisses.

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"He lives at home (he is in his early 30's), has a short temper (always cursing) Not to mention, he is addicted to pain medications and additonally does cocaine."

not a healthy combo for him or a relationship

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

not a healthy combo for him or a relationship

YUP! Goodriddence! LOL ;)

~Kisses.

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[Aragon21]

1. Have you ever told anyone of your close friends/associates and or family that you like and or are into transexuals?

If so, how did they take it or reacted? If not, why have you not told them?

2. Do you care what they think? Yes/No? And why or why not?

1. I have told an ex that I am attracted to transexuals. She said she completely understood the attraction (she was attracted to girls herself). I have told one good friend who then said he was as well. I have a very good friend whom I was thinking about telling him about the girl I am into right now. I know he wouldn't make any negative judgements (hell he'll kiss a guy as a joke) and I know my happiness is important to him. We just haven't talked since I changed phone numbers and well we have alot to talk about, but I would definately talk to him about her because she does mean so much to me.

I haven't told my family because we don't talk about things that are irrelevent. I say irrelevent because I have never been in a relationship with a transexual. When I am in a relationship, my family will know everything about my relationship that my girl and I feel comfortable talking about. For me I wouldn't mind sharing as I know my mom would be happy for me that I found love. She would be more critical about what she does for a living, her educational background, her manners/language, and how she treats me. She would be thrilled if the girl goes to church and speaks proper English (mom's married to a preacher and was an English teacher). You know moms, nobody is ever good enough for her "little baby". :roll:

2. Yes and no. I do care what they think. Mostly because I would care that my happiness is important to them. If finding love with a transexual bothers my loved ones, I'd want to know because they are not "true" friends. So I guess I'd want to know what they think to know it doesn't bother them, because it sure as hell doesn't bother me! Family and friends are important to me, but regardless of what they think, I will love who I love. Any who want to judge my relationship negatively would lose a place in my life. Friends can be replaced. As for family, I can't imagine a negative response (well my stepfather does have some intolerances but I know he loves me and wishes for my happiness above all.) Worst case scenario: They all come out negative. Then I would have to say I don't care what they think. I just don't see it happening tho.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Worst case scenario: They all come out negative. Then I would have to say I don't care what they think.

Good attitude Aragorn. LOL :lol: J/k

I know you're not Viggo Mortensen. ;)

~Kisses.

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[Realgirls4me]

1. Have you ever told anyone of your close friends/associates and or family that you like and or are into transexuals?

I finally told my best friend since high school a couple of years ago, and a girlfriend and her beau, who both work for the same company I do. I also told an old friend from my college days that I did a beautiful post-op(Mila), and he did react kinda strange given he is the most liberal, openminded, and politically savvy of the bunch of the bunch. I remember him telling me, "That's where I draw the line. I don't do believe in that shit..." He hasn't called me since, by the way.

If so, how did they take it or reacted? If not, why have you not told them?


I thought they all would react negatively, and leave the table, but they were actually transfixed by all the details. It was as if though I was their new pipeline to a new world. My best friend seems fascinated by t-gurls, particularly the YouTube Sapphire bit.

2. Do you care what they think? Yes/No? And why or why not?

Yes, I care what they think. They're my best friends. Friendships -- GOOD friendships -- take years to form and cultivate. Not only that, it would be quite the bummer to find out they didn't care for me or facets of my lifestyle after all these years.

[eze]

1. Have you ever told anyone of your close friends/associates and or family that you like and or are into transexuals?

I have told one person and that one person had admitted to me first and I broke it out to him and its just been a normal thing between. We are actually taking a trip to Europe here in July for 2 months so we are hoping to meet some people on our way.


My family and close friends dont know.

If so, how did they take it or reacted? If not, why have you not told them?

My family wouldn't like it I dont think. I know my mom would def not like it. My father would probably just be silent about it. And my friends would either never talk to me or make sure all of our other friends knew and bash me until I found a way to break contact. Yes my friends are assholes thats why I dont even talk to them now. I simply talk to my friend that I am going to Europe with.


2. Do you care what they think? Yes/No? And why or why not?


Do I care? Obviously Yes to my family as my mom will ask me questions about the bible and certain things cause she didn't grow up in a biblical family nor did I but one of my older friends comes from a Church going constant family, so I know some stuff.

And the reason I care what they think is because I believe in the Lord etc etc.

But instead of being in denial and hating myself. Ive come to accept who I am and what decisioned Ive made for myself that I will deal with later.

But then again my family is very very outgoing I wouldn't expect them to care as for some of the stuff we talk about freely.


Lets just say although I care what my family thinks, I am satisfied with who I am and I glad that I found someone that is like me.