How do you break the news to your wife?

[tranlove]

I discovered transexuals a couple years back and can't stop dreaming about fucking one, I masturbate 3 or 4 times a day just looking at their pics. Don't know how to approach this with my wife:jerkoff:jerkoff:jerkoff:jerkoff

[Jericho]

I masturbate 3 or 4 times a day just looking at their pics. Don't know how to approach this with my wife

Slowly...You don't want to ruin her dress! :shrug

[tranlove]

Slowly...You don't want to ruin her dress! :shrug

Are you married?

[Nivek]

I would say just be be honest. I would agree the key word is SLOWLY. Tell her what arouses you about them and tell her a few of your fantasies. If she's your wife and you chose to spend the rest of your life with her why hide it? There is a HUGE difference between having fantasies, 3,4 times a day (wink , wink) and acting on them. If you come clean now trust me you will save yourself the embarrassing ordeal of explaining yourself when your wife, and or her and one of her friends or family eventually discover your beat off material.

[bluesoul]

tell her you're gay

[Alan Tlover]

Don't tell her.

First try to understand what she thinks about couples where the husband goes with TS.
If she says "I would split" (as mine said), just keep your mouth shut forever and enjoy the beautiful TS alone :-)

[bluesoul]

Don't tell her.

First try to understand what she thinks about couples where the husband goes with TS.
If she says "I would split" (as mine said), just keep your mouth shut forever and enjoy the beautiful TS alone :-)

excellent advice. also, if she ever asks you why you've been withdrawing money from your joint account and why there are strange charges from eros.com, just tell her it's something to do with a surprise wedding anniversary and if she looks too much into it, it will ruin everything and you will stop loving her

[LexusFire]

Slowly...You don't want to ruin her dress! :shrug

Hahahahahahahahaha!!!
But this is serious... ;)

If you love her, be careful how you approach the subject.
If you dnt love her, stop wasting both of your time.

In anycase, welcome to the world. If you take time to make friends, you will definitely want to stay.
The fantasy is great and safe.
Reality is different for everyone.
Maybe chat to people here, ask for info and live the forum before any knee jerk reactions.
And remember, you're not a freak or weird or whatever..
You live and die just like everyone else. :)

[Donkey]

Don't know how to approach this with my wife
Why would you want to do this? Not a good idea...

[TempestTS]

I dont even know your wife - why on earth would you want me talking to her...

[tranlove]

Why would you want to do this? Not a good idea...

Because I would like to share the fantasy with her, I love her and love to fuck her, I'm attracted to women, never had a gay experience, this is pretty new to me, shemales that look like a natural girl and have a cock get me going what I don't like is the ones that look like a dude with a wig, I don't care if I get labeled as gay or bisexual, but that's how I feel.:lol:

[tranlove]

I dont even know your wife - why on earth would you want me talking to her...

Who asked you?

[tranlove]

tell her you're gay

I don't think that will be any better

[shermanwt]

Do you watch porn with your wife? If not, then start. After watching a few different movies together, see if you can find a film that has a ts scene in it. I'm pretty sure Hustler has some that would fit the bill. When the ts scene comes on, check her reaction and if not negative, then plant the seeds for a further discussion down the road. Slow and sparse exposure will probably better serve you in the discussion with your wife as opposed to blurting out "honey, wanna share some girly cock?"

[tranlove]

Do you watch porn with your wife? If not, then start. After watching a few different movies together, see if you can find a film that has a ts scene in it. I'm pretty sure Hustler has some that would fit the bill. When the ts scene comes on, check her reaction and if not negative, then plant the seeds for a further discussion down the road. Slow and sparse exposure will probably better serve you in the discussion with your wife as opposed to blurting out "honey, wanna share some girly cock?"

Sounds good, we do watch porn, she's more into girl on girl even though she says she prefers dick, I would love to share our bed with a good looking tranny.

[shermanwt]

That's even better, maybe a gg on ts scene. Good luck.

[TempestTS]

Who asked you?

here is a quarter go rent a sense of humor... :banana:

[shermanwt]

here is a quarter go rent a sense of humor... :banana:

Wouldn't that be a cents of humor then?

[TempestTS]

Wouldn't that be a cents of humor then?

Ok YOU I like - I kill you last... :joke:

[shermanwt]

Lol, last is good. How many members on this site? I think it's time for a membership drive.

[Chrisvella]

Perhaps tell your wife you would like to see her be spit roasted by two large horses while she gargles the greatest hits of Barry Manilow.

After that when you tell her you just want to see her and a hot TG girl she will probably just be relieved...

[tranlove]

Perhaps tell your wife you would like to see her be spit roasted by two large horses while she gargles the greatest hits of Barry Manilow.

After that when you tell her you just want to see her and a hot TG girl she will probably just be relieved...

not a good picture

[Merkurie]

If you are still attracted to your wife, ask if she would be into fucking you with a strap on. You never know she might be into it.
As far as telling her you are attracted and beating off to anyone but her, forget about it.

[littletwink]

Does she ever not shave for a few days and then comment on the fact that she needs to?

My wife knew of my fetish for muscular women when we started dating. She discovered that she shared my love of strong women and then it evolved from there and she learned that she is turned on by my lust for she-cock.

[tranlove]

If you are still attracted to your wife, ask if she would be into fucking you with a strap on. You never know she might be into it.
As far as telling her you are attracted and beating off to anyone but her, forget about it.

She would like to do me with the strap on, but I'm not into it, she has fingered me and find the feeling weird, I would like to fuck the tranny and have the tranny fuck my wife.

[SheWantsTheD]

She would like to do me with the strap on, but I'm not into it, she has fingered me and find the feeling weird, I would like to fuck the tranny and have the tranny fuck my wife.

What if she wants to watch the tranny fuck you while you suck her strap on? What then?

[tranlove]

What if she wants to watch the tranny fuck you while you suck her strap on? What then?

If she wants to fantasize about I will encourage it, act on it, no, the tranny can fuck her while she sucks me or I can fuck her while she sucks the tranny or I can fuck the tranny while the tranny either eats her or suck her strap on or she can strap on the tranny and the tranny blow me. Getting hard just thinking about it:jerkoff

[nysprod]

She would like to do me with the strap on, but I'm not into it, she has fingered me and find the feeling weird, I would like to fuck the tranny and have the tranny fuck my wife.

When I read shit like this I just have to laugh...you won't do what the wife wants but you expect her to indulge your tranny fantasies...the sooner you tell your wife, the better.

[Merkurie]

Forget about it.
Or get a divorce now and save your self a lot of trouble in the future.

Your wife wants to fuck you with a strap on. So she is willing to be adventurous, at least and maybe hetero flexible at best.

You won't give it up to your wife, but you are willing to give your wife up to someone else and for you to fuck someone else.

Is your wife into swinging, cuckolding or being a "hotwife"?
If not, based on what you have posted, there is little future for you other than infidelity and eventual divorce.

[tranlove]

When I read shit like this I just have to laugh...you won't do what the wife wants but you expect her to indulge your tranny fantasies...the sooner you tell your wife, the better.

I don't want her to do anything that she doesn't want, I just want her to understand my attraction to transexuals, I wouldn't go to the next level without her blessing, I'm not cheating on my wife, I would be perfectly happy to jack off to my fantasies, I just don't want to hide this from her.

[tranlove]

Forget about it.
Or get a divorce now and save your self a lot of trouble in the future.

Your wife wants to fuck you with a strap on. So she is willing to be adventurous, at least and maybe hetero flexible at best.

You won't give it up to your wife, but you are willing to give your wife up to someone else and for you to fuck someone else.

Is your wife into swinging, cuckolding or being a "hotwife"?
If not, based on what you have posted, there is little future for you other than infidelity and eventual divorce.

I just described the scenarios that I can work with, we had talked about swinging and visited a club as voyeurs,there was some bisexual action mmf and ffm and we ended up very horny and ended up fuking while watching another couple, we talked to them about swapping but didn't do it.

[Tyler___Durden]

Look at some different kinds of porn together.
See if she reacts positively to trans porn.
If she shows an interest, together look at a local Ts Escort ad & website.
If still positive fansasise, together, about jointly booking that escort.
Do this together a couple of times. If she suggests the booking, go along with it in the same fantasy kind of way. Second time she suggest it, Suggest you do this for real. (as long as the relationship is flexible enough to bring in a third party in for sex fun)
Together, ring the Escort, both talk with her then book a gig.

A couple went through the above sequence with me a short while ago.
So it does work.

[Prospero]

Smart words from Tyler ....

[Tyler___Durden]

Tyler chasin' the money!
Oh interestingly, their good sex life got better. (anecdotal, from him)
And while it was his initial idea, she was more into me than him.
Subsequently I've talked a bit with both of them.
She had never had a gay experience before, but thought a little about it in the past.
I asked if she might now try a woman with a vagina. She said that she preferred
the idea of a woman with a penis. So this shows that some married women
are open to the idea of sex with trans-women.
We're doing a repeat session, next time their teen late son is away.

[TSBootyLondon]

mmmmm so tricky because what you enjoy as a fantasy may not merge well into reality.
Women can never be read correctly, they are more emotionally attached/involved than men. What one finds erotic and exciting in the current moment (In the bedroom) can have horrible consequences in the real moment (Living with the fall out)!

My only advise to you will be, should you get to play this out, that you show more attention to your wife than you do the person that you are bringing into your bed.
I say this because you need to approach the subject with great care and more importantly once in the moment you need to ensure that she is fully aware that you still find her as sexy as you ever did.

The last thing that you want to do is spend the months that following dealing with her insecurities (If she has them) It would not be uncommon for her to experience flash backs after, the good ones will be those of enjoyment, the bad will be her memories of you spending more of your attention on the third person and worrying about how she now appeals to you sexually.
This could make her feel very inadequate and I fear could cause further issues for you

(I hope that i have not caused you further confusion, I think its great that you are putting allot of thought into seeing if she would be interested in the first place however I think that you also need to consider the actual encounter and your wife's feeling after it occurs. Trust me when I say that her emotions will be as mixed after as they were before and if anything more so after)

Swinging is dangerous regardless of the third parties sexuality or gender especially if new to an existing marriage.
It is more acceptable to bring another woman into the bed after all every man dreams of a threesome with 2 women, bringing a TS, TV or man into the equation's definitely needs to more tact

Good Luck xx Bella
(PS I speak with experience honeys xx)




Smart words from Tyler ....

[Prospero]

Ohhhh spill the beans please Miss Bella ("I speak with experience.")

While I approved of Tyler thoughts regarding a strategy of steering a fantasy into reality I think Bella has some very important and serious points to make.

And I suspect men would have the same residual and complex feelings if the threesome were man, wife/girlfriend and another man.

The thrill (potential or actual ) of any such encounter HAS to be balanced against the complexities of human emotions. For sure your partner will never-ever look at you in quite the same light as he or she did before.

The genie, once out of the lamp can't be put back in.

[TSBootyLondon]

EXACTLY MY POINT PROSPERO

RE Spill the beans.... A lady never kisses and tells sir.....
AND in my case if I did tell all I would only be accused of writing a fake review

[giovanni_hotel]

If you ever do get with a tgirl, it's probably a wrap. Lusting after TS women isn't something that really comes and goes. If you've got that itch, it's for the duration.

[nysprod]

I don't want her to do anything that she doesn't want, I just want her to understand my attraction to transexuals, I wouldn't go to the next level without her blessing, I'm not cheating on my wife, I would be perfectly happy to jack off to my fantasies, I just don't want to hide this from her.

Ok, now I know you're full of it...aside from that, brain-o, it obviously hasn't dawned on you that letting your wife indulge her strap-on fantasy could go a long way toward lubricating things vis-a-vis your new obsession...

So stfu and toftt.

[tranlove]

Ok, now I know you're full of it...aside from that, brain-o, it obviously hasn't dawned on you that letting your wife indulge her strap-on fantasy could go a long way toward lubricating things vis-a-vis your new obsession...

So stfu and toftt.

Don't get why I'm full of anything, I let her finger my ass while she masturbates and she knows I don't really enjoy it but she knows I love to hear her cum, I'm just not into stuff up my ass it doesn't feel good, we had talked about thresomes even with another guy, she'll like him to be bi so I can do him and I'm not opposed to it,rather excited about it, like I said before don't care if I get labeled as gay, in one of "our talks" while having sex I blurred out "Do you imagine if the girl had a cock? Best of both worlds don't you think?" She was kind of weirded out and things slowed for a second so I moved along and got our rhythm back, after that I just kept the fantasy to myself.

[tranlove]

Look at some different kinds of porn together.
See if she reacts positively to trans porn.
If she shows an interest, together look at a local Ts Escort ad & website.
If still positive fansasise, together, about jointly booking that escort.
Do this together a couple of times. If she suggests the booking, go along with it in the same fantasy kind of way. Second time she suggest it, Suggest you do this for real. (as long as the relationship is flexible enough to bring in a third party in for sex fun)
Together, ring the Escort, both talk with her then book a gig.

A couple went through the above sequence with me a short while ago.
So it does work.

Thanks Tyler sounds good, I'll have to find some porn that have "real" looking girls, I love asians but she hates uncut dicks and most of the ladyboys uncut, I've seen some videos here and there but don't know many names to look for, maybe I can get help with that here.

[tranlove]

Thanks Tyler sounds good, I'll have to find some porn that have "real" looking girls, I love asians but she hates uncut dicks and most of the ladyboys uncut, I've seen some videos here and there but don't know many names to look for, maybe I can get help with that here.


Don't get why I'm full of anything, I let her finger my ass while she masturbates and she knows I don't really enjoy it but she knows I love to hear her cum, I'm just not into stuff up my ass it doesn't feel good, we had talked about thresomes even with another guy, she'll like him to be bi so I can do him and I'm not opposed to it,rather excited about it, like I said before don't care if I get labeled as gay, in one of "our talks" while having sex I blurred out "Do you imagine if the girl had a cock? Best of both worlds don't you think?" She was kind of weirded out and things slowed for a second so I moved along and got our rhythm back, after that I just kept the fantasy to myself.

Btw, what team you play for? Are you a Tranny or one of us guys that wants a Tranny?

[MacShreach]

If you ever do get with a tgirl, it's probably a wrap. Lusting after TS women isn't something that really comes and goes. If you've got that itch, it's for the duration.
There is just so much truth in that.

[MacShreach]

Thanks Tyler sounds good, I'll have to find some porn that have "real" looking girls, I love asians but she hates uncut dicks and most of the ladyboys uncut, I've seen some videos here and there but don't know many names to look for, maybe I can get help with that here.

Find a Filipina LB. They are nearly all circumcised. And there are many gorgeous Pinay LBs, believe me. Eva Lyn and Sapphire Young to name but two.

[tranlove]

Find a Filipina LB. They are nearly all circumcised. And there are many gorgeous Pinay LBs, believe me. Eva Lyn and Sapphire Young to name but two.

Thanks, those two are super hot, especially Sapphire :jerkoff

[Jimmy W]

This is NOT a good idea. Unless youre OK with her leaving. I dont care how open minded your girl is - you bring up this subject and its all over. Just a matter of time.

[tranlove]

Thanks, those two are super hot, especially Sapphire :jerkoff


This is NOT a good idea. Unless youre OK with her leaving. I dont care how open minded your girl is - you bring up this subject and its all over. Just a matter of time.

Did you had that experience?

[Tyler___Durden]

Btw, what team you play for? Are you a Tranny or one of us guys that wants a Tranny?
That's a recent photo of me in the avatar.....
Want's a tranny?
The quickest way for you to get lots of transsexual women on your speed-dial,
is for you to transition.
Then you too can spend time dodging speculative mails from hopeful strangers... http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys/smiley-rolleyes010.gif (http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys.php)

[MdR Dave]

. . . in one of "our talks" while having sex I blurred out "Do you imagine if the girl had a cock? Best of both worlds don't you think?" She was kind of weirded out and things slowed for a second so I moved along and got our rhythm back, after that I just kept the fantasy to myself.


You have mentioned your fantasy to her. Maybe not gone so far as to say "I want this" but it's out there.

It's not that you "don't want to hide this" from her, but that you want her to be OK with it.

We can't help you with that.

[MacShreach]

..
Want's a tranny?


I thought it was what connected the engine to the wheels, but fuck do I know, LOL:joke:

[MacShreach]

Did you had that experience?
Mine suggests either she'll call a halt, or eventually you will. I think it comes to much the same. There are a lot of different types of men who like transwomen in real, (for most it's only ever a fantasy) but I think the least common type is the one that successfully keeps a marriage while indulging in sex with them. But there are lots of men who think they might like to try sex with a transwoman and actually it doesn't really work for them, and if you're one of those, then the above may not apply.

It's not always the woman who pulls the plug, but let's face it, now she knows there's something you want, that she can never ever give you, and that is going to eat away at her. If you actually go through with this, that will be reinforced. By definition she is excluded, because natal women just can't fuck men (dildos and fingers don't count here, only dicks do.) Her penis envy is going to go stellar.

For the man it's a bit different. Depends on what stage you're at in life. If you still want a family and so on, or have a young one, then that might help you compartmentalise enough to keep things together. But if you are past that stage, or not interested anyway, then the prognosis for your marriage gets grim if the transattraction really takes hold

I'm not saying you shouldn't do it, just that there may be consequences...

[natina]

send her a TWEET

https://twitter.com/

[natina]

I think this is that gomez dude again with another account

[jadetyres]

Its only a thing you want to do if are prepared to loose your wife :/

[Tyler___Durden]

I thought it was what connected the engine to the wheels, but fuck do I know, LOL:joke:
As in 1970's beat up Ford Tranny, used in an armed jewellery heist?
Regan's on the case.
http://ih0.redbubble.net/image.12397580.4861/fc,135x135,silver.jpg
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4NPfsv_Hcy4

[tranlove]

That's a recent photo of me in the avatar.....
Want's a tranny?
The quickest way for you to get lots of transsexual women on your speed-dial,
is for you to transition.
Then you too can spend time dodging speculative mails from hopeful strangers... http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys/smiley-rolleyes010.gif (http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys.php)

Sorry Tyler I didn't mean to ask you, I got the vibe that you were a transsexual women from the beginning the question was for NYSPROD I just clicked on the wrong post, and also apologize if Tranny is considered an offensive term.

[MdR Dave]

send her a TWEET

https://twitter.com/

LMAO!

Nice.

[Tyler___Durden]

Sorry Tyler I didn't mean to ask you, I got the vibe that you were a transsexual women from the beginning the question was for NYSPROD I just clicked on the wrong post, and also apologize if Tranny is considered an offensive term.
Yep, I'm all Transsexulated. :D No worries about anything on forums. You're cool.
Tranny is a catch-all term generally applied to any transgendered persons.
However, this usually excludes Transsexual women as we generally
differentiate ourselves from other transgendered persons.
The break point being on whether a person is a guy dressing for a myriad of reasons, but they internally identifying as a guy
and
a transsexual woman, who by {general definition}, internally identify as female.
This is regardless of what degree of: hormone therapy / gender psych evaluations + sessions / surgery's have been undertaken or not.
Needless to say, I use the term "Us Trannies" in an embracing way with other ts women Just to piss them off! :whistle::yayo::angry:screwy

Of course if you call me a tranny, I'll turn on you Samuel L Jackson style! (with great vengeance and furious anger) (http://tinyurl.com/6f2zphd) Eeeak! http://serve.mysmiley.net/scared/scared0012.gif (http://www.mysmiley.net/free-rolleye-smileys.php)

On a more serious note, with Transsexual women,
the easiest term to use, when referring to us,is:
'Women'.

[SammiValentine]

I sucked her off

[robertlouis]

Yep, I'm all Transsexulated. :D No worries about anything on forums. You're cool.
Tranny is a catch-all term generally applied to any transgendered persons.
However, this usually excludes Transsexual women as we generally
differentiate ourselves from other transgendered persons.
The break point being on whether a person is a guy dressing for a myriad of reasons, but they internally identifying as a guy
and
a transsexual woman, who by {general definition}, internally identify as female.
This is regardless of what degree of: hormone therapy / gender psych evaluations + sessions / surgery's have been undertaken or not.
Needless to say, I use the term "Us Trannies" in an embracing way with other ts women Just to piss them off! :whistle::yayo::angry:screwy

Of course if you call me a tranny, I'll turn on you Samuel L Jackson style! (with great vengeance and furious anger) (http://tinyurl.com/6f2zphd) Eeeak! http://serve.mysmiley.net/scared/scared0012.gif (http://www.mysmiley.net/free-rolleye-smileys.php)

On a more serious note, with Transsexual women,
the easiest term to use, when referring to us,is:
'Women'.

"Tranny" is also used as shorthand by car mechanics for the transmission - gearbox, drive train etc - of a car.

So, if you meet a transsexual mechanic at your local garage, be prepared for a total headfuck.

One way or the other.....

Are you well, Ms Durden?

[Tyler___Durden]

I'm fine, dandy and currently tuning in my tranny radio!
For anyone wanting a tranny, look here
http://www.tatt4trannies.co.uk/index.html
Grins!

[martin48]

Not followed entire thread but my advice is "Don't tell" Just don't.

[MacShreach]

So, if you meet a transsexual mechanic at your local garage, be prepared for a total headfuck.

Mmm a tranny tranny. Interesting. Do you know I have a cat lodging.

[tranlove]

I sucked her off

You can suck me anytime:smile:

[littletwink]

It's possible that she already knows.

[Ben]

I discovered transexuals a couple years back and can't stop dreaming about fucking one, I masturbate 3 or 4 times a day just looking at their pics. Don't know how to approach this with my wife:jerkoff:jerkoff:jerkoff:jerkoff

Be honest. But it's your decision.

[tranlove]

Be honest. But it's your decision.
maybe I should omit the amount of times "jacking off" if or when I tell her of my
attraction to this girls.

[SheWantsTheD]

maybe I should omit the amount of times "jacking off" if or when I tell her of my
attraction to this girls.

So you have received alot of conflicting advice. Have you yet come to a decision on how you will approach this with your wife?
When will you do it and will you please keep us in the loop on how things go?

[nysprod]

maybe I should omit the amount of times "jacking off" if or when I tell her of my
attraction to this girls.

No, you should definitely tell her about that...she'll see how much TGirls turn you on and be that much more inclined to go along with you.

[tranlove]

So you have received alot of conflicting advice. Have you yet come to a decision on how you will approach this with your wife?
When will you do it and will you please keep us in the loop on how things go?

I think I will be introducing some porn, gotta do some research, looking for natural looking girls with circumcised cocks because she hates uncut ones, preferably Tgirl on girl, we watch all kinds even gay porn, but her fave is lesbian, we like to keep it kinky so I think I can introduce the Tgirl porn just for kinkyness sake and see how wet she gets.
Sure will share how it went

[Prospero]

Im with Martin48 on this. Just don't. I think you'll end up with a broken marriage. if you are cool with that... then go ahead.otherwise. Don't.

[tranlove]

Im with Martin48 on this. Just don't. I think you'll end up with a broken marriage. if you are cool with that... then go ahead.otherwise. Don't.

I don't think I just gonna share my newfound love for this girls, I will introduce some porn and see how it goes, like I said before just have to get the right porn to make sure I "ease her" into it, I'm searching around for what I think be towards her taste, maybe I can get some suggestions from other guys here, I know I've been picky, we go to Drag shows and she find them hilarious not sexually attractive, so I know she's not into dude looking ones.

[Tyler___Durden]

Just tell her.
Look, if anything happens, I'll take full responsibility. (http://tinyurl.com/7h52rt9)

[ImpulZ]

buy a strap on and tell you want to suck here....in a few days she will get the messages!

[tranlove]

Just tell her.
Look, if anything happens, I'll take full responsibility. (http://tinyurl.com/7h52rt9)

Then you'll have to come and take care of me:D

[Tyler___Durden]

I looked at your computer browsing history
saw your interest in transy-cock
and I then created this fake Tyler___Durden profile.
I'm actually your wife.
And tonight, yes, I am gonna fuck you with my strap-on! :dancing:

[ImpulZ]

hahaha do it do it :D

[YummyTSLondon]

Invite your wife to join! :banana:

[Dino Velvet]

If you're on the fence and don't know what to do keeping quiet is the conservative route. Examine the benefits and consequences of both decisions then the probabilities based upon the knowledge of your wife.

[tsluvr61]

I have been married for 29 years and have always fantasized about Transexuals. I finally got up the nerve to bring it up to the wife as we were watching an XXX movie last month and there was a TS scene in it. I casually told her it would be hot to see her with a TS and she agreed. I then slipped it in that I was curious about them and watching them having sex was a turn on for me. I asked her what we would do with one if we had one in bed at that moment and she said she would suck her cock and wanted her to then fuck her and I would watch. I said you get all the fun, dont I get anything out of it? She then said the idea was very interesting so I took it a bit further and asked her if she would like to see me sucking her cock, in other words would my wife want to see me sucking a TS cock? Her reply, " well it would be interesting thats for sure". This got her hornier so I pretty much know if we do ever get a TS in bed I would do exactly what I have been doing with them over the past 8 years. I think the wife would LOVE IT. Not sure about yours.

[northshoreman52]

dont ask..dont tell

[tranlove]

I looked at your computer browsing history
saw your interest in transy-cock
and I then created this fake Tyler___Durden profile.
I'm actually your wife.
And tonight, yes, I am gonna fuck you with my strap-on! :dancing:

Oh honey you really want my ass :salad

[tranlove]

I have been married for 29 years and have always fantasized about Transexuals. I finally got up the nerve to bring it up to the wife as we were watching an XXX movie last month and there was a TS scene in it. I casually told her it would be hot to see her with a TS and she agreed. I then slipped it in that I was curious about them and watching them having sex was a turn on for me. I asked her what we would do with one if we had one in bed at that moment and she said she would suck her cock and wanted her to then fuck her and I would watch. I said you get all the fun, dont I get anything out of it? She then said the idea was very interesting so I took it a bit further and asked her if she would like to see me sucking her cock, in other words would my wife want to see me sucking a TS cock? Her reply, " well it would be interesting thats for sure". This got her hornier so I pretty much know if we do ever get a TS in bed I would do exactly what I have been doing with them over the past 8 years. I think the wife would LOVE IT. Not sure about yours.

Awesome, will see how it goes for me.

[NYBURBS]

I discovered transexuals a couple years back and can't stop dreaming about fucking one, I masturbate 3 or 4 times a day just looking at their pics. Don't know how to approach this with my wife:jerkoff:jerkoff:jerkoff:jerkoff

Just don't

[SheWantsTheD]

I have been married for 29 years and have always fantasized about Transexuals. I finally got up the nerve to bring it up to the wife as we were watching an XXX movie last month and there was a TS scene in it. I casually told her it would be hot to see her with a TS and she agreed. I then slipped it in that I was curious about them and watching them having sex was a turn on for me. I asked her what we would do with one if we had one in bed at that moment and she said she would suck her cock and wanted her to then fuck her and I would watch. I said you get all the fun, dont I get anything out of it? She then said the idea was very interesting so I took it a bit further and asked her if she would like to see me sucking her cock, in other words would my wife want to see me sucking a TS cock? Her reply, " well it would be interesting thats for sure". This got her hornier so I pretty much know if we do ever get a TS in bed I would do exactly what I have been doing with them over the past 8 years. I think the wife would LOVE IT. Not sure about yours.
Now this is exciting if true!
I'm just glad that our OP isn't waiting 8 years. I also hope our OP won't slip in so much of his own fantasy in the first chat about it. It got your wife horny but his could start to get put off and start asking herself all sorts of questions if he says too much too fast.

[tranlove]

Now this is exciting if true!
I'm just glad that our OP isn't waiting 8 years. I also hope our OP won't slip in so much of his own fantasy in the first chat about it. It got your wife horny but his could start to get put off and start asking herself all sorts of questions if he says too much too fast.

I got work it out slowly with patience, btw what's an OP?

[LexusFire]

OP is you! Original Poster!
Take your time and do things right, it could turn out to be super exciting ;)

[tranlove]

OP is you! Original Poster!
Take your time and do things right, it could turn out to be super exciting ;)

Thanks, I'm counting on that, I think slowly will pay off

[Tyler___Durden]

This is not helping.
Please post a photo of your wife.
Preferably in lingerie.
(It had to be said)

[tranlove]

This is not helping.
Please post a photo of your wife.
Preferably in lingerie.
(It had to be said)

I thought it was you

[tranlove]

Invite your wife to join! :banana:

I was looking at your site, I need to visit London very soon

[danthepoetman]

I discovered transexuals a couple years back and can't stop dreaming about fucking one, I masturbate 3 or 4 times a day just looking at their pics. Don't know how to approach this with my wife:jerkoff:jerkoff:jerkoff:jerkoff

Oh! God! Man, get a life! If you're so attracted by a tranny, I suggest to you it might mean that you're not that attracte to your wife or girlfriend anymore. Just follow your heart, like they ridiculously and constantly say in Hollywood! Either talk to your girl and see what she feels, or either act on your desire. You only live once. You just can't stay on the sidewalk, watching the traffic: at some point in your life, you'll hate yourself if you do (I suppose so, as I don't have the problem). Man! you already have all the answers: just be bold...

[tranlove]

Oh! God! Man, get a life! If you're so attracted by a tranny, I suggest to you it might mean that you're not that attracte to your wife or girlfriend anymore. Just follow your heart, like they ridiculously and constantly say in Hollywood! Either talk to your girl and see what she feels, or either act on your desire. You only live once. You just can't stay on the sidewalk, watching the traffic: at some point in your life, you'll hate yourself if you do (I suppose so, as I don't have the problem). Man! you already have all the answers: just be bold...

I do have a great life and my wife still gets me going, I just want to add more fun to our sex life, I asked the question hoping for advice from other guys that had gone through it.

[danthepoetman]

I do have a great life and my wife still gets me going, I just want to add more fun to our sex life, I asked the question hoping for advice from other guys that had gone through it.

I'm sorry, tranlove, I didn't meant to be rude.
The only way to get anywhere in a relationship or in life is by being truthfull. You might be very surprised by the reaction. One way or the other, if it's such an urge, you have to do something about it, or else it WILL come out some other way, and maybe not the best possible way. Just throw yourself in the water; I don't mean to say everything will be nice and good after: just that you will feel free, you will feel like it was the right thing to go on with your desire. I mean what I said: we only have one life, and it slips bye very fast -trust an old guy on this...

[tranlove]

I'm sorry, tranlove, I didn't meant to be rude.
The only way to get anywhere in a relationship or in life is by being truthfull. You might be very surprised by the reaction. One way or the other, if it's such an urge, you have to do something about it, or else it WILL come out some other way, and maybe not the best possible way. Just throw yourself in the water; I don't mean to say everything will be nice and good after: just that you will feel free, you will feel like it was the right thing to go on with your desire. I mean what I said: we only have one life, and it slips bye very fast -trust an old guy on this...

My main goal is to avoid any possibility of jeopardizing our relationship, we have a great sex life but always want more, we've gone to swingers club and had sex in public and have a couple friends that we party together sex in same room but we haven't had swapped yet, we have a masturbation club meeting twice a month separate for the girls and for the boys, I just want to slowly introduce the Tgirls to the mix.

[danthepoetman]

Did you started talking to her on the general subject? Trying to share your enthousiasm would be a good first step. And from what you're saying, she's quite open minded...

[syla]

Wow, must say; seems like you've got most of the ground work done with the kinda sex life you guys have. I would say, lightly approach to see how she reacts... Like while watching Jerry Springer (with trans) or something. Hint here and there to get how she feels.

P.S. I am not married or anywhere near that. Just a thought.

[SheWantsTheD]

Wow, must say; seems like you've got most of the ground work done with the kinda sex life you guys have. I would say, lightly approach to see how she reacts... Like while watching Jerry Springer (with trans) or something. Hint here and there to get how she feels.

P.S. I am not married or anywhere near that. Just a thought.
:iagree:
+ Your wife sounds hot OP! She is open minded :jerkoff

[ClareSensual]

I discovered transexuals a couple years back and can't stop dreaming about fucking one, I masturbate 3 or 4 times a day just looking at their pics. Don't know how to approach this with my wife:jerkoff:jerkoff:jerkoff:jerkoff

I don't think it's necessary to tell your wife. It will only frighten her and make her feel inadequate. Why not enjoy this interest privately while valuing and preserving what your marriage offers?

[tranlove]

Did you started talking to her on the general subject? Trying to share your enthousiasm would be a good first step. And from what you're saying, she's quite open minded...


:iagree:
+ Your wife sounds hot OP! She is open minded :jerkoff

She is open minded, adding the masturbation club to our life has been great, my group is boys night out and hers is girls night, when it's boys they take care of the kids and we do when girls night, is very liberating, in my case we get together in one of our homes and have dinner and drinks and talk about our fantasies and desires, we spend most of the night naked and have a few masturbation sessions during that time, we like to look at each other and talk dirty while jacking off without physical contact with each other, the girls do pretty much the same, anyway I went out fishing this morning with one of my club buddies and talked to him about this site and showed him some pics on my phone (thank you Amy Daly) and he got excited about it and we agree to bring it up in our next meeting next wednesday I suspect most of us like the idea, we had hosted lesbian strippers and a swinger couple that like to have sex while we jack off on them, so maybe we can bring a Tgirl to put a show for us. Another thing since we started the masturbation club my "virility" has gone back to like I was in my 20's, I can last forever in bed and the cool thing is that my wife keeps lubricating like crazy, I cum 3 to 4 times and if you give half an hour or so of pussy eating I can start all over again, I'm in my 40's now is like sex has become the fountain of youth the more the better, the only downside is that I think about sex 99% of the day, when I remodeled my office I was thinking of sex and put a bigger bathroom with shower and changing room closet, a sofa and a laptop, I usually take lunch my break at the beach so no one suspects of my time in the bathroom, love when the wife visit, we go to the beach together and then clean up (wink wink) in my office.

[nysprod]

She is open minded, adding the masturbation club to our life has been great, my group is boys night out and hers is girls night, when it's boys they take care of the kids and we do when girls night, is very liberating, in my case we get together in one of our homes and have dinner and drinks and talk about our fantasies and desires, we spend most of the night naked and have a few masturbation sessions during that time, we like to look at each other and talk dirty while jacking off without physical contact with each other, the girls do pretty much the same, anyway I went out fishing this morning with one of my club buddies and talked to him about this site and showed him some pics on my phone (thank you Amy Daly) and he got excited about it and we agree to bring it up in our next meeting next wednesday I suspect most of us like the idea, we had hosted lesbian strippers and a swinger couple that like to have sex while we jack off on them, so maybe we can bring a Tgirl to put a show for us. Another thing since we started the masturbation club my "virility" has gone back to like I was in my 20's, I can last forever in bed and the cool thing is that my wife keeps lubricating like crazy, I cum 3 to 4 times and if you give half an hour or so of pussy eating I can start all over again, I'm in my 40's now is like sex has become the fountain of youth the more the better, the only downside is that I think about sex 99% of the day, when I remodeled my office I was thinking of sex and put a bigger bathroom with shower and changing room closet, a sofa and a laptop, I usually take lunch my break at the beach so no one suspects of my time in the bathroom, love when the wife visit, we go to the beach together and then clean up (wink wink) in my office.

You know what...I think you're utterly full of shit...from your jerking off 4-5/day to your boys jerk off club...all the sex you have with your "wife" and everything else you posted...it's all a lot of crap from a friggin whacko with a lot of fantasies.

[Merkurie]

http://www.vitamin-ha.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/frabz-I-DONT-ALWAYS-CALL-BULLSHIT-but-when-I-do-you-can-be-sure-bullsh-b0e770-W630.jpg

[tranlove]

You know what...I think you're utterly full of shit...from your jerking off 4-5/day to your boys jerk off club...all the sex you have with your "wife" and everything else you posted...it's all a lot of crap from a friggin whacko with a lot of fantasies.

It's ok with me, I'm not here to justify myself to you, but obviously the days I meet my group the private masturbation doesn't happen, also we have kids so even though we have an active sex life we can't hook up everyday. Maybe 4-5 times a day sound like too much for you, but I'm a horny guy and do that in my "closet" looking at Tgirls and only the days I'm not having previous engagements.

Again I don't need to justify myself to you, just don't like other people getting the wrong idea.

[nysprod]

http://www.vitamin-ha.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/frabz-I-DONT-ALWAYS-CALL-BULLSHIT-but-when-I-do-you-can-be-sure-bullsh-b0e770-W630.jpg

Bump
:iagree:

[tranlove]

Bump
:iagree:

Jealousy is a bad thing, sorry you're consumed by it.

[tranlove]

This is awesome, Corran thanks so much, I showed my wife topless pics of Venus Lux and she found her gorgeous, then I showed her the full frontal and she asked where I got that and I said a joke email, she kept looking at her cock and said it is a pretty cock, she say the girl looks so perfect that is got to be photoshop I said maybe but that I'm pretty sure is real she stared for a while and asked me how I feel and I said not sure is kind of hot and she said it is a good looking cock and could see herself sucking on it, got me by surprise to say the least, then I asked are you trying to get me horny and she replied I don't know.

[SheWantsTheD]

Jealousy is a bad thing, sorry you're consumed by it.

http://i296.photobucket.com/albums/mm171/LilDreamer13_photo_bucket/haters-8.jpg

Fuck the haters! Sour just because their relationships are stale, thats why they NEED the escorts.
I've never heard of a bunch of guys sitting around watching each other jerk off and talking dirty but I can believe it. 3 years ago I never knew about transgender people lol
I haven't seen this venus lux before! I must not be on top of my shemale porn anymore :(

[tranlove]

http://i296.photobucket.com/albums/mm171/LilDreamer13_photo_bucket/haters-8.jpg

Fuck the haters! Sour just because their relationships are stale, thats why they NEED the escorts.
I've never heard of a bunch of guys sitting around watching each other jerk off and talking dirty but I can believe it. 3 years ago I never knew about transgender people lol
I haven't seen this venus lux before! I must not be on top of my shemale porn anymore :(

The masturbation clubs are more common that I though, all started when we met a couple that happened to be neighbors on our street on a swingers party, it was awkward, we thought they were a very christian prudish people, you really don't know anyone, after a few drinks we talked and they broke the news that some of our other friends participated in this lifestyle, we watched others together but never got into anything, we were all somewhat shocked, but we talked later and they let us know about the masturbation group and after some discussion we agreed and the rest is history. Then I found out that there are this clubs all over mostly mixed sexes.

[nysprod]

Fuck the haters! Sour just because their relationships are stale, thats why they NEED the escorts.

TransLove's fantasies have even gone stale...lol

[tranlove]

TransLove's fantasies have even gone stale...lol

I love when you envy me, that shows how little you have, it makes me happy that you need to put me down to feel better, really I just feel pity for you, the only thing you got is your hand and the dream to be able to afford an escort, maybe you can get a crack travesty whore from the ghetto for a couple bucks.

[tranlove]

You know what...I think you're utterly full of shit...from your jerking off 4-5/day to your boys jerk off club...all the sex you have with your "wife" and everything else you posted...it's all a lot of crap from a friggin whacko with a lot of fantasies.

Do you think about my great life when you're fingering your ass and jerking off? Are you one of those that when the food stamps let you get peanut butter you slather your ass in it for stray dogs to rim you? :salad Sorry ass excuse for a human being

[tranlove]

I love when you envy me, that shows how little you have, it makes me happy that you need to put me down to feel better, really I just feel pity for you, the only thing you got is your hand and the dream to be able to afford an escort, maybe you can get a crack travesty whore from the ghetto for a couple bucks.

Don't matter how much you try you will always be you and I won't be thinking about you when I ram my cock on my wife ass and pulling her hair while you be playing with yourself wanting to be me, don't get too excited because like I said before you can only expect to be sorry ass you. Pitiful you.

[tranlove]

I love when you envy me, that shows how little you have, it makes me happy that you need to put me down to feel better, really I just feel pity for you, the only thing you got is your hand and the dream to be able to afford an escort, maybe you can get a crack travesty whore from the ghetto for a couple bucks.


Don't matter how much you try you will always be you and I won't be thinking about you when I ram my cock on my wife ass and pulling her hair while you be playing with yourself wanting to be me, don't get too excited because like I said before you can only expect to be sorry ass you. Pitiful you.

I hope the government is looking at you, you look like a good candidate for blowing things because no one likes you, hopefully you blow up yourself before you hurt anyone, sorry but you're a pitiful clown that will never amount to anything, make society a favor tie a cinder block on your neck and jump in the hudson please save humanity of your hate. And please post it here before you do it so we can feel safe.

[SheWantsTheD]

lol you do know you are quoting and insulting yourself right? Also use quote + instead of double/triple posting.

[tranlove]

lol you do know you are quoting and insulting yourself right? Also use quote + instead of double/triple posting.

I know I'm quoting myself, I want the fucking hater to see all my opinions of him, he knows he's just a sorry excuse of human being and I don't want him to forget.

If I ever insulted anyone here I apologize from the bottom of my heart and hope my apologies are accepted, I'm not a hater and have no love for haters and personally believe they don't have a place in society, and will not apologize for wishing them gone, I will not be the one getting rid of them but certainly will let them know how I feel. hopefully they take care of themselves. :dead:

[tranlove]

So you have received alot of conflicting advice. Have you yet come to a decision on how you will approach this with your wife?
When will you do it and will you please keep us in the loop on how things go?

As promised I'm happy to say that things are moving to the right direction, just check some post below where I thank Corran for his help, it explains it all. :banana:

[danthepoetman]

Everything you've told us is very promising for you and your wife, it seems to me, Tranlove. You're fortunate to have a companion that is so open minded, but I would repeat, for the potential benefit of others, that in my opinion, in general, honnesty and open hearted communication is always the best, and more often than we feel, lead to understanding and acceptance.
Anyways, I wish you and your wife all the best, Tranlove... :)

[Prospero]

Guys cool it on all the pointless aggression please.... it is Sunday and all... keep the sabbath holy etc....

[tranlove]

Everything you've told us is very promising for you and your wife, it seems to me, Tranlove. You're fortunate to have a companion that is so open minded, but I would repeat, for the potential benefit of others, that in my opinion, in general, honnesty and open hearted communication is always the best, and more often than we feel, lead to understanding and acceptance.
Anyways, I wish you and your wife all the best, Tranlove... :)

Thanks Dan, that's why I want to share it with my wife, but slowly so not to spook her. And it seems that is working.

[Merkurie]

If she is OK with your weekend sausage fests, I don't see why she would have a problem at all.

[Thundergasm]

If she is OK with your weekend sausage fests, I don't see why she would have a problem at all.

From what I've read so far I think she would be more than interested in the idea. Heck, there is a good chance she may already have a pretty good idea. Men are not always as slick as we think we are at hiding things. Women are far more intuitive as a rule and pick up on things.

The weekend "suasage fests" are not just for the guys from what he is saying. The girls have their little get togethers too, so this level of open mindedness is a good sign. I mean, if she is ok with you and other guys jerking off in front of each other, and she and her girlfriends do the same, then the shemale fantasy would just be another "outlet" for you two to experiment. They do offer something for both of you, so.......

[tranlove]

From what I've read so far I think she would be more than interested in the idea. Heck, there is a good chance she may already have a pretty good idea. Men are not always as slick as we think we are at hiding things. Women are far more intuitive as a rule and pick up on things.

The weekend "suasage fests" are not just for the guys from what he is saying. The girls have their little get togethers too, so this level of open mindedness is a good sign. I mean, if she is ok with you and other guys jerking off in front of each other, and she and her girlfriends do the same, then the shemale fantasy would just be another "outlet" for you two to experiment. They do offer something for both of you, so.......

The only problem is that us fantasize about oher women and couple having sex, their fantasies include boys, rape and some lesbo action. we had rented strippers that do each other and a straight couple that like to fuck in public.

[SheWantsTheD]

The only problem is that us fantasize about oher women and couple having sex, their fantasies include boys, rape and some lesbo action. we had rented strippers that do each other and a straight couple that like to fuck in public.

http://i123.photobucket.com/albums/o316/tobaker70/stewie/Celebration_Stewie_042220080647.jpg

[Thundergasm]

The only problem is that us fantasize about oher women and couple having sex, their fantasies include boys, rape and some lesbo action. we had rented strippers that do each other and a straight couple that like to fuck in public.

Ok...so if what you say is true, it seems their fantasies are not for the tame. They seem to go out on the fringe a little. Perhaps there is another in that group other than your wife that could possibly introduce the t-girl fantasy in their group masturbation time and see how she/they react to it. If nothing else your wife might come back and mention it to you. You could judge from there where to take the discussion.

Conversely, you could also come home from one of your group sessions and mention to her it was brought up that night and see what she has to say about it.

Considering how open both groups appear to be, I'm finding it amazing t-girls would be such a hard topic to bring up.

[tranlove]

Ok...so if what you say is true, it seems their fantasies are not for the tame. They seem to go out on the fringe a little. Perhaps there is another in that group other than your wife that could possibly introduce the t-girl fantasy in their group masturbation time and see how she/they react to it. If nothing else your wife might come back and mention it to you. You could judge from there where to take the discussion.

Conversely, you could also come home from one of your group sessions and mention to her it was brought up that night and see what she has to say about it.

Considering how open both groups appear to be, I'm finding it amazing t-girls would be such a hard topic to bring up.

I also thought it wouldn't been a big deal either, but I blurred the idea once during sex and everything came to a quick stop, I moved up in a hurry and continued. I'm counting that bringing it up in our group will spill over to the wives.

[Thundergasm]

I also thought it wouldn't been a big deal either, but I blurred the idea once during sex and everything came to a quick stop, I moved up in a hurry and continued. I'm counting that bringing it up in our group will spill over to the wives.

Yes...that is one way to do it, or if you are friendly with one of the wives ask her to bring it up in their group, but not that it was your idea. Definitively bring it up in your group though. The wives are bound to find out and as we know they like to talk. It will get around :-)

On a side note.....I do find the idea of your group sessions fascinating. I've know of male "circle jerk" things in college and such, but women in groups like that I thought to be rare. At any rate, it sounds pretty damn fun!

[tranlove]

Yes...that is one way to do it, or if you are friendly with one of the wives ask her to bring it up in their group, but not that it was your idea. Definitively bring it up in your group though. The wives are bound to find out and as we know they like to talk. It will get around :-)

On a side note.....I do find the idea of your group sessions fascinating. I've know of male "circle jerk" things in college and such, but women in groups like that I thought to be rare. At any rate, it sounds pretty damn fun!

That's a great idea Thunder, one of my friends knows me from high school and she helped me out during a brief cross dressing phase I had (that's another story), I think she could help, I feel comfortable talking to her.

There are a few masturbating circles around, usually are mixed sexes, we started with a couple we met in a swingers event, from there my they invited us to the circle and we found other couples that we already knew , talking about small world, my friend and I started masturbating together and it grew from there.

[SheWantsTheD]

That's a great idea Thunder, one of my friends knows me from high school and she helped me out during a brief cross dressing phase I had (that's another story), I think she could help, I feel comfortable talking to her.

There are a few masturbating circles around, usually are mixed sexes, we started with a couple we met in a swingers event, from there my they invited us to the circle and we found other couples that we already knew , talking about small world, my friend and I started masturbating together and it grew from there.

Cross dressing is never just a phase. There is more to you, alot more to you than this thread!

[tranlove]

Cross dressing is never just a phase. There is more to you, alot more to you than this thread!

You are so right with the fact that there's alot more to me, lots more, as for cross dressing I did it in my teens as a halloween deal and loved the attention so much that repeated it a few more times. I posted some of my experience, under the Guys - Do you crossdress? post

[tranlove]

I met with my friend from high school and she showed me some porn with a girl named Sarina Valentina, what a beauty, she's going to help out bringing it up to the girls when they meet this Thursday thanks to you Thundergasm for the suggestion. Also thanks to SheWantsTheD that ASHEMALE site is great and thanks to all others who genuinely tried to help, is funny but all answers were in front of me, we are "sex freaks" and don't know why the Tgirl issue is so difficult to address, but now the proverbial ball is rolling and I have the feeling a "happy ending" is coming. :banana:

[Corran]

I met with my friend from high school and she showed me some porn with a girl named Sarina Valentina, what a beauty, she's going to help out bringing it up to the girls when they meet this Thursday thanks to you Thundergasm for the suggestion. Also thanks to SheWantsTheD that ASHEMALE site is great and thanks to all others who genuinely tried to help, is funny but all answers were in front of me, we are "sex freaks" and don't know why the Tgirl issue is so difficult to address, but now the proverbial ball is rolling and I have the feeling a "happy ending" is coming. :banana:

Sarina is a good little bottom, can't go wrong there but I'm telling you, throw some Venus Lux in the mix. Venus is a sensual lover, no matter if she's on the top or bottom and she cums hard (where Sarina orgams but doesen't have much discharge). And while Sarina is one of the prettiest women in the biz (she was my fav. looks wise with the redhair) Venus is a grade A knockout.

[tranlove]

Sarina is a good little bottom, can't go wrong there but I'm telling you, throw some Venus Lux in the mix. Venus is a sensual lover, no matter if she's on the top or bottom and she cums hard (where Sarina orgams but doesen't have much discharge). And while Sarina is one of the prettiest women in the biz (she was my fav. looks wise with the redhair) Venus is a grade A knockout.

No question about it, when she saw the pics of Venus she looked interested, I posted earlier the 2 pics I showed her and of course thanked you in the post too.

[ImpulZ]

that sounds like a double date soon :D