Ecstatic
05-06-2006, 11:13 PM
1. why did you tell her?
d. My wife and I have an open marriage, but the key is that, for us, open means being honest and not secretive. So I've told my wife about my encounters and TS friends and she's quite comfortable with it. This doesn't mean I tell her everything--she wouldn't want all the details--but that I honestly and openly tell her anything she asks.
3. did the relationship end? if so how?
c. Our relationship is better than ever.
4. how do you deal with her knowing?
b. don't regret.. cuz you are glad that the truth is out
5. how do you think your GG girlfriend feels? and/or deals with this?
e. she handled it pretty well. if so y?
8. What is a TS to you? Are TS mostly a sexual thing to you.. therefore you tell your girl she had nothing to worry about.
They are people! In general, several are good friends whom I value as much as any friends in my life. I'm as comfortable being with them as with anyone; their sexuality/gender identity really isn't an issue. On a personal level, I love sex with a pre-op versatile TS partner, so on this level, yes, there's a "sexual thing" going on, but I don't see every TS as a potential sexual partner any more (or less) than I do any woman.
Howzat?
d. My wife and I have an open marriage, but the key is that, for us, open means being honest and not secretive. So I've told my wife about my encounters and TS friends and she's quite comfortable with it. This doesn't mean I tell her everything--she wouldn't want all the details--but that I honestly and openly tell her anything she asks.
3. did the relationship end? if so how?
c. Our relationship is better than ever.
4. how do you deal with her knowing?
b. don't regret.. cuz you are glad that the truth is out
5. how do you think your GG girlfriend feels? and/or deals with this?
e. she handled it pretty well. if so y?
8. What is a TS to you? Are TS mostly a sexual thing to you.. therefore you tell your girl she had nothing to worry about.
They are people! In general, several are good friends whom I value as much as any friends in my life. I'm as comfortable being with them as with anyone; their sexuality/gender identity really isn't an issue. On a personal level, I love sex with a pre-op versatile TS partner, so on this level, yes, there's a "sexual thing" going on, but I don't see every TS as a potential sexual partner any more (or less) than I do any woman.
Howzat?