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tluva
04-05-2013, 01:48 PM
Sorry if you find this offensive, but after reading some of the threads, I get this impression that those who claim to be complete tops are not being honest with us, nor themselves.

As for TS girls, as I understand it... they feel like girls in a boys body. Being boys, they're pervs like all guys, but they're also feminine and sensitive and want what gg girls want. To be dominated, protected, charmed, and loved.

Their girl side includes the desire to be fucked. Not to say that they don't want to fuck a dude from time to time, but by and large, they want to be fucked and have their ass worshiped.

Since a TS is physiologially male, the special connection that they have with straight guys who also bottom is the intimate feeling they share of knowing tha experience.

There's something special about it. Plus, let's face it, getting fucked or just toying with your prostate is sexually stimulating if you remove the psychology of dom/sub, etc.

Lots of nerve endings, undiscovered pleasure senses, and the taboo of it is interesting. I mean let's face it, life gets boring, and after trying every drink, pill, smoke, porn fantasy.. the next level is finding something that's confusingly scary, sexy, painful, and pleasurable all in one. Receiving anal sex falls into that category.

Sorry for being so long winded about this post, but the point I'm making is that if you follow my slightly scattered logic here, it follows that exploring ass play (as the receiver) is something we all enjoy, and those who claim to be strict tops just don't seem genuine

In fact, most TS girls I've spoken with say guys always says they're tops, but then in the bedroom stick their ass up.

If you suck cock like a slut, you want to be a bitch too, and get your ass fucked. Why not just come out with it.

Otherwise, why mess with TS girls at all? Just stick with GG girls.

Anyone agree with this?

Bribi
04-05-2013, 02:07 PM
I don't get of these threads.
More and more everyday.

First, why do you care?
Then, why would do suspect everybody to be a liar?
Finally, do you think your way of thinking is the ultimate and only one?

Everybody does what he wants, and if he wants to pretend, as long as he's not annoying or hurting, let him do.

tsadriana
04-05-2013, 02:13 PM
guys are like girls ,girls are like guys....if a guy wants up his arse good fo him ....lol

giovanni_hotel
04-05-2013, 02:17 PM
Yours is just one point of view.
There are guys on here who ONLY like postop TS.

There's all kinds here. If a guy says he's a top and has no desire to get fucked, why not believe him?? Just because you'll go down on a tgirl doesn't mean you want her to ride you from the back.

"If you suck cock like a slut, you want to be a bitch too, and get your ass fucked. Why not just come out with it."

That's just wrong and illogical.

tluva
04-05-2013, 02:18 PM
I don't get of these threads.
More and more everyday.

First, why do you care?
Then, why would do suspect everybody to be a liar?
Finally, do you think your way of thinking is the ultimate and only one?

Everybody does what he wants, and if he wants to pretend, as long as he's not annoying or hurting, let him do.

Well, it's just a topic of conversation. This is a forum for that after all.

My personal reasons for bringing it up relate to comments I've seen made in threads I had interest in, and those comments smacked of a type of smugness. As if being a bottom is wrong.

Sure, to each their own. I'm just sharing my opinion... and again, my motivation is based on comments I've heard from others that were a bit off putting. I could just let that go... as I suppose you could have with regard to my thread here.

tluva
04-05-2013, 02:25 PM
Yours is just one point of view.
There are guys on here who ONLY like postop TS.

There's all kinds here. If a guy says he's a top and has no desire to get fucked, why not believe him?? Just because you'll go down on a tgirl doesn't mean you want her to ride you from the back.

"If you suck cock like a slut, you want to be a bitch too, and get your ass fucked. Why not just come out with it."

That's just wrong and illogical.

Yes, indeed, this is just my opinion. But illogical, I don't know if I agree.

A man sucking cock is inherently a subject of ridicule for all guys growing up. The joke/insult implies the guy is gay.

And so... these guys grow up being straight, dating GG girls, and then one day get the idea to suck a cock.. but that's not connected to exploring their own femininity?

I would argue on some level it must be. And so as logic would follow, being fucked is definitely in the ball park. Maybe they have other hang ups about it, but despite the "to each their own" argument, there seems to be a fairly clear and obvious line that follows the emotional state of wanting dick in your mouth and wanting to be fucked.

Maybe I'm wrong. But the logic is cogent, and if I'm right, then of all the places on the web, why hide that about yourself here?

dderek123
04-05-2013, 02:33 PM
I don't get of these threads.
More and more everyday.

First, why do you care?
Then, why would do suspect everybody to be a liar?
Finally, do you think your way of thinking is the ultimate and only one?

Everybody does what he wants, and if he wants to pretend, as long as he's not annoying or hurting, let him do.

Yeah I agree with this. Why be so worried about what other people are doing in bed? As long as they aren't hurting anyone it should be fine.

The only time I get bothered by the posters that say that they are strict tops is when they call other members fags for not being strict tops. And then they'll rationalize this with how they have never touched a TSs penis and that makes them 100% straight. Fuck that's annoying, misinformed and juvenile. My ignore list just gets longer as time goes by.

Prospero
04-05-2013, 02:33 PM
99 per cent of almost everything posted should be taken with a pinch of salt

giovanni_hotel
04-05-2013, 02:37 PM
By your logic eating out a GG's pussy would be tantamount to 'exploring one's own femininity'.

When a guy who identifies as straight for most his life suddenly discovers he has an intense attraction for TS, the latent desire to blow a TS isn't about a love for cock. It's about wanting to get her off. There's a difference.

Guys are more goal oriented during sex, unlike women who are more process focused,(wooing, romance, foreplay).

If a guy has sex with a woman and she doesn't have an orgasm, most guys feel inadequate.

It's still illogical to assume because a man will fellate a TS, he really has a secret desire to be fucked.

Even among gay men, not all of them who suck dick want to get fucked.

dderek123
04-05-2013, 02:37 PM
^ well it seems that some members that have come and gone are a salty mess.

tluva
04-05-2013, 02:46 PM
By your logic eating out a GG's pussy would be tantamount to 'exploring one's own femininity'.

Sorry, you lost me here. It's ok, you clearly don't agree with me.

tsadriana
04-05-2013, 02:48 PM
Another day,another thread .

Jericho
04-05-2013, 03:27 PM
Sorry if you find this offensive, but after reading some of the threads, I get this impression that those who claim to be complete tops are not being honest with us, nor themselves.


You wanna take it up the arse, that's your business, but don't try and justify it (to yourself or others) by saying everyone's the same. :shrug

StinkyPete1000
04-05-2013, 04:06 PM
You wanna take it up the arse, that's your business, but don't try and justify it (to yourself or others) by saying everyone's the same. :shrug
Damn straight. What a useless thread.

Ms.Stepford
04-05-2013, 04:08 PM
Being boys, they're pervs like all guys,

Don't say this stupid shit when there are trans women about to hear you.

LongTom101
04-05-2013, 04:09 PM
Sorry if you find this offensive, but after reading some of the threads, I get this impression that those who claim to be complete tops are not being honest with us, nor themselves.

As for TS girls, as I understand it... they feel like girls in a boys body. Being boys, they're pervs like all guys, but they're also feminine and sensitive and want what gg girls want. To be dominated, protected, charmed, and loved.

Their girl side includes the desire to be fucked. Not to say that they don't want to fuck a dude from time to time, but by and large, they want to be fucked and have their ass worshiped.

Since a TS is physiologially male, the special connection that they have with straight guys who also bottom is the intimate feeling they share of knowing tha experience.

There's something special about it. Plus, let's face it, getting fucked or just toying with your prostate is sexually stimulating if you remove the psychology of dom/sub, etc.

Lots of nerve endings, undiscovered pleasure senses, and the taboo of it is interesting. I mean let's face it, life gets boring, and after trying every drink, pill, smoke, porn fantasy.. the next level is finding something that's confusingly scary, sexy, painful, and pleasurable all in one. Receiving anal sex falls into that category.

Sorry for being so long winded about this post, but the point I'm making is that if you follow my slightly scattered logic here, it follows that exploring ass play (as the receiver) is something we all enjoy, and those who claim to be strict tops just don't seem genuine

In fact, most TS girls I've spoken with say guys always says they're tops, but then in the bedroom stick their ass up.

If you suck cock like a slut, you want to be a bitch too, and get your ass fucked. Why not just come out with it.

Otherwise, why mess with TS girls at all? Just stick with GG girls.

Anyone agree with this?



Youre just another long yawn in a long boring line of arrogant pricks convinced of their own righteousness

If youre mature enough, self aware enough, experienced enough, open minded enough and confident enough then you know what you like and what you dont like because you've tried it all and arrived at your own conclusions, you know what youre interested in and what youre not and what turns you on and what turns you off

And then some pompous cretin comes along (typically on a forum) spouting ill informed, self important garbage TELLING others what they are or what they arent

Youre an ass

So go 'bottom' yourself

tluva
04-05-2013, 04:13 PM
Wow.. so hostile and defensive. I must have really struck a nerve. Lol.

tsadriana
04-05-2013, 04:16 PM
Wow.. so hostile and defensive. I must have really struck a nerve. Lol.
Listen if ur thread was about you thats ok...Dont be affraid in sayng you wanted up your arse ,no one will judge you for that ....Just use lots of lube and rubber ...By the way if your arse looks nice i might top you aswell:)
Do you have some pics with your bottom?:)

Prospero
04-05-2013, 04:20 PM
Adriana. You are so mischievous x

LongTom101
04-05-2013, 04:21 PM
Wow.. so hostile and defensive. I must have really struck a nerve. Lol.

The only 'nerve you struck' is telling people you know almost nothing about and most certainly have never met, what they are or what they arent, what they do or what they dont do.

Its the ultimate in pomposity and self important judgmental arrogance.

A quality always inherent within the worst sorts of shit for brains asshole........i.e. case in point.....YOU !

Its this [highlighted in red] human quality that always pisses me off the most, whatever the situation, whatever the subject

Additionally if you took your head out of your own ass for just a second (I think you like it in there just a little too much) youd notice that I didnt offer a single word of defense, so this claimed 'defensiveness' is imaginary, much like everything else inside your swollen hot air filled head

tsadriana
04-05-2013, 04:21 PM
Adriana. You are so mischievous x

Am i?can someone blaime me for wanting his arse?who knows maybe his arse looks great :)x

tluva
04-05-2013, 04:23 PM
Nah, not afraid at all about saying I like it. All of this was really just my opinion -- not meant to start a big flame war or anything. It started when I observed others making snide comments on threads related to bottoming. Stuff like "yet another reason I don't bottom, yuck" -- stuff like that.

I also find it hard to believe guys (and girls too) don't derive some pleasure out of their ass being touched. Every asian massage parlor I've ever been to seems to practice this as their first line of defense when hinting toward an erotic ending.

If you can admit to yourself you like the outside touched, can you rely deny a small well lubed finger on occasion? Anyway, I think you see where I'm going with this.

@tsadrian -- are you in SF? :-)

MdR Dave
04-05-2013, 04:23 PM
If you only go oral, is that really being a "bottom"?

I don't think oral sex should define sexuality- it's just the polite thing to do.

tsadriana
04-05-2013, 04:28 PM
You can ask a moderator to dellete your thread and you can start doing another one about how much you enjoy being treated like a bitch in bed...That would be a nice thread to read dont you think>?:)

tluva
04-05-2013, 04:29 PM
@LongTom101 - You seem like a really angry person. I feel sorry for you. Must be hard to live that way.

Assuming you're smart enough to understand we've found ourselves in a little debate here, the only thing you've been able to prove is that your more vulgar and unpleasant than me.

tluva
04-05-2013, 04:30 PM
Why delete this one to start that one? ;-)

tsadriana
04-05-2013, 04:32 PM
Why delete this one to start that one? ;-)
Because this one its not someting what makes people read...I have to agreeed with most people in here if they are top/bottom is their private life....Like you have urs....

Ms.Stepford
04-05-2013, 04:36 PM
So what about the part where you called trans women boys, OP?

Because I'm still annoyed about that.

tluva
04-05-2013, 04:37 PM
Well, as dderek123 pointed out:


The only time I get bothered by the posters that say that they are strict tops is when they call other members fags for not being strict tops. And then they'll rationalize this with how they have never touched a TSs penis and that makes them 100% straight. Fuck that's annoying, misinformed and juvenile. My ignore list just gets longer as time goes by.

This sort of thing happens -- I mean, I'm not the only one who observed it. So, this was my little rant in defense of that. I don't really care what people do in their private lives. But in my opinion (I hope I'm entitled to share it here), I do have my suspicions about people who express this kind of attitude.

As I've noted, most TS girls I've spoken to all tell me the guy talks top, but wants to be a bottom when they get in bed.

Not saying some don't prefer being top -- but strictly top? Mm.. just hard for me to believe. Just my opinion, despite some people using profanity and hateful rhetoric to shut me up.

tluva
04-05-2013, 04:40 PM
@Ms.Stepford -- how do you mean? You do realize you were born a boy/male right? Psychologically you might identify with being a girl/female, but biologically you are not.

I'm just stating a fact. Not sure why you would be annoyed.

If you care to explain, I'm certainly open to retreating from that comment and rephrasing to be more polite -- if I was impolite.

Bribi
04-05-2013, 04:45 PM
Why is it SO necessary to label everything?
Straight, gay, bottom, top,...
God, do what you want and don't label everything. Just do it and let people do it.

Ms.Stepford
04-05-2013, 04:45 PM
Your binary view of sex and gender is educated stupid.

You straight up said "being boys...they're pervs," or something like that.

Whatever people decided to call me when I was born, I was never a boy, and you have no business making such assertions where it concerns anyone but yourself.

tluva
04-05-2013, 04:50 PM
Um, labels exist for reason. It appears you don't like them... particularly as they apply to your sexuality. But labels, definitions, categories, etc... that stuff exists so we can make sense of this world.

I don't mean to offend by trying to use language that relies on labels and words that you don't appreciate. It's the only vocabulary I have to work with. Perhaps I'll learn more as I go along, but hun, if you have/had a penis, you were a boy. If you don't believe that, you're seriously in denial.

Bribi
04-05-2013, 04:53 PM
Um, labels exist for reason. It appears you don't like them... particularly as they apply to your sexuality. But labels, definitions, categories, etc... that stuff exists so we can make sense of this world.

I don't mean to offend by trying to use language that relies on labels and words that you don't appreciate. It's the only vocabulary I have to work with. Perhaps I'll learn more as I go along, but hun, if you have/had a penis, you were a boy. If you don't believe that, you're seriously in denial.

Pedophile or serial killers exist, racism exists, is that a good thing we should absolutely do with too?

Labels are way too restrictives and lead to stupide arguments like that.
"I'm straight, but what if I kinda like TS? Then I'm gay? But no, I like women. Then I'm bi? But TS aren't men, but can't be considered girl because of the penis? So what I am?"

See how stupid it can be?

Just say what you like, what you do and stop giving names to it.

Ms.Stepford
04-05-2013, 04:54 PM
hun, if you have/had a penis, you were a boy. If you don't believe that, you're seriously in denial.

Um, no. According to the best information they had when I was born they decided to call me a boy, but I have never actually been one.

tluva
04-05-2013, 04:57 PM
We're way off on a tangent here. I think this thread has run its course. Cheers.

Ms.Stepford
04-05-2013, 04:57 PM
You just don't get to tell me who/what I am or have been.

Just because the language that your people invented to talk about these things works for you, doesn't mean it works for all of us.

Ms.Stepford
04-05-2013, 04:59 PM
We're way off on a tangent here. I think this thread has run its course. Cheers.

translation: I said something stupid and ignorant and rather than think about it and correct myself, I'm in over my head, and I have to go now.

Prospero
04-05-2013, 05:00 PM
Trixy stepford is one of my favourite people here

Ms.Stepford
04-05-2013, 05:00 PM
I'm not a trick!

Y'all are the tricks! :p

Prospero
04-05-2013, 05:02 PM
Sorry. That was a mistype TRIXY

Ms.Stepford
04-05-2013, 05:08 PM
Haha. Try again!

At least you didn't put an 'e' on the end. That's always irksome.

Prospero
04-05-2013, 05:23 PM
T r i x i

FreddieGomez
04-05-2013, 05:25 PM
doesnt interest me to be a bottom.

i only mess with ts chicks who prefer "straight" top dudes in their personal lives.

that getting topped shit is for dudes who are tricks to pay for.

tluva
04-05-2013, 05:35 PM
@FreddieGomez -- Lol, you just proved my point!

f-finger
04-05-2013, 05:36 PM
doesnt interest me to be a bottom.

i only mess with ts chicks who prefer "straight" top dudes in their personal lives.

that getting topped shit is for dudes who are tricks to pay for.

you are one of those fantasizing bout cock up their ass 24/7. Those types who are constantly busy stating how much of a top only they are. Ever heard of overcompensation? lol

tsadriana
04-05-2013, 05:41 PM
:)http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZaKwLYZe8k4
I wont say no to an ass like that...what do you think girls?

Ms.Stepford
04-05-2013, 05:43 PM
I'd play with it, but I'd rather those muscles be used to drive him into me!

tluva
04-05-2013, 05:47 PM
I'm not that bulked. I'm more like this, with less tan. Don't have a butt pic though.

http://24.media.tumblr.com/2239ed832e86bda66332e4888fa28858/tumblr_mkfr3prm841qh3r88o1_1280.jpg

amberskyi
04-05-2013, 05:51 PM
:)http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZaKwLYZe8k4
I wont say no to an ass like that...what do you think girls?

I can easily say no.ass is nice for looking...maybe licking but for putting my penis into? Um where's your mouth

GroobySteven
04-05-2013, 06:02 PM
We're way off on a tangent here. I think this thread has run its course. Cheers.

Actually you might have just about done your course?
I'm suspicious of anyone in this forum who ... has been a member since 2006 but their first real interaction is to to start attacking people.

I've no interest in being a bottom to anyone - guy, TS, girl with strap on. There is no denial, I'm not trying to cover anything up or have hidden desires. By your definitions in your original post you'd be comfortable getting fucked off a guy. You're just further along on the scale than I am.

I'm all man. The girls I like are all girl. That's how I roll and there are plenty of others who do also.
Continue to insult the girls here and your next posts will be in another 7 yrs.

tluva
04-05-2013, 06:05 PM
Uh, ok dude. Not sure that drivel adds much, but thanks for sharing.

GroobySteven
04-05-2013, 06:19 PM
Uh, ok dude. Not sure that drivel adds much, but thanks for sharing.

Hmmm, thanks for visiting ... good to see you're unable to continue on your rubbish, when presented with some facts.

tluva
04-05-2013, 06:23 PM
You're the type that's going to need to get the last word in, regardless of how stupid it is right? Go ahead. I know your type.

Ms.Stepford
04-05-2013, 06:23 PM
I'm absolutely certain that seanchai will be able to get the last word if he wants it.

tluva
04-05-2013, 06:24 PM
He can't help himself. That's the trait of every village idiot.

Ms.Stepford
04-05-2013, 06:25 PM
Hahahahaha!

Dino Velvet
04-05-2013, 06:28 PM
Lemme jack this sumbitch before it gets locked.

Calgon Detergeant's Ancient Chinese Secret - YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BJP5f-fsHrs)

GroobySteven
04-05-2013, 06:30 PM
He can't help himself. That's the trait of every village idiot.

Dispute what I said, how am I an idiot, Nathan?
I know more about tgirls and more about the guys who are into them, then you could ever dream.

broncofan
04-05-2013, 09:16 PM
This guy (tluva) is arrogant to the extreme. What he said about sex is also descriptively wrong since he thinks there are only two variants. This is the binary sex model which is challenged by the existence of intersex individuals. Not only are there over 6 different features doctors look at to determine sex, there are even more than two genetic variants of sex. Among those who are genetically male, you also have significant hormonal variations. Have you ever heard of 5 alpha reductase deficiency? Born with male genitalia and an x and a y chromosome but break down testosterone into estradiol only and do not produce the very androgenic dht. Klinefelter's? Turner's? What about those born with external genitalia between 1 and 2.5 cm?

The reason people say that these are just labels is because the reality is both more interesting and more complicated. Perhaps you'd like to read a book before you tell someone they are a boy or a girl?

Ms.Stepford
04-05-2013, 09:19 PM
Maybe now that a man has said it, it will make sense to him. Probably not!

broncofan
04-05-2013, 09:23 PM
Maybe now that a man has said it, it will make sense to him. Probably not!
I doubt it. I thought you said it perfectly well yourself and it didn't seem to resonate!

Ms.Stepford
04-05-2013, 09:37 PM
Sometimes all it takes is for the same ideas to be conveyed by a deeper voice, unfortunately.

Prospero
04-05-2013, 09:43 PM
Do you thinks twerps like him would shut up if they understood that Seanchai has the power to oust them? Probably not. How odd to lurk so long and then emerge into the light as such a plonker

broncofan
04-05-2013, 09:50 PM
Perhaps I'll learn more as I go along, but hun, if you have/had a penis, you were a boy. If you don't believe that, you're seriously in denial.
But even as early as the 1970's doctors did not agree with you. In fact, many children who were born with a penis were considered intersex and were raised as females. Why was female chosen as the default sex for some of these children? Only because it was surgically easier to "normalize" a child by removing tissue than adding it.

Many of these children perhaps would have chosen to have this surgery for themselves when they reached an age of consent. Others would not have. Some had surgery and were told they were female, but later on decided they did not identify as female.

Now you might say that whatever the gender identification of these children, their sex was either male or female. This is what I am telling you. That's not true. When you look at many of these factors, such as phenotypic sex, gonads, hormone levels, genetics, up to four percent of children are neither entirely male onr female. That's hardly on the margins in my opinion. So what you are saying is scientifically anachronistic and just plain false.

Ms. Stepford, was my voice deep enough:)?

Willie Escalade
04-05-2013, 10:39 PM
You're the type that's going to need to get the last word in, regardless of how stupid it is right? Go ahead. I know your type.


I'm absolutely certain that seanchai will be able to get the last word if he wants it.

When you're the owner of the forum AND the only person with the power to ban or delete someone, you're goddamn right you're gonna get the last word in.

And yes, I'm one of those guys who like to top only. I'm not gonna lie and say I've never thought about bottoming though; it's just not my thing.

I should revert back to my previous signature...

EvaCassini
04-05-2013, 10:46 PM
Willie...is that a young you in yer prof pic? ;) pretty handsome!

Willie Escalade
04-05-2013, 10:48 PM
Willie...is that a young you in yer prof pic? ;) pretty handsome!
Oh hell no! If I was a football player I would NEVER in my right mind take a picture like that. I just borrowed it from Pinterest...

EvaCassini
04-05-2013, 10:52 PM
LMAO nice

tluva
04-05-2013, 10:56 PM
Wow, so moderators on this forum call people out by their names when they disagree with them? Tell you what, don't bother "banning" me. I'll happily leave on my own.

EvaCassini
04-05-2013, 11:03 PM
hahahaha

EvonRose
04-05-2013, 11:10 PM
your making an assumption due to how you feel...

But many people don't like anal sex.

Not everyone is attracted to the same gender, sexuality, or fetishes.

Not everyone feels pleasure from anal sex

not every woman feels the need to be sub and be sexually the receiver...

we assume what society thinks or the opposite of society norms, but there is a middle ground to everything, not everything is black and white, but you can't say everything is gray either, because there is black and white...

maxpower
04-05-2013, 11:14 PM
Wow, so moderators on this forum call people out by their names when they disagree with them? Tell you what, don't bother "banning" me. I'll happily leave on my own.



....

tluva
04-05-2013, 11:24 PM
I love this hypocritical attitude: "Accept my world views or else I'll bash you for your world views!!"

Did I make a false statement? Ok, so educate me. But your approach here, if you trail it back to where it went off track, was to start bashing me.

As for my orignal opinion about being suspicious of those who say they're strict tops, that's an opinion that could have been rationally debated.

For those of you have been angry at the world because it doesn't accept you for who you are, it would behoove you to see what you've constructed here in the world of this forum. You're acting the very same way toward those you don't agree with.

It's cruel.

EvonRose
04-05-2013, 11:42 PM
I love this hypocritical attitude: "Accept my world views or else I'll bash you for your world views!!"

Did I make a false statement? Ok, so educate me. But your approach here, if you trail it back to where it went off track, was to start bashing me.

As for my orignal opinion about being suspicious of those who say they're strict tops, that's an opinion that could have been rationally debated.

For those of you have been angry at the world because it doesn't accept you for who you are, it would behoove you to see what you've constructed here in the world of this forum. You're acting the very same way toward those you don't agree with.

It's cruel.

Even tough i thought your message or op was not though out well,a nd in many ways sounded very ignorant...

I do agree with you in terms of this community sometimes being as brash and prejudice as the real world itself, but when you are beneath power you will demand more respect, but being in a higher position you would think they would respect the community more. I do not think this site is civilized, so you won't get that from here... so if you want a civilized conversation, not here.. lol

EvonRose
04-05-2013, 11:45 PM
There are other forums to go to that is structured more civilized but it still has it's negatives..

But sites that have fair banning rules

The moderators cannot get into topic or arguments because of the "i will ban you card" so you don't feel disrespected and unfairly treated by moderators....

but other than that I think the problem was your post, you sounded so narrow and closed, it was almost trying to offend some people....

tluva
04-05-2013, 11:59 PM
There are other forums to go to that is structured more civilized but it still has it's negatives..

But sites that have fair banning rules

The moderators cannot get into topic or arguments because of the "i will ban you card" so you don't feel disrespected and unfairly treated by moderators....

but other than that I think the problem was your post, you sounded so narrow and closed, it was almost trying to offend some people....

I appreciate the feedback, and agree in that I'll both find a different forum and that my post underestimated the civility of this forum.

I was genuine when I stated in my OP "sorry if you find this offensive". I wasn't being snarky or anything of the sort. I formed my impression over the course of knowing many TS girls and talking to them about this issue, and frankly was hoping some on this forum would validate what I was saying, which is that many guys claim to be strict tops in public, but behind closed doors are not.

My motivation for bringing all this up was to both have a healthy discussion about it, and to respond to what I've sensed to be an occasional elitest tone directed at those who share that they like being topped, by those who claim they would never be topped.

Anyway, thanks for your feedback, I appreciate that my post may have come across improperly albeit that was not by design.

Quiet Reflections
04-06-2013, 12:32 AM
I just don't understand why people can't just let other people like whatever they want to like. We don't all get off on the same things. I for one don't enjoy my ass being touched,fingered or fucked but that doesn't mean Im better or worse than someone that does.

EvaCassini
04-06-2013, 01:35 AM
....

Hun, I crack up EVERYTIME I see your Profile Pic! I love it! LMAO I can't wait for the ding-dang-diddlely damn second half to premier! :)

robertlouis
04-06-2013, 03:47 AM
Yet another thread which starts with a claim by the OP that their definition of transsexual sex is somehow the only one that applies. Give it up FFS.

There are probably as many sexual preferences on this board as there are members.

You like what you like and why should anyone else give a fuck?

:deadhorse:deadhorse:deadhorse

nysprod
04-06-2013, 04:22 AM
I was genuine when I stated in my OP "sorry if you find this offensive". I wasn't being snarky or anything of the sort. My motivation for bringing all this up was to both have a healthy discussion about it...

Anyway, thanks for your feedback, I appreciate that my post may have come across improperly albeit that was not by design.

You're so full of it...you're just a baiting troll...

sheyum
04-06-2013, 05:10 AM
wow
heavy thread

sheyum
04-06-2013, 05:13 AM
i think (though i guess its been stated before) that the simple problem here is that sexuality is complex....anyone on the forum...whether it be T-luva, or the "tops" who doth profess to loudly, should just accept that there are many ways to think and feel..
and we're NOT all the same...and our reasons for liking the girls..or specific sexual acts...or particular roles....are different....there ARE no molds!!

maxpower
04-06-2013, 05:16 AM
Hun, I crack up EVERYTIME I see your Profile Pic! I love it! LMAO I can't wait for the ding-dang-diddlely damn second half to premier! :)


You're ahead of me. I've only seen as far as the first two episodes of the first half of Season 5. I need to get on it.

EvaCassini
04-06-2013, 05:18 AM
haha...hun...you must catch up....literally the best show.....i think it starts back up in june maybe...but i do have a few things to hold me over till then...like Game of Thrones, Doctor Who, and Ironman 3 :) :) :)

dderek123
04-06-2013, 05:24 AM
haha...hun...you must catch up....literally the best show.....i think it starts back up in june maybe...but i do have a few things to hold me over till then...like Game of Thrones, Doctor Who, and Ironman 3 :) :) :)

|Game of Thrones is great! There's a lot of death coming up this season. (I read the wiki on the novels so I guess I cheated).

maxpower
04-06-2013, 07:52 AM
haha...hun...you must catch up....literally the best show.....i think it starts back up in june maybe...but i do have a few things to hold me over till then...like Game of Thrones, Doctor Who, and Ironman 3 :) :) :)


...and Star Trek.

EvonRose
04-06-2013, 08:02 AM
there are bunch of nerds on this forum....

robertlouis
04-06-2013, 08:34 AM
there are bunch of nerds on this forum....

No shit! :D

Saint_Frankenstein
04-06-2013, 05:31 PM
Hahaha, more wrangling over nonsense by an insecure cis guy who hasn't the fainting idea of what the fuck he's talking about.

"then one day get the idea to suck a cock.. but that's not connected to exploring their own femininity?"

Hahaha. I'm a queer guy and I'd love to suck a cock (a dude's cock, even) and that desire isn't in anyway connected to femininity, neither is my desire to get fucked by a girl OR a guy.

nysprod
04-06-2013, 06:10 PM
Sorry if you find this offensive, but after reading some of the threads, I get this impression that those who claim to be complete tops are not being honest with us, nor themselves.



I'm suspicious that tluva and Miss Sex Appeal are the same troll.

Saint_Frankenstein
04-06-2013, 06:21 PM
Tluva, it is quite obvious that it is you who wishes to explore his inner femininity by taking a penis (or penises?) into his orifices. Perhaps you wish to exhance the experience by donning smoldering eyeliner, lip gloss, a mini-skirt and heels while you do it? If so, please remember to photograph/videotape it and share it with the rest of the class so that we may all congratulate you on your personal triumph of discovering your inner slutty girl. ;)

MdR Dave
04-06-2013, 07:12 PM
Aren't they all that "straight tricker" poster?

bbqueen
04-07-2013, 01:51 AM
Tluva, it is quite obvious that it is you who wishes to explore his inner femininity by taking a penis (or penises?) into his orifices. Perhaps you wish to exhance the experience by donning smoldering eyeliner, lip gloss, a mini-skirt and heels while you do it? If so, please remember to photograph/videotape it and share it with the rest of the class so that we may all congratulate you on your personal triumph of discovering your inner slutty girl. ;)

Not to defend tluva, he clearly is confused, but you making this sound like its a bad thang!

You shouldn't be judgin people for what they into! Some of ya'll be tripp'n just like the OP.

Lovecox
04-07-2013, 01:59 AM
I'm suspicious that tluva and Miss Sex Appeal are the same troll.

LOL! busted!

dderek123
04-07-2013, 11:02 AM
I'm suspicious that tluva and Miss Sex Appeal are the same troll.

I think so as well. Trolling can be fun but some people take it too far.

Saint_Frankenstein
04-07-2013, 11:07 AM
Not to defend tluva, he clearly is confused, but you making this sound like its a bad thang!

You shouldn't be judgin people for what they into! Some of ya'll be tripp'n just like the OP.

Lol. I'm just teasing him, since he thinks that sucking dick and taking it in the ass in an inherently feminine thing.

Actually, I think the scenario I described would be really hot to watch, especially if he can truly pull off an androgynous look. ;)