Girls, what u do when u reach client n he changes mind n doesnt want u?

[Miss Sex Appeal]

It never happened so far but I'm thinking what if it happens one day I go to see a client and he refuses to pay me cos I am not his 'type'. What am I suppose to do? That's why compared to other girls I never take the risk of paying taxis(that they say they will reimburse) to move but use public transport.

Girls did that ever happen to you? What did you do in that case and you moved a long way to arrive their place and they don't want you nor give you a little compensation for moving to them?

[EvaCassini]

I dont escort much, Camming is my dominant way for income, but no, never had this happen to me BUT .......If it were to happen to me...I would take all his personal contact info and spread it to any social network I could and say "avoid this person at all costs. He's dangerous, ignorant, arrogant, and disrespectful". That would make me feel better about the situation lol

[SheWantsTheD]

I dont escort much, Camming is my dominant way for income, but no, never had this happen to me BUT .......If it were to happen to me...I would take all his personal contact info and spread it to any social network I could and say "avoid this person at all costs. He's dangerous, ignorant, arrogant, and disrespectful". That would make me feel better about the situation lol
I really really hope you are joking. Escorting is all about discretion. You break that and its you who will end up losing money and business (minor) or attacked (major).

[EvaCassini]

not necessarily....there are SO MANY FISH IN THE SEA!!!!!!! Plus it could help other girls avoid someone like that. For a guy to call an escort, have her go far to him...then opt out, just because "he doesn't want you" ...HE SAW THE DAMN PICS....what else was he thinking other than being a complete jerk twat dick.

Discretion is up to the escorter and escortee...

Like I said...I cam predominately because it is so much more satisfying and I can chat more with guys and learn about them. I make decent money camming...I find no need to escort.

[amberskyi]

not necessarily....there are SO MANY FISH IN THE SEA!!!!!!! Plus it could help other girls avoid someone like that. For a guy to call an escort, have her go far to him...then opt out, just because "he doesn't want you" ...HE SAW THE DAMN PICS....what else was he thinking other than being a complete jerk twat dick.

Like I said...I cam predominately because it is so much more satisfying and I can chat more with guys and learn about them. I make decent money camming...I find no need to escort.

it's cool, what he doesn't know is the girls have their own forum in which we share such information between ourselves.
Personally,i just save their number as "don't pick up" , put it in my call blocking app and laugh as those fools try to get in contact.
Never had someone actually show up or answer and say I'm not his type but there are allot of time wasters.

[SheWantsTheD]

For a guy to call an escort, have her go far to him...then opt out, just because "he doesn't want you" ...HE SAW THE DAMN PICS....what else was he thinking other than being a complete jerk twat dick.

He was probably thinking he'd been tricked. A picture is worth a thousand lies when its airbrushed.

[EvaCassini]

well ...those girl who "falsify" pics for escorting are stupid, inexperienced, or looking for conflict.

Some girls get too photo shop happy and say..."I'd get more business, if I had tits, or a bigger butt, or less man-ness." But of coarse they must be downright brainless and probably are still wondering why the guy declined. But .......

If the girl's pictures are real and true and a guy, for no proper reason, declines after all the girl had to do for sed session....then..."Fuck him and all his internal organs!"

[Tits McButts]

It never happened so far but I'm thinking what if it happens one day I go to see a client and he refuses to pay me cos I am not his 'type'. What am I suppose to do? That's why compared to other girls I never take the risk of paying taxis(that they say they will reimburse) to move but use public transport.

Girls did that ever happen to you? What did you do in that case and you moved a long way to arrive their place and they don't want you nor give you a little compensation for moving to them?

If you ever get a client like that, just let it go; losing the money from one session is far better than risking your safety trying to recover it.

The next thing I'd recommend is to get on a few of these community sites that are provider friendly and have a ladies-only section. Tell any other providers in your area about your experience, the guy's name, and what he looks like. Much of the trans community operates like a secret society. As long as the information gets to the right person, it's not long before nearly everybody in the community is aware.

[Tits McButts]

well ...those girl who "falsify" pics for escorting are stupid, inexperienced, or looking for conflict.

Some girls get too photo shop happy and say..."I'd get more business, if I had tits, or a bigger butt, or less man-ness." But of coarse they must be downright brainless and probably are still wondering why the guy declined.

It's dreadful how many girls insist that their pictures look fake as hell. I'd imagine that Jaime could probably attest to an experience like this. I know she's pretty nice with photoshop, too. I can't understand the "plastic skin" look and I've helped a few girls with escort ad pictures where I've gone through revision after revision only to realize they want every single skin blemish, mole, visible pore, and skin crease edited out, extensive body shaping, and nearly cartoonish color saturation.

Keeping slight imperfections is what makes an escort ad pic believable IMO. A photoshopped modeling pic shouldn't scream "This has been photoshopped".



He was probably thinking he'd been tricked. A picture is worth a thousand lies when its airbrushed.
Not if it's "airbrushed" correctly. A lot of artists just go way, way overboard.

[Tits McButts]

I really really hope you are joking. Escorting is all about discretion. You break that and its you who will end up losing money and business (minor) or attacked (major).

That's not true at all. Most of the discussion takes place completely behind-the-scenes. The johns in question rarely find out they've been marked until they keep getting turned down by provider after provider. Since not every girl reports these incidents and men willing to cheat a provider usually cheat several of them, he's likely going to have trouble pinpointing who specifically narced him out anyway and if that leads him to bad-mouthing most of the girls he's tried to rip-off, it's only a further detriment to his cause.

[Willie Escalade]

What if the guy was going to HER place for an incall and changed his mind? That happens as well you know...

[EvaCassini]

honestly...like is said ( regardless if incall or outcall ) if the girl exploits photo shop incorrectly then its her fault for putting up a false facade.

Jamie and I only use photo shop on our pictures to give the best white balance and color temp. Brush out a blemish or two, a random pimple, or maybe a bruise or scratch. The quality of our pictures comes from the true image we provide.

There is no reasonable point to, in essence, "lie" about your image...unless you look like a yeti...or a sloth...or a t-rex in a bra...and in those cases you are most likely SOL & JWF ( Shit out of Luck & Jolly well Fucked ) ...unless you can find a doctor or magician lol :p

[Jayjj222]

I have left before - the problem is the fake pics. Seems like most of the pics are fake and I can't find 1 decent person to see in ct!

[Dino Velvet]

If I come for Betty and Barney Rubble answers the door, I'm gone. If Arabic Mariam answers the door I treat her like Barney too. Even worse bait & switch.

[EvaCassini]

hahaha....I have no idea of any TS's in CT hun....as for Barney Rubbles and Mariams...fuck'em....they have no decency lol

[Dino Velvet]

hahaha....I have no idea of any TS's in CT hun....as for Barney Rubbles and Mariams...fuck'em....they have no decency lol

Mariam hides behind many veils. Sometimes she's Arabic, sometimes Persian, occasionally Turkish, and even Brazilian when a wild hair gets up her ROB ass. She needs sanctions put on her or an embargo placed against her. Awarded Worst Hooker in California and Arizona the same year. That tiara must have flies circling it.

[EvaCassini]

love it! hahahah

[Jamie French]

Ya'll are gonna hate me so much more then you already do, but... This happened to me once and only once. So I sent the guy a paypal invoice and told him to pay up or I would send all his info and our correspondence to the cops. I told him that I could afford to turn us in because a day or two in the city jail is nothing to a person in my line of work but that it could totally destroy his life. I said if he did pay and any foul play befell me later on down the line as retribution that his info is tucked away in an envelope that my brother keeps so they know who the primary suspect is. I was issued payment immediately.

[gurkhabeast]

not necessarily....there are SO MANY FISH IN THE SEA!!!!!!! Plus it could help other girls avoid someone like that. For a guy to call an escort, have her go far to him...then opt out, just because "he doesn't want you" ...HE SAW THE DAMN PICS....what else was he thinking other than being a complete jerk twat dick.

Discretion is up to the escorter and escortee...

Like I said...I cam predominately because it is so much more satisfying and I can chat more with guys and learn about them. I make decent money camming...I find no need to escort.

i mean no disrespect here but that's bull! you talk about seeing the gurls pic, i'm sure heard of the bait n switch. a lot of people take great pics but when you see them in real life they look totally different. guyshave the right to refuse to not go through the date just like gg/tgurl has the right to refuse service. but to refuse a tgurl doesn't give the guy the right to be a dick about it and be rude.

[EvaCassini]

notice the name of the thread?...."Girls, what u do when u reach client n he changes mind n doesnt want u?"

If he's an ass about it...then he should be treated as such.

I've said it before...I don't care to escort. I always get bad feelings about it being the "scary, possibly dangerous guy" or "a cop". Only time I do escort is if it is a guy who is a regular of Jamie's when we do a share thing or someone I get to know for a while in person.

I don't take those chances personally. That's why I cam and I am very happy with camming.


Is it really bullshit that if the guy is an ass to one girl, and I advise other girls not to take him up for the other girl's safety, time, and emotional well-being? I don't think so.

[Jayjj222]

This site should start a section that validates both sides to keep everyone honest.

[EvaCassini]

also .......like I have said before.....if any girl who is dumb enough to do bait and switch or use photo shop to give false images...then she deserves to get turned down.

[Jayjj222]

also .......like I have said before.....if any girl who is dumb enough to do bait and switch or use photo shop to give false images...then she deserves to get turned down.
Yup - and that's what we'll do!

[gurkhabeast]

Ya'll are gonna hate me so much more then you already do, but... This happened to me once and only once. So I sent the guy a paypal invoice and told him to pay up or I would send all his info and our correspondence to the cops. I told him that I could afford to turn us in because a day or two in the city jail is nothing to a person in my line of work but that it could totally destroy his life. I said if he did pay and any foul play befell me later on down the line as retribution that his info is tucked away in an envelope that my brother keeps so they know who the primary suspect is. I was issued payment immediately.
thats just plain dumb. extortion and blackmail. people are stupid plain and simple. i've refused to go through a date once. the girl was nice looking in real life better than her pics, but when she answered the door a rank smell came pouring out of her appartment. i told her sorry but i can't go through it and left.

[EvaCassini]

one more thing...why do alot of people on here take my statements out of context??????? and i mean the context from all the posts I make about each subject.

It seems that some just read one of my posts and has some kind of problem, when they are not reading all the posts i have wrote in regards to a subject.

[Bobzz]

ing that card
Ya'll are gonna hate me so much more then you already do, but... This happened to me once and only once. So I sent the guy a paypal invoice and told him to pay up or I would send all his info and our correspondence to the cops. I told him that I could afford to turn us in because a day or two in the city jail is nothing to a person in my line of work but that it could totally destroy his life. I said if he did pay and any foul play befell me later on down the line as retribution that his info is tucked away in an envelope that my brother keeps so they know who the primary suspect is. I was issued payment immediately.

That's called blackmail. You're an idiot for ever playing that card.

[gurkhabeast]

notice the name of the thread?...."Girls, what u do when u reach client n he changes mind n doesnt want u?"

If he's an ass about it...then he should be treated as such.

I've said it before...I don't care to escort. I always get bad feelings about it being the "scary, possibly dangerous guy" or "a cop". Only time I do escort is if it is a guy who is a regular of Jamie's when we do a share thing or someone I get to know for a while in person.

I don't take those chances personally. That's why I cam and I am very happy with camming.


Is it really bullshit that if the guy is an ass to one girl, and I advise other girls not to take him up for the other girl's safety, time, and emotional well-being? I don't think so.
How dare they refuse a tgurl! Now you will pay for your insolence! absurd, right? but that's what it sounds like you & some are sounding like. and yes, WE GET IT. YOUR A CAM GIRL NOT REALLY AN ESCORT FOR THE UPTEEN TIME. talk about a shameless plug of oneself.

[gurkhabeast]

This site should start a section that validates both sides to keep everyone honest.
yes, i totally agree. that would be the fair thing.

[gurkhabeast]

one more thing...why do alot of people on here take my statements out of context??????? and i mean the context from all the posts I make about each subject.

It seems that some just read one of my posts and has some kind of problem, when they are not reading all the posts i have wrote in regards to a subject.
i agree with your prior post. but saying why are people taking what your saying out of context, is because of what you said on your first. guy refuses date w/ tgurl, slander the guy for doing so. that's all you said in a nut shell. u didn't say anything about a bait n switch until later post.

[tsdvdman]

ing that card

That's called blackmail. You're an idiot for ever playing that card.
That's not only blackmail. That's desperation and extremely psychotic from someone who is mentally unstable

[Miss Sex Appeal]

Ya'll are gonna hate me so much more then you already do, but... This happened to me once and only once. So I sent the guy a paypal invoice and told him to pay up or I would send all his info and our correspondence to the cops. I told him that I could afford to turn us in because a day or two in the city jail is nothing to a person in my line of work but that it could totally destroy his life. I said if he did pay and any foul play befell me later on down the line as retribution that his info is tucked away in an envelope that my brother keeps so they know who the primary suspect is. I was issued payment immediately.

I love what u did haha! :D

[Miss Sex Appeal]

What if the guy was going to HER place for an incall and changed his mind? That happens as well you know...

Yeah but it's less annoying for incall as outcall YOU need to move out and make the effort while incall it's him, so I wouldn't care much being rejected for an incall.

[gurkhabeast]

Yeah but it's less annoying for incall as outcall YOU need to move out and make the effort while incall it's him, so I wouldn't care much being rejected for an incall.

as long as one is honest be it tgurl or john, there shouldn't be a problem incall or out. a guy can refuse service as much as a tgurl can refuse service. and i bet tgurl refusing service to a john more often a john refusing a tgurl. what i don't agree is the extremes some are stating here. no one should slander, blackmail, or extort anyone for refusing a date regardless if it'a tgurl or a john.

[Jamie French]

I'd easily do it again if the circumstances were the same... life without a little danger, a little chaos as garnish... well that's no life that I'd ever want to live. Our stories are all we got and I want mine to be as interesting as possible... even if on occasion it brings potential or even actual harm my way.


ing that card

That's called blackmail. You're an idiot for ever playing that card.

[gurkhabeast]

I'd easily do it again if the circumstances were the same... life without a little danger, a little chaos as garnish... well that's no life that I'd ever want to live. Our stories are all we got and I want mine to be as interesting as possible... even if on occasion it brings potential or even actual harm my way.

you can live an interesting n exciting life w/o hurting other for your enjoyment. you're one of two things. either u r a bitch who loves causing harm to others which means u r very unstable mentally. or 2, u r not really a bitch, and you just write idiotic comments to see if you can get a rise from someone. which in turn makes a very needy and lonely person who just wants some sort of evaluation. no, i don't hate, like you suggested on your first post. i just feel sorry fr you.:sadcry