Party Friendly? Really??

[shermanwt]

Is anyone else put off when escorts advertise that they are 420 friendly or snow bunnies? To me, it seems to be reckless to put that out there and I can't help but conclude that if an escort is that unconcerned about advertising that fact, they may be up for other, shall we say, reckless activities, like bareback anal. Maybe I'm a prude, but to me, if I see things like that advertised, I skip that escort. Now, I'm not naïve to the point of drug usage, but I just feel some things are better left unsaid. If an escort and a client want to engage in that, so be it, but to put it out there for me is too much.

[Jamie French]

I immediately block the email of any potential client that asks if I "party". It goes both ways.

Ultimately It's the responsibility of a better person to keep the lesser people at bay.

[broncofan]

I agree with you that it makes it worse that they have bad enough judgment to include it in the ad. I had a girl at a strip club tell me that she only does cocaine but not any of the hard drugs. I know what she meant as maybe meth can be worse, and heroin, but coke is not exactly taking it easy on your body.

If someone doesn't take care of their body in one respect they may be unlikely to in other respects so I agree with you. Not a necessary assumption but not a bad one either.

People who are on drugs that lower inhibitions may just say "fuck it" when it comes time to put on a rubber or insist someone else do so.

[Prospero]

Sometime back I was chatting to a girl after a session and she started telling me about the different drugs she'd tried and their impact - speed, crack and heroin. I haven't ever gone back. She was keen on heroin (smoked not injected). Oh dear.

[broncofan]

And I realize you're talking about the advertisement of that activity mostly, but that they use isn't a great fact to know either.

[Dino Velvet]

I see a gal who's a little too GFE and she nags me about my use of marijuana.

[Prospero]

world of difference Dino.. give her some ecstasy (no not the drug... just darn good sex)

[TSMichelleAustin]

I get offended when clients call and ask me!!!! Or ask to pay me in Weed... sorry I dont smoke to justify being paid in it! Those years are long behind me! I barely drink anymore!

[thombergeron]

Is anyone else put off when escorts advertise that they are 420 friendly or snow bunnies? To me, it seems to be reckless to put that out there and I can't help but conclude that if an escort is that unconcerned about advertising that fact, they may be up for other, shall we say, reckless activities, like bareback anal. Maybe I'm a prude, but to me, if I see things like that advertised, I skip that escort. Now, I'm not naïve to the point of drug usage, but I just feel some things are better left unsaid. If an escort and a client want to engage in that, so be it, but to put it out there for me is too much.


FRLS? You don't see any difference in terms of risk between smoking marijuana and unprotected receptive anal sex?

You need to read a book or talk to a doctor or something. Using marijuana casually is not bad for you. Having bareback anal sex with casual partners will definitely result in death or chronic illness. The two activities aren't even on the same risk-taking scale.

[Bigshot88]

If it's anything harder than weed, i'm not interested. A "Snow bunny" will get no attention from me. But weed? To me it's like coming over with a little rum or some beer. A mild, relatively harmless party favor that tends to break the ice. it's a social experience, not like being slumped in the corner with a needle in your arm.

[SuzySnappz]

The very first escort ad I put out I listed myself as a "fun party girl". I just wanted to portray a fun image like a clubbing girl, I wasn't even thinking of drugs. But then the calls wanting to "party" started coming in and I had to change my ad quick, lol.

[Willie Escalade]

Weed I don't mind and liquor is cool as well. Partying with Mary Jane is fine. Skiing or partying with Tina is out of the question...although that one time this girl DID do a line while I was nailing her...

[mysetriousman666]

marijuana is widely used and has less health effects than both alcohol and cigarettes so i consider that to be a regular thing(i smoke).

[Idt20082008"]

Just this weekend I met someone on Saturday night while i was out and we ended up back at her place (technically her friends place as she lives out of town) and as soon as we got back there, she started hitting me up for money - but according to her not for her "services" but for drugs. I didn't have much on me at that point and told her so, but she wouldn't do anything until I gave her something. I gave her my last $25 at which time she made a phone call and then started giving me a blowjob - and then proceeded to take out a crack pipe and take a hit. Then took another hit and tried to give me a mouth hit - I turned my head so quick I tweaked my neck lol. I left shortly thereafter and frankly, I can't imagine good things for her in the future. I'm fine with weed and can't even say I haven't tried coke once or twice, but that's way out of my league

[shermanwt]

FRLS? You don't see any difference in terms of risk between smoking marijuana and unprotected receptive anal sex?

You need to read a book or talk to a doctor or something. Using marijuana casually is not bad for you. Having bareback anal sex with casual partners will definitely result in death or chronic illness. The two activities aren't even on the same risk-taking scale.

Talk about coming out with guns blazing. You tell me to read a book? Maybe you should take your own advice and read my post. My comment is about the advertising of drug use in an escort's ad and the lack of judgment I think it shows, which may lead to other poor choices by her. Im not equating smoking pot to bbfs with an escort on an actual risk scale.

[robertlouis]

The day I feel I need artificial stimulants, chemical or otherwise, to have a good time is the day I book a one-way trip to Switzerland.

[Dino Velvet]

I like weed so much I rip a bong hit right before pinching off a loaf so I can enjoy being high while sitting on the toilet. It enhances the entire evacuation experience.

[BiBoyinBeantown]

My understanding is that the po-po often put stuff like that in the ad so they can get a 2-for-1 bust when the would-be client shows up. Solicitation *and* felony drug possession.

That said, the worst hazard from occasional marijuana use is the risk of arrest. I don't smoke, though, and like TSMichelleAustin I barely even drink.

Blow, meth, heroin...right out.

[TSMichelleAustin]

My understanding is that the po-po often put stuff like that in the ad so they can get a 2-for-1 bust when the would-be client shows up. Solicitation *and* felony drug possession.

That said, the worst hazard from occasional marijuana use is the risk of arrest. I don't smoke, though, and like TSMichelleAustin I barely even drink.

Blow, meth, heroin...right out.

You are so on point with that!!!

[thombergeron]

Talk about coming out with guns blazing. You tell me to read a book? Maybe you should take your own advice and read my post. My comment is about the advertising of drug use in an escort's ad and the lack of judgment I think it shows, which may lead to other poor choices by her. Im not equating smoking pot to bbfs with an escort on an actual risk scale.

The first example you gave was "420 friendly," which specifically means pot smoking.

Note that you did not also express concern about escorts who requests gifts of wine or offer their clients cocktails as part of their service. Having sex while drunk is a more significant risk factor for condom non-use than is marijuana use.

Marijuana does not impair one's judgement in the way that cocaine, methamphetamine, or alcohol do. You may not like to use marijuana yourself, and that's fine. But your post clearly implied that you view marijuana use as an indication of a broader lack of judgement and poor health. You should just be aware that this is a cultural attitude and is not based on evidence.

[SammiValentine]

marijuana is widely used and has less health effects than both alcohol and cigarettes so i consider that to be a regular thing(i smoke).

Tbh 1 glass of red per day is probably the "healthiest" out of the lot, that and a heavy use of olive oil contributes to why people in the med outlive a lot of the rest of the world. Now i wonder if they start smoking spliffs will they live any longer....??? Hmm probably not ;-)

We can keep kiddig oursevles though hah x

[shermanwt]

But your post clearly implied that you view marijuana use as an indication of a broader lack of judgement and poor health. You should just be aware that this is a cultural attitude and is not based on evidence.

I think that's where the disconnect is--I have no problem with smoking or using whatever drugs. My point is the advertising of smoking (and any other drug use) to me is what I have an issue with. If she's advertising it and she's partaking of it with each client that is seen that day, to me, that makes me question her judgment simply because she may be stoned, high, or whatever by the time my appointment rolls around. And if she's on a bender, well she won't have her wits about her and that's where trouble starts. I look at it this way--if I'm an accountant and in my ads I say that I get drunk or high at work, how much confidence would you have in my ability to properly perform at my job? Escorting is a business.

[Prospero]

I assume that the "party friendly" girls mean if you bring they'll share. I can't see that, for the prices they ask, they'll be offering a line of coke or a bong full of fun for an inclusive price (plus if it were the latter they'd not really be able to work very much that day, surely).

Stick to a nice healthy glass of red wine.... and some tortilla chips.

[9inchesthickncut]

I get offended when clients call and ask me!!!! Or ask to pay me in Weed... sorry I dont smoke to justify being paid in it! Those years are long behind me! I barely drink anymore!


God knows I love my 420 — and I'm thrilled to live in a state where recreational use for adults is now legal (http://www.newapproachwa.org/) — but attempting to pay a lovely t-girl with weed is just bad form.

And partying with receptive girls is great — it gives you another point of commonality, and can definitely help remove any inhibitions.

I'd love to smoke out Jane Marie; I suspect there would be quite a line for that privilege.

[thombergeron]

I think that's where the disconnect is--I have no problem with smoking or using whatever drugs. My point is the advertising of smoking (and any other drug use) to me is what I have an issue with. If she's advertising it and she's partaking of it with each client that is seen that day, to me, that makes me question her judgment simply because she may be stoned, high, or whatever by the time my appointment rolls around. And if she's on a bender, well she won't have her wits about her and that's where trouble starts. I look at it this way--if I'm an accountant and in my ads I say that I get drunk or high at work, how much confidence would you have in my ability to properly perform at my job? Escorting is a business.

Escorting is a kind of business, but that definition is so broad as to be useless. Escorting has virtually nothing in common with accountancy. Escorts are in the business of providing pleasure. For many, substance use is pleasurable. Sex work has been tied to substance use for as long as there has been sex work. So I think you're compounding your misunderstanding by making a inapt analogy.

I'm running pretty close to my pedantry quota for the day, so let me try to be brief. The attitudes toward risk in this thread are culturally biased. And not just your attitude toward one's willingness to combine sex with cannabis. Sammi and Prospero both refer to "healthy" red wine. There is no good evidence to support the positive health effects of red wine, and there's an overwhelming body of evidence of the deleterious effects of daily alcohol consumption. But red wine is seen as "classy" and consuming alcohol is culturally acceptable and well integrated into societal norms, so otherwise intelligent and well educated people allow themselves to believe things about it that are not true.

[thombergeron]

God knows I love my 420 — and I'm thrilled to live in a state where recreational use for adults is now legal (http://www.newapproachwa.org/) — but attempting to pay a lovely t-girl with weed is just bad form.

Yes. It's a weed. It will grow and produce anywhere with very little effort.

Particularly, in states where it's legal or even simply decriminalized like in Cali, marijuana has essentially no monetary value. This is an important point as our country continues to grapple with prohibition. I read an interesting analysis recently that estimated that legal mass-produced cannabis would likely cost the consumer something on the order of 2 to 3 cents per joint.

[broncofan]

I'm running pretty close to my pedantry quota for the day, so let me try to be brief. The attitudes toward risk in this thread are culturally biased. And not just your attitude toward one's willingness to combine sex with cannabis. Sammi and Prospero both refer to "healthy" red wine. There is no good evidence to support the positive health effects of red wine, and there's an overwhelming body of evidence of the deleterious effects of daily alcohol consumption. But red wine is seen as "classy" and consuming alcohol is culturally acceptable and well integrated into societal norms, so otherwise intelligent and well educated people allow themselves to believe things about it that are not true.
I agree generally with what you're saying, but let me put it this way. People who are risk averse are in some ways irrational about risk. When someone advertises that they are 420 friendly it may not create an objectively risky situation but in some ways reflects a risk tolerance. You can see so far my post is pedantic as well.

People have all sorts of rules of thumb about various types of behavior and may see an attitude that makes them wary. What if someone's willingness to deviate from cultural norms with respect to some harmless behaviors indicates a willingness to do so with respect to those norms that have a more rational basis?

My intuition is that those escorts who are extremely careful with what they write in their advertisements are more likely to be cautious in other aspects of their life. Their caution in their ads might be excessive, but it could reflect a general tendency to take care.

[Prospero]

Keep your hat on everyone. Eat, drink, smoke and be merry etc etc.....

[Tits McButts]

Some escorts like weed and blow. Suggesting that their johns procure and provide is a lot easier than having to hunt it down. Lazy bitches. :smh

[robertlouis]

Stick to a nice healthy glass of red wine.... and some tortilla chips.

Wot?? No full English? ;) :whistle:

[nysprod]

I look at it this way--if I'm an accountant and in my ads I say that I get drunk or high at work, how much confidence would you have in my ability to properly perform at my job? Escorting is a business.

Sherman...can't these girls claim their drug use as a business deduction?

[shermanwt]

Sherman...can't these girls claim their drug use as a business deduction?

Why not? I claim seeing them as an entertainment expense.

[sheyum]

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