im thinking to quit TS porn becuase.....

[blackshemalelove]

hey everyone (especially guys who secretly view TS porn or have some encounters and have or had a girlfriend/wife in meantime)

I currently have a girlfriend and plan to remain the same since where i am from is not allowed different (by society) and no TS available (even though i probably would like to date a TS)

But i see that the more regularly i visit this site and TS porn the more attracted i get towards TS and less attractive towards women (i am still very attracted by females, but now they gotta be more hot than before, and of course i think that if they had a tool beneath i would be happier)

This is causing me to have less sex with my gf as im not aroused as often and i know that sexy is necessary for a healthy relationship.

Did someone have the same problem? would make my life much easier if i had people on the same boat lol

[south ov da border]

porn does that period.

If you are worried about not being attracted to your GF it might be a personal problem. Or you just bust too many nuts. Save them and it will build up your sexual energy.

Or practice some yoga. http://anmolmehta.com/blog/2008/06/11/tantra-yoga-technique-tantric-sex/

IMO your mind is overstimulated. I went thru the same thing with my ex, but I found it wasn't just the porn, it was me KNOWING that she wasn't the one for me but still staying with her. Eventually that worked itself out...

[blackshemalelove]

great feed back...thanks

[thegatoman]

When your with your girlfriend,How bout you close your eyes and imagine a transexual, it could save your relationship

[amberskyi]

Lmao...poor woman.
I wonder how many guys imagine sex with a gg while screwing a ts

[giovanni_hotel]

There's nothing wrong with being MORE attracted to TS women than GG women.
I love both, but I think I'm about 10% into preop tgirls more.

All things being equal, and I had to choose between a beautiful TS and a lovely GG, I would mostly choose the Tgirl.

However if you really don't see TS as really feminine or WOMEN, then I can see how you'd be conflicted.



The problem is lack of supply on my end, not desire.

[moonunit7]

I think a LOT more guys would openly date transsexuals if it weren't so culturally taboo. I'm pretty fortunate to live in an area where people don't freak out as much, if/when they find out. I have a beautiful TS gf and I'm totally comfortable going out with her. I'm pretty sure that based on the look in their eyes, some guys wish they were in my shoes.

I would love to see a few TS's in Hollywood movies. This would break down a lot of walls and change the way many people view them, aesthetically, personally and culturally.

[bxtoni]

I went through this. It's the porn. Don't look at ANY porn for a while, then you'll want to look at your girlfriend's tits again...

Or just fuck a shemale and see how you feel about it...

Both solutions are valid :-D

[richsaint18]

Now that I finally have a TS girlfriend I find myself fantasising about genetic girls.....weird.

[Tits McButts]

When your with your girlfriend,How bout you close your eyes and imagine a transexual, it could save your relationship

When a man loves a woman who sucks in bed, most men cheat or dump them.

You're a pussy.

I mean, obviously it's better to talk this stuff out and teach her some new tricks, but that involves patience... and stuff. It's complicated. Anyway, how you imagine your girlfriend's clamtrap is three sizes too small and a shade brown is beyond me. Do you still play with legos and believe in Narnia?

[blackshemalelove]

There's nothing wrong with being MORE attracted to TS women than GG women.
I love both, but I think I'm about 10% into preop tgirls more.

All things being equal, and I had to choose between a beautiful TS and a lovely GG, I would mostly choose the Tgirl.

However if you really don't see TS as really feminine or WOMEN, then I can see how you'd be conflicted.



The problem is lack of supply on my end, not desire.
i was not saying that there is anything wrong with dating TS for me....i would actualy love to...but the problem is that where im from is the biggest taboo and therefore they dont exist at all

i once had to travel far to meet a ts for first time and have sex which charged my batteries for quite a while and now i need to re do it again i think...anyways thanks

[blackshemalelove]

I think a LOT more guys would openly date transsexuals if it weren't so culturally taboo. I'm pretty fortunate to live in an area where people don't freak out as much, if/when they find out. I have a beautiful TS gf and I'm totally comfortable going out with her. I'm pretty sure that based on the look in their eyes, some guys wish they were in my shoes.

I would love to see a few TS's in Hollywood movies. This would break down a lot of walls and change the way many people view them, aesthetically, personally and culturally.
i deff wish i was in your shoes....lucky ass lol..good luck

[blackshemalelove]

I think a LOT more guys would openly date transsexuals if it weren't so culturally taboo. I'm pretty fortunate to live in an area where people don't freak out as much, if/when they find out. I have a beautiful TS gf and I'm totally comfortable going out with her. I'm pretty sure that based on the look in their eyes, some guys wish they were in my shoes.

I would love to see a few TS's in Hollywood movies. This would break down a lot of walls and change the way many people view them, aesthetically, personally and culturally.
i deff wish i was in your shoes....lucky ass lol..good luck

[SheWantsTheD]

Its too late OP! Quitting the porn will make it easier for you to fuck your gf but it won't stop you wishing she had that extra special quality.
You will most likely cheat on her now and then with a ts instead of cheating on her with a gg.

[MHarrigan82]

hey everyone (especially guys who secretly view TS porn or have some encounters and have or had a girlfriend/wife in meantime)

I currently have a girlfriend and plan to remain the same since where i am from is not allowed different (by society) and no TS available (even though i probably would like to date a TS)

But i see that the more regularly i visit this site and TS porn the more attracted i get towards TS and less attractive towards women (i am still very attracted by females, but now they gotta be more hot than before, and of course i think that if they had a tool beneath i would be happier)

This is causing me to have less sex with my gf as im not aroused as often and i know that sexy is necessary for a healthy relationship.

Did someone have the same problem? would make my life much easier if i had people on the same boat lol

What area do you live at? I am currently dating a TS and I got a few looks from people that have clocked her which is very rare since she is passable in public. She still has her male name on driver license. I like transwomen and genetic women but I see myself eventually marrying a genetic woman down the road due to wanting my own biological kids.

[EvonRose]

hey everyone (especially guys who secretly view TS porn or have some encounters and have or had a girlfriend/wife in meantime)

I currently have a girlfriend and plan to remain the same since where i am from is not allowed different (by society) and no TS available (even though i probably would like to date a TS)

But i see that the more regularly i visit this site and TS porn the more attracted i get towards TS and less attractive towards women (i am still very attracted by females, but now they gotta be more hot than before, and of course i think that if they had a tool beneath i would be happier)

This is causing me to have less sex with my gf as im not aroused as often and i know that sexy is necessary for a healthy relationship.

Did someone have the same problem? would make my life much easier if i had people on the same boat lol

So then don't be in a relationship with her. It sounds to me you lost interest in her so save her the heartbreaks and emotional roller coaster and be single and indulge on your porn and fantasy... Being with someone because of society pressure just hurts everyone...

And no sometimes sex can be unhealthy especially when you build a relationship mainly on sex. Relationship goes far beyond that. And many people lack control, honestly and respect thats why 50 percent end up failing...

[Dino Velvet]

Its too late OP! Quitting the porn will make it easier for you to fuck your gf but it won't stop you wishing she had that extra special quality.
You will most likely cheat on her now and then with a ts instead of cheating on her with a gg.

Instead of quitting he should go full-on Clockwork Orange watching it wall to wall until it's unbearable making him have violent involuntary sickness.

http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/cultureshock/flashpoints/theater/images/clockwork_big.jpg

[Fancy fancy]

I adore you Evon x:salad



So then don't be in a relationship with her. It sounds to me you lost interest in her so save her the heartbreaks and emotional roller coaster and be single and indulge on your porn and fantasy... Being with someone because of society pressure just hurts everyone...

And no sometimes sex can be unhealthy especially when you build a relationship mainly on sex. Relationship goes far beyond that. And many people lack control, honestly and respect thats why 50 percent end up failing...

[nysprod]

So then don't be in a relationship with her. It sounds to me you lost interest in her so save her the heartbreaks and emotional roller coaster and be single and indulge on your porn and fantasy... Being with someone because of society pressure just hurts everyone...

And no sometimes sex can be unhealthy especially when you build a relationship mainly on sex. Relationship goes far beyond that. And many people lack control, honestly and respect thats why 50 percent end up failing...

Evon, you are wise and beautiful...

[SheWantsTheD]

So then don't be in a relationship with her. It sounds to me you lost interest in her so save her the heartbreaks and emotional roller coaster and be single and indulge on your porn and fantasy... Being with someone because of society pressure just hurts everyone...

And no sometimes sex can be unhealthy especially when you build a relationship mainly on sex. Relationship goes far beyond that. And many people lack control, honestly and respect thats why 50 percent end up failing...

50%? That number is far too high.
Everyone has a tonne of ex girlfriends or boyfriends. The relationship success rate is a very low number.
I can never understand the people who want someone to be single just because there are one or two hiccups in the relationship. You can't expect a relationship to be perfect. It always needs work and there are always just some things that each person has to deal with or put up with to keep it going.
Seems to me a bunch of people in the world just want everyone to be single. I'm not sure if its because they want a larger pool of people to pick from or because they want people to be lonely and miserable.
The guy would be worse off without his gf. At least for the moment he has some comfort from her.

[EvonRose]

50%? That number is far too high.
Everyone has a tonne of ex girlfriends or boyfriends. The relationship success rate is a very low number.
I can never understand the people who want someone to be single just because there are one or two hiccups in the relationship. You can't expect a relationship to be perfect. It always needs work and there are always just some things that each person has to deal with or put up with to keep it going.
Seems to me a bunch of people in the world just want everyone to be single. I'm not sure if its because they want a larger pool of people to pick from or because they want people to be lonely and miserable.
The guy would be worse off without his gf. At least for the moment he has some comfort from her.

there is nothing wrong with being single if you know that you don't have the control and commitment you have.

It's worst to be in a relationship when your unsatisfied, and obviously confused and questioning.

Yes a relationship needs work but you can't use one hiccup or two as an excuse to just do a third. That is what a partnership is for it's both needs and not just the comfort of the man, he also needs to be mindful of her well being and her comfort, you can't be selfish... and if you are the more you need to be single.