Question for men who are tops only

[Prospero]

There are lots of guys here who have no interest whatsoever in letting a transsexual's cock anywhere near their ass. And some who are not the least bit interested in giving oral sex either.

But presumably they love anal sex with these girls or getting blow jobs. So I was wondering, if the girls cocks are of no sexual interest for them, what makes anal or oral sex with a TS better than similar sex with a genetic girl?

[GroobySteven]

There are lots of guys here who have no interest whatsoever in letting a transsexual's cock anywhere near their ass. And some who are not the least bit interested in giving oral sex either.

But presumably they love anal sex with these girls or getting blow jobs. So I was wondering, if the girls cocks are of no sexual interest for them, what makes anal or oral sex with a TS better than similar sex with a genetic girl?


It's partly a mental thing, a state of mind but the part is it's very visual and as a voyeur, I enjoy that.

[Willie Escalade]

Most of the girls are actually into it...

[D_Rock]

Most girls that I know love to be top. I started out only being a top a long time ago. I didn't want to be bottom. Plus being bottom hurt like hell in the beginning. Now I am fine with being bottom.

[Prospero]

So far Seanchai is the only person who ha actually answered my question - that it's a mental thing, a voyeuristic thrill. Seeing the cock I guess but not actually playing with it.

My journey was different - from GGs using strap-ons to wanting to sample the real thing (which was much, much better) and then discovering the plural pleasures and interesting personalities of transsexuals. I enjoy topping and being topped. But yes ,part of it is still a "mental thing."

[D_Rock]

I think it was a mental thing for sure. I never thought that being a bottom was something acceptable to me. Just the thought of it made me feel that it would make me less of a man somehow. Now I think about it wondering why the hell I thought that. If your only a top then your missing out on a lot. haha.

[Jamie French]

Just so long as there ARE men who top, I'm happy... bottoms creep me out.

[flabbybody]

There are lots of guys here who have no interest whatsoever in letting a transsexual's cock anywhere near their ass. And some who are not the least bit interested in giving oral sex either.

But presumably they love anal sex with these girls or getting blow jobs. So I was wondering, if the girls cocks are of no sexual interest for them, what makes anal or oral sex with a TS better than similar sex with a genetic girl?
I have to take exception to your original premise. It should read "there are lots of guys here who claim to have no interest...........
Phase one of chaser development is self denial, especially about the part of her anatomy that has aroused the guy's attraction. As men mature and learn how do deal with the "am I gay" thing they become more comfortable with doing the sexual things with a t they've always wanted to do in the first place.

[Prospero]

Good point Flabby.

But ref the post by jamie can we please not let this turn into the "I am straight but like XYZ" or the "passive men creep me out." There have been 101 threads of that sort already. I asked the opening question out of a genuine curiosity about the men who purport not to be interested in a transsexual for her male parts yet seek them out as sexual partners..

[amberskyi]

These top/bottom debates are so old...beyond fucking old.
It's always the tops claiming their straighter than everyone else and the bottoms proclaiming their sexual freedom and that to be with tgirl means having to love cock.
Who the hell cares, go out and fuck something in which ever way you see fit

[rockabilly]

I just like giving anal sex.
I don't ask myself why i just do what feels good and for me being a top feels "right".

[Prospero]

Amber... i agree with the sentiment of your post.

What I was trying to get at is some reflection by those who proclaim themselves as tops on why choose transsexuals as their partners, if the genitalia are of no interest.

[Jericho]

What I was trying to get at is some reflection by those who proclaim themselves as tops on why choose transsexuals as their partners, if the genitalia are of no interest.

Just because i don't want it shoved up my arse doesn't mean it's of no interest! :shrug

[amberskyi]

Amber... i agree with the sentiment of your post.

What I was trying to get at is some reflection by those who proclaim themselves as tops on why choose transsexuals as their partners, if the genitalia are of no interest.

Some guys just see as us woman,i really don't think it's that deep.

[nysprod]

There are lots of guys here who have no interest whatsoever in letting a transsexual's cock anywhere near their ass. And some who are not the least bit interested in giving oral sex either.

But presumably they love anal sex with these girls or getting blow jobs. So I was wondering, if the girls cocks are of no sexual interest for them, what makes anal or oral sex with a TS better than similar sex with a genetic girl?

As far as penetration goes, I'm top only...but I love giving and receiving oral and all forms of touching.

As far as tops not wanting anything to do with TS dick, it's horses for courses. I mean, there probably are people who get off having insects on their genitals, and we just had the case here in NY of the cop who got off on cannibal fantasies...turns out the chat rooms dedicated to that particular fetish are quite popular.

So it seems that what you've hit on is simply another frequency in the never-ending sexual spectrum.

[wiltthestilt]

There are lots of guys here who have no interest whatsoever in letting a transsexual's cock anywhere near their ass. And some who are not the least bit interested in giving oral sex either.

But presumably they love anal sex with these girls or getting blow jobs. So I was wondering, if the girls cocks are of no sexual interest for them, what makes anal or oral sex with a TS better than similar sex with a genetic girl?

Well I would give oral and did during my only sesssion with a TS. Regarding bottoming, it strikes me as uncomfortable and not erotic. Just have no interest. I wonder if the guys on here who wouldnt even touch the dick will eat pussy with a female. I know I often enjoy it more than even receiving oral.

[jndupu]

There are lots of guys here who have no interest whatsoever in letting a transsexual's cock anywhere near their ass. And some who are not the least bit interested in giving oral sex either.

But presumably they love anal sex with these girls or getting blow jobs. So I was wondering, if the girls cocks are of no sexual interest for them, what makes anal or oral sex with a TS better than similar sex with a genetic girl?

It is not better. It is more, lemme see, "goes without saying" - suck my dick, then turn around lemme hit dat hole.

We dig pussy too, a lot. Anal sex is a naughty thrill but getting it off most GGs is not often on the menu. I especially love black booties and, in my experience, it is even more complicated there.

If the trend changes up to a point anal sex is more taken for granted, I will be exclusively GG. The target is the hole (as long as it is wrapped in a believable feminine package), not the dick.

BTW, Prospero, if you're genuinly looking for enlightement on what thrills others, you should not be so receptive to that guy upthread who asserts that they claim not to be ... etc. Once you accept that people get their kicks and make their choices off different things, there's no need for the amateur psychology. Like I said, I hope you are genuinely interested in enlightement.

[Teydyn]

Some guys just see as us woman,i really don't think it's that deep.
That would be nice, but how many of the "top only" are "on the DL only" too?

[amberskyi]

That would be nice, but how many of the "top only" are "on the DL only" too?

Actually i find that bottom guys tend to have the most hang ups about their sexuality and actually dating the girls.
But i don't deal with dl mean at all socially so i don't really know

[Ms.Stepford]

Actually i find that bottom guys tend to have the most hang ups about their sexuality and actually dating the girls.
But i don't deal with dl mean at all socially so i don't really know

I like lots of things you say.

I find it to be true too. Guys who are ALLLL about bottoming are the secretive ones who are really easy to squeeze money out of, but top guys tend to be all "yeah...she's hot and she makes my dick feel good. What the fuck do you care?"

[dabaldone]

These top/bottom debates are so old...beyond fucking old.
It's always the tops claiming their straighter than everyone else and the bottoms proclaiming their sexual freedom and that to be with tgirl means having to love cock.
Who the hell cares, go out and fuck something in which ever way you see fit

Amen Amberskyi!

[llllllarry]

I don't know why, I just find them so damn sexy!

[maxpower]

Just because i don't want it shoved up my arse doesn't mean it's of no interest!


As far as penetration goes, I'm top only...but I love giving and receiving oral and all forms of touching.


I think a lot of the thrill is mental. I found it sexy that I was with someone who had the appearance and gender identity of a female but was born male.


I also found transsexuals personally intriguing because I knew they had often had to deal with a great deal of strife in order to live the way they wanted. That type of boldness/courage is attractive in a partner.



I agree with all of the above. I find trans women to be very sexy and appealing, both visually and mentally. I enjoy a transsexual woman's femininity, and appreciate the things she has gone through to be who she is. I am attracted to the unique physicality of transsexual women, and during sex I enjoy touching and giving oral sex as well as recieving it, but I have no desire to be penetrated when it comes to fucking. Just not into it.

[bluesoul]

Amber... i agree with the sentiment of your post.

What I was trying to get at is some reflection by those who proclaim themselves as tops on why choose transsexuals as their partners, if the genitalia are of no interest.

i've often wondered this myself but i've never heard a reason that made sense to me.

personally, i've never had sex with a transgendered person so i would known if that's "better" as you alluded in your original question. the only porn i watched with trannies was called 'trantastic' and it featured trannies banging girls. that and what's on this forum is where am at.

[EvaCassini]

Why do some people have sticks up their butts.........grow up...why would anyone in REALITY pick up some random black dude to make that video. Your brain is preposterous. HAHAHA ....anyways....Can we get back to talking about COCKS encroaching on my butt! MONEYSHOT! :claps :claps :claps

Yummy Yummy Yummy! Gimmie dat TGIRL ASS! So smooth, plump and clean!

[yosi]

all of us do what turns us on the most , different strokes for different folks.

[bluesoul]

Why do some people have sticks up their butts.........

obviously because they're warming up for the penis that will go in there later (see what did there?)

:salad

[EvaCassini]

obviously because they're warming up for the penis that will go in there later (see what did there?)

:salad

haha ...nice!

[lordworm]

I don't care about these gay vs straight labels. I just love feminine asses and anal sex. I'm well and good with having anal sex with GGs, TGs are just far less likely to refuse and they feel more pleasure from it.

[Quiet Reflections]

I don't think anal is better with a TS. It think sex being better or worse depends on how you feel about your partner. I am a top but Im not one that talks bad about bottoms or calls himself 100% straight. I personally have tried giving oral and didn't enjoy doing it. I have also tried anal and didn't enjoy that feeling. As a result I have never done either again and made it known in the beginning of relationships that I don't do it. I also never specifically went out hunting for TG/Ts girls over GG's. I went out with my friends and if there was a pretty girl Then I tried to hook up. I'm married to a post op girl now and before her srs I still never touched her penis. That wasn't just because of how I felt but she didn't like it either. Everyone isn't into the same things as im sure you all know but It surprises me that some people get so bent out of shape when someones tastes differ from theirs. You are not a freak for loving to suck cock and I'm not crazy or strange because I don't. It is really about finding the person that compliments you the best and as we have all read here the girls welcome the tops and bottoms with open arms if they come correct.

[Quiet Reflections]

Well I would give oral and did during my only sesssion with a TS. Regarding bottoming, it strikes me as uncomfortable and not erotic. Just have no interest. I wonder if the guys on here who wouldnt even touch the dick will eat pussy with a female. I know I often enjoy it more than even receiving oral.
I love eating pussy way more than getting oral. I never really gave a shit about getting blow jobs.Getting head was just never a big thing for me I could always just take it or leave it.

[bluesoul]

I'm well and good with having anal sex with GGs, TGs are just far less likely to refuse and they feel more pleasure from it.

interesting observation. why do you suppose tranny's are less likely to refuse anal sex?

[amberskyi]

interesting observation. why do you suppose tranny's are less likely to refuse anal sex?

Lol seriously?

[Ms.Stepford]

Shhhh! Nobody tell!

[Byalongshot]

Some guys just see as us woman,i really don't think it's that deep.


BINGO, for me, a total top, I am drawn to true fems who have zero interest in topping and although few and far between I view them as 100% female. I quickly lose interest when the girl indicates a certain interest in my most private of private areas. It's a deal killer and certainly a thrill killer, but that's just me.

[Ms.Stepford]

BINGO, for me, a total top, I am drawn to true fems who have zero interest in topping and although few and far between I view them as 100% female. I quickly lose interest when the girl indicates a certain interest in my most private of private areas. It's a deal killer and certainly a thrill killer, but that's just me.

That's really not fair. A good portion of us are trained to think that's what guys want -especially those of us who do sex work. I'd honestly never bring it up, because in the case of real intimacy (not charging) I'd rather bottom (but I still want head, for sure), but it's not hard to imagine that a girl would pretend to have more of an interest than she does because that's what a lot of us do professionally.

[amberskyi]

That's really not fair. A good portion of us are trained to think that's what guys want -especially those of us who do sex work. I'd honestly never bring it up, because in the case of real intimacy (not charging) I'd rather bottom (but I still want head, for sure), but it's not hard to imagine that a girl would pretend to have more of an interest than she does because that's what a lot of us do professionally.

i just adore me some good head

[wiltthestilt]

I don't care about these gay vs straight labels. I just love feminine asses and anal sex. I'm well and good with having anal sex with GGs, TGs are just far less like y to refuse and they feel more pleasure from it.

I feel the same way. If I see an adult that looks good, I want to fuck it. Im attracted to feminine gg's and feminine TS's. I dont know why that implies I have some secret I am withholding. I would ideally fuck both the same way. I like what I like.
Call it whatever you want.

[alyssaluxor]

I like lots of things you say.

I find it to be true too. Guys who are ALLLL about bottoming are the secretive ones who are really easy to squeeze money out of, but top guys tend to be all "yeah...she's hot and she makes my dick feel good. What the fuck do you care?"

:iagree: :iagree::iagree:

I agree with Amber and Ms Stepford from my experience bottom/passive TS admirer/chasers seems to be the one whos complicated and hard to handle. Top/active men just saw me as a beautiful lady and hot one so he fuck me no complication at all, i love it ;)

[Byalongshot]

Some guys just see as us woman,i really don't think it's that deep.


That's really not fair. A good portion of us are trained to think that's what guys want -especially those of us who do sex work. I'd honestly never bring it up, because in the case of real intimacy (not charging) I'd rather bottom (but I still want head, for sure), but it's not hard to imagine that a girl would pretend to have more of an interest than she does because that's what a lot of us do professionally.

Please know that I was not judging and I indicated that this was strictly my opinion. I certainly understand the dilemma, and I would not be surprised if I was more of exception, for sure the comments I get from the ladies indicate that to be the case. My very best experience have been with 2 girls who said they never top. Of course they certainly did enjoy oral and I gladly obliged.

[Byalongshot]

:iagree: :iagree::iagree:

I agree with Amber and Ms Stepford from my experience bottom/passive TS admirer/chasers seems to be the one whos complicated and hard to handle. Top/active men just saw me as a beautiful lady and hot one so he fuck me no complication at all, i love it ;)


Amen, Alyssa hope to see you later this year when I head to shanghai.

[STARTUP999]

Does it creep you out to have a man go down on you?

[nysprod]

:iagree: :iagree::iagree: Top/active men just saw me as a beautiful lady and hot one so he fuck me no complication at all, i love it ;)

Girl, you totally speak my language!

[alyssaluxor]

Amen, Alyssa hope to see you later this year when I head to shanghai.

Yes keep in touch my dear and hope to meet sometime :salad


Girl, you totally speak my language!

Beijos Papi :jerkoff

[Marky_B]

Interesting thread, here's my two pence worth from a recent member but longtime stalker of this board...
Taking it slightly off topic to start... Based on the general chat on here and especially the escort reviews it seems the majority of (male) posters are largely into being bottom making the board more bottom oriented which I imagine is what leads to threads like this, but I have to say it amazes me just how many reviews are from bottoms. So much so that I've even been considering starting a thread along the lines of "Recomend Tgirls in LDN who can take a seriously hard fucking and not complain or demand an extra £50 for it", (although it would have a more concise title than that!) because there don't seem to be many reviews from a tops point of view at all.
But I digress... While I have been topped on occasion it's just not really something i'm into, but this doesn't mean i'm not into girls with cocks, far from it. But for me personally, if I really try to get to the root of why I like Tgirls, while there are many reasons I think main reason can best be summed up by the long running thread called "Bulges and "filled" underwear", if you know what I mean, this is where the excitement is for me :)

[LongTom101]

There are lots of guys here who have no interest whatsoever in letting a transsexual's cock anywhere near their ass. And some who are not the least bit interested in giving oral sex either.

But presumably they love anal sex with these girls or getting blow jobs. So I was wondering, if the girls cocks are of no sexual interest for them, what makes anal or oral sex with a TS better than similar sex with a genetic girl?


I have no interest whatsoever in getting bottomed but I find the apparent visual paradox of a very feminine looking TS with a big, juicy, rockhard, cum filled, distance squirting cock a massive turn on: go figure ?

The rare breed that is a big cocked, petite, Asian and very feminine TS is what really floats my boat, LongMint being the perfect example.

Not massively into anal sex with either TSs (or GGs for that matter), so with TSs (and its only escorts) I really just like mutual masturbation, fondling, sucking, kissing etc

I have no sexual interest whatsoever in men, and the same goes for masculine looking TSs and TVs

So my sexual interests in TSs are pretty specific and quite narrow, and sexually I generally prefer GGs over TSs, but enjoy the variety offered by dalliances with both

[Ms.Stepford]

Please know that I was not judging and I indicated that this was strictly my opinion. I certainly understand the dilemma, and I would not be surprised if I was more of exception, for sure the comments I get from the ladies indicate that to be the case. My very best experience have been with 2 girls who said they never top. Of course they certainly did enjoy oral and I gladly obliged.

Oh, I understand. If you don't want a top girl just ask if they're okay with not topping. I'm sure nine times out of ten, she'll be relieved that you only want to fuck her. I know I would.

Just getting to be a "normal girl" with a big clit is absolutely fine with me, but I've also adapted over the years. I actually used to be very strictly bottom, but I've grown to appreciate my special talents as a dickgirl, and can enjoy that for the kink of it -especially since early in transition I fell in with some crotchety old triple-T harpies who said that I couldn't possibly be a "real transsexual" if I ever enjoyed having a cock. Nowadays, I think it's really hot to rebel against that and have a lot of fun destroying the taboo.

My heart is in "fuck me, oh, fuck me harder, i dare you to throw out your back fucking me, oh my god make me bleed," but I'll give it out just as hard if that's what a hot guy, or a guy with money, wants.