would you date a guy who has used escorts?

[fire.starterman]

Quick question to those transsexuals who use this site. If you let a guy and was attracted to him, but he told you that in the past he used transsexual escorts would this put you off dating him?

[BellaBellucci]

Nope, not at all. I would be put off if he was interested in masculine CD's or TV's, though. I'm nobody's beard.

~BB~

[GroobySteven]

Nope, not at all. I would be put off if he was interested in masculine CD's or TV's, though. I'm nobody's beard.

~BB~

How about a guy who said he was bi-sexual and had been active with men and woman but never a TS/TV?

[BellaBellucci]

How about a guy who said he was bi-sexual and had been active with men and woman but never a TS/TV?

I'd be more comfortable with that in appreciation of the sincerity involved. I think it would still depend on the man, though. Does he like men or does he like cock? The answer to that question is a huge indicator of his true intentions.

~BB~

[fire.starterman]

Well Ive got no interest in men what so ever but I love a girl with a cock! Lol. I've had experiences with t girls in the past but they are few and far between. I'm only attracted to very good looking t girls and they seem to be few and far between too. So have got to admit I'm tempted to use an escort at some point. But I'm a little reluctant to if it would put someone off somewhere down the line if I decided to have a relationship with a t girl.

[Dino Velvet]

What if he stashes his used escorts in a place no one can ever see them?

[rodinuk]

This is just the same as the non-gender-specific:

if I use a prostitute now would it jeopardise a potential future (non-paid for) relationship with another partner

[sheyum]

I'd be more comfortable with that in appreciation of the sincerity involved. I think it would still depend on the man, though. Does he like men or does he like cock? The answer to that question is a huge indicator of his true intentions.

~BB~

interestingly put

"does he like men--or does he like cock"

i truly believe that THAT is the distinguising factor between guys (T-girl lovers) who are really straight....or those who are Bi..

some girls love to call the T-girl admirers "faggots" or at least "Bi"
but i sincerely believe that there are those of us (maybe even a significan majority----but not all) who are really straight...love girls...but just have some fascination with cock...

others are genuinely Bi---like girls--and guys...

[sheyum]

you know what I mean--just to elaborate"

there are many girls..and guys--whi LOVE to say...
"hey--if you suck a cock--you're gay--whether you want to believe it or not"

I totally disagree..

i think you can be straight...but just have some interest in the cock..and it can come from many psychlogial sources...which i wont get into right now (but have theories about)
but still....youre straight

its cynical..closeminded...AND homophobic (IMO) to INSIST otherwise..

i think people themselves know whther theyre straight--BI--or gay
and dont need OTHERS calrifying it for them

[SXFX]

It's a non issue really.
Most women who do have clients are very very careful with what they do.
For me it would be a non issue....but then again I'm awesome.

[amberskyi]

In a similar situation and it's not working really working out so far

[Rusty Eldora]

So a guy is in a relationship with a TG, but it is only OK if it is his first TG. Does he need to be a virgin too?.

How about if the two of you have a basis for a relationship and are willing to work hard to keep it alive thru thick and thin. Monogamy is over rated, but how poly is handled is very important. Would I be a boyfriend of a provider, well I am. Do I ask her to stop - no I accept it, does she allow me to see others - she has arranged me to spend time with her friends.

A relationship should be mutually beneficial and fair to both. Counts of how many the other has seen is petty. It should be - do I want to spend a major amount of my time and emotions with them or should I run now!

[BellaBellucci]

So a guy is in a relationship with a TG, but it is only OK if it is his first TG. Does he need to be a virgin too?.

How about if the two of you have a basis for a relationship and are willing to work hard to keep it alive thru thick and thin. Monogamy is over rated, but how poly is handled is very important. Would I be a boyfriend of a provider, well I am. Do I ask her to stop - no I accept it, does she allow me to see others - she has arranged me to spend time with her friends.

A relationship should be mutually beneficial and fair to both. Counts of how many the other has seen is petty. It should be - do I want to spend a major amount of my time and emotions with them or should I run now!

Shoutout to the poly people! ;)

~BB~