Relationship with a T-girl

[seektranny]

Hi Folks,

I am new to the Forum, and i love it here.

I am the one of the guys who is in the real-life living with a Tranny-girl.

I have spend last few years in a relationship with a tranny, for me it a something normal, even if i am living in a country like Austria that is not really open for everything.

I own a company with more then 400 people so i think that was one of the reasons why people around me accept it.

What i figure out after split with the last Tgirlfriend (6 years together) is that most of the Tgirls are working as escort or something else in the adult industry (that is what i figure out in Austria, Germany, Swiss).
Is is nearly impossible to find a person that is living a "normal" life with family feeling or a office job.
I am traveling a lot and i am taking my Tgirlfriend often with me, also it is something normal to me that my girlfriend is living a nice life and doing a work that she like.

I mean this is not against anyone, maybe some of you have a different experience, I would like to read it.


regards,
Banny

[Donkey]

How big is your girl's cock?

[seektranny]

you mean ex-girl!
it was a normal size!

this is not the point of the thread!

[Donkey]

you mean ex-girl!
it was a normal size!
What's normal size? Normal in Brazil is probably different than normal in China.

[sheyum]

thats funny


How big is your girl's cock?

[C. Saw]

It is my experience from reading many of the posts on this website that most trans-gendered girls don't like the term "tranny". And you keep referring to her as tgirlfriend or such. Isn't she your girlfriend? You've already established that she is a tgirl. Do you introduce her at parties, "hey, this is the ole ball and tranny"?

[Tyler___Durden]

What i figure out after split with the last Tgirlfriend (6 years together) is that most of the Tgirls are working as escort or something else in the adult industry
Is is nearly impossible to find a person that is living a "normal" life with family feeling or a office job.
You are totally wrong.
The vast majority of women with a Ts history have zero connection, ever, with the adult industry.

Ts escorts and porn workers are highly visible.
It's a consequence of the job.

Most Trans women do not look like the trans on HA
May I take you out of trans-land and into cis-gendered land?
Think of that stunning “Day-One” woman on this months cover of Rustler magazine?
You'd like to date her yes?
Now look at EVERY WOMEN YOU ENCOUNTER during the course of your typical day.
How many of them could be a hot top model? Probably frak all.
See the fabulous trans-women on here and other sites?
Well firstly, most trans don't look anything like that.
We actually cover the full spectrum of appearance,
just as “Day-One” women do.
Old, young, fat, thin, ugly, beautiful, average, (actually, a lot of average)
So the vast majority of trans women you just missed coz they don't look like Shemaleyum model of the month....

If a Ts woman is not renting out her body or naked image,
the last thing they would ever advertise to the world, is that they are/were trans.
Coz that has consequences from stigma through to murder.

Your totally wrong assumptions are widespread
which is why most ts women despise ts that work in the sex industry.
As they get the blow-back.

Of course it's impossible to find us
it's called stealth!
Duh!

[tao1kiku]

There are girls out there who are in in the escort or porn industry. My fiance works as a teacher, is an HIV educator and even co-autoried a paper presented at an international HIV conference. She lives quite a normal life.

[Tim&Erin]

This is my first post. I am sitting here with my girlfriend of the last 3 years and in our relationship, she is my girlfriend. I don't refer to her as my Trans girlfriend because that is just some nonsense. She has no connection to the sex industry and works a regular job. We have a quiet life which we enjoy. Some of my friends know and accept it. My family does not know and she is fine with that. In her opinion, it is less questions to answer. Obviously there are challenges such as surgeries, etc, but it is nothing that we have not been able to overcome. I have dated 2 other girls and both were escorts and one was involved in porn and I could not trust either one of them. It was always about money for them. I trust my girl and we appreciate one another. Just my input.

[be2378]

Good for you and all that have a relationship with someone. Still looking on my end.

[TSMichelleAustin]

Oh lord here we go... first off I have lived the normal 9-5 job way before getting into the porn and escorting industry. I worked in a high end salon for over 8 yrs. Where I also was part of educating, and seeing clients and doing hair. After 8yrs my salon shut down, and I had been dealing with medical issues and decided not to pursue my career in the hair biz anymore. Ive done other jobs before entering into the porn/escort biz. I have been in a healthy relationship for five years now. We were together before I got into the porn biz, this was something we chose to take on together. I live a pretty normal life, my husband doesnt refer to me to peep as a tranny or tgirl. I am his wife, or partner. Also, my house isnt a revolving door for clients either. I am very picky about who I see, and dont need a client to survive. I work a lot behind the scenes on a daily basis, and I shoot for my site. Randomly other sites. But my life outside of porn is very normal. People have no clue I do porn, not even my family. So to people who go off and crazy on us working girl, we are normal people too!

[robertlouis]

You are totally wrong.
The vast majority of women with a Ts history have zero connection, ever, with the adult industry.

Ts escorts and porn workers are highly visible.
It's a consequence of the job.

Most Trans women do not look like the trans on HA
May I take you out of trans-land and into cis-gendered land?
Think of that stunning “Day-One” woman on this months cover of Rustler magazine?
You'd like to date her yes?
Now look at EVERY WOMEN YOU ENCOUNTER during the course of your typical day.
How many of them could be a hot top model? Probably frak all.
See the fabulous trans-women on here and other sites?
Well firstly, most trans don't look anything like that.
We actually cover the full spectrum of appearance,
just as “Day-One” women do.
Old, young, fat, thin, ugly, beautiful, average, (actually, a lot of average)
So the vast majority of trans women you just missed coz they don't look like Shemaleyum model of the month....

If a Ts woman is not renting out her body or naked image,
the last thing they would ever advertise to the world, is that they are/were trans.
Coz that has consequences from stigma through to murder.

Your totally wrong assumptions are widespread
which is why most ts women despise ts that work in the sex industry.
As they get the blow-back.

Of course it's impossible to find us
it's called stealth!
Duh!


:iagree::iagree::iagree:. Great post, Tyler. Absolutely my experience here in the UK, where most of my trans friends make the very most of what they have, just as genetic women do and with varying degrees of success. It still amazes me that so many men on this forum think that what they see here and on other porn sites is an accurate reflection of the transsexual world.

It isn't.

If you're here to fantasise, that's fine, but please don't try to suggest that every trans girl should live up to your fantasy, and if they don't, it somehow makes them a failure. After what they've gone through in their lives they deserve your total respect and admiration, and if you can't give that, more fool and shame on you.

[Jayjj222]

Would love to have a relationship but its tough to find people u trust

[bunzy]

Why would you have a serious relationship with a tranny? Most of the trannies are fucked up in the head, they liars, deceitful, unstable...... it's just too much drama, after an argument she would call you all type of names that you can imagine: "gay, cocksucker, faggot"......... and the list goes on.

[Jayjj222]

I wouldn't agree with that last statement

[seektranny]

I like your input.

To me she was a girlfriend, most of the time i call here wife :-) then we spend time together, life in the same house and it was a relationship!

so i am not thinking about the "term" for me it is a "GIRL"


Well my family and my business partners know that she is a Tgirl, and i like it. Also all of my workers know who she is and there was never a problem





This is my first post. I am sitting here with my girlfriend of the last 3 years and in our relationship, she is my girlfriend. I don't refer to her as my Trans girlfriend because that is just some nonsense. She has no connection to the sex industry and works a regular job. We have a quiet life which we enjoy. Some of my friends know and accept it. My family does not know and she is fine with that. In her opinion, it is less questions to answer. Obviously there are challenges such as surgeries, etc, but it is nothing that we have not been able to overcome. I have dated 2 other girls and both were escorts and one was involved in porn and I could not trust either one of them. It was always about money for them. I trust my girl and we appreciate one another. Just my input.

[seektranny]

well you are 99% correct.

most (all) of here t-girls are really liars and they are fucked up in the head. but if you look close to all those stones sometimes you find a diamond. (but there are 99% stones :-)

but that is true, a lot of them are really crazy, but not all. I know some they go to work, do their business, have a husband and they are doing well, and i know those who are just prostitutes. who live from one day to other, without future, no school, no brain just focused on body.

my girlfriend was good in marketing and organisation, but sometimes people see the future in different ways




Why would you have a serious relationship with a tranny? Most of the trannies are fucked up in the head, they liars, deceitful, unstable...... it's just too much drama, after an argument she would call you all type of names that you can imagine: "gay, cocksucker, faggot"......... and the list goes on.

[Tim&Erin]

well you are 99% correct.

most (all) of here t-girls are really liars and they are fucked up in the head. but if you look close to all those stones sometimes you find a diamond. (but there are 99% stones :-)

but that is true, a lot of them are really crazy, but not all. I know some they go to work, do their business, have a husband and they are doing well, and i know those who are just prostitutes. who live from one day to other, without future, no school, no brain just focused on body.

my girlfriend was good in marketing and organisation, but sometimes people see the future in different ways
I unfortunately could not agree more. I know 3 girls is a small sample, but the other 2 were obsessed with money and would not tell the truth if the evidence was right in front of them. The stress and drama from dealing with that nonsense wore me out. The girl I am with now is removed from that and the relationship is no different than any relationship I have had with a GG. I am just happier now. I realize that men will cause them to become this way among other reasons, but it does not have to be that way. Like I said before, just my personal experience.

[doctor screw]

This is my first post. I am sitting here with my girlfriend of the last 3 years and in our relationship, she is my girlfriend. I don't refer to her as my Trans girlfriend because that is just some nonsense. She has no connection to the sex industry and works a regular job. We have a quiet life which we enjoy. Some of my friends know and accept it. My family does not know and she is fine with that. In her opinion, it is less questions to answer. Obviously there are challenges such as surgeries, etc, but it is nothing that we have not been able to overcome. I have dated 2 other girls and both were escorts and one was involved in porn and I could not trust either one of them. It was always about money for them. I trust my girl and we appreciate one another. Just my input.

Fake!!!!

[Chaos]

most (all) of here t-girls are really liars and they are fucked up in the head.

4 posts,just joined,and you think ALL the girls here are liars and fucked up in the head?
I suppose sweeping generalizations are your speciality....

[seektranny]

some of us have a real life!



4 posts,just joined,and you think ALL the girls here are liars and fucked up in the head?
I suppose sweeping generalizations are your speciality....

[Tim&Erin]

Fake!!!!
Far from it. I was making a statement, not trying to impress anyone.

[amberskyi]

yall have the audacity to jump down a girls throat when she says all men are chasers or tricks but than turn around and make sweeping generalizations about the girls.
people are strange

[jc13]

I've been in a relationship for almost two years with my girl. When we met she was a crazy popular pornstar/escort; which she no longer does, but I certainly don't judge her for the choices she made before we met (even though I wish she had taken a different path) but if she had we probably wouldn't have met. But really it's more about who she is and the choices she makes today.

And she certainly comes with a lot of baggage, that frankly I wish she didn't have, but when you look into someones eyes and see what you've searched your whole life for...well the gender just doesn't matter.

The biggest issue I have in our relationship is that I've never been with or attracted to TG woman before I met her and it seems like a never ending learning curve. I find I don't like the whole sexually charged gay/TG scene or the perverted freaks that stalk her and her friends; like dogs in heat.

[amberskyi]

I've been in a relationship for almost two years with my girl. When we met she was a crazy popular pornstar/escort; which she no longer does, but I certainly don't judge her for the choices she made before we met (even though I wish she had taken a different path) but if she had we probably wouldn't have met. But really it's more about who she is and the choices she makes today.

And she certainly comes with a lot of baggage, that frankly I wish she didn't have, but when you look into someones eyes and see what you've searched your whole life for...well the gender just doesn't matter.

The biggest issue I have in our relationship is that I've never been with or attracted to TG woman before I met her and it seems like a never ending learning curve. I find I don't like the whole sexually charged gay/TG scene or the perverted freaks that stalk her and her friends; like dogs in heat.

lol @ perverted freaks in heat. word,i feel you on that

[bluesoul]

yall have the audacity to jump down a girls throat when she says all men are chasers or tricks but than turn around and make sweeping generalizations about the girls.
people are strange

hrm... are you saying these individuals have jumped "down a girls throat" for calling men chasers? i thought they made interesting points the only thing i don't understand is-

how so many men who date transsexuals who were (or currently still are) involved in the sex industry don't suffer from jealously. i think it's cool that most can overlook or deal with such issues seemingly with such ease because personally that would be very difficult to overcome.

similarly- men who frequent prostitutes prefer the popular ones that "everyone" is seeing, or if they find one and don't "see" her as being popular, they do the advertising for her. i can see how this benefits the girl, but how does it benefit the john? is it better if the girl you like has slept with more men?

[doctor screw]

Far from it. I was making a statement, not trying to impress anyone.

*Ignores the Imaginary*lol

[Chaos]

Hi Folks,
I am new to the Forum, and i love it here.




most (all) of here t-girls are really liars and they are fucked up in the head.


4 posts,just joined,and you think ALL the girls here are liars and fucked up in the head?
I suppose sweeping generalizations are your speciality....


some of us have a real life!

Nah...you're a bullshitter TRYING to impress people by talking out your ass and shitting out of your neck....Sadly it seems you don't know which is which.

[nysprod]

lol @ perverted freaks in heat. word,i feel you on that

You'd be on the street without us...show some 'spect...lol

[dderek123]

perverted freaks that stalk her and her friends; like dogs in heat.

Yeah this never stops and its really annoying. Sometimes you just want to stay in for a night instead of going out to a place where you and your partner will be gawked at.

[nysprod]

I've been in a relationship for almost two years with my girl. When we met she was a crazy popular pornstar/escort; which she no longer does

So let me ask, are you a former perverted dog in heat (PDH) who chased TS pornstars/escorts? Wait, don't bother answering, it's only going to be more bullshit...


I certainly don't judge her for the choices she made before we met (even though I wish she had taken a different path) but if she had we probably wouldn't have met. But really it's more about who she is and the choices she makes today.

I'm sure she's in constant awe of your magnanimous self...so, she met you and immediately decided to give it all up...what arrangement did you make to replace what she earned?


when you look into someones eyes and see what you've searched your whole life for...well the gender just doesn't matter.

You were searching for a crazy popular TS pornstar/escort your whole life like a PDH?


The biggest issue I have in our relationship is that I've never been with or attracted to TG woman before I met her and it seems like a never ending learning curve. I find I don't like the whole sexually charged gay/TG scene or the perverted freaks that stalk her and her friends; like dogs in heat.

Utter BS...period.

[jc13]

So let me ask, are you a former perverted dog in heat (PDH) who chased TS pornstars/escorts? Wait, don't bother answering, it's only going to be more bullshit...



I'm sure she's in constant awe of your magnanimous self...so, she met you and immediately decided to give it all up...what arrangement did you make to replace what she earned?



You were searching for a crazy popular TS pornstar/escort your whole life like a PDH?



Utter BS...period.
Ahh...think I may have hit a nerve with a perverted freak ;)

[jc13]

Yeah this never stops and its really annoying. Sometimes you just want to stay in for a night instead of going out to a place where you and your partner will be gawked at.
I hear that!! My girl seems use to the gawking when we go out...it pisses me off. It's a bit funny, but creepy, when we go out and some guys just sit and stare at her but quickly look away when I turn their direction. Hense my comment about freaks and stalkers!

[nysprod]

Ahh...think I may have hit a nerve with a perverted freak ;)

The nerve you hit was my "this guy is posting utter bullshit" nerve...

[jc13]

So let me ask, are you a former perverted dog in heat (PDH) who chased TS pornstars/escorts? Wait, don't bother answering, it's only going to be more bullshit...



I'm sure she's in constant awe of your magnanimous self...so, she met you and immediately decided to give it all up...what arrangement did you make to replace what she earned?



You were searching for a crazy popular TS pornstar/escort your whole life like a PDH?



Utter BS...period.
Not to get into too much detail here...fortunately I spent my life building a career and not chasing anything except money and opportunity. Unfortunately I was married when we met, and had never dated a TG before nor did I watch porn to be familiar with her work. She understood my situation as I attempted to understand hers...I filed for divorce, we moved in together, and started a business and our life almost 2 years ago.

As she gets farther away from the industry every day gets better and better. We have issues from time to time because of her past, and my conservative nature, but we love each other enough to work through it and expect to get married next year.

No bullshit!

[nysprod]

Not to get into too much detail here...fortunately I spent my life building a career and not chasing anything except money and opportunity. Unfortunately I was married when we met, and had never dated a TG before nor did I watch porn to be familiar with her work. She understood my situation as I attempted to understand hers...I filed for divorce, we moved in together, and started a business and our life almost 2 years ago.

As she gets farther away from the industry every day gets better and better. We have issues from time to time because of her past, and my conservative nature, but we love each other enough to work through it and expect to get married next year.

No bullshit!

Oh, you're 30 years older than her and she doesn't want to hustle anymore...that 'splains it...grandpa went nuts and moved in with a tranny pornstar...

[jc13]

Oh, you're 30 years older than her and she doesn't want to hustle anymore...that 'splains it...grandpa went nuts and moved in with a tranny pornstar...
I am 10 years older than her...but I'm also very attractive, in great shape and an extremely articulate man that has his shit together. I usually get the woman I pursue because I know what I want and I don't play games. FYI (just so you know) most woman look for these qualities in a partner.

I don’t know you…but I’m guessing you probably don't have any of those sought after qualities and you’re frustrated - I get it! Just don't hate on those of us that do.

[nysprod]

I am 10 years older than her...but I'm also very attractive, in great shape and an extremely articulate man that has his shit together. I usually get the woman I pursue because I know what I want and I don't play games. FYI (just so you know) most woman look for these qualities in a partner.

I don’t know you…but I’m guessing you probably don't have any of those sought after qualities and you’re frustrated - I get it! Just don't hate on those of us that do.

So, you never had any interest in Tgirls and you meet a Tgirl pornstar...and just like that, decide you know that what you want is to leave your wife and use your extreme powers of articulation on her...

There are so many holes in this shit you could drive a bus thru them...

[KittyPride]

hihi what a macho threat :)

Its good to hear to that there are decent men out that that are not cock crazy chasers lol

[Westheangelino]

It's ok, everyone. nysprod just has trouble imagining things that have never and would never happen to him, i.e. not having to pay for sex or making a real human connection. So sayeth the super pooper!!!!!!!

[LibertyHarkness]

i am in a relationship 6months now :)

[nysprod]

i am in a relationship 6months now :)

That Brazilian hottie is quite a catch!


It's ok, everyone. nysprod just has trouble imagining things that have never and would never happen to him, i.e. not having to pay for sex or making a real human connection. So sayeth the super pooper!!!!!!!

So sayeth a bottom boy who's still looking for love with infected providers...

[LibertyHarkness]

she is yes ...she makes me very happy and understands me , and my parents really like her which is a winner .

[jc13]

So, you never had any interest in Tgirls and you meet a Tgirl pornstar...and just like that, decide you know that what you want is to leave your wife and use your extreme powers of articulation on her...

There are so many holes in this shit you could drive a bus thru them...
Wow...you are a really annoying jerk!

[jc13]

she is yes ...she makes me very happy and understands me , and my parents really like her which is a winner .
Congrats!! :)

[Tim&Erin]

hihi what a macho threat :)

Its good to hear to that there are decent men out that that are not cock crazy chasers lol
I can't speak for everyone but I think pretty much all guys start out in some variation of that, but then some evolve into much more where you are looking for much more than that which is a relationship built on what any relationship is built on. It is not easy, but it is also not impossible. As I look back on how I have evolved it has been quite a journey.... Lol

[bluesoul]

I am 10 years older than her...but I'm also very attractive, in great shape and an extremely articulate man that has his shit together. I usually get the woman I pursue because I know what I want and I don't play games. FYI (just so you know) most woman look for these qualities in a partner.

I don’t know you…but I’m guessing you probably don't have any of those sought after qualities and you’re frustrated - I get it! Just don't hate on those of us that do.

http://www.promoboxx.com/blog/wp-content/uploads//2012/10/the_more_you_know.jpeg

this is gold right here.

[nysprod]

Wow...you are a really annoying jerk!

Not much of an articulation...

[Westheangelino]

^ But true! ;0