RallyCola
02-14-2013, 06:19 PM
lately, it seems that the forum has erupted the so many "definition" threads. they may not start out that way but so many threads end up being reduced to labels, definitions and bullshit. i admit to being a major part of it because i love a good argument but realistically, we have to admit that because of personal biases, there is never going to be 1 right answer that everyone can accept. if we admit that...i think things could be a bit more pleasant.
everyone defining transition level, gay vs. non-gay, escorting, chasing, and even apparently what it means to be a woman is getting so redundant and each of us are so entrenched in how we view things that the forum is actually getting boring. it feels like a chore to argue about the same things because i believe we've gone passed healthy debate to just "i know you are but what am i"
let us...before we hit that submit button, and i say this as one of the most guilty people here, think if we are actually bringing something NOVEL to these label/definition threads or if we are just regurgitating something we have said 50 times before. I will try...can you?
everyone defining transition level, gay vs. non-gay, escorting, chasing, and even apparently what it means to be a woman is getting so redundant and each of us are so entrenched in how we view things that the forum is actually getting boring. it feels like a chore to argue about the same things because i believe we've gone passed healthy debate to just "i know you are but what am i"
let us...before we hit that submit button, and i say this as one of the most guilty people here, think if we are actually bringing something NOVEL to these label/definition threads or if we are just regurgitating something we have said 50 times before. I will try...can you?