am i the only guy that prefers to bottom in a relationship?

[BottomBoy78]

Its tough to find an aggressive top ts woman that knows how to rip a man's ass apart. Am i the only bottom that needs that type of girl in my life?

[ZELLGADISS]

No hehe,but really exists few true top ts ;)

[princesa]

you are rare! and so am i (mainly top ts)

when i post an ad for a bottom, i get like 2% of the replies I get when I leave it open ended.

It's kind of sad.

[TSCURIOUS]

Ahhh No.....

[IAdoreTgirl]

I prefer being bottom. I've always dreamed that a beautiful girl with teach me how to train my butt so I can take the whole thing inside me and make her cum, and again, and again :) Oh damn it I want it so much, hehe :)

[gaysian71]

I'm a total bottom and I love it. It's easy to find a boyfriend that loves to top, but not as easy to find a girlfriend thats a total top.

[william.howl]

I am 100% bottom too.

[nysprod]

you are rare! and so am i (mainly top ts)

when i post an ad for a bottom, i get like 2% of the replies I get when I leave it open ended.

It's kind of sad.

Lol..."open ended"...gotta love it...

[RallyCola]

i don't know where this thread will go because the issue of bottom men has been discussed quite a bit lately, but there are many girls on this board that have a very negative opinion of bottom guys. for some reason, some transwomen unfairly look down on bottoms.

[gaysian71]

i don't know where this thread will go because the issue of bottom men has been discussed quite a bit lately, but there are many girls on this board that have a very negative opinion of bottom guys. for some reason, some transwomen unfairly look down on bottoms.

That's true, but you can't really blame them. Technically they are females and men are supposed to be the tops. There are a few girls that do like to top, but the majority would rather take on the traditional female role.

[amberskyi]

That's true, but you can't really blame them. Technically they are females and men are supposed to be the tops. There are a few girls that do like to top, but the majority would rather take on the traditional female role.

I like how understanding you are :)

[RallyCola]

That's true, but you can't really blame them. Technically they are females and men are supposed to be the tops. There are a few girls that do like to top, but the majority would rather take on the traditional female role.

it is not a technicality at all. it is not a matter of should or shouldn't top...it is a matter of personal preference and therefore there is no need to negatively judge someone for what they like.

where a transwoman hates on a man for preferring to be a bottom, that is simply a situation of a pot calling a kettle black because that same transwoman would scream her head off for being judged for doing whatever it is she likes/wants.

i'm not even going to touch the glaring error in your word choice above.

[gaysian71]

I like how understanding you are :)

Well from my experience that seems to be the case. While I have paid a for of girls to top me, I have only met a few that are willing to have a relationship where their boyfriend is a bottom.

The bottom line is that it's pretty easy to find a man that doesn't mind me being a bottom, but much more difficult to find a woman that doesn't mind me being a bottom.

[sheyum]

This thread is simply idiotic..come on guys and girls...can't we do better than this??

Firstly--let's face it...It is the fantasy of most guys on this board to be topped by a dominant woman.. Isnt that a large part of the "fantasy"?
sorry--girls--to call it that...but let's be truthful here..Now maybe not everyone feels that way. I don't profess to know the inner workings of every persons heart and mind..But certainly alot do..so just lets call a spade a spade

But..more importantly....and I've said it before....The audacity of any transgendered person the look DOWN upon a man for wanting to be topped, or lay a submissive role..is not only absurd, it's laughable, and contemptable.

Let's be clear here...The transgendered people on this site were born genetic males.
How can a person who's spent their ENTIRE lives in the quest to BECOME a woman---crticize a man for wanting to play a submissive role...for expressing what some homophobic people might call a "feminine' tendency of wanting to be dominated or topped by a woman??

Let me be clear that I'm placing no value judgement at all about the choice of transgendered folks..but why do they not do the same toward the people who want to express THEIR sexualities in a way that drives THEM?

They look DOWN on us?? WTF?

These women on this site have spent all their resources and time becoming the ULTIMATE feminine beings..and they want us--and the world to embrace that...yet the look DOWN on a man for wanting to be topped?

Does noone else here see the insanity and pure lack of logic in this thinking?

[Snorky]

This thread is simply idiotic..come on guys and girls...can't we do better than this??

Firstly--let's face it...It is the fantasy of most guys on this board to be topped by a dominant woman.. Isnt that a large part of the "fantasy"?
sorry--girls--to call it that...but let's be truthful here..Now maybe not everyone feels that way. I don't profess to know the inner workings of every persons heart and mind..But certainly alot do..so just lets call a spade a spade

But..more importantly....and I've said it before....The audacity of any transgendered person the look DOWN upon a man for wanting to be topped, or lay a submissive role..is not only absurd, it's laughable, and contemptable.

Let's be clear here...The transgendered people on this site were born genetic males.
How can a person who's spent their ENTIRE lives in the quest to BECOME a woman---crticize a man for wanting to play a submissive role...for expressing what some homophobic people might call a "feminine' tendency of wanting to be dominated or topped by a woman??

Let me be clear that I'm placing no value judgement at all about the choice of transgendered folks..but why do they not do the same toward the people who want to express THEIR sexualities in a way that drives THEM?

They look DOWN on us?? WTF?

These women on this site have spent all their resources and time becoming the ULTIMATE feminine beings..and they want us--and the world to embrace that...yet the look DOWN on a man for wanting to be topped?

Does noone else here see the insanity and pure lack of logic in this thinking?


this^^^ and relationships are about team work and sacrifices. you can learn to enjoy things you previously did not enjoy. Just need to open the mind up enough to find the enjoyable parts of an act that you once looked at as being unenjoyable. being "open minded" like what a lot of the men on this site do for Tranny's on here.

[dfwtsfan]

Undoubtedly the internet has exposed all of us to more TS/TG porn than we ever dreamed we might see, yet if you look around tons of it shows them topping guys. I know most are likely getting paid to do something they abhor, and they do it which is surprising, but the irony of all this reminds me of the percentage of real life GG's that want anal sex all the time, compared to GG anal porn. The part I don't understand is why do so many TS/TG's keep their penises if they don't want to use them every way possible, which of course is their right to do, but I just don't get it. I always liked the saying "every hole is a goal" and I wish that was a reciprocal concept more TS/TG's embraced.

At least I can say I experienced an LTR with a very pretty one that liked to top. I was unable to find one locally that wasn't an escort, so I found mine online. She lived in another state 1500 miles away and I talked her into moving and living with me. We spent 2.5 yrs living together. The first year was great. She liked to top, so did I, and we both liked oral. Then about a year into it she decided for some crazy reason to increase her hormones. She quickly got to where she couldn't get an erection, couldn't cum, and her constantly having a limp noodle killed my desire and sex drive for her. I hung in there another 1.5 years, not wanting things to fall apart due to sexual frustration and incompatibility, but it did.

IMO it's a hard search to find one, a very hard search, and you may have to look much further away than where you live. Hang in there, keep searching for whatever it is that makes you happy, and never give-up until you find it. And if you find one ask lots of questions, specifically make sure she doesn't have plans down-the-road to do things that change her functionality, or whatever it is you're hoping for regarding your long-term sexual compatibility and happiness.

[Prospero]

Princessa and Bottom Boy sound custom made for each other. is geography a stumbling block?

[amberskyi]

This thread is simply idiotic..come on guys and girls...can't we do better than this??

Firstly--let's face it...It is the fantasy of most guys on this board to be topped by a dominant woman.. Isnt that a large part of the "fantasy"?
sorry--girls--to call it that...but let's be truthful here..Now maybe not everyone feels that way. I don't profess to know the inner workings of every persons heart and mind..But certainly alot do..so just lets call a spade a spade

the op asked about finding a top woman for a relationship which by the very nature of a serious relationship makes it less about fulfilling a sexual fantasy.
i think allot of guys make the mistake of confusing what they see in porn as an accurate portrayal of trans woman (or woman in general) sexuality.just cause in porn every chick gets dick slapped on her face doesnt mean every woman is into that lol.


But..more importantly....and I've said it before....The audacity of any transgendered person the look DOWN upon a man for wanting to be topped, or lay a submissive role..is not only absurd, it's laughable, and contemptable.

Let's be clear here...The transgendered people on this site were born genetic males.
How can a person who's spent their ENTIRE lives in the quest to BECOME a woman---crticize a man for wanting to play a submissive role...for expressing what some homophobic people might call a "feminine' tendency of wanting to be dominated or topped by a woman??

Let me be clear that I'm placing no value judgement at all about the choice of transgendered folks..but why do they not do the same toward the people who want to express THEIR sexualities in a way that drives THEM?

They look DOWN on us?? WTF?

These women on this site have spent all their resources and time becoming the ULTIMATE feminine beings..and they want us--and the world to embrace that...yet the look DOWN on a man for wanting to be topped?

Does noone else here see the insanity and pure lack of logic in this thinking?

i dont really have any real contempt or look down on guys who want to bottom.if thats your thing than cool,its not mine so there fore any guy who wants to bottom is clearly not for me.
on the flip side tho i cant tell you how many times guys express disappointment or give me shit when they find out i have no interest in topping them.ive heard such classic lines like "whats the point of having a dick if your not going to use it" or my personal favorite "if i wanted to fuck than i would just get a gg". those sentiments dont exactly sound gracious or understanding either do they lol
you are right tho, we spend a considerable amount of time and effort transitioning into the woman we know we were meant to be.it really shouldnt be that surprising that we would have a womans sexuality as well (which traditionally is one of being penetrated).most of use dont want to be "the best of both worlds" but would much rather just be normal woman.
ps. i always find it interesting that so called admirers like to remind us or insist on our true genetic male origins much more than any other group of people lol

[RallyCola]

Princessa and Bottom Boy sound custom made for each other. is geography a stumbling block?

boeing finally tested the 787... geographic boundaries shouldn't be a stumbling block

[gaysian71]

Well I just hope that bottomboy finds a top girl. But i can say as a gay guy, if you want to find a top man it's super easy. But if you want to find a top girl, it's a little more difficult and will take a little more time. They are out there but there are a lot more top men then there are top women.

[RallyCola]

Well I just hope that bottomboy finds a top girl. But i can say as a gay guy, if you want to find a top man it's super easy. But if you want to find a top girl, it's a little more difficult and will take a little more time. They are out there but there are a lot more top men then there are top women.

but he doesn't want to find a top MAN.

[gaysian71]

but he doesn't want to find a top MAN.

I know, that's why i said I hope he finds his top girl. She is out there, he just has to find her.

[RallyCola]

i say we put wendy summers and the OP together. she mentioned that she has trouble finding a proper bottom

[robertlouis]

i dont really have any real contempt or look down on guys who want to bottom.if thats your thing than cool,its not mine so there fore any guy who wants to bottom is clearly not for me.
on the flip side tho i cant tell you how many times guys express disappointment or give me shit when they find out i have no interest in topping them.ive heard such classic lines like "whats the point of having a dick if your not going to use it" or my personal favorite "if i wanted to fuck than i would just get a gg". those sentiments dont exactly sound gracious or understanding either do they lol
you are right tho, we spend a considerable amount of time and effort transitioning into the woman we know we were meant to be.it really shouldnt be that surprising that we would have a womans sexuality as well (which traditionally is one of being penetrated).most of use dont want to be "the best of both worlds" but would much rather just be normal woman.
ps. i always find it interesting that so called admirers like to remind us or insist on our true genetic male origins much more than any other group of people lol

Once again, Amber, you demonstrate the empathy that makes you one of the best girls on HA.

[fivekatz]

End of the day if two people really enjoy each other they find how to please each other and you don't have to fuck a man to make his prostate go wild with precum and if you are into each other top and bottom isn't what is relevant.

I have no idea about most folks, I love my g-spot to be played with and I love to fuck too. So yeah I like girls who will top but there's a whole lot of ways for a girl TS or TG make that happy spot happy and for me that's maybe half of what gets me going. Making my partner cum is what drives me wild so I personally would never care if a TS topped me so long as made her eyes roll and she did not forget what makes a man go wild.

[bluesoul]

I know, that's why i said I hope he finds his top girl. She is out there, he just has to find her.

how about if he finds a top man, that then becomes a woman? problem solved

[natina]

most people don't like HITTING THE DUKE CHUTES
like bo and luke duke


do you hit the DUKE CHUTES like bo and luke duke


but he doesn't want to find a top MAN.

[natina]

http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/attachment.php?attachmentid=361468&stc=1&d=1293085586

[natina]

delete delete

[natina]

Suzanne Holmes,queen ding aling,creme,Mia Isabella,.........................

[RallyCola]

http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/attachment.php?attachmentid=361468&stc=1&d=1293085586

now that's funny!

[Dino Velvet]

Looks like a game of Chicken on the bottom left but I bet it don't taste like chicken when you pull it out of the oven. It will be foul though.

http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/attachment.php?attachmentid=361468&stc=1&d=1293085586

[bimale69]

Sounds like someone must've gotten too much of an idea that just because pre-op transwomen still have a penis, that he is going to fulfill has fantasy of getting plowed every time he has sex with her. If he is going to assume that, then there isn't hope for a relationship to last long, especially if she has no desire for being a top, or she is really more interested in going through the srs and expects to be treated like a lady, not some closeted gay boy's fantasy.

[talldudeil]

I love to top I would never bottom, the allure of a tg is a beautiful woman is the extra bonus of a cock, I am a very oral top love to bring my partner to a orgasm with my mouth then rim that pussy up.

[blckhaze]

i know many transwomen who like the dominant role, but it with a catch, and imo rightfully so. Mainly they want a guy who is masculine, who just is comfortable sexually. Out of the bedroom, and partly in, he's a man's man. He still is masculine to her feminine. And in the bed he's simply the receiver, but even then masculine. The gender role isnt shattered, just bent (no pun intended). Sure, fantasy wise they will indulge in the more aggresive role play, but afterwords, at least the vers/top trans (and the occasional female.....*shudder*) that ive had the conversation with, want to still feel like the woman after, even during, especially in a relationship. Kinda hard to do if your supposed bf is begging for some dick constantly.
Also on a long term lifestyle, eventually functionality meet practicality. Girls more and more want to grow old with a penis. Many may not go full op, but at least remove the testis to enhance femininity long term. that def affects functionality. Plus HRT rarely allows a girl to get it up after extensive use.

[BellaBellucci]

These women on this site have spent all their resources and time becoming the ULTIMATE feminine beings

... and men haven't. The answer is in the question. Why should we go through all that just to continue to have our partners treat us like men sexually? Why did we bother? Just so we could wear skirts and heels and use the ladies restroom, but still be tops in the bedroom? It's cool for some girls, but not for all of us.

That's a nice fantasy you guys have going, but it's a very, very, very rare reality, and when you find it, you should be more appreciative. The disrespect of a lot of the guys here is astounding - towards both tops and bottoms. They're convinced that we all have to live up to their fantasies whether they're paying for the privilege or not. How narcissistic can some of you guys get? :?

~BB~

[jamiethewild]

"sheyum"

You are f*ggot, you be bashed like piece of trash... Girls let start the fight hahaha

You should be a shame of yourself ....

Bella is right for starting all these chaser treads, "sheyum is the definition why"