Bottoms: Width versus length?

[Wendy Summers]

My past few irl bottoms have complained about having difficulty taking my width. Seems most people seem to train their asses for length, not width. So my question for the bottoms here: do you prefer a long cock or a wide cock?

Please only answer if you've actually taken a cock.

[RallyCola]

i enjoy the feeling of being penetrated. i really don't have a preference for how deep it goes so i guess i do prefer girth over length. But that said, its not as if I prefer just being widened and staying gaped...its about the movement in and out, preferably full withdrawl and re-insertion. that really does it for me.

[rbiller]

I can understand why someone might complain about your girth Wendy. You do have a very thick cock. Because I have a tight butt hole I definitely prefer a thinner cock.

[RallyCola]

i don't get the concept of anal training either. what are you training for...most people don't have 14" dicks with 10" circumference. i've never "trained" i just accept anal entry with whatever my partner is working it.

[daltx_m]

I can understand why someone might complain about your girth Wendy. You do have a very thick cock. Because I have a tight butt hole I definitely prefer a thinner cock.

ditto

[bulge]

I prefer moderate length and girth....Girthy cocks can be a bit harder to take, but im always up for a challenge.
With me its all about chemistry, I love the feeling of a guy/girl climbing my back and penetrating me until he or she is satisfied with pleasure.

[Wendy Summers]

i don't get the concept of anal training either. what are you training for...most people don't have 14" dicks with 10" circumference. i've never "trained" i just accept anal entry with whatever my partner is working it.

It's been a real problem for me in my personal life... everyone thinks they can handle it until I try to get in there. It's frustrating for me when I want to get in to not be able to get in because they aren't stretched enough to take me. It's part of why I don't top on film... it takes forever for me to actually get in someone.

[timid1]

Love being topped , prefer length to too much girth? 9in was about the longest and it was thick too...... girl had wonderful technique , but I felt I couldn't of taken any bigger tbh. (Altho I'd love to be with her right now!) Sometimes a little less is more! :)

[RallyCola]

It's been a real problem for me in my personal life... everyone thinks they can handle it until I try to get in there. It's frustrating for me when I want to get in to not be able to get in because they aren't stretched enough to take me. It's part of why I don't top on film... it takes forever for me to actually get in someone.

i never really knew this was a problem. if a person is resistant to allowing penetration and forcibly tightening, that's one thing. in both giving and receiving, to me its just about lubing and pushing in. you just haven't found the right ass to plow yet. Super Pooper (westangelino) might be the right dude for you.

[bassman2546]

The first cock I took was from an escort, about average in length (6 inches) but enormously thick. I wasn't ready for that but stuck it out until I adjusted. Believe me, it was tough as hell at first.

Now, on my own time when messing about, I have dildos/vibrators of various thicknesses and work my way up to the thickest (girth being 6 1/2 inches around). Now, I think I'd be ready to handle the likes of one Wendy Summers. ;)

[Ecstatic]

Charmin tube.

[ZELLGADISS]

Well i like good lenght, around 7 inches minimum and thickness is not very important although i dont like very slim.
Wendy Summers you have fat cock, so is hard for bottom without experience to be fucked by your fat cock.
I would love see you topping some bottom guy with experience in fat cocks like yours honey ;)

Kisses

[ZELLGADISS]

One question, Wendy Summers, how is your thickness?6-7 inches i imagine true?

[Prince Dan Albert]

Hello to everyone!
Am brand new here, and this is my first post.
Ahem.
So about width and depth... I am totally a width guy. From my first explorations of my ass until today, maaaany years and dildos and plugs later, i have my problems with being played too deep, but boy, I love big things- toys and plugs in solo and strap-ons and an occasional hand with a partner. Being filled out n stretched is the thing for me. Going deep feels good too, but only in the hands of an experienced and very pushy top.

How's that for a first post? :nervous:

[RallyCola]

Hello to everyone!
Am brand new here, and this is my first post.
Ahem.
So about width and depth... I am totally a width guy. From my first explorations of my ass until today, maaaany years and dildos and plugs later, i have my problems with being played too deep, but boy, I love big things- toys and plugs in solo and strap-ons and an occasional hand with a partner. Being filled out n stretched is the thing for me. Going deep feels good too, but only in the hands of an experienced and very pushy top.

How's that for a first post? :nervous:

welcome and enjoy the show.

[dannymac8]

I've only ever been fucked once and her cock was pretty big probably about 9 inches and very thick, I haven't done any training as such, but as long as i'm attracted to the girl I'm sure I wouldn't have any problems

[Wendy Summers]

Charmin tube.

LOL - I'll be sure to bring one for you next time we shoot LOL.

[Wendy Summers]

Hello to everyone!
Am brand new here, and this is my first post.
Ahem.
So about width and depth... I am totally a width guy. From my first explorations of my ass until today, maaaany years and dildos and plugs later, i have my problems with being played too deep, but boy, I love big things- toys and plugs in solo and strap-ons and an occasional hand with a partner. Being filled out n stretched is the thing for me. Going deep feels good too, but only in the hands of an experienced and very pushy top.

How's that for a first post? :nervous:

Welcome to Hung Angels, hope you survive the experience.

[ZELLGADISS]

Wendy Summers, if you gets good bottom that can with your fat cock, you would top him?

[RallyCola]

Wendy Summers, if you gets good bottom that can with your fat cock, you would top him?

volunteering?

[Westheangelino]

I've had some hot nights with some very well known TS Stars, one of which was long but not girthy. Another was quite girthy but less than 8 inches. Call me greedy, but I need super thick with 9 inches plus to really have some fun!!!

[phillyguy21]

Overall, I prefer length over girth. It does, also, depend on the chemistry between the two people, and each person's technique. Although they are great to look at, girthy cocks can be a pain in the ass (literally). I like a cock that is long enough to "hit the spot", but not wide enough to destroy my anus. This can be generally found with moderate sized cocks. I don't want a long slim-jim looking dick, either lol.

[Ecstatic]

LOL - I'll be sure to bring one for you next time we shoot LOL.

:dancing: :Bowdown:

[RallyCola]

I've had some hot nights with some very well known TS Stars, one of which was long but not girthy. Another was quite girthy but less than 8 inches. Call me greedy, but I need super thick with 9 inches plus to really have some fun!!!


did i call it...or did i call it?

it appears that super pooper may think he can handle you wendy. i must have espn :) or something!!!

[blckhaze]

max ive attempted wasnt thicker than me, but at 10in.......i couldnt take it all.
Girth feels better once ur comfortable with it, but with my length threshold, im not trying pushing beyond that 6in barrier if i can help it. 8 x 5.5 is my perfect measurements.

[fivekatz]

Whatever the width, the body quickly adjusts, the advantage to length I suppose is that your partner does not need as much "skill" to stroke the prostate, which after all is the real wow factor about ass play. So a partner with length is going to hit that G-spot with every stroke.

As for width, once its in, it is in but there is something cool about a bit of a stretch. AS long as a girl knows how to penetrate it is all great.

But seriously it is more about how the prostate is messaged IMO, the asshole itself does receive pleasure and at least in my case stretches quickly. I have been with a pretty big girl and length isn't the end all and be all, making that prostate spew pre-cum that is the ticket to bottom play. Heck it can be a GG who knows how to work you with fingers, or finger play and mutual head with a GG or TS.

Guys got toms, at least in my case is all about prostate stimulation because when done right it is a 4 to 5 shot explosive ejaculation.

If guys are bitching about your width they either just needed more prostate stimulation or they just can't relax.

[robertlouis]

Please only answer if you've actually taken a cock.

I haven't so I won't....... :hide-1:

[Wendy Summers]

I haven't so I won't....... :hide-1:


Aw... so much for THAT plan... #evilgrin

[ZELLGADISS]

Wendy Summers you have plans for topping some bottom man soon?i would love see you topping :)

Kisses

[Wendy Summers]

Wendy Summers you have plans for topping some bottom man soon?i would love see you topping :)

Kisses

It's looking more and more like I will start shooting some top content. Most likely the first set will be with a TS bottom. There's a few women I'm chatting with.

[ZELLGADISS]

Ohh great then Wendy Summers.
Im sure that we will see great performances yours :)

Kisses

[littletwink]

Preference is for length. I'm not trained for anything, it just feels better.

[londonpirate]

Length for me, I struggle with width. There is this thai escort in London who has one of the largest, yet short cock I ve ever seen, never felt good

[SXFX]

I have a thick cock and well....yeah i can relate....even GG's who haven't had sex in a few months complain about my cock...honestly no clue....lube lube and sweet talk and make sure your partner desires you?

[Ben]

My past few irl bottoms have complained about having difficulty taking my width. Seems most people seem to train their asses for length, not width. So my question for the bottoms here: do you prefer a long cock or a wide cock?

Please only answer if you've actually taken a cock.

Wendy,
It depends.... I mean, a 9 inch strawlike penis won't produce much pleasure from a bottom(s) perspective.
On the other hand, well, a 4 inch very thick penis will.
I prefer both length and width in a singular penis -- :)

[RallyCola]

can someone local please volunteer to go over and be wendy's power bottom

[phyt78]

I'm still new enough at this that I'm still learning what I like. I'm stuck with guys, TS seem to be hard to find around here. And I only manage to get a dick in me once or twice a month. In my limited experience though, I've found that I like the longest one that's been in me yet. A whole 7.5" claimed. I think he was pretty thick though too. My jaws popped when I took him in my mouth at least.

[runround04]

Tuna can.

[natina]

WIDTH is what puts pressure on the prostate. you only need 1-2 inches depth.

stimulate toward the stomach.


http://men.webmd.com/picture-of-the-prostate

http://www.vigrxlook.com/in-depth-guidelines-for-milking-the-prostate.html

Function & Location of the Prostate & BPH Issues - YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PkOY31Iy29c)

[MrT23]

this one girl i was with had the fattest dick ever, that shit was painful
other than that i havent really had too many problems. I dont have a huge preference either way. Not a size queen like most dudes on here lol

[natina]

THIS ONE GUY HAD A short and WIDE SILICONE PUMPED DICK and he fucked me and it was very difficult to take but it had my prostate milking for hours and i came a little.

IT was too wide for penetration comfortably and it was deformed as a result of the silicone.

[RallyCola]

hey...wendy...i think the consensus is that you should surgically reduce the girth of your cock so you can fit it in more places

[ZELLGADISS]

No, i like the girth of her cock..
It is a pretty cock, only she should get bottom men with experience ;)

[BigDF]

hey...wendy...i think the consensus is that you should surgically reduce the girth of your cock so you can fit it in more placesYou don't need to change anything Wendy! You're beautiful just the way you are!:Bowdown::Bowdown::Bowdown: I think when you find the right person then everything will fall into place for you.:geek:

[joeym75ld]

Interesting thread Wendy , thanks for starting.

As to your issue, what is your girth?

It looks like you have a pretty fat cock, which may be a problem - but it's hard to tell because you seem to be on the short side as well. Sometimes short cocks can look thicker than they really are do to proportion

[RallyCola]

You don't need to change anything Wendy! You're beautiful just the way you are!:Bowdown::Bowdown::Bowdown: I think when you find the right person then everything will fall into place for you.:geek:

seriously dude? you took me saying she needs to reduce her cock size a serious?

no...wendy's partners need to relax and accept her, that's all. its not rocket science. if i were bottoming for wendy, i'd be happy with as much she wanted to push in.

[ZELLGADISS]

RallyCola of course, the man that is with Wendy and if she want to be top, the man should relax for take her fat cock, it is sure ;)

The Wendy´s cock is pretty, i like very much :)

[RallyCola]

RallyCola of course, the man that is with Wendy and if she want to be top, the man should relax for take her fat cock, it is sure ;)

The Wendy´s cock is pretty, i like very much :)

it kinda goes back to what i was saying before about training for cock. I can see "training" to take a 2L bottle of soda up the ass, but that's obscenely large. idk...i just don't see this as anything more than a mental issue on the part of the bottom wendy is trying to screw.

[BigDF]

seriously dude? you took me saying she needs to reduce her cock size a serious?

no...wendy's partners need to relax and accept her, that's all. its not rocket science. if i were bottoming for wendy, i'd be happy with as much she wanted to push in.
For heaven's sake man, relax. All I did was play off your remark to give my friend a compliment. I will say I am in agreement with the rest of your post, though, and if my personal situation was different, I'd happily fly to New York to assist her in all of her endeavors. :dancing:

[Wendy Summers]

it kinda goes back to what i was saying before about training for cock. I can see "training" to take a 2L bottle of soda up the ass, but that's obscenely large. idk...i just don't see this as anything more than a mental issue on the part of the bottom wendy is trying to screw.


That might be the case, but it's the repetitive nature of this that gets me thinking. Granted I'm likely not fucking anal sluts like you all either :p.

:dancing::dancing::dancing::dancing:

[Wendy Summers]

Interesting thread Wendy , thanks for starting.

As to your issue, what is your girth?

It looks like you have a pretty fat cock, which may be a problem - but it's hard to tell because you seem to be on the short side as well. Sometimes short cocks can look thicker than they really are do to proportion

I'll need to measure around next time I'm fully hard... it's horizontally 2 1/2" across at the widest point an probably an inch or so in height, so guesstimating my circumference is in the 6" range?

[gaysian71]

I prefer girth over length. to me the prefect size cock is around 8"X7"

[RallyCola]

That might be the case, but it's the repetitive nature of this that gets me thinking. Granted I'm likely not fucking anal sluts like you all either :p.

:dancing::dancing::dancing::dancing:


i'm not an anal slut...i just play one with tvs...er...i mean ts

[ZELLGADISS]

Wendy Summers you have very fat cock, in the base or medium where is very fat i would tell range 6.5-7 inches thickness, really you have amazing fat cock honey ;)

[Wingman]

In my experience, if I'm turned on enough I can take pretty much anything. Depends on my partner being patient both getting me to that state of arousal in the first place and then being progressive in how she puts it in!

I find a wide cock is much easier to take in my ass than in my mouth.

[shram1]

I am only 1 1/4" across and you are 2 1/2"! wow- i would love to see live and see if I could handle it. I think girth is better anyway.

[freudian1]

My past few irl bottoms have complained about having difficulty taking my width. Seems most people seem to train their asses for length, not width. So my question for the bottoms here: do you prefer a long cock or a wide cock?

Please only answer if you've actually taken a cock.

I prefer girth to length in terms of pleasure, but width is more difficult to adjust to when it's bigger than you're used to. There's usually an angle of entry that allows me to take more length. But for girth, you're either prepared or your not.

I'm personally training to be able to take a fisting because I'm more of a BDSM bottom than an HA bottom. So girth is not much of a problem these days.

[kauaibowls]

When on the bottom I prefer the sensation of girth over length. Some times length especially if riding my prostrate can be too intense which includes the sensation of needing to pee makes me wonder of I'm really having fun. Now length and girth can be memorable. Once was topped by a 9x7, said a F-word with each push and still top of mind year later.

[RallyCola]

see wendy...you have eager forum members that are willing to accept your girth. you should have try outs.

[Wendy Summers]

see wendy...you have eager forum members that are willing to accept your girth. you should have try outs.

Lolz clearly you are trying to facilitate here lol

[robertlouis]

Aw... so much for THAT plan... #evilgrin

Just for the sake of confirmation. It ain't gonna happen.

Not even for you, Wendy. :)

[BigDF]

I'll need to measure around next time I'm fully hard... it's horizontally 2 1/2" across at the widest point an probably an inch or so in height, so guesstimating my circumference is in the 6" range?
I'd like to point out that before I retired I was an inspector at the jet motor plant. I could measure you with a vernier caliper and cum up with a much more precise measurement, after which I would be more than happy to relieve your condition. :salad:jerkoff:wink:

[1hornySOB]

It's all painful to me, weather it's big or small.
I hate to bottom but if the girl likes it and asks for it I sometimes cave in and accept it just to satisfy her (to my dismay lol).

As for Wendy - my mouth says yes but my anus says not a chance >_>

[RallyCola]

I'd like to point out that before I retired I was an inspector at the jet motor plant. I could measure you with a vernier caliper and cum up with a much more precise measurement, after which I would be more than happy to relieve your condition. :salad:jerkoff:wink:

oh yeah...well i did pottery in 3rd grade and know my way around 3ds so i could get Wendy hard, make a mold, scan it and produce a perfect 3d rendering of her cock from which we can measure all sorts of things and I have wixey protractor that I can use to measure the angle of her dangle.

beat that BigDF






:joke:

[BigDF]

oh yeah...well i did pottery in 3rd grade and know my way around 3ds so i could get Wendy hard, make a mold, scan it and produce a perfect 3d rendering of her cock from which we can measure all sorts of things and I have wixey protractor that I can use to measure the angle of her dangle.

beat that BigDF






:joke:Can't since I'm retired, Rally, but used to have access to an extremely sophisticated (not to mention expensive) comparator, not that I really think I could have got her into the jet motor plant.

To tell the truth, I don't really care about the size of her cock, just using that suggestion to get to it. And, sorry to say, I did not envision any sort of team effort. I'm a selfish fuck and I don't want to share. :dancing::joke:

[Chase_Mcthirsty]

A little of both...

The OP looks like a glass butt plug I own.

It's no more than about 4.5" long with the handle and the circumference is about 6.5 which is not all that comfortable.

But when it comes to women 5 to 8" length with about a 4.5 to 5.5" girth wins a steak dinner.

[Chaos]

Hey DF and Rally?

I got you BOTH beat...I still have all my machining tools AND 4 different 3d programs....Sculptris and Zbrush being the 2 big ones... :party: :whistle:

[builtstrong21]

My past few irl bottoms have complained about having difficulty taking my width. Seems most people seem to train their asses for length, not width. So my question for the bottoms here: do you prefer a long cock or a wide cock?

Please only answer if you've actually taken a cock.

width; it only needs to go so deep; been with Vanilla, I know ;)