where you met a TS (non escort)

[wiltthestilt]

Ive noticed that a number of members of this forum have TS girlfriends or have had TS girlfriends, some have had several. My question is where did you meet them? I went 30 years never meeting one until I specifically went looking for them. I havent exactly lived a sheltered life either. Im just curious where you met the TS you dated?

[MHarrigan82]

I met my current girlfriend off of transgenderdate.com.

[SXFX]

at university? Bar...
after university? online dating...for straight people....i think?

[christianxxx]

in never never land

[amberskyi]

in never never land

you dont really think that do you christian??

[Jackal]

I found quite a few through online sites dedicated to transgender dating and even gay/bi websites as they have options or are welcoming to transsexuals as well. though, I am living outside the USA

[Chase_Mcthirsty]

Hmmm....well I wont say a non sex working ts is as real as a unicorn.

So I think I'll just leave now.

Stay Imaginary ~

[amberskyi]

Well i would like to introduce you to one.her name is Remy757.she's a member on this forum,a photographer for grooby and hasn't escorted or done porn a day in her life.
Now can you hook me up with a unicorn

[dc_guy_75]

My experience:

Online:
Transgenderdate
okcupid

Life:
Places where there are drag shows

[wiltthestilt]

Just to clarify, I didnt mean a non-sex worker per se. Just not someone you hired as an escort or you met at porn convention or something. If you met her waiting on line for a hotdog at Yankee stadium and she happens to escort that still counts.

[Chase_Mcthirsty]

Well i would like to introduce you to one.her name is Remy757.she's a member on this forum,a photographer for grooby and hasn't escorted or done porn a day in her life.
Now can you hook me up with a unicorn

Um..yeah that's great, problem is, she's probably dated more tgirls than I have. (Thus not our type)

But if I happen to run into a lesbian unicorn I'll IM you.

[Chase_Mcthirsty]

My experience:

Online:
Transgenderdate
okcupid

Life:
Places where there are drag shows

Are those pay sites?

[amberskyi]

Yeah that's super, only problem is that she's probably dated more tgirls than I have.

But if I happen to run into a lesbian unicorn I'll IM you.

a.why are you assuming shes lesbian?
b.why does sexual orientation matter? are you trying to imply that all ts woman who are into men are in the industry?

[Chase_Mcthirsty]

a.why are you assuming shes lesbian?
b.why does sexual orientation matter? are you trying to imply that all ts woman who are into men are in the industry?

a)Because she's said it.
b)Because it's indicative to the presumed intent of this thread regarding men finding date worthy TS "girlfriends" who aren't prostitutes.


How about reading the initial thread over instead of "implying" things on my behalf.

[amberskyi]

a)Because she's said it.
b)Because it's indicative to the presumed intent of this thread regarding men finding date worthy TS "girlfriends" who aren't prostitutes.


How about reading the initial thread over instead of "implying" things on my behalf.

shes actually bi.she dates both men and woman (sorta lol).
also i didnt imply.i asked questions in which you answered.

[martin48]

Through my work - now that'll get some thinking

[Remy757Photog]

Actually I'm bi, hi pleasure to meet you lol :-P I'm open to the right individual but not just any guy or girl. To be fair I've dated far more GG and Ts then men, most guys that have approach me are douches and only interested in sex.

[Chase_Mcthirsty]

Actually I'm bi, hi pleasure to meet you lol :-P I'm open to the right individual but not just any guy or girl. To be fair I've dated far more GG and Ts then men, most guys that have approach me are douches and only interested in sex.

Yeah we guys need to be less interested in sex while viewing women in semi-shear bra's...

Nice meeting you....

SMH

[amberskyi]

yes cause women go everywhere in shear bras and nothing else
personally i like this little black lace number when i go to church

[wiltthestilt]

Are those pay sites?

OK Cupid is free.

[Prospero]

In Harrods...

[be2378]

Still looking for my Tgirlfriend.

[martin48]

In Harrods...


I bagged one there too

[Chase_Mcthirsty]

OK Cupid is free.

Cool thanks.

[Remy757Photog]

Yeah we guys need to be less interested in sex while viewing women in semi-shear bra's...

Nice meeting you....

SMH

lol This is not the venue I meet guys in. I'm usually at regular places like GG's straight bars, parks, store's, out on my motorcycle. I was at Hooters having a girl's night out and a guy walked up bought us drinks and was moderately cool for a while and then came out of nowhere talking about how awesome he was at oral sex, total turn off.

[RallyCola]

in never never land

is it wrong that i immediately thought of michael jackson with this quote. if the boy fucked up his face that bad, imagine what he did to his junk. i mean he always had to adjust it.

[RallyCola]

i sense quite a bit of cynicism in this thread. there are more transgendered women NOT in the porn/escorting industry than there are. That said, the subset of transwomen that frequently post here is truly a very small sample size.

what blows my mind is that you want to specifically meet a transwoman for a relationship and you don't see the inherent problem with that. Right there you are segregating them from all other women and you have to ask why. If your intent is to meet a tgirl rather than a ggirl, your intent is not as innocent as wanting to find someone to enjoy, but rather likely a girl that can fulfill YOUR sexual fantasies.

I've mentioned many times that one of the dept admins in my office is a transwoman. I've outright asked her if she had contemplated escorting and she never did. Another that I know is a graphic designer that started her transition in her late 20s. Both of these women are good looking and in successful relationships that begun the way any man meets a woman, incidentally.

here is what i think it comes down to. methinks that for many reasons we all know, but sometimes won't admit to, many men hold transwomen to different standards than ggirls. a man will come here and complain that a so-called "perfect 10" tgirl is an escort and unattainable even though they couldn't get the perfect 10 ggirl either. I am of the theory that if you are able to attract a ggirl mate, you can attract a tgirl mate and it won't be in a place like this, a strip club or other "sex-first" venue.

[Schimmel]

Still looking for my Tgirlfriend.
Bro, do u even lift?

[be2378]

Bro, do u even lift?

Dont understand?

[mikejones]

I met both of my LTR girlfriends at Inergy/Crystal in Houston. It is primarily a gay club but also attracts lots of Tgirls.

[Donkey]

I met both of my LTR girlfriends at Inergy/Crystal in Houston. It is primarily a gay club but also attracts lots of Tgirls.
Can you go there these days without getting shot? It was pretty rough at one time...

[mikejones]

I was there again last Friday. No problems.

[RallyCola]

hey...if you are in a gay club and a guy is hitting on you, chances are you aren't fugly or too short or too fat to attract a woman

[elchingon8]

Craigslist. She wanted to hang out because she was bored. I had nothing to do so I jumped on the opportunity. We really clicked and we have been seeing each other for the last month and a half. Its been real fun.

She does escort because she wants FFS, a boob job, and other work done, but whenever we are together she puts that away. She separates her those 2 aspects of her life. I know I don't have the money to financially support her getting those types of surgeries because they are pricey. She wants to get it done this year and she plans to work as a nurse after that (already has the degree) When we first met she didn't even tell me. I asked "what do you do for a living? Honey you don't wanna know" I mean its not ideal but she said she wanted to get out after she finished up.

Also I am the first guy shes seeing regularly as a girl. We are both young and both love to have a fun time. All her friends like me and think I'm pretty sweet. I really hope this works out because she is an amazing girl.

[Bunzee]

i found mine on BBTaylor.com (http://www.bbtaylor.com)

[Stavros]

One of my oldest friends I met in the WayOut Club in London, and no, she wasn't hooking. I met another through her own website -American but was spending the summer in Europe, and no she wasn't a hooker either; a third who is also a close friend I met while exchanging ideas on one of those yahoo groups that no longer exists, and she was a student not a hooker; and a fourth was a web-cam performer in the Philippines, so I guess that was the only sex-worker of that group. Going further back in time I met someone at Ron Storme's East End bash in the 1980s and that turned into a complicated story which mercifully for both of us didn't last; and before the internet there were 'dating' magazines which were a mix of working girls and the mostly desperate TV/men in the closet ads -which led me to one of the most bizarre encounters of my life which I won't recount here. So there have always been ways of meeting girls who were not in the trade, I guess it depends on how inquisitive and investigative you want to be to find them where they nest and play. Finally a word for the drag balls at the Porchester Hall in the 1970s and 1980s, you had to be there to understand what a phenomenal transformation has taken place to the presence of transexuals in society today, compared to then. I did at least get bumped out of the toilet by Marilyn before she bacame a famous pop star...for five minutes. I think she was 17 or 18 at the time and looked good in that tight black pencil skirt she used to wear...

[Tyler___Durden]

Going further back in time I met someone at Ron Storme's East End bash in the 1980s
A couple of my friends (A man and a Ts) used to go there 12 + years ago.
That's where they met. They got married 3 years ago.
And she has never had any connection with sex work of any kind, either.

[Tyler___Durden]

Oh, I met my hubby in a coffee shop in Brighton, UK.
But he had to fly 1200 miles to do so. He lives in Sicily. (we met on line on another tranny site)
That's what I call a first date commitment!

[francisfkudrow]

adultfriendfinder.com

[bellamy]

most guys that have approach me are douches and only interested in sex.


Yep that sounds like us lol

[Stavros]

Going further back in time I met someone at Ron Storme's East End bash in the 1980s

Tyler wrote:
A couple of my friends (A man and a Ts) used to go there 12 + years ago.
That's where they met. They got married 3 years ago.
And she has never had any connection with sex work of any kind, either.

I can't recall precisely where it was, somewhere near Bow road? It was a smaller venue than Porchester Hall and also had a friendlier atmosphere, pity it was in what at the time was a dismal part of London. In her prime Ron was an elegant beauty; she did a lot of charitable work and is missed.

[Tyler___Durden]

Stepney Nightclub in Commercial Road behind the George pub
or the later venue: The Black Horse, 168 Mile End Road, London, E1.
I only went to the latter venue a few times, after Ron had passed away,
so sadly I never met him.

Fun atmosphere though people said it was not as good as when Ron was there.