Hanging out with your friends

[MsDazzler]

I am wondering... have you always seen your trans woman in an one-on-one setting, either at your home, her home, or in a darkly-lit bar?

Has she ever hung out with you and your friends in broad daylight? How has that gone? Awkward explanations? Constantly justifying yourself?

Obviously this precludes guys who just see trans women escorts....

[littletwink]

People are people. Unless someone is a criminal they are welcome to hang out with me whenever I'm free.

[saifan]

I have been out with my girl dozens of times but have yet for one of those times to be with friends. We were going to go to a wedding that a bunch of my friends were going to be at but the groom died a week before the wedding...

[dabaldone]

I had a couple of LTR's and dated a few other trans-women. I've been to Xmas work parties, work outings, bday parties for friends, family dinners the whole shabang. There was never any issue with anyone

[Willie Escalade]

Don't have a GF anymore but when I did we went everywhere...no matter the time of day or who was around.

[MsDazzler]

Hmm... I wonder...

I hardly see any trans woman out in public, with a man/lover. When I do, she is usually alone or with other trans women.

[eccentricBlue]

As I get older, it is mostly one on one meetings. However my first introduction came from going to clubs. I got to know quite a few on a friendly basis and that set the stage for my natural progression towards trans women. When you make it a big deal it becomes a big deal. Simple as that.

[RallyCola]

Hmm... I wonder...

I hardly see any trans woman out in public, with a man/lover. When I do, she is usually alone or with other trans women.

I know several transwomen that i interact with often either professionally or personally. the women i count among my friends however are not in the porn/escorting industry. i have no issue being seen or associated with any of these women.

that said, i do agree to a certain extent with what you said. i have never seen a working girl or porn star out and about. its not as if i run into these women at starbucks or at a knicks game. the only place i've ever encountered a working tgirl or porn star tgirl has been at a club or if i book an appt.

[benfromchicago]

I'm still looking for my first tg girlfriend. I have no problem being in public with her. I love t-girls

[amberskyi]

Hmm... I wonder...

I hardly see any trans woman out in public, with a man/lover. When I do, she is usually alone or with other trans women.

that you know of....
its kinda funny cause i know allot of girls who seem to keep guys around them at all times like accessories lol

[MsDazzler]

I think most trans women prefer to venture out when it s dark out... they feel safer and able to "pass" better during nighttime.

[runround04]

Same as with a GG. Few dates by ourselves and hangin out together, then bring her around my friends. I dont see where the Trans thing would make a difference. Unless its summer and we're out riding, then we're sure to see friends within the hour, she'll then get the visor up introduction at a stop light like every other back seater. lol

[MsDazzler]

I just thought of something else...

I also hardly see trans women during activities/locations that include water... such as amusement parks, beaches, etc... because of obvious reasons...

unless it is Gay Day at those locations, then yeah, you see trans women out in full force. ol

[BigBlackMan]

They're mostly alone because they are looking for the next client

[jerryvette]

i been lucky to have dated a few "special" girls and i have to say
i luv takin them out day time nite time anytime, i been dating a "special" girl
the last 4months i go every where with her,i luv watching other guys go crazy
over her.

[runround04]

i been lucky to have dated a few "special" girls and i have to say
i luv takin them out day time nite time anytime, i been dating a "special" girl
the last 4months i go every where with her,i luv watching other guys go crazy
over her.

Special like helmet and short bus? Bet she loves being called special, like she different and not just the women she is would like to be seen as in everyday life.

[JerseyMike]

I invited one of my gf's to hang out with me and my friends at college. She freaked out at the thought and refused to go.

[jerryvette]

Special like helmet and short bus? Bet she loves being called special, like she different and not just the women she is would like to be seen as in everyday life.

lol
when i say special i mean it in a nice way,
to me trannys are special girls,
jeez seems like everyone here wants to bicker
over the dumbest shit,now i remember why i dont
bother to post much.

[dj4monie]

I know several transwomen that i interact with often either professionally or personally. the women i count among my friends however are not in the porn/escorting industry. i have no issue being seen or associated with any of these women.

that said, i do agree to a certain extent with what you said. i have never seen a working girl or porn star out and about. its not as if i run into these women at starbucks or at a knicks game. the only place i've ever encountered a working tgirl or porn star tgirl has been at a club or if i book an appt.

I've seen plenty of porn/escorts running around LA, it just depends where you are. You are not going to see them all in the same place at the same time.

North Hollywood, Silverlake area, Hollywood and West LA is where I have seen the majority of them. Most of the time they are alone though, I guess that's not by design, they just don't come online to complain about it really...

[Quiet Reflections]

My girl hangs out with me and my friends all the time, she can out drink and smoke most of them too. She hangs out with them and their wives when all the time

[runround04]

lol
when i say special i mean it in a nice way,
to me trannys are special girls,
jeez seems like everyone here wants to bicker
over the dumbest shit,now i remember why i dont
bother to post much.

Didnt mean to start shit with ya, just seemed a lil demeaning when I first read it. Apologies:cheers:

[elchingon8]

I went out with my girl and her friend to quite a few gay bars when she was looking goood. Then I took her to breakfast when she looked like a hot mess haha. I could care less what people think.

[BeardedOne]

Though not much of a social person, beyond suckling at the phosphor teat far more than anyone should, I have been out and about with a couple of my dates. Dinner, the flower show, spending time with some local friends. I've subjected three gurls from these forums to the torture that is a weekend with my friends and associates. At least one was a bit overwhelmed because I introduced her to about a hundred people in a single evening. :)

[MsDazzler]

I went out with my girl and her friend to quite a few gay bars when she was looking goood. Then I took her to breakfast when she looked like a hot mess haha. I could care less what people think.

oh yeah? Do you feel comfortable being seen in gay bars?

[elchingon8]

I got hit on a couple times by guys and one offered to buy me a drink but I don't swing that way. I really don't care what people think of me. I do what makes me happy and if my girl wants to go dance at a gay club then I'm down. Also I do like the music they play.