Dont's for first timers to a tranny club ?

[hdr162000]

Hey everyone,

Any tips for people going to a tranny club for the first time ? any particulars dont's do's ?

Thanks ~~

[ARMANIXXX]

Why wouldn't you just do what you do when you go to a regular club?


And which "tranny club(s)" are you planning on?

[jamesedwards]

true dat

[giovanni_hotel]

Expect most girls to wanna get paid for their private time outside the club.
It's less like a club atmosphere and more like and Eros escort get together.

[Fancy fancy]

I'd say do not be shy, if you see a girl you like, say hey, and they often like to have their cocks grabbed (if done discretely) or a sly finger in their arseholes.

[Dino Velvet]

Make sure to wear a clean raincoat and wipe off your mirrored sunglasses so you can better spot the sweeties.

[Willie Escalade]

Don't walk up to a girl and ask "Do you have a penis?"

I know of someone who did that...and to this day he's clowned because of it.

[sophiebendable]

Don't walk up to a girl and ask "Do you have a penis?"

I know of someone who did that...and to this day he's clowned because of it.

Yes! Thank you.

[sophiebendable]

I'd say do not be shy, if you see a girl you like, say hey, and they often like to have their cocks grabbed (if done discretely) or a sly finger in their arseholes.

This is a joke, right? I would kick a guy in the balls if he did this to me.

[Fancy fancy]

I've never been kicked in the balls you bendable little feast:salad

[wiltthestilt]

Depends on the type of club. The girls you will find at the TS parties are primarily strippers and/or escorts. Feeling around is a possibility with some of them, particularly if you pay for a dance. I would say be careful who you leave with and leave yourself enough $$$ at the end of the night. I see escorts but would not consider leaving with anyone who doesnt have a reputation. At a normal T-girl club; I really have no idea.

[marcindublin]

Be polite, be respectful and be yourself. Remember the majority of the girls are working and are there to make money if your not buying they will move on. That said dont throw your money at the first girl that smiles at you. Its cat and mouse you want them and they want your money, if they are good at their job they can get you to hand over the cash with a smile and have you leave satisfied with your time there. If they are bad at their jobs you leave feeling ripped off.

I alsways find the tranny clubs hit and miss, Tranny Strip in NY is in my opinion the best as it works like a regular strip club, sure some of the girls will leave with you but even with that there are lots of girls working all night long. Met some really cool girls there and met some really nasty girls too, like i said its hit and miss

[robertlouis]

Not using the word "tranny" would be a good start.

[gaysian71]

The best advice is, don't be a wallflower!!! But then that's probably the best advice in any kind of club. Unless you like going home to Rosie Palm and Palmela.

[SmithXXX]

Just be yourself. Don't be afraid to talk to people, and above all treat the girls with respect (in other words, don't walk up and grab them like a piece of meat). Treat the girls the same way you expect to be treated.

[BiBoyinBeantown]

The best advice is, don't be a wallflower!!! But then that's probably the best advice in any kind of club.

This would be why I don't function well in clubs...straight, gay, trans, whatever. Just can't walk up to strangers and start talking to them. I've been introduced to people by friends, met people off the internet, whatever...but going up to a stranger and starting a conversation? Forget it. :(

[runround04]

I'd say do not be shy, if you see a girl you like, say hey, and they often like to have their cocks grabbed (if done discretely) or a sly finger in their arseholes.

So the same way I act at Walmart, Gotcha.

[hdr162000]

Thanks for the useful advice everyone !

[sucka4chix]

Don't walk up to a girl and ask "Do you have a penis?"

I know of someone who did that...and to this day he's clowned because of it.

I get why not to say this... but I've been to parties with GGs and Ts, so in that case, if you prefer one over the other, what do you do (if you can't tell)?

[jennylicious]

Not using the word "tranny" would be a good start.

Unless it's WayOut and Vicky Lee is within earshot. She may get offended if you don't use the word.

She adopted the word when she started the night as a term that covered all of her customers. (She may even be responsible for it.)

[sucka4chix]

This is a joke, right? I would kick a guy in the balls if he did this to me.
Hmmm, so I guess I need to go back and kick alot of Tgirls!

[SXFX]

Fart and dressing like crap....oh and poor tipping of the bartender.

[nysprod]

Why wouldn't you just do what you do when you go to a regular club?

Because by and large, the girls are pros looking to do business...

[francisfkudrow]

This would be why I don't function well in clubs...straight, gay, trans, whatever. Just can't walk up to strangers and start talking to them. I've been introduced to people by friends, met people off the internet, whatever...but going up to a stranger and starting a conversation? Forget it. :(

I'm the same way. I have no idea how people just walk up to someone and start a conversation without seeming creepy.

[JenniferParisHusband]

Basic rules I've always gone by, not in any kind of order.

1.) Talk to people, if you can. If not, keep going back until you're comfortable enough to talk to them, or you are approachable for someone to come and talk to you.
2.) Don't be creepy.
3.) Tip the bartender and wait-staff.
4.) If there's a revue, tip the performers and compliment them on their performances, costumes, and beauty, if you find them deserving of your praise and money. If they aren't worthy, tip anyway.
5.) Don't be creepy. (yes, it bears repeating).
6.) They aren't Trannys, or ho's, be polite and treat every lady with respect. Being a gentleman goes a long way, being respectful of the fact that it's their world and you're just being a guest goes further.
7.) If it's your first time, admit it, and embrace it. Try to enjoy being there, and meeting new people.
8.) Super important one, don't be fucking creepy!!!!
9.) Don't expect to pick anyone up the first few times you go. If you're looking for relationships or even one nighters, you still go each time with the intent to build up a positive reputation, learn the land, and make connections. When you know what you're doing, advance your experience.
10.) Look for a mentoring opportunity, if there is one available. Chasers tend to stand out in the crowd. Meet someone there who is a regular, and not wearing heels, and get to know them as well, they can introduce you aroundand help you learn what the etiquite is.

[nysprod]

Basic rules I've always gone by, not in any kind of order.

2.) Don't be creepy.
5.) Don't be creepy. (yes, it bears repeating).
8.) Super important one, don't be fucking creepy!!!!

Define "creeepy"

[fred41]

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[Tina Francis]

I don't understand why the word 'Tranny' would be offensive in a crowd where the most celebrated industry award is named just that. I'd like some of the girls opinions on this. Some on here seem to hate it, some do not. None seem offended by being called 'Shemales'. But just try using the word 'Shemale' at a Southern Comfort convention....:smh:hide-1:

[amberskyi]

I don't understand why the word 'Tranny' would be offensive in a crowd where the most celebrated industry award is named just that. I'd like some of the girls opinions on this. Some on here seem to hate it, some do not. None seem offended by being called 'Shemales'. But just try using the word 'Shemale' at a Southern Comfort convention....:smh:hide-1:

because this is porn and in no way should you take any cues on how to deal with trans woman from porn.if you use industry words to a girl than either you should expect to be dismissed or get an industry response from her (i.e pay me trick lol).
you wouldnt go up to an older attractive woman and call her a hot sexy milf would ya lol (im sure some assholes do lol)
ps.call me a shemale in a social setting (ie outside of porn and escorting) i will walk away with your nuts :D

[sophiebendable]

I'm the same way. I have no idea how people just walk up to someone and start a conversation without seeming creepy.

Being bisexual, I can totally relate. When I was younger, I thought I was just bad at approaching people, but then I realized I just have no desire to do so.

This can be tough with women, but it really stands out when one comes on to me. I think this is because women are able to say dirtier things to strangers without seeming creepy, at least in my opinion, because I don't have to have many of the same safety concerns with them.

With men, on the other hand, I get approached all the time, but mostly only by the creepy ones. It seems like it's the same lack of social skills that makes them think it's okay to say offensive things to me that allows them to have no anxiety about talking to a stranger. Makes me wish some of the shyer guys would step up, because I assume they'd be more respectful and interesting.

[bluesoul]

Basic rules I've always gone by, not in any kind of order.

2.) Don't be creepy.
5.) Don't be creepy. (yes, it bears repeating).
8.) Super important one, don't be fucking creepy!!!!


don't you think you have a problem if you have to try so hard not to be creepy, or at least, have it as a rule on how to conduct yourself?

personally, i found this thread very telling about the mindset of the average male who frequent clubs with transsexuals

[flabbybody]

wish there was a better word for us guys than "chaser"

[SXFX]

sit in the corner of the bar looking at your drink giggling and then looking at the girls giggling....

dude just be your self and not too fucking creepy.

[fred41]

...don't sit in a dark corner wearing a hoodie...with the hood up.

[Stavros]

Don't go on your own -it's always better to be with a friend or a group as girls like to see other people having fun and its easier to invite someone you like to join you.

Don't hang around the toilets, a sure sign of desperation.

Don't have one hand buried in your trouser pocket at all times for obvious reasons, another sign of desperation.

Don't punch above your weight -the gorgeous blonde in a figure-hugging dress is probably looking for a gorgeous man, and if you ask what she's drinking, it will be champagne anyway. There is always a cute girl who is amenable to well-dressed and well-spoken men, they are not all on the game.

[djblu]

sit in the corner with a briefcase full of 20's u wont have to worry about going up to anyone.. have them come to u. This works really well until the club owners think u are some kind of crazy coke dealer and start sending girls over to "check" u out... Or so i have read... ;) at that time its time to leave.... trust ME. Give that money out. THEY usually are worth it and u will find how much fun u can really have. AND screw the labels, well not Versace, we are all just us. AND its really fucking cool.

So go have fun even if u sit in a corner all night and cower. At least u are there. GETTING there is HALF the battle. doNT HAVE ANY EXPECTATIONS except for u to go enjoy yourself and go home.. EVERYTHING else is just Icing on the dick.

[gaysian71]

Don't Talk about cock!!!
Unless of course she pulls hers out.

[tsdvdman]

Originally Posted by JenniferParisHusband
Basic rules I've always gone by, not in any kind of order.

2.) Don't be creepy.
5.) Don't be creepy. (yes, it bears repeating).
8.) Super important one, don't be fucking creepy!!!!
LOL..I wonder how many of you guys actually been to these parties.
The girls are..and can be ruthless. The "creepy" guy in the corner or the old guy just sitting down alone gets more attention and action than the so-called "players" with game.etc. All the girls see are quick and easy dollar signs. The creepy old dude gets lapdances gets rubbed on etc. If you are looking for some ts ass..it doesn't matter what you look like how old or young you are how creepy or not you are. If you got the money you will get action from someone. If it isn't from the one you have your eye one..it's probably because she's in and out and already doing her thang..or in some cases..some girls don't go with certain types of dudes (from that setting).

[JenniferParisHusband]

don't you think you have a problem if you have to try so hard not to be creepy, or at least, have it as a rule on how to conduct yourself?

personally, i found this thread very telling about the mindset of the average male who frequent clubs with transsexuals

I don't think I have a problem, and if you read it as such, please don't. It's more advice for others who can't fake normal polite and civilized behavior when out in public.

Not every club scene is LA or New York, despite how vocal those crowds are on here. Admittedly the LA club scene is very different from where I am now, which is Columbus, and Cincinnati, Ohio. It's a much different vibe. You don't have to worry as much about strange Frat kids from Kentucky coming in and making trouble, or a church suddenly showing up to protest the club because they got sick of protesting the Hustler store they built their church next to.

The creepy guy in the corner who might get a lap dance at Cobra isn't going to be the most approachable guy at the club down the road from the state prison in Monroe, Ohio. What a lot of guys think of as making deep and serious eye contact with a lady in LA, I've been told by a couple of girls here seems more like "I want to keep you in a pit in my basement" in Ohio. I was at a club with a friend once when a guy hit on a lady using the line "You've got really nice skin." Even in LA, that would be creepy, and there are some guys who don't think twice about that kind of thing.

So yeah, even if you are well behaved, it bears repeating. Don't be creepy. Like I said in the rest of the post which Bluesoul is ignoring in hopes of stirring up trouble, is "you still go each time with the intent to build up a positive reputation." And that sums up every one of those rules.

[sheyum]

"youve got nice skin?"

thats creepy??

hmm...so what exactly is disrespectful about that question?

i think maybe YOURE trying a bit too hard NOT to be creepy

[Jackal]

wish there was a better word for us guys than "chaser"

Trans-attracted is an euonym, in my opinion.

[djblu]

Tsdvdman.... Vry well put.....

And by creepy we can say this is creepy and that is not but it's all in the delivery and vibe. That's what gets picked up on as creepy. U can have 2 dudes come up to the same gal and say can I buy u a drink? and one is gonna say it right where the other may just have that vibe about them that u just feel ain't right.

Should be a sign at the door.. Poker in the rear liquor in the front creeps out the door!!

[Prospero]

Go to have fun. Treat the girls as girls... not as easy bed fodder. Join in. Laugh and talk. Don't be an asshole (or a creep). In the end, be a nice guy and treat the girls you talk to or dance with or whatever as nice girls - or women. If it gets to the idea of going home together then you might want to establish if its a pay date or not. Tricky though.*

All these rules are a little different depending on where you go. By reputation Stunners and Sweet Wednesdays are places to go get screwed or screw with a range of girls from the occasional beauty to the nearly bearded truck driver in a nylon BHS dress.

[nysprod]

As far as NY goes, you're not creepy if you're tipping dancers, buying drinks and getting lap dances even if you look like Quasimodo...if you sit there by yourself oogling the girls and spend nothing, you're creepy even if you look like George Clooney.

[freak]

Be careful, remember what kind of bar you are in. No one is saying it because they are afraid of offending the girls. If you are in a bar that has a fair share of working girls (Hookers) remember they are just that Hookers, watch for pick pockets, scams and overly friendly girls.
Do not think just because she has her hand on your cock that she loves you, she loves the paper in your pocket more.

[djblu]

hand on cock other hand in pocket.. Got me at sally's once, back in the day...500 bye bye.....Live and learn..

[sucka4chix]

Some HORRIBLE advice on here! Use your common sense and you'll be fine.

[wiltthestilt]

If we are talking about one of the tranny parties advertised on here; it is basically a go go bar with escorts hanging out looking for clients. The girls will come to you; no courage needed. Some will want to give you dances others are just there to escort and meet clients. If you want to talk to to a girl, walk up to her.

But keep in mind, if she is attractive she probably views you as a potential client. Some girls will want to leave with you immediately where as others will exchange numbers. Some girls will ignore you if you dont look like you have the $$$ for them.

Just use common sense and you will be fine.

[tsdvdman]

if we are talking about one of the tranny parties advertised on here; it is basically a go go bar with escorts hanging out looking for clients. The girls will come to you; no courage needed. Some will want to give you dances others are just there to escort and meet clients. If you want to talk to to a girl, walk up to her.

But keep in mind, if she is attractive she probably views you as a potential client. Some girls will want to leave with you immediately where as others will exchange numbers. Some girls will ignore you if you dont look like you have the $$$ for them.

Just use common sense and you will be fine.\
exactly!!

[Tranny Strip]

I always know when it is someones first time cause they hide in the darkest corner of our party.....where there is NO lights. They are afraid they are going to run into someone they know...so they are very nervous. Darling....if you run into someone you know then they are there for the same reason!! LOL

Don't be shy. Yes, do observe and enjoy what you see but don't be shy to talk to the girls or even the other guys that are into the same thing you are.

A BIG DON"T....don't park you car in front of the club and sit in the car and act like in front of a tranny bar is a "hooker stroll"!! I hate when these guys park in front of our club and try to lure girls into there cars!! That is a BIG NO NO and I will knock on your window and tell you to move your car or come inside!! My girls are not "street" girls!!

Just come and enjoy and if you have questions "ask" me or one of my many staff members! We will do our best to make you feel comfortable!!

Our saying every night we are open is "reach out and touch a tranny"!!!!

[archineer]

Don't be poor.