Desperate

[ChubsterT]

Hi gang.

New to HA but am a true Transwoman fan for life.

I am 100% honest to a fault.

Having said that. I am a little chubby but have been told i am handsome (a lot) I am shy and have low self esteem. I am short, 40 yrs old with a salt and pepper crown. Unfortunately i am not as well endowed as i wish but am incredibly lonely despite being married. All i want is someone to say something nice. To prtetend they are interested or willing to screw my brains out once. That will be enough for me to not...well u know.

I am one of the most accepting and easygoing people you will meet. My biggest downfalls are that i crave positive feedback and that i love LOOOVE Ts cock.

I do not know what else to say but

HELP - T

[Dobladito]

Welcome!

[Jericho]

Having said that. I am a little chubby but have been told i am handsome (a lot) I am shy and have low self esteem. I am short, 40 yrs old with a salt and pepper crown. Unfortunately i am not as well endowed as i wish but am incredibly lonely despite being married. All i want is someone to say something nice. To prtetend they are interested or willing to screw my brains out once. That will be enough for me to not...well u know.

I am one of the most accepting and easygoing people you will meet. My biggest downfalls are that i crave positive feedback and that i love LOOOVE Ts cock.


So (if I'm reading this right)...You're a needy, married, chubby, short dicked bottom, in need of a belly rub?

Granny K, time for your good deed for the day......... :hide-1:

Oh, and welcome to HA! :ignore:

[rodinuk]

http://www.thesamaritans.org.au/

[ChubsterT]

why thank you ass holes. I hope you get aids and die. :) Luv T

[Wendy Summers]

I'd say welcome to Hung Angels hope you survive the experience, but at 38 posts you've been around the block.

As a part analyst / part therapist, or analrapist, if you will, I'm willing to accept new patients at any time. What sort of insurance do you have?

http://www.wendysummers.com/tour/galleries/73/image_23412.jpg

[Prospero]

Hey Chubster... I'd also say welcome, but after your plaintive little message you got two mildly ironic responses plus some genuine remarks and so you respond with a "hope you get Aids and die" comment. Are you for real or a total asshole?
Apologise and then maybe folks will be nice. Or desist from posting.

[Jericho]

Well...Guess that answers why he's
incredibly lonely :shrug

[ChubsterT]

Hey Chubster... I'd also say welcome, but after your plaintive little message you got two mildly ironic responses plus some genuine remarks and so you respond with a "hope you get Aids and die" comment. Are you for real or a total asshole?
Apologise and then maybe folks will be nice. Or desist from posting.

Apologise:confused:
When someone is down you don't kick them in the guts
If someone shows some vulnerability you don't rub it in their face and make jokes like a fifth grader.

If someone shows me no compassion i will show them less.

But thnk you for your self righteous opinion!

[martin48]

Well...Guess that answers why he's :shrug


Welcoming as ever

[Prospero]

Fat, offensive and lonely. A magical combination.

[ChubsterT]

Fat, offensive and lonely. A magical combination.

lol. I am offensive. Who has stooped to personal digs?

[MdR Dave]

Fat people will be prized when we start making Soylent Green.

[loveboof]

Chubster, speak to your wife.

You shouldn't be married and lonely - something isn't working...

[timid1]

why thank you ass holes. I hope you get aids and die. :) Luv T

I have no wish to inflame the anger on this thread, but this is the most offensive post I have seen on HA in my 3 months as a member.

"I hope you get aids and die" ???? surely no one could seriously wish that on another human being ... ever. EVER .

[Protoman2050@gmail.com]

I have no wish to inflame the anger on this thread, but this is the most offensive post I have seen on HA in my 3 months as a member.

"I hope you get aids and die" ???? surely no one could seriously wish that on another human being ... ever. EVER .

Seriously. This guy has a paper-thin ego.

[dgs925]

Hi gang.

New to HA but am a true Transwoman fan for life.

I am 100% honest to a fault.

Having said that. I am a little chubby but have been told i am handsome (a lot) I am shy and have low self esteem. I am short, 40 yrs old with a salt and pepper crown. Unfortunately i am not as well endowed as i wish but am incredibly lonely despite being married. All i want is someone to say something nice. To prtetend they are interested or willing to screw my brains out once. That will be enough for me to not...well u know.

I am one of the most accepting and easygoing people you will meet. My biggest downfalls are that i crave positive feedback and that i love LOOOVE Ts cock.

I do not know what else to say but

HELP - T

Oh my god, try for just a second not to be so pathetic. Just hearing someone be so needy brings out the inner bully in everyone.

[tsadriana]

I din`t know that a lonely person can be so fiesty and rude.
Stop eating hotdogs

[my my my!]

why thank you ass holes. I hope you get aids and die. :) Luv T

STFU you sorry piece of shit. :ignore:

[ed_jaxon]

Ok I gotta say something here.....


Dude asked for help here and I am one to take people at their word. If somebody tells me something about themselves I believe it.

That being said he asked for help and received none.

Knowing my friends on here, if something happened to this dude and you could have done something with a kind word and you did not offer it, you would feel bad.

Despite what he said I ask that you leave him alone.

[tsadriana]

Ok I gotta say something here.....


Dude asked for help here and I am one to take people at their word. If somebody tells me something about themselves I believe it.

That being said he asked for help and received none.

Knowing my friends on here, if something happened to this dude and you could have done something with a kind word and you did not offer it, you would feel bad.

Despite what he said I ask that you leave him alone.
Well maybe you right..But how can u respect someone who wishis you to die of Aids ...I think its terible..Like someone said ,no wonder why he is lonely...When your lonely u look for affection for friends for someone who understands ur emotions.But his atitude is with the other way arround.

[littletwink]

Ok I gotta say something here.....

Dude asked for help here and I am one to take people at their word. If somebody tells me something about themselves I believe it.

That being said he asked for help and received none.

Knowing my friends on here, if something happened to this dude and you could have done something with a kind word and you did not offer it, you would feel bad.

Despite what he said I ask that you leave him alone.

Some people get what they deserve, while others don't get what they deserve.

When someone puts himself out there and is seeking validation, that doesn't make anyone obligated to give it to them.

And a lot of the times when needy, clingy people are asking for a handout, what they really need is a dose of tough love, which is what the original poster has received here.

[amberskyi]

Word Ed

[amberskyi]

Some people get what they deserve, while others don't get what they deserve.

When someone puts himself out there and is seeking validation, that doesn't make anyone obligated to give it to them.

And a lot of the times when needy, clingy people are asking for a handout, what they really need is a dose of tough love, which is what the original poster has received here.

If someone is already in a fragile state than what you consider "tough love" can be abrasive and hurtful to them.
Its kinda sad how unsympathetic allot of people are.ever heard of empathy? At the very least if you can't feel for the person or see where the person is coming from than sometimes the best thing to do is just stay quiet.

[Genetic]

Chubster, you've posted a number of threads asking for advice when it comes to visiting a ts escort and a number of people, myself included, have given you help on the subject so you're not exactly new.

Now you post 2 threads about being sad, lonely and with an implication that if someone doesn't fuck you then you'll kill yourself. Then, when someone points out that your post is full of self deprication and probably explains why you aren't "a catch" you tell them to catch AIDS and die.

Everyone has done their best to make you feel welcome, now you're just attention whoring and being rude. Also giving a moderator shit is one way to ensure your stay here is short. This is a forum about ts, it's not for hand-holding and counselling so don't expect people to treat you specially. A lot of us have issues here; hell I'm fat, ugly, going grey, a little lonely and have been single for nearly 4 years but I don't feel the need to beg for sympathy because life could be a lot worse. If your life is awful then get help and change it.

[Prospero]

I personally think this whole thread has got out of hand. Chubster - just get on with your life.

[Genetic]

Agreed. There's a thread right below this one about a 10 year old boy with cancer which is more deserving of attention.

[jamiethewild]

Hi gang.

New to HA but am a true Transwoman fan for life.

I am 100% honest to a fault.

Having said that. I am a little chubby but have been told i am handsome (a lot) I am shy and have low self esteem. I am short, 40 yrs old with a salt and pepper crown. Unfortunately i am not as well endowed as i wish but am incredibly lonely despite being married. All i want is someone to say something nice. To prtetend they are interested or willing to screw my brains out once. That will be enough for me to not...well u know.

I am one of the most accepting and easygoing people you will meet. My biggest downfalls are that i crave positive feedback and that i love LOOOVE Ts cock.

I do not know what else to say but

HELP - T

ChubsterT- Your a typical queen bottom that has more estrogen than any women in this world. I say go get check on your hormonal levels, you need more testerone. I agree with "Genetic" we all have issues in some point of our lives but to be asking the same question over and over is time to grow some balls, men up and deal with your own shit. I deal with my own issues and am not running around like a miserable bitch craving for sympathy. I say its time to MEN - UP .... STOP BEING A PUSS And Blood hound of cock .... STOP being ROWDY for cock

If crave for positive feedback all the time, your a miserable sad case in life .....

[Protoman2050@gmail.com]

Agree 100%, and LOL.

[GroobySteven]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RVHLH_EuP5k

[TSLillyBlue]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RVHLH_EuP5k
Great clip. Love that movie. Great cast.

[tsdvdman]

ChubsterT- Your a typical queen bottom that has more estrogen than any women in this world. I say go get check on your hormonal levels, you need more testerone. I agree with "Genetic" we all have issues in some point of our lives but to be asking the same question over and over is time to grow some balls, men up and deal with your own shit. I deal with my own issues and am not running around like a miserable bitch craving for sympathy. I say its time to MEN - UP .... STOP BEING A PUSS And Blood hound of cock .... STOP being ROWDY for cock

If crave for positive feedback all the time, your a miserable sad case in life .....
LOL..this is so on point. And any dude on here "advocating" and rallying the troops to verbalize more sympathy for this pathetictry needs to do thier own little self-reflection. HA aint Dr. Phil

[ed_jaxon]

Here is the problem I have with this whole situation.


We got a lot of people piling on here. Not adding shit to the conversation but to try and goad someone into a flame war.

Was the point not made in the first 30 posts that slammed him that so many felt the need to add their laborius 2 cents? Was your calling him fat after 10 others said the same thing the one that really got him?

I am not defending what he said in any way but damn muthafuckas give it a rest!

Jericho was being funny but dude did not know that and overreacted. Now we are at 40 negative posts and for what? The only reason I even said shit was because 1. the point was made and needed to be dropped and 2. and most importantly some of you muthafucks is straight up bullies.

Its not the easy to defend that need to be protected from this herd mentality but those that are hard to defend as well.

A few years back there was a person on here who would constantly start shit and people piled on them as well. Eventually the person killed their wife. They were unstable but the constant bullshit people piled on did not help.

A few months back one of our own here ended up in an institution and I remember all the fuckers who gave her shit as well.

IF YOU AIN'T GOT SHIT GOOD TO SAY THEN SHUT THE FUCK UP!

I am done with this thread. If you want me you will find me verbally molesting Wendy in other threads on this site.

[Willie Escalade]

:ignore:

http://gifrific.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/leaving-now-grandpa-simpsons.gif

[ChubsterT]

Look i do need to apologise. It was a mean shitty thing to say and i wouldn't and don't wish it on anyone else. Poster's that said i need to man up are right. I don't know what else to say. T

[fivekatz]

Hi gang.

New to HA but am a true Transwoman fan for life.

I am 100% honest to a fault.

Having said that. I am a little chubby but have been told i am handsome (a lot) I am shy and have low self esteem. I am short, 40 yrs old with a salt and pepper crown. Unfortunately i am not as well endowed as i wish but am incredibly lonely despite being married. All i want is someone to say something nice. To prtetend they are interested or willing to screw my brains out once. That will be enough for me to not...well u know.

I am one of the most accepting and easygoing people you will meet. My biggest downfalls are that i crave positive feedback and that i love LOOOVE Ts cock.

I do not know what else to say but

HELP - T

Few thoughts:

Hang in there. If you are seeing working girls, you can't expect too much but over time you may find a girl that enjoys your company and
screws your brains out.

You may also want try not to be so offensive when others sling an arrow your way, wishes of death via AIDS is pretty bleeping vile as I am sure you realized after you typed it.

Maybe what you are suffering from is clinical depression, which is nothing to be ashamed of BUT is also something that should not ignored either. Or perhaps you are a troll, in which case the joke is on me for responding to you but I feel bad that you seem so conflicted.

Seriously if you treat the girls you meet with respect you are bound to find one that will do the same for you...

Just my take

[jamiethewild]

Here is the problem I have with this whole situation.


We got a lot of people piling on here. Not adding shit to the conversation but to try and goad someone into a flame war.

Was the point not made in the first 30 posts that slammed him that so many felt the need to add their laborius 2 cents? Was your calling him fat after 10 others said the same thing the one that really got him?

I am not defending what he said in any way but damn muthafuckas give it a rest!

Jericho was being funny but dude did not know that and overreacted. Now we are at 40 negative posts and for what? The only reason I even said shit was because 1. the point was made and needed to be dropped and 2. and most importantly some of you muthafucks is straight up bullies.

Its not the easy to defend that need to be protected from this herd mentality but those that are hard to defend as well.

A few years back there was a person on here who would constantly start shit and people piled on them as well. Eventually the person killed their wife. They were unstable but the constant bullshit people piled on did not help.

A few months back one of our own here ended up in an institution and I remember all the fuckers who gave her shit as well.

IF YOU AIN'T GOT SHIT GOOD TO SAY THEN SHUT THE FUCK UP!

I am done with this thread. If you want me you will find me verbally molesting Wendy in other threads on this site.

Well helping yourself if your that willing and care so much ....

I been through worse situations than this and nobody can help you but yourself .... I never bragged about it, i just went to my therapist, do what i got to do at that time that thought me to be an independent strong willing woman. So don't give me this shit he can't do it especially when his MAN..... Theres ppl out there that have it way harder in life than this lil nonsense.

So i still encourage this fucker to grow some and learn to respect if he truly needs help....

You would be a guy that can get scam really easily .....

[tsadriana]

By the way Desperate sounds more like im hungry for a cock to suck and stick it up my arse...chubby ur hard to belleve in my view...Your a cock hunter

[RallyCola]

Chub's post was pathetic as has been the response. a cry for attention like that in a porn forum cannot be seen as valuable nor can any attempt to validate, ridicule or console therefore let this thread just die.

[rockabilly]

Where's Nicole now?
Welcome to the board but take comments with a grain of salt.

[littletwink]

Look i do need to apologise. It was a mean shitty thing to say and i wouldn't and don't wish it on anyone else. Poster's that said i need to man up are right. I don't know what else to say. T
Well, that's just great. You apologize and admit the other posters were right and now Ex Jaxon looks like a dumbass. lol

[MsDazzler]

I don't know what to say here... but i think he could have framed it better... and did not retort with the "AIDS" insult.

[tsdvdman]

The majority of HA members have shown great empathy for unfortunate "Life" type situations that were posted here. ie..Jamie and her girlfriend who got robbed and needed rent money.
But any dudes on here expecting other dudes to sympathize or feel sorry for another dude crying about how desperate he is to get fucked in the ass and how much he "looove ts cock" needs to maybe step back from the scene for a bit. That's a bit much.. I don't give a fuck what anybody says.

[mikeinbrazil]

Maybe if he wasn't such a douche bag then he would get some empathy...

[Kire89]

Sometimes, spending a minute more on a reply or not replying at all, offering someone kind words or not replying in a profane or derogatory manner (or at all), might be a unique situation for that person. The only ray of sunlight of the day or month or year or life.

Textual mediums are so anti-septic and unforgiving as is easily displayed in this thread. No tone of voice or body language, only misunderstandings, derision and anger.

[MsDazzler]

Yeah... and I think forums easily brings out the bully in anyone due to its anyomonity (sp?)

[brickcitybrother]

Be prepared

[Kire89]

Yeah... and I think forums easily brings out the bully in anyone due to its anyomonity (sp?)

Anonymity. :)

Yes. I like this quotation:


Kindness is the language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see.


More people ought to consider this before typing out their comments.