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Wendy Summers
01-08-2013, 04:26 PM
So I'm starting to drift more and more to thoughts of having someone beyond just fuck toys & FwB in my life and I started thinking about the traits I deem important in a partner. I figured I'd list some of mine out and see if you have any to add? Keep in mind these are actual questions I slip into conversation and often based on hard lessons learned.

1) Have you ever been diagnosed as a sociopath or as having some other severe mental disorder?

2) When you add toilet paper in the bathroom - are you an over or an under?

3) Have you seen the original Star Wars?

4) Are you related to your roommates?

5) What do you consider kinky?

I'll add more later as I remember them...

How about you? What do you ask prospective mates?

TSLillyBlue
01-08-2013, 04:46 PM
1) Have you ever been diagnosed as a sociopath or as having some other severe mental disorder?
Does gender identity disorder count?


2) When you add toilet paper in the bathroom - are you an over or an under?
Over-I like to see what's coming


3) Have you seen the original Star Wars?
Who hasn't?


4) Are you related to your roommates?
No - That would be really awkward during the occasions we go at it.


5) What do you consider kinky?
Needle play, blood play and suspension bondage


Mine would be...
1) Do animals animals and small children like you?

2) Which of my body parts do you find most attractive?

3) During a coin toss, do you call heads or tails?

4) Do you eat the crust on your toast?

5) In and Out or Fatburger?

Wendy Summers
01-08-2013, 04:49 PM
Mine would be...
1) Do animals animals and small children like you?

Oh yeah forgot about that question...

Can we crate your dog while we have sex? Or at the very least keep it out of the room?

robertlouis
01-09-2013, 03:41 AM
I'm fine with most of these questions, but the one about looroll (= toilet paper), could be a dealbreaker.

Dino will understand..... :wink:

Odelay
01-09-2013, 03:53 AM
Oh yeah forgot about that question...

Can we crate your dog while we have sex? Or at the very least keep it out of the room?
Hahaha... you are so funny Wendy. And the truth is you can crate my cats and parakeet too, all in the same crate for that matter, if we're having wild sex in the next room.

SXFX
01-09-2013, 04:04 AM
god you guys ask for toooo much!

1) Educated

2) Athletic

3) Can keep up with me in bed

4) Do not wish to have kids

tao1kiku
01-09-2013, 04:11 AM
After making and eating dinner, do you wash and dry the dishes or leave them in the sink until the morning?

loveboof
01-09-2013, 04:17 AM
Important Traits in your prospective mates?

#1. The ability to rhyme willy nilly...

(I really don't think people use the phrase 'willy nilly' enough!)

Jackal
01-09-2013, 08:55 AM
Understanding, smart, curious about the world and learning, kind, romantic and affectionate. I like these qualities :)

Jericho
01-09-2013, 09:36 AM
I'm ambivalent about most things but, she's got to know when to STFU! :shrug

chris71
01-09-2013, 09:44 AM
are you a top or bottom?

loveboof
01-09-2013, 10:54 AM
she's got to know when to STFU! :shrug

Which is all the time right!? lol .. unless she's asking if you want another Stella

http://www.newsbiscuit.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/358-wife-beatre2.jpg

Jericho
01-09-2013, 11:06 AM
.. unless she's asking if you want another Stella




Stella?
You disgust me!

:dead-1:

Dino Velvet
01-09-2013, 07:28 PM
She can smoke as much weed as she likes but leave the TV Clicker alone.

Wendy Summers
01-09-2013, 07:58 PM
Hahaha... you are so funny Wendy. And the truth is you can crate my cats and parakeet too, all in the same crate for that matter, if we're having wild sex in the next room.

Actually it was based on a real situation... in the middle of making love to my ex-gf, her dog started licking in a spot dogs only lick if you train them. I broke up right then and there.


god you guys ask for toooo much!

1) Educated

2) Athletic

3) Can keep up with me in bed

4) Do not wish to have kids

I know you're lying becuase your actual list is waaay longer than that

loveboof
01-09-2013, 10:08 PM
Stella?
You disgust me!

:dead-1:

lol. Still too classy? How bout some Special Brew?
http://img.dooyoo.co.uk/GB_EN/175/food_and_beverages/drinks/carlsberg_special_brew.jpg

Jericho
01-09-2013, 10:47 PM
lol. Still too classy? How bout some Special Brew?


Not much of a beer drinker but, when i do...

http://orangemagazinetv.com/files/2012/09/Cesca-Litton.jpg

ed_jaxon
01-09-2013, 11:00 PM
Well rounded.

Intelligent.

Into me.

Accepting and easy going.

Loves kink.

Wendy Summers
01-10-2013, 12:59 AM
Well rounded.

Intelligent.

Into me.

Accepting and easy going.

Loves kink.

No wonder you ran away without saying goodbye in Kentucky... you KNEW I would break your heart :p.

trish
01-10-2013, 01:00 AM
1) Must be living (no zombies nor vampires).
2) Must be hung like a horse (in fact, I would consider a horse, if he were the right horse).
3) Must be intelligent (capable of counting to three by stamping the ground).
4) Must cook (that probably rules out most quadrupeds).
5) Must sleep silently (no snoring) on his side of the bed until I require otherwise.

littletwink
01-10-2013, 01:04 AM
Thick package (and yes, that goes for GGs as well as TS/TV) :-)

ed_jaxon
01-10-2013, 01:15 AM
No wonder you ran away without saying goodbye in Kentucky... you KNEW I would break your heart :p.


I still want to spend a Sunday morning with you having coffee and reading the paper. You did a shoot a while back in a robe drinking coffee and I loved it.

Kire89
01-10-2013, 01:15 AM
I hope you wrote point #2, considering an "erroneous" toilet paper roll position tantamount to being undesirable as a mate, in jest, because it feels incredibly silly, unless there's some sort of empirical background to your conviction. :)

Anyway, I'm with most of the people who have chipped in:
1) Athletic/fit
2) Sexual appetite
3) No kids, no marriage, preferably no mortgage or car either (financial commitments in general)
4) Likes most of the same stuff as I do, entertainment-wise, outdoors-wise, yada-yada.

In general: the works. It's nigh impossible to find one who's an exhaustive match, and it's not like the "falling in love" process is something anything but one's flawed brain governs (electrical signals, chemical reactions).

:)

amberskyi
01-10-2013, 01:33 AM
fuck like a champion and suck like a whore....thats it

sukumvit boy
01-10-2013, 02:59 AM
#1. The ability to rhyme willy nilly...

(I really don't think people use the phrase 'willy nilly' enough!)
OK,I'll bite...

My name is Billy
My friend's named Lilly
The place we live is pretty hilly.
The chilly weather shrinks my willy
But we still manage to fuck ourselves silly.

robertlouis
01-10-2013, 03:25 AM
Love is usually a good place to start, although HA is entirely the wrong place to say it.....

Dino Velvet
01-10-2013, 03:31 AM
Love is usually a good place to start, although HA is entirely the wrong place.....

... for anything over an hour unless you spring for the weekend rate.

Until Mrs Right comes along my bong and porno stash will remain a reliable whore. Sometimes I staple 5 20s to my forehead and go outside to see what happens.

philipsfrog
01-10-2013, 02:18 PM
Not in order
1. Not super religious
2. Not a bigot
3. Doesn't hunt
4. Must find her both mentally and physically attractive
5. Be able to support her self financially

Wendy Summers
01-10-2013, 03:53 PM
I still want to spend a Sunday morning with you having coffee and reading the paper. You did a shoot a while back in a robe drinking coffee and I loved it.

So... You think I'm Easy Like Sunday Morning?

http://www.wendysummers.com/tour/galleries/51/image_81912.jpg

Prospero
01-10-2013, 03:58 PM
Traits - a fine mind, kind, funny, a generous disposition and lovely.... Wendy fits some of these (though I suspect she can be a bit mean on occasions?)

Wendy Summers
01-10-2013, 04:00 PM
(though I suspect she can be a bit mean on occasions?)


Only when safe words are involved. :dancing:

Kire89
01-10-2013, 10:41 PM
It makes me deathly sad I'm so far away from a TS hotbed like NYC.

Wendy Summers
01-10-2013, 10:54 PM
It makes me deathly sad I'm so far away from a TS hotbed like NYC.

We're a hotbed? I missed that memo somehow...

Kire89
01-10-2013, 11:01 PM
Well, if not a hotbed, at least a lynchpin to hotbeds. In any case better than the three TV/TS prostitutes available in Oslo, Norway.

I might pay a visit to a cute 19-year-old (allegedly) Puerto Rican who's here now. Her background makes it easier to communicate (fluent in English). :)

reformedcharacter
01-10-2013, 11:23 PM
We're a hotbed? I missed that memo somehow...

I'm sure that any bed that you're in would be a hotbed, Wendy

It's the same with mine too except that's because I've got a heated blanket :)

Wendy Summers
01-10-2013, 11:25 PM
I'm sure that any bed that you're in would be a hotbed, Wendy

It's the same with mine too except that's because I've got a heated blanket :)


I challenge your assertion my bed would be hot - some nights I never have enough blankets -- granted I do sleep naked.

ed_jaxon
01-11-2013, 12:37 AM
So... You think I'm Easy Like Sunday Morning?

http://www.wendysummers.com/tour/galleries/51/image_81912.jpg


That's the one.

Kire89
01-12-2013, 12:43 AM
Those feet. :Bowdown:

Idt20082008"
01-12-2013, 01:15 AM
Lol some good traits on here! My two cents...

1) funny
2) good heart
3) nice cock and not afraid to use it!
4) loves heels and fashion sense to go with them
5) can rub her head and pat her belly at the same time
6) cooks naked