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ChubsterT
12-28-2012, 12:17 PM
I have adored Transwomen for a long time and final decided to take the plunge and spend time with an escort.

I have read all the FAQs and Feedbacks and have decided on a very special lady but just wanted to ask some general questions regarding what is expected.
What should i wear? What should i bring? How do i break the ice?

I am hoping to be more than a once off client with this lovely lady and do not want to stuff it up. I will probably opt for 2-3 hours leading up to an overnight in the future.

Not to mention general first date sexual preferences of Transwomen

Any advice welcomed - T

rodinuk
12-28-2012, 04:10 PM
What should i wear? What should i bring? How do i break the ice?


wear: L-plates and a Rolex
bring: wallet stuffed with cash
icebreaker: would you like to see me trouser elephant pet?

or more seriously dress smart or smart/casual, only take the necessary donation and cheap mobile. She'll probably break the ice for you after all she's a professional and will guide you. ;)
Although make sure you've discussed your requirements with her ahead of schedule and are clear about them so you do get what was promised.

Good luck!

aboutthezote
12-28-2012, 04:18 PM
Also be respectful and polite... mind you that should go for most situations.

Rusty Eldora
12-28-2012, 09:16 PM
Relax, take a deep breath. Be yourself. Remember to talk. If you treat it as a regular date, be respectful, she is a woman and a person after all.

Do some research about seeing escorts, what to do, what not to do. Go with someone that has reviews (Theeroticreview is a source). You are giving a gift for her time, not what happens in that time.

Be super clean, well shaved, with unscented deodorant, do a fleet enema beforehand. Oh be SQUEEKY CLEAN. Do business casual for your location.
Unless you really traveled, do her standard appointment (1 hour typically) the first time. If you hit it off, ask her fees for longer sessions.

Act normal as you arrive, as if you live there. Get a prepaid phone for all hobby activities. Leave your wallet in the car, bring in the donation in an envelope, bring something for a tip or longer time. Don't hand her the donation, set it on the dresser in the envelope.

Do let her know it is your first Tgirl time, some love newbies, some do not, go with someone that loves to be your first. Most importantly - HAVE FUN

Genetic
12-28-2012, 11:04 PM
wear: L-plates and a Rolex


LOL'd.

To Chubster: it sounds like this is your first escort experience from the way you're talking about it. As everyone else has said, be polite, be clean and most of all remember it is business. It's not a date, it's not a relationship, you are paying someone to have sex with you and that's where it ends; don't think of it as more than that cause it never will be.

bluesoul
12-28-2012, 11:53 PM
the more money you pay, the less the other stuff matters.

btw: i love the person that said act normal. that's good advice right there :)

MdR Dave
12-29-2012, 12:41 AM
Being attractive and in good shape always helps, regardless the transaction.

Dino Velvet
12-29-2012, 01:22 AM
I'm a horny savage but a clean one. I wear T-Shirt, Shorts, and Flip-Flops. In right pocket is car keys and left is 5 20s for girl. Get in there and fuck.

Fancy fancy
12-29-2012, 01:35 AM
Hey Chubby,

Make sure you are not too nice i.e more than you would be nice in an everyday situation - there is nothing worst when a punter trying to save a lady that does not require saving. Fuck me, I sound like Adrianna :salad

Fancy fancy
12-29-2012, 01:36 AM
ps - who was it who lost a rolex again?

Martina stole it right?

amberskyi
12-29-2012, 02:01 AM
Hey Chubby,

Make sure you are not too nice i.e more than you would be nice in an everyday situation - there is nothing worst when a punter trying to save a lady that does not require saving. Fuck me, I sound like Adrianna :salad

i have to agree,im not fond of clients who want to fall in love and shit or play life coach. "your too pretty and intelligent for this" funny how that never stops them from fucking me any way smh

Dino Velvet
12-29-2012, 02:05 AM
Some of us are nice fellas. No falling in love nonsense though. While you daydream about her the next day another client is sweating and grinding his pecker all over her.

Fancy fancy
12-29-2012, 02:06 AM
:salad

Rusty Eldora
12-29-2012, 02:50 AM
i have to agree,im not fond of clients who want to fall in love and shit or play life coach. "your too pretty and intelligent for this" funny how that never stops them from fucking me any way smh

If there is a connection, there is a possibility of becoming friends, don't expect it, an email after on the line of "it was fun" is OK, but a session does not give you the right to email her every day for a year.

Actually escorting can be a decent career, why would she need saving.

amberskyi
12-29-2012, 03:02 AM
If there is a connection, there is a possibility of becoming friends, don't expect it, an email after on the line of "it was fun" is OK, but a session does not give you the right to email her every day for a year.

Actually escorting can be a decent career, why would she need saving.

if by friends you mean mean regular client lol.yes we can build a rapport and become comfortable or familiar with each other but how can someone truly be friends with someone who dont really know anything real about.clients arent exactly giving out their real names and inviting escorts to the the holiday party or barbeque.

ChubsterT
12-29-2012, 04:18 AM
Thank you all so much for some really positive and helpful advice.

I am a middle aged punter not looking for a relationship (but a friendship would be something i would be open to) but i am not so much on the fit and good looking side which has prevented me from going through with this for a while. I mean yes they are WG but they are still people despite it being a business transactions, i mean they can act professional but the thought of someones stomach turning during the event is horrible.:hide-1:

Feedback around my location suggests a lot of unhappy punters and generally to do with the WG attitude. This is why i have picked the couple of ladies that genuinely dont seem repulsed by a normal sort of fella.

It is a shame that some girls go into the industry with such a limited scope for their clientelle.:(

Anyway i am much more informed after reading all of your responses!
Keep them coming - T:dancing:

Genetic
12-29-2012, 04:31 PM
but i am not so much on the fit and good looking side which has prevented me from going through with this for a while. I mean yes they are WG but they are still people despite it being a business transactions, i mean they can act professional but the thought of someones stomach turning during the event is horrible.:hide-1:

So? I'm not good looking and I'm overweight but I'm a nice guy and a number of WG have complimented me on not being "like most guys". I don't do the whole "choke on it bitch" porno shit, I treat the girls as people, not as pieces of meat and it's generally appreciated it seems. I even had one girl ask me why I go to WGs cause I seemed "too good" for it and I should find a nice girlfriend cause they'd be lucky to have me! (Yeah right)

But my point is that not being a cunt is a lot more important than looks. And if you really do feel that they've had to "endure" being with you but they were good and offered an excellent service then give them a tip at the end.

Nice + cash = win! ;)

dezz
12-29-2012, 07:08 PM
if by friends you mean mean regular client lol.yes we can build a rapport and become comfortable or familiar with each other but how can someone truly be friends with someone who dont really know anything real about.clients arent exactly giving out their real names and inviting escorts to the the holiday party or barbeque.

hey, you down for some bbq? we can pretend dezz is my real name for the friend stuff, I'm just hungry

Dino Velvet
12-29-2012, 07:24 PM
So? I'm not good looking and I'm overweight but I'm a nice guy and a number of WG have complimented me on not being "like most guys". I don't do the whole "choke on it bitch" porno shit, I treat the girls as people, not as pieces of meat and it's generally appreciated it seems. I even had one girl ask me why I go to WGs cause I seemed "too good" for it and I should find a nice girlfriend cause they'd be lucky to have me! (Yeah right)

But my point is that not being a cunt is a lot more important than looks. And if you really do feel that they've had to "endure" being with you but they were good and offered an excellent service then give them a tip at the end.

Nice + cash = win! ;)

Good post. If you expect to be with a lady you should be a gentleman as well. You can still have all the rough and kinky sex you want without disrespecting anyone. I tend to have a certain amount of empathy for working girls and try to be as nice as possible especially to the TS girls.

amberskyi
12-29-2012, 07:28 PM
hey, you down for some bbq? we can pretend dezz is my real name for the friend stuff, I'm just hungry

im not the type of girl you invite out to eat...im not one of those skinny polite tiny portion eating bitches lol

Dino Velvet
12-29-2012, 07:29 PM
im not the type of girl you invite out to eat...im not one of those skinny polite tiny portion eating bitches lol

You'll do more than throw your shrimp on the barbie, huh?

amberskyi
12-29-2012, 07:43 PM
You'll do more than throw your shrimp on the barbie, huh?

my best friend has some pretty embarrassing pictures of me with barbaque sauce all over my face from chowing down on some ribs.i take no prisoners when it comes to grub

Dino Velvet
12-29-2012, 07:52 PM
my best friend has some pretty embarrassing pictures of me with barbaque sauce all over my face from chowing down on some ribs.i take no prisoners when it comes to grub

I like girls who eat too. You certainly don't have a weight issue. You like me probably has an Auntie that knows you'll take seconds and maybe thirds at Thanksgiving Dinner.

This little Filipina TS I occasionally see I took out for some Prime Rib. That tiny pipsqueak went after her plate like a lion going after an antelope finishing way before me then eyeballing my remaining portion. I practically had to send for a team of Rhodesian Ridgebacks to keep her at bay.

Better to explain the BBQ Sauce dripping down your face than Ranch Dressing.

amberskyi
12-29-2012, 08:31 PM
I like girls who eat too. You certainly don't have a weight issue. You like me probably has an Auntie that knows you'll take seconds and maybe thirds at Thanksgiving Dinner.

This little Filipina TS I occasionally see I took out for some Prime Rib. That tiny pipsqueak went after her plate like a lion going after an antelope finishing way before me then eyeballing my remaining portion. I practically had to send for a team of Rhodesian Ridgebacks to keep her at bay.

Better to explain the BBQ Sauce dripping down your face than Ranch Dressing.

i am actually getting a little pudgy.my breast and ass looks nice with the added padding but my belly is bothering me a bit :(

Dino Velvet
12-29-2012, 08:51 PM
i am actually getting a little pudgy.my breast and ass looks nice with the added padding but my belly is bothering me a bit :(

Everyone has room for improvement but you've always been pretty as a picture. I bet you're more fit than your post suggests.

Rusty Eldora
12-30-2012, 01:30 AM
if by friends you mean mean regular client lol.yes we can build a rapport and become comfortable or familiar with each other but how can someone truly be friends with someone who dont really know anything real about.clients arent exactly giving out their real names and inviting escorts to the the holiday party or barbeque.

Yes, most often it is regular client (business type friends) also on chat boards. But twice in my life, I dated gg providers for a good period of time, my current provider girlfriend (lives in Hawaii) comes to visit for a week to a month a couple times a year. We go out to eat in town and to parties with certain of my friends, but not the Company picnic. Its complicated as I still have an SO.

It is not a good idea to become attached to an escort, as it is often confusion on the guys part that the great intimacy felt is love. However, it is probably a professional doing excellent role play. Friendships can build with regulars and it can be more if both really want it.

Yes, it would be an honor to take you out for BBQ, I won't mind if sauce drips on your blouse (as there will surely be sauce on my shirt)