What's the average male poster like on this forum?

[MsDazzler]

So.... after browsing for a while, I noticed there are far more women posting pictures of themselves than the men here, especially in their avatar or profile pictures.

So.... what is the average Joe like here? What's the demographics here?

I'd love to know what options I have from this buffet on the forum.

[Chaos]

Well, I wouldn't call me an option....I'm on the other side of the country,but I don't use anything but me for an avatar, Nothing to hide here.

[giovanni_hotel]

I don't think there is an 'average' male poster on this forum.
Most of the men here are hardcore lurkers anyway.

[yourbottomboy]

Well if it's any help... I'm 24 yr old male lol.. and i would post a pic of myself but i don't really have a need too lol

[runround04]

29, average white guy.

[Willie Escalade]

My picture is all over the forum...

[smoothboi]

I'm in my late 30s, white, fit [not jacked or anything I just watch my weight and exercise every day]. I have a phd and I'm applying to lots of universities to be a professor. I've been submissive in my recent relationships [ggs, but i'm very open to possibilities] and I want to explore a D/s lifestyle. From what I've experienced so far, this is what really works for me. Sometimes I drink too much. I have a dog that is quite the personality around town.

[GroobySteven]

There is no average here.
Most people know what I look like.

Overall most people are cool here, many different countries and backgrounds and although it occassionally gets heated and someone forgets their manners, it quite often settles back down. There have been a few fucktards removed from the forum and a couple more caught out in lies or idiocy and removed themselves recently.

So I know what you look like MzDazzler and you're a hottie ... are you going to show everyone else?

[the commander]

I have horns growing out from under my nose...so I hide them with my super macho mustache. :)

[Bobzz]

Just over the 50 year mark, MWM, high visibility professional (hence no photo), physically very active, great shape - (personal trainer, 5-6 miles/day, teach train martial arts) from a major metropolitan area. Been attracted to t-gals for at least 20 years - wife is OK with it.

[MsDazzler]

My picture is all over the forum...

So that picture of you with the sunglasses on... that isnt you?

[TSCURIOUS]

What they ^^ said--
White, Professional, Pretty fit, have my hair, late 40's -- have a job, pay my bills, ---

[ctparis]

hi, average poster, I think I have a pic, its been a while since I posted.

[robertlouis]

There is no average here.
Most people know what I look like.

Overall most people are cool here, many different countries and backgrounds and although it occassionally gets heated and someone forgets their manners, it quite often settles back down. There have been a few fucktards removed from the forum and a couple more caught out in lies or idiocy and removed themselves recently.

So I know what you look like MzDazzler and you're a hottie ... are you going to show everyone else?

Seanchai is absolutely right, it's very diverse which is generally a positive, and yes, that's me in performance in the avatar.

[SXFX]

Oh you know your average 35 yo guy who enjoys life still

[Rusty Eldora]

I'm 57, XXL sized guy, professional with my own practice, used to be quite fit. I've been to gg hobby board parties I fit right in there. Some of the guys are nearly 80, still love the fun of a woman.

[nysprod]

Standard 36"h x 24"w, unframed, usually hung with tape but sometimes thumbtacks...

[angelboi]

Early 30s, 6 foot, 36x32, pretty fly for a white guy.

[Flaco]

I'm 22, 1/2 Black and 1/2 Cuban, 6'1. Very friendly person and addicted to basketball and T-Girls lol.

[MsDazzler]

Hmm, so those are my pickings so far... :)

[JerseyMike]

28 5'9" 220 brown hair and glasses. My picture is actually in the pictures for Tranny Strip Anniversary party.

[Wanderer1]

Hi Dazz!
I am new here, so not ready to post a pic, its kind of my rule for porn forums(and many others for that matter, too much judgement, not that too many people would recognize me anyway, but I am not saying `never' either). I am 51, 5'9" ,brown hair, hazel eyes, athletic build, receding hairline/balding, not that its everything, but I can lift enough to qualify for the Canadian weight lifting team, and beyond, very likely.

[CheekyLondon2012]

Haha well I'm 22, a normal straight guy who just happens to love gorgeous girls of very variety.

Pretty laid back, love sex and adventures


So.... after browsing for a while, I noticed there are far more women posting pictures of themselves than the men here, especially in their avatar or profile pictures.

So.... what is the average Joe like here? What's the demographics here?

I'd love to know what options I have from this buffet on the forum.

[Stavros]

I am above average in some departments, definitely below average in others, extreme in at least one other, but I hope delightfully so, in a provocative way. In the past when I have met ts admirers through other means, before the internet made our lives so much easier, I have found them to be very ordinary people with an extraordinary passion. It makes you wonder about people, and once you realise that nobody seeing you on a bus or in a queue has any idea what you really really like, and that in return you cannot presume what is in their private lives, then the word average becomes a trope -either nobody is average, or what is average is impossible to verify.

[Dino Velvet]

I'm a shape-shifter as I can be 220 lbs or 320 lbs with everything in-between with random haircuts and facial hair looking anything like a maniac from the woods to a bible salesman. Being an LA Native helps me blend into any environment being as phony and two-faced as necessary.

[MsDazzler]

Do most of you consider yourself very masculine/macho?

[philipsfrog]

White, 20, English, at college, 6 foot 4, about 1.5 to 2 stone over weight, brown hair, virgin, brown eyes and with freckles on face

[talldudeil]

6'8"190 lbs so slim but fit, married 54 been seeing and having a wonderful time since the early 80's and still see gurls today. Overall very straight, great sense of humor, intelligent, witty and my profile pics shows the most important part of me (as I am concerned he is number one) :)

[wiltthestilt]

6 foot, about 160 pounds, defined physique. Early 30's. Im not a hunk but Im not ugly. I have a professional degree. Watched a lot of lesbian porn when I was younger. I got into TS porn a few years ago. I had seen clothed TSs on talk shows for years and was always curious. One day I noticed the boxcover of one of Joey's Tgirl films and the rest is history.

[wiltthestilt]

6 foot, about 160 pounds, defined physique. Early 30' s. I have a professional degree. Watched a lot of lesbian porn when I was younger. I got into TS porn a few years ago. I had seen clothed TSs on talk shows for years and was always curious. One day I noticed the boxcover of one of Joey's Tgirl films and the rest is history.

[CheekyLondon2012]

Do most of you consider yourself very masculine/macho?

Yes of course. I'm a dominant person with a big personality

[BigPaulie]

6 feet tall, 46, masculine, successful & sexually experienced. I've dated a ts girl & will always have a soft spot for her & by extension all ts girls. Current gf enjoys pegging me & maybe someday we could have a 3some with a ts. Till then I'll just dream...!

[be2378]

Im a mid-30s guy, 6 foot, normal build. Kinda the quiet, geeky person. I have never dated or got even close to dating a TS. I just think I would have more in common with some TS then others. Im full with a lot of 180's in the way I think and the things I do. So not a lot of people I have in common with. Looking for a relationship, but still nothing yet. Never married or engaged. Got a 4 year degree, thinking about going for my masters, and work a middle class job.

[Idt20082008"]

Hey there - late 30s but always told I can pass for quite a bit younger (sucked when I was 20, great now), dark hair and all of it, green eyes, 5'10 200lbs and a gym rat, MBA, play guitar but great, professional job that is fairly visible which is why i don't have a pic posted. Not trying to hide anything, just being responsible. Same as being able to cover up my tattoos

[wiltthestilt]

Do most of you consider yourself very masculine/macho?

I guess I'm average masculine. I dress well, I'm on the thin side, and I have no interest in cars. I also like a lot of artsy stuff and google thinks I'm female. No poker either. I generally dont spend much time with other men.

But I watch sports; like strong beer; and hate dancing, clubs, hair gel and armani exchange or anything that looks like it. I starting looking at playboy earlier than any of my friends. I like very feminine females; and very feminine TSs. I wouldnt fuck anything larger or heavier than myself. Wouldnt even want a BJ. It creeps me out. Dont like to be dominated and prefer to be in control.

[Jericho]

On a good day.... :shrug

http://www.documentingreality.com/forum/attachments/f2/138030d1268469823-ugly-men-n-women-youd-do-aaadr.jpg

[smoothboi]

I'm submissive, but masculine. I'm not into femming myself up.

[sherm13]

Im 30 years old

5'10 170 lbs

I work in psychiatry and will be going back to school to get a nursing degree

I have a girlfriend.

I look like a cross a younger Matthew Broderick and Jon Cryer

[dj4monie]

Do most of you consider yourself very masculine/macho?

Most definitively.

[LittleGuy]

It doesn't matter what men look like on here because we're here to pay the girls.

[Fawk]

White guy, 26 years old, 6' 4'', 205 lbs, blue eyes, dirty blonde hair down to my ass (though I'm working up the courage to cut it off), physically I probably come off pretty masculine/intimidating even, but I'm not really. I'm bisexual, never been with a TS though, not yet anyway.

[timid1]

40's , 5'7", 195 lbs , was 230 ....so trying!

friendly, kind , decent sense of humour and honest. not overly special at anything sadly . and no Brad Pitt either !

In the words of the great Winston Churchill "he's a modest man , and has a lot to be modest about" ! or words to that effect.

[MsDazzler]

... so MANY MEN, so LITTLE pictures.

So MANY descriptions, so LITTLE pictures. :shrug

[BeardedOne]

Hi, Ms. D!

'Average' is relative and most of my relatives are average. :) You've seen pictures of me (And my cats, and the boats in my backyard) and know that I'm the typical FOG (Fat Old Guy). There's also a couple of pics of me floating around on this forum (Including one of my shiny, bare ass) if you get adventurous and try to find them.

Good luck with this crowd and try not to let your shoes stick to the floor. :)

[MsDazzler]

Lol, I remember you, Beard.

Sigh - it is just hard to get attracted to anoymous & pic-less posters.

[sherm13]

it is just hard to get attracted to anoymous & pic-less posters.


I look like a combination of this, to be honest. Dont know if that does it for you or not.

[SLANTEDSTYLE]

Im 33 from Queens, 5'8 Italian, always got chicks, dont like dudes but a trans seems to meet a certain position after my girlfriend.

[FreddieGomez]

the vast majority are submissive white dudes

[jaxqt28]

My pic is my avatar...I've got nothing to hide. Judge for yourself :)

Although I consider myself to be fairly attractive, the ladies usually like me (especially the older GG's oh yes mmmm), I'm in the IT field and an avid computer "nerd", very friendly and get along well with others. I consider myself hetero flexible. I only date GG's, but like the other guys on here, I can appreciate some of the finer things in life :banana: Not sure if I could date a TS. I suppose if she sounded fem enough I could bring her around friends (sorry don't mean to sound shallow, but people I know don't know about my "hobby" lol).

EDIT: Oh yea, I'm 29, 5'11", 150 lbs and half Hispanic half Caucasian

[amberskyi]

When people refer to Trans woman as hobbies i want to kick them in the nuts with steel toe boots.
Do you asshats forget we're people too?!?!!

[jaxqt28]

Didn't mean to offend anyone, I meant "hobby" as in "escorting" not TS in general.

[Jericho]

the vast majority are submissive white dudes


C'mon chaps, all bend over, golf-clap for superfly...He's nailed it again! :rolleyes:

[amberskyi]

Didn't mean to offend anyone, I meant "hobby" as in "escorting" not TS in general.

That is not what you meant.you said you would only date a ts if she was passable because your friends don't know about your "hobby" implying your attraction to trans woman.how would being seen with a ts mean you see escorts? Don't try to double back on you're douchary.

[jaxqt28]

Quit being overly sensitive and getting your panties in a bunch. As it's very hard to find a passable TS that isn't a working girl, we guys a lot of times have to go the route of escorting. I've only met 1 TS that wasn't a working girl. You're a hypocrite anyway. You do porn and escort and get mad when guys view you as a "piece of meat." Yea makes sense....

[amberskyi]

Quit being overly sensitive and getting your panties in a bunch. As it's very hard to find a passable TS that isn't a working girl, we guys a lot of times have to go the route of the escorting. I've only met 1 TS that wasn't a working girl. You're a hypocrite anyway. You do porn and escort and get mad when guys view you as a "piece of meat." Get a real job and you wouldn't have to worry about it.

so your straight friends who have nothing to do with the ts world would automatically assume that because your girl is trans she must be an escort? lmaoo,okay buddy.
and please i have no problem being viewed as a piece of meat.most woman learn to deal with that at an very early age.what i have a problem with is when people treat all trans woman like fetishes regardless of their occupation.

[jaxqt28]

You assume way too much. Like I said using the word "hobby" is out of necessity as most passable TS are working girls. Has nothing to do with what a friend might think. Another pointless argument *yawn*

[amberskyi]

your right on that

[MsDazzler]

My pic is my avatar...I've got nothing to hide. Judge for yourself :)

Although I consider myself to be fairly attractive, the ladies usually like me (especially the older GG's oh yes mmmm), I'm in the IT field and an avid computer "nerd", very friendly and get along well with others. I consider myself hetero flexible. I only date GG's, but like the other guys on here, I can appreciate some of the finer things in life :banana: Not sure if I could date a TS. I suppose if she sounded fem enough I could bring her around friends (sorry don't mean to sound shallow, but people I know don't know about my "hobby" lol).

EDIT: Oh yea, I'm 29, 5'11", 150 lbs and half Hispanic half Caucasian

Nice pic, but your remark about us being "hobbies" has ruined that. You should read my other thread about being harassed or fearful of what others say in relation to your post... heh

[amberskyi]

Nice pic, but your remark about us being "hobbies" has ruined that. You should read my other thread about being harassed or fearful of what others say in relation to your post... heh
good to know that im not the only one who got that from his post

[MsDazzler]

Ahh, another interesting thing I noticed... the "average" male poster here tends to be different from the "average" male poster on various straight dating sites I have tried, such as Okcupid, Match, etc... And the conversations tend to be different as well since those guys on the dating sites start off hitting on me, not knowing that I am trans.

And, of course, those guys tend to be upfront, have profile pics ready, etc... compared to so many hidden/closeted posters here. Sigh

Any one of you on those other sites as well?

[Jericho]

Ahh, another interesting thing I noticed... the "average" male poster here tends to be different from the "average" male poster on various straight dating sites I have tried, such as Okcupid, Match, etc...

Of course, the difference there being, they're 'straight' dating sites.

Where as here, well,...It's stroker time (for the most part)...unless you happen to be an attention seeking gobshite, like most of the regs! :shrug

[MHarrigan82]

Mz Dazzler this is a porn forum not to many guys are going to post there pics on her. Alot of guys on here have wives or girlfriends. That would not look good if the spouse found that you are a member of a transsexual porn site.

[wiltthestilt]

Ahh, another interesting thing I noticed... the "average" male poster here tends to be different from the "average" male poster on various straight dating sites I have tried, such as Okcupid, Match, etc... And the conversations tend to be different as well since those guys on the dating sites start off hitting on me, not knowing that I am trans.

And, of course, those guys tend to be upfront, have profile pics ready, etc... compared to so many hidden/closeted posters here. Sigh

Any one of you on those other sites as well?

Ive had profiles on all of those sites. I think the difference is that those are dating sites whereas this is a porn/escorting site. Most of us men have no reason to post our pictures on this site. We arent here looking for girlfriends. Ive never had any reason to consider dating anyone other than a gg. Im not attracted to men, and feminine TS's are rare. The only times Ive even knowingly seen a TS who was attractive to me was at some of the NYC parties. And the girls were there to work and not to date. If I happened to meet a TS out of that environment who I liked I would go on a date with her.

[smoothboi]

I have plenty of pics on my fetlife profile. I'm not looking for dating, I'd like to become active in the D/s lifestyle. So I'd rather share pics etc., there where I'm already at a place with like minded people. I'm single, and some people know what I like, but I see this site as more of a place to learn about tgs rather than being here for just dating [but hey, if you're into D/s...], so if I'm lucky enough to meet one irl, I won't make an ass out of myself.

[dezz]

the only places I use where I set up my avatar are twitter and fb. i don't really use an avatar on any of the other forums I'm on, even if they're not porn related. and I figured with the high number of male users there'd be no real purpose, but I can see how that could be unfair to the girls on here... still don't feel like setting up my avi though ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[dezz]

while i'm talking to myself:
I'm 23, bi-racial (black and white (so I have no idea if I'm allowed to talk to girls who say "Not racist, but only WHITE boyzz" like wtf? and you are racist)). Texas-transplant. I'm fairly mansome, but I'm going through a homeless-chic phase, trying it out (read: too lazy to shave). And I love parenthetical phrases (In case you didn't notice)

[dezz]

You assume way too much. Like I said using the word "hobby" is out of necessity as most passable TS are working girls. Has nothing to do with what a friend might think. Another pointless argument *yawn*

people like you are the reason god doesn't to talk to us anymore
all kidding aside though, this happens with people way too much in general. if you offend somebody just apologize and move on. You've already apologized, but they keep talking you say? Well then maybe they're crazy and you should move on, instead of looking like an unrepentant jackass.
And, I'm not necessarily referring to this situation. I'm sure everyone on this board is an upstanding person, undeserving on any criticism

[buckjohnson]

I dont date transwoman...for many reasons. I am friendly with a few. I joined a dating site and can tell you it is a silly game.

[amberskyi]

I dont date transwoman...for many reasons. I am friendly with a few. I joined a dating site and can tell you it is a silly game.

see..smh.maybe thats why allot of transwoman are the way they are.you have people out there who while attracted to a ts woman wouldnt date one simply because she is ts

[ILoveGG&TS]

I've been told that I resemble Ron Jeremy.

[aboutthezote]

I dont date transwoman...for many reasons. I am friendly with a few. I joined a dating site and can tell you it is a silly game.
There are some decent dating sites that aren't a silly game, it's just a case of finding them.

In Australia there is a reasonably good one called adultmatchmaker.com.au. I've met quite a few really lovely TS woman from the site and dated a couple.

Don't give up.

[buckjohnson]

i thought we had this discussion before. I wont date ts because hormones drive them crazy, hair on body and face, not wanting to wake up with a hard dick pressed up to my back, the bitchiness and jealousness of each other and with me, and the hormones. GG have plenty of hormone issues. I cant imagine dealing in the daily with a female purposefully injecting hormones in them


see..smh.maybe thats why allot of transwoman are the way they are.you have people out there who while attracted to a ts woman wouldnt date one simply because she is ts

[amberskyi]

Yes,we have been through this before and once again i shall check off all your so called reasons.

1.i don't have facial hair
2.i don't get morning wood thanks to the hormones.
3.i don't inject estrogen daily (about once a week).my hormone levels are pretty constant and aren't any higher or lower than a natal female at any given time.i know this cause i get my levels checked by an endocrinologist
4.i haven't notice anymore more bitchiness in ts woman than genetic girls.tune into some female talk shows (like "the view") and watch the claws come out lol.

I'm not making this about me, it's just that my experiences are typical to most trans woman.don't you think those are pretty shallow reasons anyway? You could pass up on a truly beautiful soul because you have these ridiculously shallow criteria that's not even a reality for most ts girls.generalities are for the ignorant and unintelligent.you don't strike me as a dumb man

[buckjohnson]

I work late, so I hang out in a lot of late nights joints and spots. Most girls there are working girls or wannbees. And the bitchiness is always ramped by the tgs. I concede your other points. And I also concede that most tgs I know are thoughtful, well-read, considerate...like you. Though the sample size is small and the most interesting female i met in 2012 was a whites tg waitress who if I was brave enough should have taken out...maybe she was too young, too white, and too out...she wanted to go to public places and me hang out with her other tgs friends....not ready for that. Maybe my lack of exp contributes to my bias. One of her friends told me about hormones effecting erections. But how do I know which is taking hormones and what level...how do you bring that up in a conversation?

[amberskyi]

I work late, so I hang out in a lot of late nights joints and spots. Most girls there are working girls or wannbees. And the bitchiness is always ramped by the tgs. I concede your other points. And I also concede that most tgs I know are thoughtful, well-read, considerate...like you. Though the sample size is small and the most interesting female i met in 2012 was a whites tg waitress who if I was brave enough should have taken out...maybe she was too young, too white, and too out...she wanted to go to public places and me hang out with her other tgs friends....not ready for that. Maybe my lack of exp contributes to my bias. One of her friends told me about hormones effecting erections. But how do I know which is taking hormones and what level...how do you bring that up in a conversation?

Sounds like you're just closeted.of course she wants to go to public places and have you hang with her friends.god forbid that she wants to be treated like a normal girl lol

[Rabbiteyes]

i thought we had this discussion before. I wont date ts because hormones drive them crazy, hair on body and face, not wanting to wake up with a hard dick pressed up to my back, the bitchiness and jealousness of each other and with me, and the hormones. GG have plenty of hormone issues. I cant imagine dealing in the daily with a female purposefully injecting hormones in them

You gotta hang around normal TGs more ~_~ The ones I know are pretty normal and well adjusted (some are nuts though). One works as a nurse, one is the head of IT at some insurance company, another works as customs agent for the government, and another works in an office (and, of course there is me, I have a degree in business and am a highly trained artist who owns my own company in LA).

Not all trans are "working girls" ~_~ We have pretty rocking careers too :P But, why would someone with their lives together bother messing with a guy afraid to be seen in public?

1 ) Yea, hormones drive me crazy ... but it isn't the type of crazy you are probably thinking about. I just get emotional swings (typically between sad and happy). Now, my GG friend, she will get really angry at a guy and send nasty texts or fight with them (or she does the revenge thing a lot, if you make her mad...she will get into your email, think about contacting your GF's, and basically just go nuts).

2) Yea, I guess hair on face and body could be a problem? That is a process that takes years of laser and electrolysis to take care of...kind of just the way transition is. But, I would guess she shaves like GG's do?

3) Yup, no morning friskyness from hormones :P Every trans person I know loses that after a little while of hormones.

[brickcitybrother]

I don't think there is an 'average' male poster on this forum.
Most of the men here are hardcore lurkers anyway.


I agree, there isn't going to be an average. As for lurkers... not sure about that either. I think that there's some guys who see the girls as objects and that there's some guys who appreciate people on an individual level. The rest fall along that spectrum.

Northeast raised but well traveled. Questions, just ask.

[SXFX]

I have dates TS women and can say nothing bad about them.
Sadly that was mostly at university and one lovely one after my divorce and a few little hookups after that.
I would gladly enjoy dating trans women since I do not wish to have children but like most "normal" men (have my own place, a career, a nice car, know how to cook and take pride in taking care of myself both in dress and in physique) however like most guys I am a bit "stuck"
sure online dating is hit or miss and there are no true shit free dating web pages.
So to the mods....why not start a mini forum here where guys and gals can get to know each other?

[buckjohnson]

Sounds like you're just closeted.of course she wants to go to public places and have you hang with her friends.god forbid that she wants to be treated like a normal girl lol

Amber, every person'sjourney is different. If it was just her...maybe. She is blonde, cute, smart, interesting, and slightly sexy. Small boobs and no butt. But her friends were very clockable and very annoying and loud. I like a good time but they are too loud and proud. But it is a coward move on my part by not going out with her. I was not sexually attracted to her but we have a groove connection that goes beyond that. I am going to make that journey one day. Just not now.

[buckjohnson]

[QUOTE=Rabbit you proved my point. I could not have said it better. The hair, the craziness, the homones caused mood swings. But your point about gg i-spying and revenge were on point and so true. I will take into consideration the hormone caused ED.

[amberskyi]

Amber, every person'sjourney is different. If it was just her...maybe. She is blonde, cute, smart, interesting, and slightly sexy. Small boobs and no butt. But her friends were very clockable and very annoying and loud. I like a good time but they are too loud and proud. But it is a coward move on my part by not going out with her. I was not sexually attracted to her but we have a groove connection that goes beyond that. I am going to make that journey one day. Just not now.

You said it, not me lol

[Remy757Photog]

Quit being overly sensitive and getting your panties in a bunch. As it's very hard to find a passable TS that isn't a working girl, we guys a lot of times have to go the route of escorting. I've only met 1 TS that wasn't a working girl. You're a hypocrite anyway. You do porn and escort and get mad when guys view you as a "piece of meat." Yea makes sense....

It's irritating hearing guys say that "it's hard to find passable TS that isn't a working girl". Where exactly are you looking? I'm not a "sex worker/model" and I know many other passable girls that wan't nothing to do with the sex industry... How would anyone you brought a trans woman around know that A) she is trans and B) whether she is a "sex worker" without you telling them that anyway.

[Kire89]

23, 5'10", 135lbs daywalker. Far from the average-poster and what both genetical and trans women seek. Doesn't help my case that I look rather morose :)

https://www.dropbox.com/s/x033exyt56azlfd/CIMG0731%20-%20Copy%20%282%29.JPG

[MsDazzler]

More pics of the dudes on this siste, please, please! :)