Do you become disinterested in tgirls who are taken?

[Tiffany Starr]

I am just curious how many of you lose your lust for a specific girl after she becomes exclusively attached? I have a beautiful girlfriend and we are mot likely getting engaged soon, now to most people this would be a joyous occasion, but I know a few men will be disappointed. So I just wanted to know if any of you have ever lost interest in watching, talking to, or interacting in any way with a girl like that. oh BTW new pic from my latest shoot.

[Quiet Reflections]

most of the guys looking at you are taken too so I don't think you will have a problem

[Tiffany Starr]

most of the guys looking at you are taken too so I don't think you will have a problem

Yea but I know that a lot of guys have that fantasy of getting one of the hot TS porn stars, and in most cases where they are married or deeply involved it's almost impossible.

[be2378]

I think its sad when anyone I like is taken. Its either to far, nothing in common, taken, or whatever that gets in the way.

[Quiet Reflections]

Yea but I know that a lot of guys have that fantasy of getting one of the hot TS porn stars, and in most cases where they are married or deeply involved it's almost impossible.
you are a young beautiful woman, as the men that get upset cycle out new ones that love you even more will step right up.

[youngblood61]

It's a good question. For me no because I assumed most of the girls here are involved.:)

[sls]

I, personally don't care about relationship status. I do lose interest when a girl gets in an exclusive relationship and then (out of exclusivity, I guess) chooses to do strictly solo and/or partner POV only shoots.

[GrimFusion]

Sounds like what your describing is a little more than lust if dudes are getting upset enough to ignore a girl over the success of her long-term relationship. That's a little creepy imo. I don't care either way. I can see how fans might not be so interested once they know a girl is involved.

On the other hand, I'd consider myself "internet buddies" with a few of the girls from around HA and every now-and-again I'll pull up an IM just to shoot the shit. Is it odd that once they hit the friend-zone, I just stop punishing percy to their pics and movies? Probably.

[Willie Escalade]

More guys get disinterested when the girl goes post-op.

[jamesedwards]

I am just curious how many of you lose your lust for a specific girl after she becomes exclusively attached? I have a beautiful girlfriend and we are mot likely getting engaged soon, now to most people this would be a joyous occasion, but I know a few men will be disappointed. So I just wanted to know if any of you have ever lost interest in watching, talking to, or interacting in any way with a girl like that. oh BTW new pic from my latest shoot.

gOOD TOPIC

[kaiser1one]

Doesn't bother me.

[Donkey]

If you could post some pics of you fucking your beautiful girlfriend, it would definitely keep me interested. ;)

[danthepoetman]

I think two elements are to be considered here, Tiffany. The first is the fact that with porn, we’re in the realm of fantasy. People who consume porn want you to encourage their fantasy and increase its power by doing and saying whatever. They want to dream about you, to entertain the tantalizing idea they could have you, be with you, do everything and whatever to you, etc. And then you have reality, in this case, the fact that you’re a normal young woman who has a normal life and who is deserving of having normal relationships, of course, and a life partner to share it all with you.
I think most people, even those who absolutely want to entertain their sexy, erotic illusions, in most cases, can make the difference between the two. When they can’t, huge problems arise; and there are many cases indeed. But as I was saying, even amongst those who do, some absolutely want the illusion to be perfect. For these people, saying it, is probably a turn off. For those of us who are capable to make the difference between fantasy and reality in a definite way, and are respectful of the facts of life and of the responsibilities it involves, I guess it doesn’t matter at all if you’re engaged or not.
So I think it’s up to you: how far are you willing to go, in the exercise of your job, or of your role as a porn star, to entertain the illusion for the horny guys that are following you? I think any decision you’re making considering these facts is legitimate and respectful. Being a star is projecting an image. It’s your very job to work on this image the way you want and to the extent you choose. No one should have anything to say against this under any circumstances either way.

[FootFetishGuy]

The only way I lose intrest is when a Tgirl, is only intrested in other Tgirls. The "Transbians". If they're not intrested in guys, then there's no way to fool yourself into thinking, "some day that could be me with her" and so I lose intrest.

[JenniferParisHusband]

I am just curious how many of you lose your lust for a specific girl after she becomes exclusively attached? I have a beautiful girlfriend and we are mot likely getting engaged soon, now to most people this would be a joyous occasion, but I know a few men will be disappointed. So I just wanted to know if any of you have ever lost interest in watching, talking to, or interacting in any way with a girl like that. oh BTW new pic from my latest shoot.

First, great pic.

But to the main point. I think it depends. If I look at a girl in porn, eventually I just lose interest in her anyway. I don't think I have a realistic chance with hooking up with any of my porn fantasy girls, especially now that I'm far from LA. Whether or not she's attached has nothing to do with it. The one porn-star I've never gotten over my love for is Kobe Tai, and she's married with kids. But she's still the dream porn-girl. Escorts, I usually find one I like and stay with them. If they move on to a relationship and out of that life, I'm usually happy for them, and I'd move on to a new one. If there were any expectation of a fan to be able to get with you for an hour or so, yeah there might be a let down that he'll never get to. But I think if the material is still coming, most guys are going to look, and be into it if they were before.

That said, I've gotta be honest. Baily Jay and the same guy over and over again in her photos is boring as hell. But that's just a problem with keeping things interesting, not that she has a boyfriend.

There are certain ladies on here, like Kelly Shore, who is married. Doesn't change a thing to me. If she posts photos, I'm still there and loving what I see, and it doesn't get too old. But never in a million years would I have ever thought I'd find Kelly on Backpage. So nothing is really lost to me. So, congratulations on the engagement. I don't think it will change much, unless there was some sort of expectation of availability. Then you might have a slight dropoff.

[Prospero]

Nope... not one bit.

[christianxxx]

as a performer, any girl that i know is not into guys makes doing a scene pointless & semi-ridiculous. there is nothing worse than fake-passion IMHO.

[Willie Escalade]

as a performer, any girl that i know is not into guys makes doing a scene pointless & semi-ridiculous. there is nothing worse than fake-passion IMHO.

:iagree:

[danthepoetman]

as a performer, any girl that i know is not into guys makes doing a scene pointless & semi-ridiculous. there is nothing worse than fake-passion IMHO.

:iagree:
As a spectator, it seems to me that it shows, when a girl is not into it. But then again, how can I really know. Only you guys would know that for a fact.

I didn’t previously address this in my post, but as someone alluded to, I am also bothered by the fact that a girl doesn’t seem to like being penetrated; in such occurrences, I do tend to loose interest. If the girl always top and almost never bottoms, if she seems to be reluctant in bottoming, for me the fantasy is broken, as I myself am a top only. I will appreciate the beauty of a top girl nevertheless in pictures, but I won’t buy or rent dvds of a top only girl… :(

[youngblood61]

More guys get disinterested when the girl goes post-op.:iagree:

[danthepoetman]

More guys get disinterested when the girl goes post-op.
Yes, I also agree that they do. But I find that unfortunate. As far as I'm concerned, I really don't.

[timxxx]

I have almost zero interest in who a girl is exclusively attached too,l only get disinterested when the girl will only do scenes with exclusively one person.Some girls have done so many
scenes with i.e. Christian,l have no interest in seeing that combo again.

[Dino Velvet]

Porno is fantasy. I don't care. More into what type of role-playing you're doing in the scene that I'm watching. As long as the girl is pretty and the dude isn't getting in the way of me seeing her I'm fine.

[youngblood61]

Yes, I also agree that they do. But I find that unfortunate. As far as I'm concerned, I really don't.It's what makes these girls special to us. At least for me,if was looking for a GG I would go there. I respect that it's the girls choice to have srs,but once they cut it off my interest will wane.:)

[Tiffany Starr]

The only way I lose intrest is when a Tgirl, is only intrested in other Tgirls. The "Transbians". If they're not intrested in guys, then there's no way to fool yourself into thinking, "some day that could be me with her" and so I lose intrest.

Well then you probably lost interest in me since I do date transwomen. In fact I will be engaged to one soon.

[Tiffany Starr]

as a performer, any girl that i know is not into guys makes doing a scene pointless & semi-ridiculous. there is nothing worse than fake-passion IMHO.

I know I think thats why you don't desire to work with me. but a job is a job. it's bout the $$ when I do specific scenes, other scenes however I love for the sexual intimacy.

[Tiffany Starr]

I have almost zero interest in who a girl is exclusively attached too,l only get disinterested when the girl will only do scenes with exclusively one person.Some girls have done so many
scenes with i.e. Christian,l have no interest in seeing that combo again.

Won't have to worry about that combo with me honey .

[Merkurie]

I just want to see you nekkid.

The outfits are cool too. So the answer to your question is nope. I've never gotten so carried away with the fantasy that I need to know the girl is single and waiting for me to call.

[GoddessAthena85]

I think its sad when anyone I like is taken. Its either to far, nothing in common, taken, or whatever that gets in the way.
:iagree:

[youngblood61]

If they have a significant other so be it. It's not a deal breaker, they still get nekkid and they still perform.:)

[Tiffany Anne]

Well then you probably lost interest in me since I do date transwomen. In fact I will be engaged to one soon.


Weren't there posts celebrating your engagement some months ago?
(or maybe I missed some gossip posts or something)

[Chaos]

I guess since I have never had the opportunity to see what I am missing I can't lose the fantasy.

[Prospero]

If it's fantasy - ie porn
or commerce - ie escorts
not at all
if it's a relationship - well of course

[RallyCola]

i don't have any illusions of being with a tgirl i fantasize about in any capacity other than maybe hiring her for a session or 2. so that a tgirl may have a significant other does not ruin anything for me.

what i do not like is the "holier than thou" attitude some people adopt when their situation no longer warrants doing porn. if you retire, do so quietly and don't rail against those that continue to do it.

[RallyCola]

I know I think thats why you don't desire to work with me. but a job is a job. it's bout the $$ when I do specific scenes, other scenes however I love for the sexual intimacy.

just a note though...if you think that your personal preferences don't translate on the screen, you are wrong. your scenes with men are a bit more strained and less interesting than your scenes with girls. so although its a job, you should stick to scenes that make your site most appealing, which are scenes that you don't force the issue. just a random thought from a subscriber based on what you've said about your preferences.

the best scenes are when the performers make it look like they really enjoy their partner.

[danthepoetman]

Why do “stars” hate the paparazzi? Because they steel what’s most precious to them. As a star, Tiffany, you modulate your image the way you want, because your job is to embody a fantasy. What you choose to say or not should be function of how much you want to impersonate that fantasy, of how far you want to take the image.

[robertlouis]

Ahem, can I be pedantic and point out that it should, of course, be UNinterested.

DISinterested means not being partial or partisan in an argument.

I thank you.

[giovanni_hotel]

Not for porn. But IRL if I meet a girl I totally dig, then it's the same as crushing on a GG and finding out she has a serious BF. It SUCKS.
Then again many TGs have 'open' relationships.

[Willie Escalade]

Not for porn. But IRL if I meet a girl I totally dig, then it's the same as crushing on a GG and finding out she has a serious BF. It SUCKS.
This happens to me quite often. unfortunately. Just when I'm about to admit to a girl I have a crush on her, I find out she has a boyfriend. It does suck...

[Prospero]

Ahem, can I be pedantic and point out that it should, of course, be UNinterested.

DISinterested means not being partial or partisan in an argument.

I thank you.

I was going to post that ages ago - but I looked up in the dictionary and, in America, disinterested is used interchangeably with uninterested.

[Tiffany Starr]

Why do “stars” hate the paparazzi? Because they steel what’s most precious to them. As a star, Tiffany, you modulate your image the way you want, because your job is to embody a fantasy. What you choose to say or not should be function of how much you want to impersonate that fantasy, of how far you want to take the image.


I know hu. But just because i'm a porn star doesn't mean I can't be a real person. I can't tell you how many people in this biz have told me not to talk about certain things that i hold dear due to fear of losing fans or sales. But I love my fans and they want to hear more about my life. I don't want to just appear to be a fake girl going around pretending i'm rich and have no problems. I can fulfill many fantasies without losing touch with reality.

[danthepoetman]

I know hu. But just because i'm a porn star doesn't mean I can't be a real person. I can't tell you how many people in this biz have told me not to talk about certain things that i hold dear due to fear of losing fans or sales. But I love my fans and they want to hear more about my life. I don't want to just appear to be a fake girl going around pretending i'm rich and have no problems. I can fulfill many fantasies without losing touch with reality.
That’s great, Tiffany, that’s fabulous. If your fans love you for whom you are, and if with them you can be totally yourself: that’s wonderful!
And you seem like a very natural, authentic person; it doesn’t surprise me.
Of course, you have the right to a normal life like any other young woman.
My point was simply, of course, that you are the one who decides. You’re the only one who can know up to which point you can go in one direction or another, in still achieving what you want to achieve. Like any actress, your product is yourself. You can be in control of that product any way you want.

[Tiffany Starr]

That’s great, Tiffany, that’s fabulous. If your fans love you for whom you are, and if with them you can be totally yourself: that’s wonderful!
And you seem like a very natural, authentic person; it doesn’t surprise me.
Of course, you have the right to a normal life like any other young woman.
My point was simply, of course, that you are the one who decides. You’re the only one who can know up to which point you can go in one direction or another, in still achieving what you want to achieve. Like any actress, your product is yourself. You can be in control of that product any way you want.

Agreed I enjoy talking to you already :-D I try to make hot content fr my fans. I have a cool shoot coming up soon.

[TS Evelyn Summers]

Speaking from an outsider point of view....How do you know if a T-girl is taken or not ?????



Unless the person states the fact out right. Which I doubt will happin, cuz that effects the "persona" or whatever of the model/actress/whatever..

So whom is to know!

[danthepoetman]

Agreed I enjoy talking to you already :-D I try to make hot content fr my fans. I have a cool shoot coming up soon.
I’ll be looking forward to that! ;)

[Chaos]

I think I've always assumed that anyone I could be interested in would have to be taken....Karma hating me as much as she does and all..... :D

[GrimFusion]

Speaking from an outsider point of view....How do you know if a T-girl is taken or not ?????



Unless the person states the fact out right. Which I doubt will happin, cuz that effects the "persona" or whatever of the model/actress/whatever..

So whom is to know!

The person who asks?
Who gives a shit if they find out you've got a thang for 'em?
If they do, that's kinda sad in a way.

[TS Evelyn Summers]

The person who asks?
Who gives a shit if they find out you've got a thang for 'em?
If they do, that's kinda sad in a way.



I wish someone would want my sorry a$$ sometimes.



Would be nice to be desired for a change!

[Chaos]

I wish someone would want my sorry a$$ sometimes.



Would be nice to be desired for a change!

That makes two of us. I find you to be attractive and desirable. Just way out of my league.

[TS Evelyn Summers]

That makes two of us. I find you to be attractive and desirable. Just way out of my league.



Naaaaaa I dont have a league...Just run to wal-mart and pick me up!


xoxo

[Chaos]

:D
I'm broke,crazy,and honestly I haven't met anyone that doesn't take issue with that....not in the 24 years I have been available...(maybe I should check my expiration date) :whistle:
I have yet to meet anyone who cares about what I have to offer that ISN'T tangible.

[Quiet Reflections]

:D
I'm broke,crazy,and honestly I haven't met anyone that doesn't take issue with that....not in the 24 years I have been available...(maybe I should check my expiration date) :whistle:
I have yet to meet anyone who cares about what I have to offer that ISN'T tangible.
I love broke ,crazy people. welcome home