love is.....

[SmithXXX]

Ladies & Gents let's see the truth......
Should be good for a few laughs, arguments, etc....

[danthepoetman]

I wouldn’t count on too many people admitting to A or B… But then again, with the anonymity and the regular cynicism, who knows?

To me, love is about communication and friendship first, associated with desire and lust. The two latter varies through life; if you have the two former more than with anyone, you’re pretty much in business for the long go. Important to have desire for your partner permanently, of course. But the rest is so crucial.
The first sign, I think, is lost time, like in “extra-terrestrial abductions” ;)… When you spend 10, 15 hours with someone, whatever you do, sex or conversation, and you feel like you’ve spent one or two, you might be pretty close.

[SmithXXX]

maybe I should have just posted this and said "Yes" or "No".....lol

[MdR Dave]

How about "Love is D. Fucked"?

I'd vote for that one.

But that is the funniest "Love Is. . ." cartoon ever.

[SmithXXX]

Well I'm not surprised that there has not been one single girl that has made a comment....

[Prospero]

The day/night is young.....

[MacShreach]

Reverse progression. Starts off with 'C' (during which period rabbit fucking takes place everywhere) moves to 'B' (after you set up together and she starts planning a home and family) and eventually to 'A' (when the guy realises the only hot meat he'll ever get in this relationship is a Sunday roast--and not the good kind.) Sometimes 'A' is skipped altogether and it begins at 'B'. Sad but true.

[Jericho]

Love is...Putting up with their shit even after you've boned 'em! :shrug

[amberskyi]

ive learned that most men arent worth loving but every once in awhile one comes along and fucks everything up

[tsadriana]

Is hard to belleve in a guy when it says he loves u...i was burned twice ,i wont do the third mistake anymore....Is easy for a guy to say that he loves u with the bonner inside u:mad:

[Dino Velvet]

I'll go for Option C if I can stay in denial long enough while being willfully ignorant. The drugs should help too. Perception is reality.

[GoddessAthena85]

Well I'm not surprised that there has not been one single girl that has made a comment....
I'm personally just not a fan of the only 3 options you gave.

[GrimFusion]

I don't mean to hijack here, but maybe a better question to ask is
'How many of you have had a mutual, genuine, and long-term love?'.

Maybe bad press gets more attention, but every time I read through a post about a breakup on HA the overall tone murmurs "fuck love. I'm flyin' solo". I've never really heard about any of these girls being in a great relationship that they see lasting a while. Maybe Kelly Shore, but I haven't seen her post around here in forever. Anybody have anything real positive to add?

[tsadriana]

I don't mean to hijack here, but maybe a better question to ask is
'How many of you have had a mutual, genuine, and long-term love?'.

Maybe bad press gets more attention, but every time I read through a post about a breakup on HA the overall tone murmurs "fuck love. I'm flyin' solo". I've never really heard about any of these girls being in a great relationship that they see lasting a while. Maybe Kelly Shore, but I haven't seen her post around here in forever. Anybody have anything real positive to add?
First relantionship it was 2 years ...
second relantionship was 4 years and both ended with break-up because the guys was dirty liers...

[GoddessAthena85]

I don't mean to hijack here, but maybe a better question to ask is
'How many of you have had a mutual, genuine, and long-term love?'.

Maybe bad press gets more attention, but every time I read through a post about a breakup on HA the overall tone murmurs "fuck love. I'm flyin' solo". I've never really heard about any of these girls being in a great relationship that they see lasting a while. Maybe Kelly Shore, but I haven't seen her post around here in forever. Anybody have anything real positive to add?
the reason almost all of my old porn was solo was because I was in a beautiful wonderful relationship for 4 years, then he cheated. Love exist and I would do it again. But until that person comes along it's all about being Poly for now. Plus i'm to kinky for just one person to satisfy all my interest ( or so it seems )

[tsadriana]

I forgot one thing,till a guy will always fancy real women the relantionship with a t-girl will be always insecure and thats a fact.

[Genetic]

I'm cynical now. Was in a 5 and a half year relationship, then a 6 year relationship where all the "overtime" the other half was doing, was actually her boss doing her. Stayed single for 3 years then decided to give relatioships another chance which was a horrific mistake. Have been single again for 3 years and can't see myself changing that.

Relationships are like flea markets. At first they seem wonderful and interesting, then you realise it's all just shit you don't need.

[jamiethewild]

I been on one serious relationship which i treated him like a king and gave him my sincere love, got him cheating and my feelings changed i dont believe on second chances and but we are still friends, i still love him but as a close friend.
Yes true love is out there, is just hard to trust men now a days most are perverts, they love variety, they want to experience the rainbow (all kinds of girls), have strong sexual temptations and want to try anything sexually . When a guy says to me " AM VERY OPEMINDED " thats a fucking negative right there for me. So lets get real here most men here see us a sexual fetish meat nothing more they don't give a flying fuck of us. Don't get me wrong theirs a few that do want a serious relationship but its less likely. And "yogi2002" i meet you in LA before your nothing but a fucking true chaser stop playing all innocent here, all the stories i hear of you trying to get all your buddies girls to hook up with them isn't cool at all .

[Quiet Reflections]

Love is real and amazing if you can find it

[luvtrans]

<Withdrawing my earlier comment>

[luvtrans]

<Withdrawing my earlier comment>

[tsadriana]

Once u fancy both women and t-girls that relantionship will not last long and main reson for a guy always is the he is confused and not sure what he wants anymore ,but in more cases that is just an escuse...Most guys confuse love with lust in many cases.

[GoddessAthena85]

:iagree:
Love is real and amazing if you can find it

[GrimFusion]

Once u fancy both women and t-girls that relantionship will not last long and main reson for a guy always is the he is confused and not sure what he wants anymore ,but in more cases that is just an escuse...Most guys confuse love with lust in many cases.

I disagree. I've never heard of an instance of cheating that didn't boil down to a general lack of respect. I don't think it's about confusing love with lust, getting caught up in an opportunity to cheat on a whim, or being too drunk to make the correct decision. All of that just translates to a guy trying to say "I've lost all respect for you and I want out of the relationship, but I can't find a valid reason to leave you; so I made one".

Men who dig both women and t-girls aren't predestined to be cheaters. I should know because I'm a fan of both and I've never considered cheating. Maybe I represent a minority of guys who go both ways and refrain, but it surely isn't true all of the time.

[doctor screw]

Damn,and I thought I was bitter....lol@some of these replies

[tsadriana]

GrimFusion _________ " Men who dig both women and t-girls aren't predestined to be cheaters. I should know because I'm a fan of both and I've never considered cheating. Maybe I represent a minority of guys who go both ways and refrain, but it surely isn't true all of the time."
___________________________Well as u said ur minority and the minority always loose because of the majority.

[hippifried]

If I knew the answer, I'd have already written the definitive book, & I'd be waaaaaay to rich to be slummin' with any of y'all.

[Ryz]

You know it's possible to love more than one person :)

[Ryz]

Love is love, and sex is sex. People always seem to confuse the two.
Many girls on here are escorts, they should know this the best. Theoretically, I guess

[tsadriana]

No, i do not believe you can love two people at the same time in the same way.

My answer might be influenced by my emotions and feelings as i would hate to find out if my boyfriend or partner were to ever turn around to me and say i love you but i love someone else as well.

[tsadriana]

By the way i forgot to say that: It is possible to love two girls at the same time BUT you cannot be “IN LOVE” with two girls at the same time....

[Ryz]

By the way i forgot to say that: It is possible to love two girls at the same time BUT you cannot be “IN LOVE” with two girls at the same time....

Says who? We are socially conditioned to believe we are supposed to only love one person, which all we're really doing is restricting our love...

[tsadriana]

I disagree. I've never heard of an instance of cheating that didn't boil down to a general lack of respect. I don't think it's about confusing love with lust, getting caught up in an opportunity to cheat on a whim, or being too drunk to make the correct decision. All of that just translates to a guy trying to say "I've lost all respect for you and I want out of the relationship, but I can't find a valid reason to leave you; so I made one".

Men who dig both women and t-girls aren't predestined to be cheaters. I should know because I'm a fan of both and I've never considered cheating. Maybe I represent a minority of guys who go both ways and refrain, but it surely isn't true all of the time.


Love is love, and sex is sex. People always seem to confuse the two.
Many girls on here are escorts, they should know this the best. Theoretically, I guess


Says who? We are socially conditioned to believe we are supposed to only love one person, which all we're really doing is restricting out love...
Maybe your heart is to big ...who knows...

[GrimFusion]

GrimFusion _________ " Men who dig both women and t-girls aren't predestined to be cheaters. I should know because I'm a fan of both and I've never considered cheating. Maybe I represent a minority of guys who go both ways and refrain, but it surely isn't true all of the time."
___________________________Well as u said ur minority and the minority always loose because of the majority.
I'm not loose at all. Besides, when something isn't true sometimes, it means it's not true; not that it's validity is up for debate. We're not electing a president here.

[tsadriana]

I'm not loose at all. Besides, when something isn't true sometimes, it means it's not true; not that it's validity is up for debate. We're not electing a president here.
Dam right we don`t debate the president election here,we talk about trust btw two people.

[SmithXXX]

I been on one serious relationship which i treated him like a king and gave him my sincere love, got him cheating and my feelings changed i dont believe on second chances and but we are still friends, i still love him but as a close friend.
Yes true love is out there, is just hard to trust men now a days most are perverts, they love variety, they want to experience the rainbow (all kinds of girls), have strong sexual temptations and want to try anything sexually . When a guy says to me " AM VERY OPEMINDED " thats a fucking negative right there for me. So lets get real here most men here see us a sexual fetish meat nothing more they don't give a flying fuck of us. Don't get me wrong theirs a few that do want a serious relationship but its less likely. And "yogi2002" i meet you in LA before your nothing but a fucking true chaser stop playing all innocent here, all the stories i hear of you trying to get all your buddies girls to hook up with them isn't cool at all .


Oh so you met me huh? I don't remember meeting you at all. Apparently you didn't leave a lasting impression. Did you try to pick me up as a trick & I blew you off? That seems most likely what happened hence the hostility towards me. I was in and just got out of a long term relationship with a TS. Her and I are still very good friends, and we still love each other, but had irreconcilable differences. No cheating on either of our parts. I do not try to hook up with any of my buddy's girls either, but nice try though. I have many good friends on this board that can attest to that. So until you can show actual proof of such allegations it's better to just keep your speculations to yourself than accuse me of something publicly. Because in the end your true colors will show. I never said I was, nor was I acting all innocent either.

Speaking of acting innocent. You need to get off your soap box and stop preaching. You say you treated your man like a king, but you still escort. If you are in a relationship, and you escort then you are cheating. No double standards by saying "It's work either". If you are in a relationship and escorting, and he is not in the industry (ie making movies or escorting himself) then that is cheating on your part. If you're both in the industry and either of you hooks up with someone for free then that's cheating on that persons part. As for saying just MEN want to try all the colors of the rainbow, well that's the pot calling the kettle black.

Next Time you decide to respond it'd be wise to think first, watch what you say, and who you accuse. I will call you out on your soap box hypocrisy.

One last thing. If you want respect or to be taken seriously then put a picture of your real face up not someone else...

[amberskyi]

Oh so you met me huh? I don't remember meeting you at all. Apparently you didn't leave a lasting impression. Did you try to pick me up as a trick & I blew you off? That seems most likely what happened hence the hostility towards me. I was in and just got out of a long term relationship with a TS. Her and I are still very good friends, and we still love each other, but had irreconcilable differences. No cheating on either of our parts. I do not try to hook up with any of my buddy's girls either, but nice try though. I have many good friends on this board that can attest to that. So until you can show actual proof of such allegations it's better to just keep your speculations to yourself than accuse me of something publicly. Because in the end your true colors will show. I never said I was, nor was I acting all innocent either.

Speaking of acting innocent. You need to get off your soap box and stop preaching. You say you treated your man like a king, but you still escort. If you are in a relationship, and you escort then you are cheating. No double standards by saying "It's work either". If you are in a relationship and escorting, and he is not in the industry (ie making movies or escorting himself) then that is cheating on your part. If you're both in the industry and either of you hooks up with someone for free then that's cheating on that persons part. As for saying just MEN want to try all the colors of the rainbow, well that's the pot calling the kettle black.

Next Time you decide to respond it'd be wise to think first, watch what you say, and who you accuse. I will call you out on your soap box hypocrisy.

One last thing. If you want respect or to be taken seriously then put a picture of your real face up not someone else...

lol im sorry but your argument that if both people are in the industry than it isnt cheating makes little sense lol.
you cant tell someone what the boundaries and rules should be in their relationship.its up to her and her boyfriend to decide if escorting is cheating or not.maybe he doesnt see it as cheating because he understands its work.some guys understand and some guys dont.
also im pretty sure most girls escort to pay bills not to have sex with all the colors in the rainbow lol

[jamiethewild]

Oh so you met me huh? I don't remember meeting you at all. Apparently you didn't leave a lasting impression. Did you try to pick me up as a trick & I blew you off? That seems most likely what happened hence the hostility towards me. I was in and just got out of a long term relationship with a TS. Her and I are still very good friends, and we still love each other, but had irreconcilable differences. No cheating on either of our parts. I do not try to hook up with any of my buddy's girls either, but nice try though. I have many good friends on this board that can attest to that. So until you can show actual proof of such allegations it's better to just keep your speculations to yourself than accuse me of something publicly. Because in the end your true colors will show. I never said I was, nor was I acting all innocent either.

Speaking of acting innocent. You need to get off your soap box and stop preaching. You say you treated your man like a king, but you still escort. If you are in a relationship, and you escort then you are cheating. No double standards by saying "It's work either". If you are in a relationship and escorting, and he is not in the industry (ie making movies or escorting himself) then that is cheating on your part. If you're both in the industry and either of you hooks up with someone for free then that's cheating on that persons part. As for saying just MEN want to try all the colors of the rainbow, well that's the pot calling the kettle black.

Next Time you decide to respond it'd be wise to think first, watch what you say, and who you accuse. I will call you out on your soap box hypocrisy.

One last thing. If you want respect or to be taken seriously then put a picture of your real face up not someone else...

I never tried to pick you up as trick you fucking moron, when i go to TS clubs, don't go there to work like many TS's am not a cheap ass whore to go to that level plus i wouldn't want to pick up on you as a trick anyway your old, with wrinkles have OCD( from what i heard ) , not much in shape your just a twink guy in person so much for your avatar trying to flex you piss poor muscles lol Even my fuck buddy( body builder) can beat u up in no time and throw you like a flying saucer. lol You and patricia are nothing but losers you guys are never going to grow up, playing the "we broke up today and where are back tomorrow" that is the stupidest relationship i heard of in my life from what i know you cheated more than her, OMG give me a fucking a break " you never tried to hook up with any other girls from your buddies " maybe ask your buddies that, no me. I talk to some of them and tell me how they actually don't want you around because of that, your nothing but a "negative hypocrite tranny chaser loser in their circle of the scene" used to be part the scene not anymore but still have a handful of ts gal friends out there.

I was in a serious relationship before escorting moron jackass. I don't tend to do both things ( escorting/relationship) i can't do both at the same time because i agree its cheating how in the hell am i going to love a guy knowing that am fucking other guys for money so check yourself chaser. When am in a serious relationship am loyal, and won't be escorting, and trustworthy and the perfect house wife.

The only HYPOCRITE HERE IS YOU , so shove your comment up your faggotri ass.

As i discuss many times i just enjoy what people say about me thats why am here, am me and my avatar are twins bitch.

[SmithXXX]

Amber I agree with you.

I also said when they are both in the industry and one hooks up with someone for FREE it's cheating.

When I said it was the pot calling the kettle black. I wasnt referring to the working aspect. I was referring men are not the only ones that like "variety" TS's & women do aswell.

[BLKGSXR]

I never tried to pick you up as trick you fucking moron, when i go to TS clubs, don't go there to work like many TS's am not a cheap ass whore to go to that level plus i wouldn't want to pick up on you as a trick anyway your old, with wrinkles have OCD( from what i heard ) , not much in shape your just a twink guy in person so much for your avatar trying to flex you piss poor muscles lol Even my fuck buddy( body builder) can beat u up in no time and throw you like a flying saucer. lol You and patricia are nothing but losers you guys are never going to grow up, playing the "we broke up today and where are back tomorrow" that is the stupidest relationship i heard of in my life from what i know you cheated more than her, OMG give me a fucking a break " you never tried to hook up with any other girls from your buddies " maybe ask your buddies that, no me. I talk to some of them and tell me how they actually don't want you around because of that, your nothing but a "negative hypocrite tranny chaser loser in their circle of the scene" used to be part the scene not anymore but still have a handful of ts gal friends out there.

I was in a serious relationship before escorting moron jackass. I don't tend to do both things ( escorting/relationship) i can't do both at the same time because i agree its cheating how in the hell am i going to love a guy knowing that am fucking other guys for money so check yourself chaser. When am in a serious relationship am loyal, and won't be escorting, and trustworthy and the perfect house wife.

The only HYPOCRITE HERE IS YOU , so shove your comment up your faggotri ass.

As i discuss many times i just enjoy what people say about me thats why am here, am me and my avatar are twins bitch.
See this is you opening pandoras box up, As one of his friends I dont even talk to him about it because its not my business, you literally gave him the right to talk shit to you in any way shape or form! Were adults I would hope...Show a little class and respect to each other. If not have fun but just know dont talk shit and then do the same thing-in which you have been so yes you are a hypocrite, and if the tables turned dont get sensitive For the word "faggotri" are you a self hating ts? you shouldnt use negative words like so because one time long long ago that word hurted you probably still does, doesnt give you the right nor anyone to use it. :werd:
P.S.- your! spelling is truly atrocious please get a spell check software.

[doctor screw]

I would like to say that I knew a certain person was off,becuz of my d-bag sense....lol
Said person is only going to become more and more vile,and I'll be waiting...lol

[BLKGSXR]

I would like to say that I knew a certain person was off,becuz of my d-bag sense....lol
Said person is only going to become more and more vile,and I'll be waiting...lol
:iagree:the name tells it all Lol. :dead:

[Ryz]

I never tried to pick you up as trick you fucking moron, when i go to TS clubs, don't go there to work like many TS's am not a cheap ass whore to go to that level plus i wouldn't want to pick up on you as a trick anyway your old, with wrinkles have OCD( from what i heard ) , not much in shape your just a twink guy in person so much for your avatar trying to flex you piss poor muscles lol Even my fuck buddy( body builder) can beat u up in no time and throw you like a flying saucer. lol You and patricia are nothing but losers you guys are never going to grow up, playing the "we broke up today and where are back tomorrow" that is the stupidest relationship i heard of in my life from what i know you cheated more than her, OMG give me a fucking a break " you never tried to hook up with any other girls from your buddies " maybe ask your buddies that, no me. I talk to some of them and tell me how they actually don't want you around because of that, your nothing but a "negative hypocrite tranny chaser loser in their circle of the scene" used to be part the scene not anymore but still have a handful of ts gal friends out there.

I was in a serious relationship before escorting moron jackass. I don't tend to do both things ( escorting/relationship) i can't do both at the same time because i agree its cheating how in the hell am i going to love a guy knowing that am fucking other guys for money so check yourself chaser. When am in a serious relationship am loyal, and won't be escorting, and trustworthy and the perfect house wife.

The only HYPOCRITE HERE IS YOU , so shove your comment up your faggotri ass.

As i discuss many times i just enjoy what people say about me thats why am here, am me and my avatar are twins bitch.

Lmao. you're pathetic

[jamiethewild]

Lmao. you're pathetic

Pathetic of what ? of the truth . lmao

[jamiethewild]

See this is you opening pandoras box up, As one of his friends I dont even talk to him about it because its not my business, you literally gave him the right to talk shit to you in any way shape or form! Were adults I would hope...Show a little class and respect to each other. If not have fun but just know dont talk shit and then do the same thing-in which you have been so yes you are a hypocrite, and if the tables turned dont get sensitive For the word "faggotri" are you a self hating ts? you shouldnt use negative words like so because one time long long ago that word hurted you probably still does, doesnt give you the right nor anyone to use it. :werd:
P.S.- your! spelling is truly atrocious please get a spell check software.

I agree "adults", just can't stand liars up in here

I don't think my spelling is needed to be checked when am talking a loser plus i have a purpose for what i do.

[jamiethewild]

Lmao. you're pathetic

Do you even know this guy moron?

[Ryz]

Do you even know this guy moron?

http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ma3ogbEUZw1qg3t2so1_400.gif

[doctor screw]

I agree "adults", just can't stand liars up in here

I don't think my spelling is needed to be checked when am talking a loser plus i have a purpose for what i do.

You proved him right,in your second sentence...lol

[jamiethewild]

http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ma3ogbEUZw1qg3t2so1_400.gif

no exact answer, exactly why don't you keep your mouth shut. You black dudes are hung up in drama all the time.

[Ryz]

no exact answer, exactly why don't you keep your mouth shut. You black dudes are hung up in drama all the time.

i speak lyke caveman mi no lyke blk man

[doctor screw]

How can you start drama,then blame others for responding....HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

[doctor screw]

i speak lyke caveman mi no lyke blk man

AWESOME...LOL

20 cool points

[jamiethewild]

i speak lyke caveman mi no lyke blk man

Ok monkey back the fuck up.

[Ryz]

You proved him right,in your second sentence...lol

It's not the spelling. It has more to do with really bad, and improper grammar.

[doctor screw]

I would like to say that I knew a certain person was off,becuz of my d-bag sense....lol
Said person is only going to become more and more vile,and I'll be waiting...lol

I swear I can predict the future or something...lol

[BLKGSXR]

I agree "adults", just can't stand liars up in here

I don't think my spelling is needed to be checked when am talking a loser plus i have a purpose for what i do.
I am*?

Now you think hes a loser, where I know hes just an old fart. Hes a good guy and friend very loyal believe it or not! Yeah he has pissed me off in the past but doesnt change the fact that I call him a friend. Before you make yourself look like an ass make sure you know the person not what people say about the person...Always two sides to a story, dont be the dumbass that follows what their friends say! we're not in highschool anymore stop being a follower and lead yourself!

[jamiethewild]

am kinda sleepy dude and had some drinks thank you goodnight monkeys. You black people love drama i swear !!!!

[doctor screw]

How can you start drama,then blame others for responding....HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Note...lol

[BLKGSXR]

am kinda sleepy dude and had some drinks thank you.
Doesnt make it an excuse, you have alot of growing up dont get me wrong alot of girls in the ts scene do some dont realize it till they are dead broke and alone others check themselves when they got family to take care of, long story short you need to act your age and if you are then god help you, because I sure as hell wont!

[doctor screw]

That's how you deal w/ a bully......I'm proud of all you guys,and guess who's getting a pizza party...you guys are,lol

[Ryz]

.........

[jamiethewild]

Doesnt make it an excuse, you have alot of growing up dont get me wrong alot of girls in the ts scene do some dont realize it till they are dead broke and alone others check themselves when they got family to take care of, long story short you need to act your age and if you are then god help you, because I sure as hell wont!

Growing up pfft, i know who to respect and who not to respect. Hun am not broke am probably one of the most stable girls out there mentally, emotinally, have my sugar daddies, one famous politician from dubai thank you. I act my age and mature to the people who deserve it. Not to liars, and chasers and fake people, forum is a forum not reality, goodnight sir.

[doctor screw]

One of the most craziest ppl on the forum(currently,lol),just said they're stable.......lol,talk about delusional

.....and she lying on her pussy-stick,politicans aint fucking derange chicks...lol

[ImmerGeil]

Love is a condition of bio chemical craziness.

Comparable to a hard drug clouding the minds.

It was an still is a big illusion and today like everything else a product of the economy.The more people believe in love the more money will be earn in the love industry(Flowers,love movies,other stupid insignificant presents...)

Kodo Sawaki a zen monk who was probably never in love had a great proper saying that goes:"Everybody talks about marrying for love, but isn’t it really just marrying for sex? In the end isn’t it really only about a penis and a vagina? Why doesn’t anybody simply say that he’s fallen in love with a vagina"?

To answer the question Girls are loving men because of their money and men loving girls because of the sex.

Isn't it a fair deal?

[BLKGSXR]

Growing up pfft, i know who to respect and who not to respect. Hun am not broke am probably one of the most stable girls out there mentally, emotinally, have my sugar daddies, one famous politician from dubai thank you. I act my age and mature to the people who deserve it. Not to liars, and chasers and fake people, forum is a forum not reality, goodnight sir.
Yet you flaunt like a kid! my dear you sound like a sham to me.
In the end no one cares what you do or do not have....I know alot of girls! I have sex with some but maintain it as a friendship level, does that mean im a chaser or a friend with benefits? get it right Im a true gentlemen as are many of my friends! youre just very mean and bitter! Well Unlike many girls with sugar daddies* I have a day job not relying on someone else to pay my bills Have a good day =]:clover:

[amberskyi]

..............lol!

[Ryz]

..............lol!

Stop laughing at people, it's rude.

[BLKGSXR]

Stop laughing at people, it's rude.

She's not laughing at people, she's laughing because it was so on point she's speechless!

[doctor screw]

More like,she knows who Jamie really is,and she's just trolling you guys....lol

[amberskyi]

oh im laughing for all sorts of reasons but mostly at people lol

[Schimmel]

Love is a condition of bio chemical craziness.

Comparable to a hard drug clouding the minds.

It was an still is a big illusion and today like everything else a product of the economy.The more people believe in love the more money will be earn in the love industry(Flowers,love movies,other stupid insignificant presents...)

Kodo Sawaki a zen monk who was probably never in love had a great proper saying that goes:"Everybody talks about marrying for love, but isn’t it really just marrying for sex? In the end isn’t it really only about a penis and a vagina? Why doesn’t anybody simply say that he’s fallen in love with a vagina"?

To answer the question Girls are loving men because of their money and men loving girls because of the sex.

Isn't it a fair deal?
Funny post. I like how you give props to that dumb quote: "great proper saying that goes....."
It's certainly easy to understand where youre coming from, nevertheless people who are this jaded and pessimistic really do hold humanity back. Hold society back. You think you're being wise but really you're not.

"The more people believe in love the more money will be earn in the love industry(Flowers,love movies,other stupid insignificant presents...)"

lmao. You've obviously never been in love.

[GrimFusion]

Funny post. I like how you give props to that dumb quote: "great proper saying that goes....."
It's certainly easy to understand where youre coming from, nevertheless people who are this jaded and pessimistic really do hold humanity back. Hold society back. You think you're being wise but you seem lost, to some degree.

"The more people believe in love the more money will be earn in the love industry(Flowers,love movies,other stupid insignificant presents...)"

lmao. You've obviously never been in love.

Damn, Schimmel. Although a little forward, I actually agree with you for once. Respect.

[ImmerGeil]

I was too often in love and after it was over I always regret it.

you all can't fool me with your pathetic believe in love.

The ones that believe in love are always the ones which cries like small sissies when their girlfriend break up with them.Their dullness is just laughable.Fucking whimps who can't accept reality.Life isn't a hollywood movie with a happy ending.Life usually ends in a cold grave.

After 3 years at the latest the feeling of falling in love goes away and the most relationshiphs will end if not before.

Simple biology.

Many americans seems to share my viewhttp://finance.fortune.cnn.com/2012/01/25/eric-klinenberg-going-solo/

I wouldn't called myself a pessimist more a realist.

Optimism means a lack of information.

[GrimFusion]

I was too often in love and after it was over I always regret it.

you all can't fool me with your pathetic believe in love.

The ones that believe in love are always the ones which cries like small sissies when their girlfriend break up with them.Their dullness is just laughable.Fucking whimps who can't accept reality.Life isn't a hollywood movie with a happy ending.Life usually ends in a cold grave.

After 3 years at the latest the feeling of falling in love goes away and the most relationshiphs will end if not before.

Simple biology.

Many americans seems to share my viewhttp://finance.fortune.cnn.com/2012/01/25/eric-klinenberg-going-solo/

I wouldn't called myself a pessimist more a realist.

Optimism means a lack of information.

Opinions are funny, aren't they?
They aren't funny when they come from people who should seek help. That's why I'm not laughing. I'm no psychiatrist but I think you might have some serious-ass dissociation issues. You shouldn't take my word on it, though. Go find out.

You're no different than a vegan. There's no rhyme or reason to your movement and it won't ever accomplish anything, but you still support it with a feverish passion. I'm glad it works for you, but there's no necessity to give up on love and most of us would prefer not to with the same amount of gumption as we would place in our defense of eating meat.

I kinda dig your claim that love is biologically destined to fail. Humans have been paring up in ceremonies like marriages for five thousand years. You're also completely ignoring the many species of animals on Earth that mate and pair for life. Considering species who thrive in communities and practice forms of social hierarchy, humans really don't contrast the example that biology had already manufactured.

I wouldn't call you a realist, but you're certainly not optimistic in the slightest.

[ImmerGeil]

you know nothing about me .Just one post on a tranny board is enough for you to give a judge about my mental state.That's what i called superficial.

IT's the modern Zeitgeist called the dictatorship of cheerfullness and unreasonable optimism.Everyone who doesn't agree with this should go to a mental doctor getting prescribed some pills and then he is an acceppted part of the prison called society.

Reminds me of Brave new World from Aldous Huxley.

Fits perfectly to the western capitalism.Always smiling,consuming things that aren't important.Thougtfullness is anti-trade and only desired to invent new products and services to make more money.

By the way the romantic love we are speaking of is a invention of Romanticism - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Romanticism)only a bit older than 200 years.

Before that time relationships were partnersips of convenience.Animals doesn't know romantic love.


In my environment i belong to the more optimistic people.you have also to consider that there is a huge cultural difference between germans and americans.

Most americans are too optimistic and most germans are too pessimistic.Imo both are wrong.Finding a happy medium is hard.

I would call myself an otimictic pessimist:)

[danthepoetman]

I’m going to take the risk of sounding terribly corny, here. Violins, please!
I suppose that real love is very rare. But you can reach a stage in which you know your partner better than she/he knows herself, and therefore, in which you tend to be so much more forgiving for anything because you understand everything about that person –which doesn’t mean you accept everything either… You reach a stage where that person’s life is more important than your own. I’ve said it before, I’ll say it again: you have to find someone with whom you have great friendship first, and that you lust for every bit as much, but the order here is important, I find. When you meet someone whom you feel could become the best friend you’ve ever had, someone with whom you don’t just communicate, but reach a point of communion, almost (eventually), who’s company is easily more important than any activity you share, and for whom you have desire for –and I mean, who probably correspond to some kind of ideal for you-, you’re probably in this one time or so life occurrence where you should set aside any type of ego bs and always negotiate, if not even bend, because that’s it. Such a person doesn’t just bring “love” to you, she/he makes you a better person, a sharing, giving being; she/he doesn’t just fulfills a need, but becomes a part of life, a self meaning goal, a part of yourself which goes way beyond what you could have envision as being you. It does exist; it’s real; and you have to be open for it.
I’m not going to get too deep into this, but there is a biological basis for this. Oxytocin is a hormone that creates feelings of attachments and affection in mammals. Those mammals which metabolizes oxytocin are monogamous; those who aren’t well… are not. And we, human beings, metabolize lots of it…
I have had a bit of experience with older people; often, with these very old couples of the yesteryears type. When one of the two dies, the other follows pretty fast –and I’m not talking about suicide. It’s very striking when you witness such a thing on a regular basis.
Then again, some people are not made to be with someone else. And we all have to keep in mind that marriage has historically been linked to (created and respected for) sharing wealth. It’s always been a business partnership. And it was working! Or either, the distribution of tasks according to gender and the specialization of work made it absolutely necessary to have someone of the opposite sex to simply live an ordinary existence, in many occurrences (in different social positions or classes, different eras in history or different geographic situations and types of societies, etc.). Romantic love (as we envision it today) is, not exclusively, but largely a creation that developed from the end of the Middle Ages all the way through Modernity, as ImmerGeil just alluded to. And life is so different today! Things have changed so much! Everything we live today is so centered on the individual as a consumer and as a social and bureaucratic unit. So although love is indeed possible, I don’t think it is necessary in our society anymore. I don’t think it’s something we necessarily have to look for, or even look forward to.

[SmithXXX]

Well I just got home from hanging out with "friends" (jamiethewild - insert insult here.....), and apparently I was correct about this thread causing drama...lol. Ya gotta love the haters that prove me right (haters aka Jamie (Jamie "aka" means "also know as")). Well I will read her responses, and try my best to decipher her horrible spelling and grammar tomorrow. Once I have done so I will respond in kind (Jamie that means if you responded like you took the short bus to school. I will use short small words so you understand). So until tomorrow I will give you plenty of time to dwell on what my response may be, and how you can retort. OR if you are smart you will down load spell check...oh wait spell check is free. When you see the red squiggly line under a word that means it's spelled incorrectly (incorrectly means wrong). Grammatically...well sorry that just comes from good up bringing and education.

[Genetic]

That's twice this weekend I've seen arguments where a ts has called someone a "faggot"....

[danthepoetman]

Well I just got home from hanging out with "friends" (jamiethewild - insert insult here.....), and apparently I was correct about this thread causing drama...lol. Ya gotta love the haters that prove me right (haters aka Jamie (Jamie "aka" means "also know as")). Well I will read her responses, and try my best to decipher her horrible spelling and grammar tomorrow. Once I have done so I will respond in kind (Jamie that means if you responded like you took the short bus to school. I will use short small words so you understand). So until tomorrow I will give you plenty of time to dwell on what my response may be, and how you can retort. OR if you are smart you will down load spell check...oh wait spell check is free. When you see the red squiggly line under a word that means it's spelled incorrectly (incorrectly means wrong). Grammatically...well sorry that just comes from good up bringing and education.
Yogi, although I have micro-wave popcorn in my pantry and am ready for anything, I suggest to you it might not be absolutely necessary… :)

[jamiethewild]

Well I just got home from hanging out with "friends" (jamiethewild - insert insult here.....), and apparently I was correct about this thread causing drama...lol. Ya gotta love the haters that prove me right (haters aka Jamie (Jamie "aka" means "also know as")). Well I will read her responses, and try my best to decipher her horrible spelling and grammar tomorrow. Once I have done so I will respond in kind (Jamie that means if you responded like you took the short bus to school. I will use short small words so you understand). So until tomorrow I will give you plenty of time to dwell on what my response may be, and how you can retort. OR if you are smart you will down load spell check...oh wait spell check is free. When you see the red squiggly line under a word that means it's spelled incorrectly (incorrectly means wrong). Grammatically...well sorry that just comes from good up bringing and education.

Yeah am the one that needs to grow, am the hypocrite, and lacks whatever you said ppppfftt whatever dude. You wanted drama and arguments on your thread right ? well i delivered it. You should be happy i did and thank me actually. :loser:

[BrendaTG]

ive learned that most men arent worth loving but every once in awhile one comes along and fucks everything up

yes thats true...most men really are not worth the try...
But once you meet a man that is...its no longer voluntary...you cant back out anymore....love is really ehm...

[BrendaTG]

Love is a condition of bio chemical craziness.

Comparable to a hard drug clouding the minds.

It was an still is a big illusion and today like everything else a product of the economy.The more people believe in love the more money will be earn in the love industry(Flowers,love movies,other stupid insignificant presents...)

Kodo Sawaki a zen monk who was probably never in love had a great proper saying that goes:"Everybody talks about marrying for love, but isn’t it really just marrying for sex? In the end isn’t it really only about a penis and a vagina? Why doesn’t anybody simply say that he’s fallen in love with a vagina"?

To answer the question Girls are loving men because of their money and men loving girls because of the sex.

Isn't it a fair deal?

oh man thats some crazy buddhist lol
really sad really...a vagina is probably all HE can think about...

Sex is just one of the ways in which you can show love and affection...yes i believe in love...
Also because I know I can love someone for ever...its not just chemistry...its the meaning of life...
All other things are not important...

I have seen a lot of people play tough that are total chickens when it comes to love or even emotions ...

If you want to be tough...try to love...

[danthepoetman]

THE EVERLY BROTHERS Bye Bye Love (take 1) - YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JY_a-xaHJtk&feature=fvwrel)
:dancing:
:yayo:

[ImmerGeil]

:yayo:Sawaki criticized the hypocrisy of married men that pretend to marry because of love but in reality all they want is a living sex toy.


As i fall in love I always had the biggest disapointments.Most women i met were nice at the beginning but later all of them were liars,cheaters,greedy,cruel and emotionally cold.Since I don't love anyone besides my parents my life has become much better.I don't miss anything.

The more I am cruel to women the more they will love me so now I don't give a shit about their feelings and it works.


Maybe if I had made better experiences i would have a different opinion about love.Who knows?

If you all feel better to be in love with someone then it's fine for you.

I just tell my opinion which is based on my experiences.Nothing more.

[jamiethewild]

:yayo:Sawaki criticized the hypocrisy of married men that pretend to marry because of love but in reality all they want is a living sex toy.


As i fall in love I always had the biggest disapointments.Most women i met were nice at the beginning but later all of them were liars,cheaters,greedy,cruel and emotionally cold.Since I don't love anyone besides my parents my life has become much better.I don't miss anything.

The more I am cruel to women the more they will love me so now I don't give a shit about their feelings and it works.


Maybe if I had made better experiences i would have a different opinion about love.Who knows?

If you all feel better to be in love with someone then it's fine for you.

I just tell my opinion which is based on my experiences.Nothing more.

I guess everyone is jaded in life to certain degrees. Its a two way street. You should always give life an opportunity with your guard up.

I am not going to lie but i do hate men to a certain degree, I have my reasons.

[danthepoetman]

I guess everyone is jaded in life to certain degrees. Its a two way street. You should always give life an opportunity with your guard up.

I am not going to lie but i do hate men to a certain degree, I have my reasons.
Do you know Bukowski, wild Jamie? He once had a character say: “I don’t hate people; I just seem to feel better when they’re not around…” I’ve always somewhat found myself in agreement with that line. People are not always nice, that’s the least you can say. It sometimes seems like everybody wants something from you without being the least bit interested in you… Would you be a fat butt naked man you would probably meet a cannibal… We live in a crazy world. And of course, there is some really bad shit some assholes do, if you forgive my French. Some of it is unforgivable.
I think a lot depends on the circumstances, generally speaking, where you are and how you meet people. We live in such promiscuity, today, we’re so pilled up one on the other, and we’re all in such a hurry to make it (whatever “it” is) that we practically don’t ever really meet anyone anymore. But you know, not all guys are the same. When you meet them in the right circumstances, and I mean, really meet them, get to know a bit about whom they are, sometimes, some of them are not all that bad.
Cruel, Crazy, Beautiful World - YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ulnQKyefe-c)

[GoddessAthena85]

Do you know Bukowski, wild Jamie? He once had a character say: “I don’t hate people; I just seem to feel better when they’re not around…” I’ve always somewhat found myself in agreement with that line. People are not always nice, that’s the least you can say. It sometimes seems like everybody wants something from you without being the least bit interested in you… Would you be a fat butt naked man you would probably meet a cannibal… We live in a crazy world. And of course, there is some really bad shit some assholes do, if you forgive my French. Some of it is unforgivable.
I think a lot depends on the circumstances, generally speaking, where you are and how you meet people. We live in such promiscuity, today, we’re so pilled up one on the other, and we’re all in such a hurry to make it (whatever “it” is) that we practically don’t ever really meet anyone anymore. But you know, not all guys are the same. When you meet them in the right circumstances, and I mean, really meet them, get to know a bit about whom they are, sometimes, some of them are not all that bad.
Cruel, Crazy, Beautiful World - YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ulnQKyefe-c)
:iagree:

[jamiethewild]

Do you know Bukowski, wild Jamie? He once had a character say: “I don’t hate people; I just seem to feel better when they’re not around…” I’ve always somewhat found myself in agreement with that line. People are not always nice, that’s the least you can say. It sometimes seems like everybody wants something from you without being the least bit interested in you… Would you be a fat butt naked man you would probably meet a cannibal… We live in a crazy world. And of course, there is some really bad shit some assholes do, if you forgive my French. Some of it is unforgivable.
I think a lot depends on the circumstances, generally speaking, where you are and how you meet people. We live in such promiscuity, today, we’re so pilled up one on the other, and we’re all in such a hurry to make it (whatever “it” is) that we practically don’t ever really meet anyone anymore. But you know, not all guys are the same. When you meet them in the right circumstances, and I mean, really meet them, get to know a bit about whom they are, sometimes, some of them are not all that bad.
Cruel, Crazy, Beautiful World - YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ulnQKyefe-c)

Dan i been on the industry and these boards way before you got here. I know theres potential love out there, I know theres are nice guys out there but its not as common. You can't come up to me with that conclusion and tell me that, you have to be TS to see it from my point of view however i see what your trying to say.

I have nothing but respect for you on this forum just like some ppl also. I don't just attack anyone out of the blue. Just know when i attack someone in this forum its not for no reason, I know what i say has a purpose and when i say its 100% most likely true and this person i bad mouth in this thread doesn't have my respect at all because he's talk negative about some of my girlfriends in LA.

[Willie Escalade]

ive learned that most men arent worth loving but every once in awhile one comes along and fucks everything up
Goes both ways. I've learned most women aren't worth loving as well...:nervous:

[TS Evelyn Summers]

Love is.....


My BMW 7 Series!

[doctor screw]

Evil justified is still evil....lol :whistle:

[doctor screw]

goes both ways. I've learned most women aren't worth loving as well...:nervous:

worrrrrrd

[danthepoetman]

Dan i been on the industry and these boards way before you got here. I know theres potential love out there, I know theres are nice guys out there but its not as common. You can't come up to me with that conclusion and tell me that, you have to be TS to see it from my point of view however i see what your trying to say.

I have nothing but respect for you on this forum just like some ppl also. I don't just attack anyone out of the blue. Just know when i attack someone in this forum its not for no reason, I know what i say has a purpose and when i say its 100% most likely true and this person i bad mouth in this thread doesn't have my respect at all because he's talk negative about some of my girlfriends in LA.
I know, Jamie! I was not judging that at all! that wasn’t my point. I really was just talking about people and about love in general.
I know enough of you, lady, to know that you tell it the way you see it! ;) And I know that when you have something to say, you say it frankly, and I respect that! You bear your name well, wild lady!
Besides, you’re right, and it’s something I didn’t address in my post: it must be much more difficult to find love when you’re a t-woman. There’s much more at play, much many more considerations for men which usually turn out to be essentially prejudices. It shouldn’t be like that, but we live in a society where it is still true. But hey! call me a hopeless romantic if you want: I can’t help trying to dig up something positive about people, when I get to know them a little, and in general, I manage to find it out. So I do believe that love is possible for anybody, with the right set of circumstances.
But of course, luck has to do with it too… :)