Ladies: What % of admirers are closet trannys?

[dc_guy_75]

Talking to a girl tonight at Divas in SF, she was convinced that the vast majority of admirers harbor transgendered feelings. Not only are they obsessed with cock, she said that often, they wish they could be her, and that gets them off. I couldn't really argue with her, since she's probably knows the tendencies of tranny-chasers more than me.

Most guys here probably wouldn't admit anything, so it would be great to hear the perspective of transwomen.

For the ladies here: In your experience, are most of the admirers you've met closet trannys?

[MacShreach]

Hi dc does wearing a kilt count? LOL. Nah, certainly not me, never fancied myself as a woman, but have been turned on most majorly by the idea of fucking TS women since I was...well, early teens I guess...

[yoursecretguy]

I'd be inclined to agree with the girl. I was fantasising and even indulging in cross-dressing since my very early teens. The only problem back then was that there was no net or "community" to speak of, so my love of it stayed unjustly private.

If I'd had my early teens all over again right now, I'm convinced I'd have gone down the TG route entirely.

[danthepoetman]

I’m not a lady by any standard or any stretch of the imagination. (I’m a 6 feet tall, 230 pounds stocky, hairy but balding and bearded Neanderthal specimen.) But I will answer the question (which I guess I already have). I’m not a “tranny chaser”; I’m not obsessed with cocks –as a matter of fact, I’m much more attracted to a t-lady’s little love orifice; the very thought of even wearing any kind of woman attire seems so funny to me it could probably make “America’s Funniest Videos” if I ever was; and I certainly don’t harbour any kind of transgender feeling… Yet, I have loved having sex with t-ladies when I did, I love tranny porn (also love regular porn), am totally fascinated by the reality of transsexuality (physical, psychological, biological), and in total admiration for the dedication and the courage these women have, and for the “work” they have to put on themselves to achieve their goal and to find adequacy to their inner feeling. To me, there is practically no being in this world that has to go through such a hard process just to be not only who they feel to be, but in fact who they really are –biology will show that very soon...
So to answer the question simply: NO for me! (or if you will, 0% of me)...

[MacShreach]

Yeah, I agree with all of that. It's not the first time I've seen this correlation being suggested though, that trans-attracted men are in some way trans themselves. I have no doubt it is the case for some; once again we hit up against the depressing lack of research in this area.

[dc_guy_75]

I suppose its a subject the ladies here would prefer to ignore, as are many great truths in life, which is totally understandable anyways.

[cutesteph]

I am a transgendered mtf (in transition). I began watching transgendered porn before it all, because I could relate more to the performers and wishing I will be as hot as the most beautiful after a couple years. I am a complete virgin in very sense though lol.

[danthepoetman]

Mmmm! interesting, Cutesteph! You should give us some details when the right thread comes. In the meantime, welcome to the debates and conversations of the site!

[thx1138]

People are never better off when they deny their deepest feelings and fantasies however bizarre they may seem to others. People are much better off when they accept these feelings and accept them as part of who they are.

[MacShreach]

People are never better off when they deny their deepest feelings and fantasies however bizarre they may seem to others. People are much better off when they accept these feelings and accept them as part of who they are.

Agreed. For me, being open about my attraction to TS/TG women took a long time and was a struggle in many ways. It's a lot easier now, if anybody questions it I just show 'em a couple of pictures and it is usually enough to shut them up. Yeah I lost a few acquaintances but on reflection, were they really friends? A little OT maybe, sorry.

[hngs]

I like dicks but not guys. I don't fantasize about getting my cornhole speared. That's all I know.