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Openstrife
09-17-2012, 01:13 AM
Is there any reliable method to finding local TS/TG women on facebook?

The only real method I've come across is searching on shemale/tg/ts pages and looking at who post on there... but anyone legit that I find is in a foreign country.

I live in Raleigh, North Carolina. I have honestly exhausted every single TS/TG/Herm dating website, including the pay ones. Every single one. What a waste of money hahaha. I am having absolutely no luck with FINDING anyone.

The only ones I can actually find are escorts on websites that usually travel... and I don't want to pay for experience... I'm looking to build some sort of relationship.

Anyone have any tips on ways to meet local TS/TG women... besides going to a gay bar/club.....

TempestTS
09-17-2012, 01:17 AM
You cant meet anyone on facebook - its a virtual social network, its not a real place

but if you nice anything can happen

GrimFusion
09-17-2012, 01:41 AM
Maybe you're just trying too hard and it shows. I've gotten a few offers from girls here on HA, but it's usually because I don't "try" at all. I don't chat up the girls around here assuming it's going to lead to anything. It can't lead to anything because I'm already in a monogamous relationship, so my options aren't exactly open. My only intention is bullshitting with girls I get along with. If you focus on doing the same instead of jumping right into dating discussions, I'm sure you'll eventually realize that the more chill you are, the more they'll come to you.

Openstrife
09-17-2012, 01:45 AM
Grim I have no problem at all connecting with girls.

My FB overloaded with girls who talk to me sheerly because they love to talk to me and enjoy my personality... but normal girls simply don't interest me too much. As arrogant as it may sound I could be getting laid every night by random girls but that is not something that I am interested in....

Connecting and talking to them isn't the issue. The issue is FINDING them. I can't talk to them if I don't find them. I have a lot of dating experience in terms of being confident, self-secure, and not needy... Connecting with girls is a skill i've developed over the years.

The problem isn't connecting, it is finding ts/tg women to connect with....

fireblad
09-17-2012, 01:49 AM
Is there any reliable method to finding local TS/TG women on facebook?

The only real method I've come across is searching on shemale/tg/ts pages and looking at who post on there... but anyone legit that I find is in a foreign country.

I live in Raleigh, North Carolina. I have honestly exhausted every single TS/TG/Herm dating website, including the pay ones. Every single one. What a waste of money hahaha. I am having absolutely no luck with FINDING anyone.

The only ones I can actually find are escorts on websites that usually travel... and I don't want to pay for experience... I'm looking to build some sort of relationship.

Anyone have any tips on ways to meet local TS/TG women... besides going to a gay bar/club.....


Facebook is for communication with people u dont wanna meet. Thats my understanding at least. Dating sites r probably more open to your quest even though u have exhausted them. Hey I thought the US is prime tgirl real estate? :confused:

Openstrife
09-17-2012, 01:56 AM
Facebook is for communication with people u dont wanna meet. Thats my understanding at least. Dating sites r probably more open to your quest even though u have exhausted them. Hey I thought the US is prime tgirl real estate? :confused:

Eh I've met so many beautiful girls through facebook in the past, especially in my high school & college years, that I cannot even begin to count.

In my opinion facebook is one of the BEST places to find girls who want to date/hook up..... you just have to be more careful with what you say, much greater selection than dating sites... but I'm really done with the girl/hook up phase.

I WISH so badly that I could find a TS/TG woman locally in my area....

GrimFusion
09-17-2012, 02:03 AM
Well, this is an LGBTQ group in Raleigh.
http://www.facebook.com/TransInitiative

Looks like they have dating event nights every now and again. There's one in five days. You might also be able to find chick's through likes and comments. Here's a few more resources, but they aren't specifically through facebook.

http://www.lgbtcenterofraleigh.com/site/transgender-initiative/269.html
http://tdolls.com/index.php?Type=State&id=33
http://lesbian-gay-bisexual-transgender.meetup.com/cities/us/nc/raleigh/

That's about as much help as I can give.

Openstrife
09-17-2012, 02:10 AM
Thank you very much for those links Grim. I will put them to good use.

sweetguynyc
09-17-2012, 02:39 AM
I've had good luck with transgenderdate.com and it's completely FREE (they don't even HAVE an option that requires payment)