How aggressive is too aggressive?

[Erika1487]

So yesterday morning I broke us with my boyfriend over what seems (to me any way) a silly reason. Sunday afternoon we where watching football on the couch, at my place when he started too 'rough house around'. Mind you he is only 5ft 8in 174lbs, he grabs my arm and says 'wanna wrestle' I said yeah, knowing we are playing around I let him grab me and pin my arm behind my back. He then called me 'weak'.
Up too this point I have been VERY passive with this guy and not let him know how strong I am, but this just lit a fire under my ass. I break free of his hold turn around and tackle him (hit him square in the stenum with my shoulder) too the floor jumped up on his shoulders pinning him down with both my knees and made him say 'uncle'.
As soon as he said it, I could see he was a more than little upset, I told him I was sorry and tried to console him, but he got up and left a half hour later. I called him that night and he would not anwser his phone. He called me yesterday to say he did not want to see me anymore. (he sounded upset and a little mad)
So my question is this....

Did I go too far and over react? (mind you we where just rough housing around on a sunday afternoon)

Or is this guy a limp wristed pussy with a inferiorty complex?

[Dino Velvet]

You were horsin' around and he couldn't take it. If he comes back make him come to you. You didn't do anything wrong and you're a good natured gal at heart anyway. Hope his ego can deal with it.

[jamesedwards]

I love a woman like you who can get ruff and make a man say uncle. He's a wuss, he shouldn't have played with you then wtf? I mean it's like he might of set that up to get rid of you. But I love a TGirl to ruff me up and grab me by the throat and slap me in the face and call me a bitch and take the ass. I love being raped by a big dick TGirl and she just take it and make me her bitch.

No, you didn't do anything wrong he is just a wuss of the worse kind. You need a man that will enjoy your ruffness.



So yesterday morning I broke us with my boyfriend over what seems (to me any way) a silly reason. Sunday afternoon we where watching football on the couch, at my place when he started too 'rough house around'. Mind you he is only 5ft 8in 174lbs, he grabs my arm and says 'wanna wrestle' I said yeah, knowing we are playing around I let him grab me and pin my arm behind my back. He then called me 'weak'.
Up too this point I have been VERY passive with this guy and not let him know how strong I am, but this just lit a fire under my ass. I break free of his hold turn around and tackle him (hit him square in the stenum with my shoulder) too the floor jumped up on his shoulders pinning him down with both my knees and made him say 'uncle'.
As soon as he said it, I could see he was a more than little upset, I told him I was sorry and tried to console him, but he got up and left a half hour later. I called him that night and he would not anwser his phone. He called me yesterday to say he did not want to see me anymore. (he sounded upset and a little mad)
So my question is this....

Did I go too far and over react? (mind you we where just rough housing around on a sunday afternoon)

Or is this guy a limp wristed pussy with a inferiorty complex?

[onmyknees]

:dancing:wow...sounds erotic !

[jamesedwards]

Erika how far is to far depends on you and your partner on how far you both will go.

[Erika1487]

You were horsin' around and he couldn't take it. If he comes back make him come to you. You didn't do anything wrong and you're a good natured gal at heart anyway. Hope his ego can deal with it. Aww thanks Dino, I even said I was sorry. Oh well his loss not mine, plenty good men & women out there without hang ups!

[Erika1487]

I love a woman like you who can get ruff and make a man say uncle. He's a wuss, he shouldn't have played with you then wtf? I mean it's like he might of set that up to get rid of you. But I love a TGirl to ruff me up and grab me by the throat and slap me in the face and call me a bitch and take the ass. I love being raped by a big dick TGirl and she just take it and make me her bitch.

No, you didn't do anything wrong he is just a wuss of the worse kind. You need a man that will enjoy your ruffness. Aww thank you James, you a good dude :cheers:

[Erika1487]

:dancing:wow...sounds erotic ! Well Omk I love too wrestle and most guys really enjoy being phsycial, but this guy could not handle though. Maybe I should fore warn my dates that you will get an ass beating at least twice a month! lol

[jamesedwards]

Well Omk I love too wrestle and most guys really enjoy being phsycial, but this guy could not handle though. Maybe I should fore warn my dates that you will get an ass beating at least twice a month! lol

yEAH you should do that tell them up front you like to wrestle and if you win you will take their asses and fuck them in the ass as your pleasure win!!! Pound away from your victory.

Shit you could wrestle with me twice a week fuck twice a month lol

[Quiet Reflections]

Sorry to hear about your troubles but he needs to grow a pair a strong woman is a hot commodity these days. You should tell him to grow up and UPS me some grippos

[bluerose]

But aggressive can be fun. >.> ...But then again, I've had partners who pinned me down and bit me into my happy place, so I would say something like that. >.>

when wrestleing, always be prepared to loose. Or is it win? >.> I guess it depends if you like being on the bottom as well or not~ ^_^

[zdubya69]

What a fairy! Lol. I don't bottom, but I do like the rough and tumble "come take it" or "fuck you, make me give it up"type attitude from girls and it adds to the fantasy if she can give me a decent struggle. I'm a not a small dude so it's not really an issue.

[Dino Velvet]

Aww thanks Dino, I even said I was sorry. Oh well his loss not mine, plenty good men & women out there without hang ups!

No more apologizing. Everybody in the thread is on your side too. Gotta be some further risky business you can get yourself into in Southeastern Ohio. Go mess with some Fighting Kentuckians or dig into the butt of some West Virginia Coal Miners.

[Erika1487]

Aww thanks ya'll! I have insecurity issues about my size sometimes and dating someone who fuels those insecuritys is not healthy. I feel better about not being with this guy already. :)

[Dino Velvet]

I feel better about not being with this guy already. :)

Good for you!:cheers:

[Prospero]

Aggression in a relationship takes many forms. I would say your late and unlamented boyfriend was kinda passive-aggressive and just couldn't take a bit of rough and tumble.

[Dino Velvet]

And remember he started the roughhousing.