Once you go TS you never go back! True of False

[humanoid]

I have been "entertaining" myself with TS porn for over 10 years. In that time I have developed lots of fantasy's about being with a TS.
I have come to the point at which I am deciding whether to act them out or not.
One concern I have is that I will be ruined when it comes to real girls. Will I lose my interest in pussy? I am really hoping the answer is no.
What are the experienced guys opinions on this?

Should I go for it or just keep it in a fantasy world?

[Baileyluv]

I have been "entertaining" myself with TS porn for over 10 years. In that time I have developed lots of fantasy's about being with a TS.
I have come to the point at which I am deciding whether to act them out or not.
One concern I have is that I will be ruined when it comes to real girls. Will I lose my interest in pussy? I am really hoping the answer is no.
What are the experienced guys opinions on this?

Should I go for it or just keep it in a fantasy world?

10 YRS WOW, YOLO man get out there and grab sum life experiences, dont live in fear.

[LibertyHarkness]

no you wont lose interest in genetic girls .

[Baileyluv]

no you wont lose interest in genetic girls .

UNLESS.... jajaja

[Wendy Summers]

I dunno - people seem to like the mantra "Once you go tranny you'll want it in your fanny!"

[LibertyHarkness]

my favourite is still fucking Genetic Girls ... then Transsexuals , followed with Men .. but i am bisexual and will pretty much have sex anything haha

[Wendy Summers]

my favourite is still fucking Genetic Girls ... then Transsexuals , followed with Men .. but i am bisexual and will pretty much have sex anything haha

That doesn't make you bisexual... it makes you a slut... and we love you for it! :dancing:

[Baileyluv]

That doesn't make you bisexual... it makes you a slut... and we love you for it! :dancing:

makes her sexaully greedy, and yes we do love her for it , jajaja

[Dino Velvet]

As long as they're chargin, I'm buyin'!:fuckin:

[danthepoetman]

If you love g-girls, humanoid, you won’t stop loving them, unless you mean to say that you want to take it, in which case you might, after 10 years of fantasies, discover some more things about yourself (not that I’m an expert on the question though). But to me, a woman is a woman, whether she has a weenie or not. There’s no reason for anyone to stop liking genetic girls because they like t-girls or vice versa… You don’t stop liking smaller breast, for instance, because you’ve handled huge ones – at least not I (though big natural ones make me sea sick :))

[christianxxx]

once you have a sexual experience with a transsexual - it will definitely start you on a journey to places you have never been before. one becomes two becomes three and now its your guilty pleasure. enjoy! :)

[brickcitybrother]

I have an answer that I give when asked (not directly your question, but on a very similar subject - and the answer WILL fit):

You wonder if you should try it? Well, like anything, there are steps that are taken. To make this easier to discuss let's say we're talking about food; hamburgers to be specific.

A hamburger is simply wonderful. Remember your first time really enjoying one. It just seemed to be perfect. That is, until you enjoy your first cheeseburger. Wow, its just like a hamburger, only better! A greater experience let's say. And you are completely satisfied with cheeseburgers - completely! That is, until you ate a bacon cheeseburger. Who know such joy could be contained in a package. The flavors, the aroma, the textures. This was clearly the ultimate. That is, until you heard of a Swiss cheese and onion bacon double cheeseburger with special sauce...

In other words, for some, the quest for 'perfection', or 'excitement'. or 'new experiences' or whatever never ends. The song says 'How you gonna keep em on the farm, after they've seen Paree'* I say, who eats hamburgers after a bacon cheeseburger (much less after experiencing even greater heights). Are you gonna succumb to this spiral? Are you THAT type of person? Be forewarned.

This is the dilemma only you can answer. Can you have what some may say is a great erotic experience just once? Only twice? Its my understanding that men don't go backwards with when it comes to their desires (e.g. Once a man knows that oral sex is fairly available and quite enjoyable, he's not going to tolerate a woman who's not going to give him it). Are you going to be able to have your experience ... and not want more? Especially in light of your 10 years of fantasying.

Good questions all ... you'll be fine if you know the answers and are guided accordingly.













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[saifan]

Life is definitively too short not to explore things that turn you on but I can say in my since my first experience in '08 I haven't had the desire to sleep with a GG. I still look, sure.

Just realize that it could go the other way and not be right for you.

Either way have fun and be safe.

[littlebitfirework]

I would really love the chance to be with a ts but, I cannot find a site that is either free to hook up with free email or that people just do not assume it is a man wanting to hook up

[saifan]

I would really love the chance to be with a ts but, I cannot find a site that is either free to hook up with free email or that people just do not assume it is a man wanting to hook up

Your best bet is to really just cough up some dough. You can be incredibly selective this way. Also, there will be no doubt what you want.

[hungnyun22]

I prefer TS porn to sex with a TS if I'm being honest. I really find the visual of a TS very stimulating, but the physical act is less enjoyable to me than sex with a woman. Ultimately it's going to be different for everyone, but if you're interested there's no reason not to try it. If you like it so much that pussy loses its appeal then why care? You've found something you like better, enjoy yourself.

[LongTom101]

I prefer TS porn to sex with a TS if I'm being honest. I really find the visual of a TS very stimulating, but the physical act is less enjoyable to me than sex with a woman. Ultimately it's going to be different for everyone, but if you're interested there's no reason not to try it. If you like it so much that pussy loses its appeal then why care? You've found something you like better, enjoy yourself.

+1

Totally agree

[hwbs]

on a serious note unless u have a total horrible 1st experience there is no turning back ....its one thing we don't talk openly as guys .....i am 100 % serious...trust me i have been around and seen a lot in a short period of time !!!

[Dino Velvet]

I procrastinated for years putting it off, putting it off, looking for excuses not to go through with it but after my first TS I wondered why I waited 40 years. Felt so great I almost got hit by a car crossing Sepulveda afterward still processing the event. Made up for lost time the last 4. Now I would never have sex with only GGs or only TSs.

[evilernie]

Repression is a sign of will power. ;)

[mattavs1]

I had a really good experience with a tgirl in 1998, an alright experience in 1999 but since then nothing, except for a trip to a club in 2004 and even then all I got was a snog. I have been with the same woman since then and except for the occasional goggle at TS porn I am not bothered about seeking about more experiences with TS girls. I guess everybody is different. Some people will get hooked and prefer TS girls, others won't.

[giovanni_hotel]

The more awesome the first time experience with a TS, the less likely you are to ever go back to your old 'normal'.
My first time the kissing turned my on, seeing her aroused and hard turned me on, blowing each other blew my mind...etc. I literally had to just sit still for a moment and slow my pulse rate down because I felt like my heart was about to burst through my ribcage!!

Then fucking her, the climax(hers/mine)...it was OVER.

I love pussy, I was raised on pussy. But I could step from pussy indefinitely for the right TG.

Just saying, being physically intimate with a TG after fantasizing about if for YEARS could do a serious mind/body fuck on your head.

[TempestTS]

no you wont lose interest in genetic girls .


Libby's right, if your a guy you wont lose interest in Genetic girls, or your hand, the sponge in the shower, that random inflatable sheep you tell your friends is just a gag gift, or a knot hole in a tree out in the yard or... well I think you see where this is going.

[Jackal]

I first found an affinity for transwomen in the 1990s as a preteen but have been in relationships with both tg and gg since then, almost married a gg. I don't think the title of this thread is true for everyone.

[danthepoetman]

So once you’re gone you can never come back? :)

“It’s better to burn out, than to fade away
Out of the blue and into the black
They give you this but you pay for that
Once you’re gone you can’t come back
When you’re out of the blue and into the black”

Neil Young & Crazy Horse - My My, Hey Hey (Out Of The Blue) - YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LYak0rPUDIU)

I guess no experience ever leave us completely unchanged, especially of such nature, desire being such a great part of our life; and the younger you are, the truer it is of course. But humanoid’s preoccupation (the OP), was that he could possibly loose all interest in g-women after an experience with a t-woman. I find that to be a highly doubtful possibility if you really love woman in the first place. If you’ve been desiring something for 10 years, it’s ridiculous to wait any longer: just go for it!

[Dino Velvet]

Once you take the fanny of a horny tranny you'll quit playing grab-ass with the nanny or sneaking peeks of granny taking it in the canny from the gardener Manny.

Her name is Dani.:fuckin:

[danthepoetman]

Lol Yep! Dani could be a possible case of never coming back…
Nice rhymes, Dino!

[FreddieGomez]

the attraction is always there, but it's not like you HAVE to act upon it.

And if you lose interest in genetic women well then you're probably "gay."

Not necessarily "gay" as into men "gay" but not exactly str8 either. That's why I'd never be into TS exclusively.

Nothing compares to pussy.

[giovanni_hotel]

What if you had 'feelings' for a TG who fit your physical and emotional/intellectual standards, Freddie??

Would you still creep on her??
Not saying I would ever lose interest in pussy, but me personally I could be down in a LTR with a TG and be faithful and not miss the pussy I could be getting.

[Dino Velvet]

the attraction is always there, but it's not like you HAVE to act upon it.

And if you lose interest in genetic women well then you're probably "gay."

Not necessarily "gay" as into men "gay" but not exactly str8 either. That's why I'd never be into TS exclusively.

Nothing compares to pussy.

Gettin' baked, Freddie? Pass that shit across America.:smoking

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[danthepoetman]

What if you had 'feelings' for a TG who fit your physical and emotional/intellectual standards, Freddie??

Would you still creep on her??
Not saying I would ever lose interest in pussy, but me personally I could be down in a LTR with a TG and be faithful and not miss the pussy I could be getting.

You have a good point Giovanni, and I agree with you. If you find a t-girl with whom you have a real relationship, with whom in other words, you fall in love, I suppose it would be easy to forget all about pussies. I know it would be the case for me.

[Baileyluv]

Gettin' baked, Freddie? Pass that shit across America.:smoking

http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/customavatars/avatar67906_71.gif

reminds me i need to stop by the clinic, for sum gods gift, and blue dream

[Dino Velvet]

reminds me i need to stop by the clinic, for sum gods gift, and blue dream

My good deed for the day. Don't forget to buy drugs.

Bongzilla tribute video - YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UwTDK0foCmM)

[humanoid]

Thanks for all of the awesome advice. I am going to do it......soon.

[reformedcharacter]

In my life I have been sexually attracted to hundreds/thousands of girls without ever seeing the contents of their pants

I like girls and it's not their penis or their vagina that I'm attracted to

[Lovecox]

I've gone back ... and forth. To me girls and Tgirls are fungible. In fact they put the "fun" in fungible.

[castor_troyuk]

As many others have said, it's really unlikely that you'll instantly be repulsed by the idea of sex with gg's. Personally I've no intention of going back but that's purely because I'm in a committed relationship with my girl

[TatianaSummer]

False! You go back!... to look for more! :)

[Dino Velvet]

False! You go back!... to look for more! :)

Only go to the ATM then back again to the trick pad.

[undercvrslut]

True. Happend to me, so speaking from experience ;)

[ILoveGG&TS]

In spite of my name, I actually prefer having sex with genetic women over transsexual women. It has been many years since I had sex with a Ts woman and I'm not sure if it will ever happen again. I do enjoy watching Ts porn from time to time.

[danthepoetman]

If you love pussy, how can you stop loving it? There’s no way. I can’t imagine any! Not as a “top”. Loving girls with an extra won’t make you stop loving girls with pussies. Girls are girls. You love the whole more than you bother with the precise parts.
Now I suppose that if you want to bottom, and never have, it’s something else. I won’t say that it is gay, but it surely is as if you always have fantasized about having sex with a man, and decided to act on it. No? I would suppose you could discover something else about yourself.
Therefore if you bottom, I guess you should beware.
If you top, the question should not even bother you…

[Redballs]

True, girls are girls. Pussy's pussy. But when you want to suck cock, TS is the way to go.

[amberskyi]

True, girls are girls. Pussy's pussy. But when you want to suck cock, TS is the way to go.

that didnt sound gay

[TatianaSummer]

Only go to the ATM then back again to the trick pad.

well thats true, but now some of the girls accept credit cards.

[tomvan20000]

Im a complete Top but even so, genetic women no longer arouse me. Go figure.

[SXFX]

The DUMBEST THREAD EVER!
Who cares? Shit.....but if i had to answer....can't i have both?
Fuck! I'm a man! And as a man I want everything?
So guess what....I'm going to have it!

[bottomXOslave]

True, girls are girls. Pussy's pussy. But when you want to suck cock, TS is the way to go.

Or you can always contact me for fem boys or masculine cocks friends also cock is cock . not only ts can provide caack !!!!!!! lol:dancing::dancing::dancing:

[GrimFusion]

Or you can always contact me for fem boys or masculine cocks friends also cock is cock . not only ts can provide caack !!!!!!! lol:dancing::dancing::dancing:

"Everything's gravy if you close your eyes". lol.

[MacShreach]

In my life I have been sexually attracted to hundreds/thousands of girls without ever seeing the contents of their pants

I like girls and it's not their penis or their vagina that I'm attracted to

One of the most on-point posts I've ever seen here. EXACTLY right.

[Prospero]

By going back do you mean giving up on transgendered girls/ No way. It has simply made the horizons so much wider. I wish I could make the leap into liking guys too. But I have tried and i just can't. The chemisty forbids it for me.

[danthepoetman]

By going back do you mean giving up on transgendered girls/ No way. It has simply made the horizons so much wider. I wish I could make the leap into liking guys too. But I have tried and i just can't. The chemisty forbids it for me.
He means not being able to like g-girls anymore... at least that's how I read it.

[Prospero]

Anywhichway he meant it - I refuse to accept such limitations.

[danthepoetman]

My point has been from the get go: if you love girls, you will love them no matter what… A girl is a girl is a girl. Whatever organ is attached to her…

[MacShreach]

I must admit that while in real life I am just as attracted to natal women as I have always been, in terms of porn fantasy, vanilla pussy sex...meh. I think that's because in real life you don't start naked, so it's about the face, the personality and the figure. Porn fantasy (which is a lot of what this place is about) has totally different rules.

[danthepoetman]

I must admit that while in real life I am just as attracted to natal women as I have always been, in terms of porn fantasy, vanilla pussy sex...meh. I think that's because in real life you don't start naked, so it's about the face, the personality and the figure. Porn fantasy (which is a lot of what this place is about) has totally different rules.
Very good points, MacShreach! And therefore your answer would be "false", I suppose. I would agree with you on every point...

[MacShreach]

Very good points, MacShreach! And therefore your answer would be "false", I suppose. I would agree with you on every point...

Half so...Still attracted to natal women but it's no longer exclusive and never will be again....so in one way, no I won't be going back, not to an exclusive interest in natal women anyway. I'm not in a serious relationship at the moment so I can indulge my range of desires. As to whether I would get into an LTR again, well yes; I like being in love. It's really nice. She would have to be the right person and no it won't matter what she has between her legs. I mean I do have to be sexually attracted for an LTR to work, that much I do know about myself, and I would never kid anyone--if she don't get me hot, it ain't gonna happen. But sexual attraction is reinforced by good sex and eroded by bad sex, so these are related.

[danthepoetman]

Yes. Secret of long term to me is friendship, deep communication and yes, you’re right, attraction, desire, or else it won’t hold. But friendship first because you go through so many ups and downs in a life, you go through so many rough spots. And worst: you age!

[mtbazz]

I have been "entertaining" myself with TS porn for over 10 years. In that time I have developed lots of fantasy's about being with a TS.
I have come to the point at which I am deciding whether to act them out or not.
One concern I have is that I will be ruined when it comes to real girls. Will I lose my interest in pussy? I am really hoping the answer is no.
What are the experienced guys opinions on this?

Should I go for it or just keep it in a fantasy world?


Go for it, live it up while you can..if you genuinely have an interest in girls, I doubt you will lose that interest.

I spent a few years putting off my first TS experience...big mistake.

[MacShreach]

Yes. Secret of long term to me is friendship, deep communication and yes, you’re right, attraction, desire, or else it won’t hold. But friendship first because you go through so many ups and downs in a life, you go through so many rough spots. And worst: you age!

Friendship is vital but the night you'd rather watch a rerun of CSI than get her knicks off and fuck like cats on the sofa, your relationship is on the skids....

[danthepoetman]

I get what you’re saying. But if you’re talking real long term, it will happen eventually, believe me. There was an age at which I thought it was better to die than get there! But you know, it just depends on how you do it, in the end. It can be really good and nice to quietly watch CSI one on the other and cuddle. At some point, sex drive stops being so hard. Tenderness becomes more important.
(Weird stuff to say on a porn forum, though... :))

[MacShreach]

I get what you’re saying. But if you’re talking real long term, it will happen eventually, believe me. There was an age at which I thought it was better to die than get there! But you know, it just depends on how you do it, in the end. It can be really good and nice to quietly watch CSI one on the other and cuddle. At some point, sex drive stops being so hard. Tenderness becomes more important.
(Weird stuff to say on a porn forum, though... :))

Well I've done real long term (over 2 decades), it's a call I'm qualified to make and it doesn't change. Maybe a premier of the latest whatever movie you've been waiting to see (and even then it's borderline), yeah but once you get to preferring reruns of CSI (or insert here whatever inane brainless pish you like)...nah. You're looking at a dead relationship, it's only still walking because it doesn't know it.

Sorry to sound harsh but far too many people exist in relationships where all they have left is 'friendship' and maybe not even that...just the comfort of familiarity... usually because they're afraid to be alone and lonely, and so they get inwardly old. No. When I go out it will be in flames. Preferably with my dick balls deep in a cute ladyboy:fuckin:

[loveboof]

Sorry to sound harsh but far too many people exist in relationships where all they have left is 'friendship' and maybe not even that...just the comfort of familiarity... usually because they're afraid to be alone and lonely, and so they get inwardly old. No.

Sometimes that is the case, but everybody is different. What would be unbearable for you could be perfect for someone else.

If two people are happy just to chill and watch crap on tv with each other that doesn't mean their relationship is on the rocks - it just means they expect something different from a relationship than you do.

Love is not just about sex.

[MacShreach]

Might be a bit of a shock for the girl, so apologies in advance, but yeah, just let me see a pretty little cock squirting over a pair of perfect tits, feel that tightness round my cock one last time, and the universe can recycle my atheist ass.

But not any time soon, I hope.:evil:

[MacShreach]

Sometimes that is the case, but everybody is different. What would be unbearable for you could be perfect for someone else.

If two people are happy just to chill and watch crap on tv with each other that doesn't mean their relationship is on the rocks - it just means they expect something different from a relationship than you do.

Love is not just about sex.

Have it, brother, you are more than welcome. Just don't complain if at the end of your days you look back and think 'I could have done so much more.' Remember: there is only one life. It is up to you to choose how you live it, but never forget that one, basic, inescapable truth.

[loveboof]

Have it, brother, you are more than welcome. Just don't complain if at the end of your days you look back and think 'I could have done so much more.' Remember: there is only one life. It is up to you to choose how you live it, but never forget that one, basic, inescapable truth.

I think you could always look back and think that... It's a state of mind.

Personally, if I love a girl and she loves me then I'm happy spending time with her no matter what we're doing. Obviously I enjoy having sex, but when we're older I will consider myself lucky if we're still in love and want to be with each other.

My point was that everyone is different. For you a relationship is over if you both want to watch tv instead of having sex. That is simply not the case for everyone...

[amberskyi]

Well I've done real long term (over 2 decades), it's a call I'm qualified to make and it doesn't change. Maybe a premier of the latest whatever movie you've been waiting to see (and even then it's borderline), yeah but once you get to preferring reruns of CSI (or insert here whatever inane brainless pish you like)...nah. You're looking at a dead relationship, it's only still walking because it doesn't know it.

Sorry to sound harsh but far too many people exist in relationships where all they have left is 'friendship' and maybe not even that...just the comfort of familiarity... usually because they're afraid to be alone and lonely, and so they get inwardly old. No. When I go out it will be in flames. Preferably with my dick balls deep in a cute ladyboy:fuckin:

so your saying that for you a happy relationship is where a couple does nothing but fuck and thats it???
that doesnt seem like much of a relationship to me.usually relationships are built on common interest,ideas,goals etc.if i cant share my common interest with my loved one (like zombie movie marathon) why call it a relationship.
i dont think people are saying they prefer watching tv to sex.they are saying the want to have the intimacy of just being able to chill and do mundane things together as well as get freaky lol

[MacShreach]

so your saying that for you a happy relationship is where a couple does nothing but fuck and thats it???
that doesnt seem like much of a relationship to me.usually relationships are built on common interest,ideas,goals etc.if i cant share my common interest with my loved one (like zombie movie marathon) why call it a relationship.
i dont think people are saying they prefer watching tv to sex.they are saying the want to have the intimacy of just being able to chill and do mundane things together as well as get freaky lol


No, I'm not saying that and frankly were it anyone other than you I probably would not bother replying, but actually you answer yourself in the last part of your statement.

Indeed, many things other than sex are vital for a relationship including being able to relax together, being friends (the importance of which I have already stated) shared interests, but the fact is that unless there is sexual desire the relationship is not one that could be called a relationship of lovers, as opposed to a loving relationship. In other words, I am not disputing that you need other things (like chilling and being mundane, and I can tell you that if you have 4 kids you do a lot of the mundane) but once the hots have gone it's on the slope. Simples.

[amberskyi]

No, I'm not saying that and frankly were it anyone other than you I probably would not bother replying, but actually you answer yourself in the last part of your statement.

Indeed, many things other than sex are vital for a relationship including being able to relax together, being friends (the importance of which I have already stated) shared interests, but the fact is that unless there is sexual desire the relationship is not one that could be called a relationship of lovers, as opposed to a loving relationship. In other words, I am not disputing that you need other things (like chilling and being mundane, and I can tell you that if you have 4 kids you do a lot of the mundane) but once the hots have gone it's on the slope. Simples.

im pretty sure everyone would agree with that.
like i said i dont think theyre saying they prefer to watch tv over sex.i think theyre saying that its cool to be able to just hang out and watch tv with the person you care about
ps.what do you mean if it was anyone but me you wouldnt bother replying.do you not like me or something lol

[MacShreach]

so your saying that for you a happy relationship is where a couple does nothing but fuck and thats it???
that doesnt seem like much of a relationship to me.usually relationships are built on common interest,ideas,goals etc.if i cant share my common interest with my loved one (like zombie movie marathon) why call it a relationship.
i dont think people are saying they prefer watching tv to sex.they are saying the want to have the intimacy of just being able to chill and do mundane things together as well as get freaky lol


im pretty sure everyone would agree with that.
like i said i dont think theyre saying they prefer to watch tv over sex.i think theyre saying that its cool to be able to just hang out and watch tv with the person you care about
ps.what do you mean if it was anyone but me you wouldnt bother replying.do you not like me or something lol

That was because you come across as a polite, charming and intelligent woman. My pleasure to know you.

[red-cyberman]

Well It's about first experience if it all goes wrong it can affect you but if everything goes down smooth I think it's true.
I have never been with a tgirl and I want a real experience with a Tgirlfriend not the type of pay me 200$ and leave.
I always had this dream of having a tgirl as my girlfriend and getting married and later adopting 2 children one girl and one boy and raising them together.
I'm still hoping it can happen one day and I can find the tgirl of my dreams.

[Robert66]

It's too sweeping a statement to give a real answer. Most of the replies on this thread make that quite clear. Once you get beyond the physical you can develop an emotional/mental relationship if you have that chemistry. Like many, I fantasised with the notion for a lot of years, but other than a handful of shemale prostitutes I never ventured further, until my marriage broke up. Then I discovered a number of shemale dating websites and I started proper dating, first internet then in real. However, I met the ts of my dreams in a normal situation (well, as normal as it could be), when getting a haircut in Bangkok. A stunning ladyboy cut my hair and from just talking we started dating. This was over two years ago and I have not been back to a genetic girl since. She has just received her settlement visa for my country, and our intention is to get married in a US state where same-sex marriages are permissible. We have lived together in Thailand full time for the last year. She is everything I look for in a woman. She has had several procedures (breasts, nose, adam's apple, hips) but has stopped short of the ultimate cut which we have decided not to do as this is the main attraction of a ladyboy.
It is up to the individual. I believe I have found my nirvana, but am realistic enough to accept that things can change, as they can in a 'normal' relationship

[giovanni_hotel]

Incredible post, Robert66.

[danthepoetman]

You found love! that’s great! And that’s something else… I’m glad for you both, Robert66 and I wish you the very best!

[MacShreach]

It's too sweeping a statement to give a real answer. Most of the replies on this thread make that quite clear. Once you get beyond the physical you can develop an emotional/mental relationship if you have that chemistry. Like many, I fantasised with the notion for a lot of years, but other than a handful of shemale prostitutes I never ventured further, until my marriage broke up. Then I discovered a number of shemale dating websites and I started proper dating, first internet then in real. However, I met the ts of my dreams in a normal situation (well, as normal as it could be), when getting a haircut in Bangkok. A stunning ladyboy cut my hair and from just talking we started dating. This was over two years ago and I have not been back to a genetic girl since. She has just received her settlement visa for my country, and our intention is to get married in a US state where same-sex marriages are permissible. We have lived together in Thailand full time for the last year. She is everything I look for in a woman. She has had several procedures (breasts, nose, adam's apple, hips) but has stopped short of the ultimate cut which we have decided not to do as this is the main attraction of a ladyboy.
It is up to the individual. I believe I have found my nirvana, but am realistic enough to accept that things can change, as they can in a 'normal' relationship

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What a great story Robert. Not often a jaded old git like me has the cockles of his heart warmed, but that did it. Good luck to both of you.

[Donkey]

It's too sweeping a statement to give a real answer. Most of the replies on this thread make that quite clear. Once you get beyond the physical you can develop an emotional/mental relationship if you have that chemistry. Like many, I fantasised with the notion for a lot of years, but other than a handful of shemale prostitutes I never ventured further, until my marriage broke up. Then I discovered a number of shemale dating websites and I started proper dating, first internet then in real. However, I met the ts of my dreams in a normal situation (well, as normal as it could be), when getting a haircut in Bangkok. A stunning ladyboy cut my hair and from just talking we started dating. This was over two years ago and I have not been back to a genetic girl since. She has just received her settlement visa for my country, and our intention is to get married in a US state where same-sex marriages are permissible. We have lived together in Thailand full time for the last year. She is everything I look for in a woman. She has had several procedures (breasts, nose, adam's apple, hips) but has stopped short of the ultimate cut which we have decided not to do as this is the main attraction of a ladyboy.
It is up to the individual. I believe I have found my nirvana, but am realistic enough to accept that things can change, as they can in a 'normal' relationship
Glad to hear this has worked out for you, thus far. Many guys dream about bringing a Thai girl back to the states, but there are usually too many obstacles to overcome -- often a lack of desire to leave Thailand on the girl's part.