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xkr0p
08-20-2012, 03:01 PM
Just looking for some advice as I have a date with a TS I met online. I have never been on a date with one, let alone had any interactions besides one time paying for an escort.

I am not sure what my exceptions are, or hers. Nor am I really sure of how it will differ from going on a date with a regular girls lol. I guess its more me being nervous and not knowing how to act considering it is a first for me going on a date with one, let alone even talking or having normal conversation with one. I would appreciate any input from guys or girls thanks.

Prospero
08-20-2012, 03:05 PM
It's a date with a girl. Whatever your expectations might be of a first date with a girl use the same criteria.

Jamie French
08-20-2012, 04:27 PM
I never understood why dudes would think you'd have to act any other way than human. Only seeing us in porn must really screw with peoples' heads.

LAGent4ts
08-20-2012, 04:40 PM
Get off to a good start by opening the car door when you pick her up, then follow Prosper's advice....and have an enjoyable evening together.

MartyRamone
08-20-2012, 04:55 PM
Going from personal experience I'd tell you to be prepared to deal with someone who has somewhat more baggage than most women of the same age, but yeah otherwise it's no different than any date you've ever been on, have fun!

xkr0p
08-20-2012, 05:21 PM
I never understood why dudes would think you'd have to act any other way than human. Only seeing us in porn must really screw with peoples' heads.

I think you are right... That and the fact that my only other interaction was with an escort so yea lol. Thanks everyone for the input!

Wendy Summers
08-20-2012, 05:36 PM
I believe the expressions says:

"When in Doubt, Whip it Out"

Although your mileage may vary with that...

rodinuk
08-20-2012, 06:24 PM
You can read Tyler's thoughts on TS relationships:

http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/showpost.php?p=1186690&postcount=4

Prospero
08-20-2012, 06:30 PM
I really think you can get bogged down. We are not yet talking about a relationship - but about a date. Treat her well. Spoil her. Listen to her. Talk to her. Treat her good. Make her laugh etc etc... in other words treat her as you would any young woman on a date. Don't treat her as if she is a freak or odd or unusual.. but as if she is special as a person.

Castor_Troy05
08-20-2012, 06:40 PM
I don't see why you'd treat her any differently than any other woman. Oh but don't mention anything about her privates, it's not date conversation. If you wouldn't do it with any other girl, don't do it with this one

BellaBellucci
08-20-2012, 06:43 PM
My gods, man! Are you insane?! Get out while you still can!

~BB~

rockabilly
08-20-2012, 06:55 PM
Treat her like a lady , act like a gentleman etc. etc.

Quiet Reflections
08-20-2012, 08:45 PM
Just be yourself, unless you are a genuinely terrible person.

Wendy Summers
08-20-2012, 08:54 PM
Just be yourself, unless you are a genuinely terrible person.

lolz

archineer
08-20-2012, 10:12 PM
Same as a normal woman, just have a lot more cash.....

MHarrigan82
08-21-2012, 02:06 AM
Treat her just like you would a genetic woman. I just dated my first transwoman a little over two months ago. I was very nervous just like you. I have only dated genetic women in the past. Two months later she is my girlfriend and is no different than any genetic girl I have dated.

danthepoetman
08-21-2012, 04:20 AM
Follow all of the advices above or bellow.

rodinuk
08-21-2012, 04:53 AM
Send me £1000 immediately :D

eddymunster90
08-21-2012, 05:04 AM
Date with GG, bring one condom.

Date with TG, bring two condoms.

I kid, I kid.

Quiet Reflections
08-21-2012, 10:41 AM
Date with GG, bring one condom.

Date with TG, bring two condoms.

I kid, I kid.
whats to kid about? if you both got dicks you need two condoms if you are going to give and take, no joke there just truth.

Prospero
08-21-2012, 12:09 PM
But doesn't one always carry a few condoms... it could be a quick session or a long all nighter....

danthepoetman
08-21-2012, 12:56 PM
For an all nighter, two isn’t enough even for one dick. And by far, hopefully...

tsadriana
08-21-2012, 01:02 PM
Just looking for some advice as I have a date with a TS I met online. I have never been on a date with one, let alone had any interactions besides one time paying for an escort.

I am not sure what my exceptions are, or hers. Nor am I really sure of how it will differ from going on a date with a regular girls lol. I guess its more me being nervous and not knowing how to act considering it is a first for me going on a date with one, let alone even talking or having normal conversation with one. I would appreciate any input from guys or girls thanks.
Good advice from me....
Imagine that she is a real girl ,treat her like a lady ,be a nice gentleman ....And don`t let the fact that she is ts and is ur first time when u go out with a ts to make u nervous.If she is feminine enough and passable im sure that everything will be ok ...When i go out with someone i always try to show the girl in me and behave like one,.

danthepoetman
08-21-2012, 01:29 PM
Imagine that she is a real girl ,treat her like a lady ,be a nice gentleman ....And don`t let the fact that she is ts and is ur first time when u go out with a ts to make u nervous.If she is feminine enough and passable im sure that everything will be ok ...When i go out with someone i always try to show the girl in me and behave like one,.

Well, let’s hope the girl is as much a lady as you are, Lady Adriana, and let’s hope for the guy she’s as much fun also! because you are indeed someone very special… :)

lifeisfiction
08-21-2012, 06:38 PM
Remember, whenever you any wonderful woman you have make the date memorable. Woman love a challenge so glance at every other cute woman. Talk on your phone a lot. They will try and fight for your attention. Talk about your ex-gfs, woman want to know if you are able to develop relationships. Don't pay attention to anything she is saying. She is just trying to see if your easily controlled. Above anything else don't compliment her directly. Women tend to sleep with men that treat them like crap. Above all if you want a second date with a woman I suggest you propose to her on the first date. Women love commiment and a proposal just demostrates that you are capable of achieving their desires.

If you followed my advice you will have a great time. Remember women love jerks.

Baileyluv
08-21-2012, 07:25 PM
really, your asking for advice on how you should behave in public with a date?

Just WOW,ok now where to start?

is this your first date ever? you've done this before, yes. Going out with someone for the first time is the same for straights, gays, bi's, and pans. your gonna be nervious, the other parties gonna be nervious. So realx, be mindful, and have fun. Be intrigued, have conversation, dont worry about surrounding company(they dont really exist) focus on your date and be attentive. Yes she may be a lil shy, but dont read into it as yourself, remember she has the right, as any gurl, to be resevred about new people. Compliments and contact, are always nice gestures, but again slow, maybe hold her hand on the stroll after dinner. Dont be a creep and force situations to happen(rushing things), and the hard part, do allow her to compromise her integrity, things dont have to be done "just because".




Just remember its just a date with a pretty woman, relax.