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BarryC
07-13-2012, 10:22 PM
Hope you don't mind me running this by the members here but I have a bit of a situation. I'm a newbie you please excuse if this is the wrong forum but I had to ask someone.
My girlfriend is a pre op transsexual. For a little over a year now she has been a sex worker. I was fine with that at first. She entertains clients at our place, whilst I'm at work. Things have been OK but recently we haven't been making love as often as we used to and I've been getting a bit jealous of her clients.
The thing is I'm concerned that she hasn't been using protection. We've discussed this on a couple of occasions and she assures me that she has but - to be honest - I've checked the sheets and there have been cumstains that I know aren't mine. If she'd been using condoms, they wouldn't be there surely? I don't know if she's been having unprotected sex with clients or if she's having an actual relationship with someone. I know it sounds tragic but I've even watched from a friend's car and seen a client leave and they were kissing for ages as he left. I think that's when I started feeling really jealous. I'm nuts over her and don't want us to part but I don't know what to do. Have any members been in the same situation and how did they handle it?

rodinuk
07-13-2012, 10:28 PM
http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/showthread.php?t=63554

The stains may be there if the client withdraws and removes the condom in order to shoot or if he drops the condom after removing it I guess?

I think you need to re-establish trust but I'm no counsellor.

Good luck to you :)

noble1337
07-13-2012, 10:30 PM
i get annoyed when i hear guys gettin jealous over nothing...
but your girls job is to get fucked by random(and nasty) guys, and theyll make out with her with passion to back it up.
your situation is different than everyone elses. the only way to fix the relationship is to leave her, or have her quit her job.
not sure if this is a troll post though, since the answer is so obvious aha :D

loveboof
07-13-2012, 10:49 PM
urgh.. random guys cumming in your actual bed :puke

Kevin Dong
07-13-2012, 11:08 PM
Rofl come on now it's no different than spending a night in my bed bro

BarryC
07-14-2012, 12:19 AM
I don't want to appear unpleasant but it's not helpful when you say things like
"Rofl come on now it's no different than spending a night in my bed bro". I'm hurting here. - I asked for help not someone poking fun at me.
Yes, I've heard it all (I allowed this to happen in the first place). It's easy for an outsider to sit in judgement but things were really financially tight. We nearly lost our car. It's just that things have got out of hand. At first it was just something she did on occasion but "business has taken off". She's now earning way more than I could dream about and I'm feeling irrelevant. I could handle all that but it's now looking that we may end up apart, which I don't want to happen. Wish I'd never let it happen.
Hindsight - wonderful thing....

Helvis2012
07-14-2012, 12:30 AM
urgh.. random guys cumming in your actual bed :puke



Yeah....that's not good.

fred41
07-14-2012, 12:39 AM
How long have you been living with her?

dc_guy_75
07-14-2012, 01:42 AM
Who doesnt sleep well in cum covered sheets?

Edit: seriously, what the fuck? Even when finances are tight, you don't let your gf trick. You fucked up, she's flying high, run away as fast as you can.

nightshift
07-14-2012, 02:30 AM
Who doesnt sleep well in cum covered sheets?

Edit: seriously, what the fuck? Even when finances are tight, you don't let your gf trick. You fucked up, she's flying high, run away as fast as you can.

Word

amberskyi
07-14-2012, 03:31 AM
She sounds kinda tacky in the way she conducts herself

bob.chicken
07-14-2012, 03:37 AM
"I've checked the sheets and there have been cumstains that I know aren't mine."

I hope I never say these words as my own

I can't even begin to empathise with someone dating an escort. How anyone can do that is beyond me.

amberskyi
07-14-2012, 03:52 AM
"I've checked the sheets and there have been cumstains that I know aren't mine."

I hope I never say these words as my own

I can't even begin to empathise with someone dating an escort. How anyone can do that is beyond me.

because we happen to be people to.we don't suddenly cease to have the same motivations,urges and needs that other humans have.we all just want to be loved and connect with someone,even us undeserving escorts.

bob.chicken
07-14-2012, 03:55 AM
because we happen to be people to.we don't suddenly cease to have the same motivations,urges and needs that other humans have.we all just want to be loved and connect with someone,even us undeserving escorts.

I couldn't handle my gf sleeping with others. Kissing them, hugging them etc. I can;t understand how someone can get over that. An "ex" escort maybe but not current. Not saying my way is the best way just how I personally would feel.

amberskyi
07-14-2012, 04:02 AM
I couldn't handle my gf sleeping with others. Kissing them, hugging them etc. I can;t understand how someone can get over that. An "ex" escort maybe but not current. Not saying my way is the best way just how I personally would feel.

Then express how you would feel, don't question how anyone could.lucky for me there are guys out there who can see beyond a situation and really see the person.

TSMichelleAustin
07-14-2012, 04:14 AM
I have a lot of clients take off condoms to shoot on me and a lot have shot all over bed cuz they cum so much! I why I put down different blanket each time client comes over so its not on my actual sheets and comfort.

bob.chicken
07-14-2012, 04:15 AM
Then express how you would feel, don't question how anyone could.lucky for me there are guys out there who can see beyond a situation and really see the person.

how would you feel if your partner was sleeping with others?

amberskyi
07-14-2012, 04:29 AM
how would you feel if your partner was sleeping with others?

if it was financial than nope...it would also depends on how you conducts himself.i have to admit the girl is kinda tacky in how she conducts her business

Helvis2012
07-14-2012, 04:33 AM
to each his own

BarryC
07-14-2012, 05:25 AM
Everyone is focusing on the wrong thing here. It didn't bother me at the begining, which is why we went down the path in the first place. It bothers me now. I had a change of heart - OK? We're all allowed to change our minds.
I guess the thing that bothers me is the prospect of losing her. We get on so well - she's my best friend (or so I think). I wish I hadn't mentioned about the sheets - it sounds so pathetic that I even checked them. Some things are best left unsaid.

loveboof
07-14-2012, 05:40 AM
It's hard for me to offer any advice because I can't imagine putting myself in that situation, but if she really is your best friend and you don't want to lose what you have then talk to her about how you feel.

(Maybe sleep in the bath tub too until the sheets are fresh lol :P )

shaustin
07-14-2012, 06:08 AM
It didn't bother me at the begining, which is why we went down the path in the first place. It bothers me now. I had a change of heart - OK? We're all allowed to change our minds.
I guess the thing that bothers me is the prospect of losing her. We get on so well - she's my best friend (or so I think).

I'm really not seeing what it is that you think anyone here can do for you. You made a choice, it was the wrong one for you apparently, now you have to live with whatever the consequences turn out to be. Whatever happens between now and the fallout depends purely on what kind of person you are and the actions you do or don't take. You can't force her to change if she doesn't want to so your either going to have to change yourself or just enjoy it while it lasts.

Jericho
07-14-2012, 06:31 AM
Everyone is focusing on the wrong thing here. It didn't bother me at the begining, which is why we went down the path in the first place. It bothers me now. I had a change of heart - OK? We're all allowed to change our minds.
I guess the thing that bothers me is the prospect of losing her. We get on so well - she's my best friend (or so I think). I wish I hadn't mentioned about the sheets - it sounds so pathetic that I even checked them. Some things are best left unsaid.

Have you told her it bothers you now?

Choices:
Tell her it does, and unless it stops, you're out.
Tell her it does, and find a way to deal with it.
Keep quiet, argue like fuck...break up anyway.

And at the very least, for fucks sake, make her change the sheets after a client...That's just nasty! :shrug

rodinuk
07-14-2012, 06:33 AM
Everyone is focusing on the wrong thing here.

No we're not e.g. I gave you a reply with a link to another guy who was in a ts relationship.

Anyhow we have no idea how old either of you are, what country/culture/lifestyle you have - it seems that you may have met before she took up prostitution and if so how long you were together before that or were you a client? Is this your first relationship? Are you living together - does she support you on her earnings or vice versa? In reality is she just your fuck buddy? Realistically what prospect has this relationship got? Is it just your pride that's taking a dent here 'cos you have to share your free ts hooker with paying guests?

Leaving the TS factor out of it there have been many examples of relationships with hookers failing because of the lack of trust - go and read any punting forum e.g. punternet.com and you'll find the same dilemma crops up.

IMHO quite frankly I don't see a future in it you've already lost the trust :(

Jamie French
07-14-2012, 06:56 AM
Tiffany Starr and I work out of our own apartment... we have specially reserved sheets we throw on whichever bed we're gonna use. No fuss, no muss.

We have no issues with sex work because we both do it. We both know exactly what the other one is doing and what's going through our heads, we help write each others ads and even refer each other to our various clients.

Dating someone in the sex work industry is waaaaay too hairy unless you're running the same hustle right along side 'em. I lost a fiance of three years because of it, just a heads up.

RadiusDark
07-14-2012, 07:20 AM
Well, here's the problem. Now you're trying to change the rules in the middle of the game. You can't do that and expect not to get dumped.

Another problem is that her mindset is probably changing to accommodate the high number of complete fools and jackasses she has to deal with. Once that mindset changes, I don't know (seriously, I don't) if it can change back. If you try to change it up, she may feel attacked and dump you.

Yet another problem is if she has regular clients, I'm sure that the client has developed some sort of relationship with her and vice-versa. They may not want to give that up. According to the rules you agreed to, she may feel like you betrayed her if you try to change it up now.

Also, if she's used to spending that extra money's she's making, she's probably not want to give it up. If she's saving it, I would assume she'd be more open to quitting the escorting.

I think you're going to need to go ahead and break this off.

bluesoul
07-14-2012, 09:51 AM
.we all just want to be loved and connect with someone,even us undeserving escorts.

why if after connecting with your boyfriends or girlfriends (for those that are trans-lesbians) and for the mate, is it okay that you continue to assist others to connect with you, even if it's just for the minutes/hours they paid for?

does it cheapen your love and connection if it can be paid for (especially those offering a girlfriend-experience service with massages afterwards)?

Willie Escalade
07-14-2012, 10:06 AM
Dating someone in the sex work industry is waaaaay too hairy unless you're running the same hustle right along side 'em. I lost a fiance of three years because of it, just a heads up.
True words. I dated a girl in the industry. Had good times; even went on the set for her shoots (solo ones though). I looked the other way for a minute, but after a while I couldn't take it anymore. She left me to go back to her ex...who not only couldn't handle the fact she's in the industry, he couldn't handle the fact she was a Tgirl in general...

I'd recommend breaking this one off as well. Your heart might be with her, but your mind might not be.

Jamie French
07-14-2012, 10:30 AM
Nope.


why if after connecting with your boyfriends or girlfriends (for those that are trans-lesbians) and for the mate, is it okay that you continue to assist others to connect with you, even if it's just for the minutes/hours they paid for?

does it cheapen your love and connection if it can be paid for (especially those offering a girlfriend-experience service with massages afterwards)?

Prospero
07-14-2012, 12:10 PM
Tough tough bind. I see heartache and maybe heartbreak for the two of you. Advice is not for listening to really. You will in the end find your own way out of this.
The bottom line is communication. Both of you - no holds barred - talk and talk till you figure out what do do. It might hurt. But that's the only way through IMHO.
And as Rod said I think the fact she is transgendered is largely irrelevent. You are both people caught in a tough bind. Communicate.

fordly66
07-14-2012, 01:11 PM
Can you afford to live on your own? Is she the reason money got tight? Sounds like she has a new love, (money)? Hard to kick that monster out. Might be best to go separate ways. If, and I mean a big if, you tell her how you feel and she quits escorting, how will she then feel towards you? Most likely she will dump you and find a way to becoming an escort again. Might as well face the music and to quote Barney Fife, "nip it in the bud".

NewAgain
07-14-2012, 01:29 PM
why did i read this guys posts ........?

naresuan
07-14-2012, 02:15 PM
Jerry, Jerry, Jerry........

amberskyi
07-14-2012, 02:54 PM
why if after connecting with your boyfriends or girlfriends (for those that are trans-lesbians) and for the mate, is it okay that you continue to assist others to connect with you, even if it's just for the minutes/hours they paid for?

does it cheapen your love and connection if it can be paid for (especially those offering a girlfriend-experience service with massages afterwards)?

Why would it,I don't love my clients.there's no real intimacy with a client.you can't be intimate with someone you don't know.what they are getting is a fantasy.nothing about escort Amber is really me.there's no real connection.
My lover is getting me, the real me.the me that loves, has feelings, fears, goals , interest etc.i'm there with him cause I want to be, cause I love to be.the only real intimacy I have is with lovers.

BarryC
07-14-2012, 11:00 PM
I guess I had a unrealistic and "romantic" view of the sex industry. I'd seen so many porno videos and - at the beginning - it was a bit of a turn on. Then the reality kicks in Looking back, though, we really didn't have an alternative. I did have a talk with ------ and she assured me again that she's using protection. (but I wonder if those performers who do B/B videos tell their partners that they're using protection....) Don't think I'm only focusing on this aspect but it's a concern.

SmithXXX
07-15-2012, 01:10 AM
I was in a very similar situation (dirty sheets NOT included, nor was she working out of our apartment). All you can do is try your best. If you don't have communication & trust in your relationship you don't have a relationship. If she has been doing it for a while now, and is making good money then she may have been bitten by the money bug, and unfortunately the only cure for that is for you to win the lotto. Otherwise she will continue to work, and if she say's she will quit that's great, but that's only if she really does.

You are the only person that knows how you really feel, and the complete story. If you can live with it then more power to you. If you can't then end it now, and try your best to remain friends. Otherwise all you are going to do is start to resent her and eventually end up disliking or hating her. If you don't tell her your true feeling then she won't know how it's hurting you. If she feels anything for you then you will work something out that's amicable for the both of you. Do it fast! The longer you wait you lessen your chances of salvaging what damage has already been done.

ts-lover.com
07-15-2012, 01:28 AM
i could not say it any better than yogi. i was prepared to write, read his post then realized i was going to convey the exact same ideas. i too have experience in this situation.
she has feelings for you, but she also (as we all do) has feelings for the money.

MrF
07-15-2012, 01:47 AM
Personally, as long as there are no tight bonds between the two of us, I'd say goodbye. Plenty of fish in the sea, as they say.

But it's hard to give or take advice on a forum like this. Only you know all the variables and what's in your heart.

batman4ever
07-15-2012, 02:00 AM
its quite simple in my eyes.....do you believe her or not...??? if not get out of there...if you do...then realize that its only buisness...and you will actually win in the long end...;)
Been with a P4P girl now for more than 5 year...and yes...in the start i had a lot of "funny" feelings... but i come to terms now...and frankly ....shes just doing her job...;)
and for the part about her kissing a costumer a long time... well if he paid over the term...its normal to try keep a good costumer comming back;) i know for sure i would have done the same....;)
get over your jealousi....and you will profit in the end...:D

BarryC
07-15-2012, 03:54 AM
It's not quite as simple as to just make a decision one way or the other. If I left her, I'd be gutted, if I stay, I'll have doubts. She does change the sheets after each client, I was just a pathetic loser and checked through the linen basket. - Jealousy is its own punishment. Why has she gone off sex with me? (not completely - just less than we used to). What's going through my mind is that it's either because she does it so often that she's fed up with it or - more worryingly - that she's found someone else she prefers to do it with.
How on earth am I going to discuss it with her? I can hardly say I've been through the linen basket and spied on the clients leaving the apartment - that's going to look good, isn't it? Like I say, I must be a loser.

SmithXXX
07-15-2012, 04:45 AM
Quit whining about it because you are starting to sound like the self proclaimed Loser you have labelled your self to be. She is in the SEX industry. She probably sees 1,2,3 or more clients per day. So to make a long story short. She is worn out by the time you get home...Literally. Plus depending on how long you have been with her the sex does taper off after awhile as well. Even for couples not in the sex industry. If on the other hand she has found someone else there is nothing you can do about that except maybe ask her for pointers so you can take over you place as her number one guy. Regardless of any advice you take to heart from this forum NONE of it is any good unless you have TRUST & COMMUNICATION with her. So you need to man up, grab your balls, stand up when you pee, and talk to her. No one on this board knows all the details or her side of the story. Just remember this "Don't make someone your priority, when you are only an option to them."

txsam
07-15-2012, 05:59 AM
or y'all can always talk about her just doing cam shows??

BarryC
07-15-2012, 06:34 AM
She mentioned she'd like to give videos a go some time back. Somehow this would seem more acceptable to me - don't know why.

Ryz
07-15-2012, 06:51 AM
Poor Barry. If I could email you a hug, I would. :(

BiBoyinBeantown
07-15-2012, 08:04 AM
I guess I'm weird because, as strange as this sounds, I don't experience jealousy. This has kept my GG g/f and me going in an open relationship for nearly 20 years now.
I don't think there's anything wrong with being an escort, or dating one. Sex workers are people too.
So I don't think I would mind if an SO of mine was escorting, beyond practical concerns over legality (illegal in the U.S. where I live), safer-sex practices, or possible violence by a client.

However, I think i'd be bothered by a bunch of things about this scenario would bother me, even from my admittedly unusually liberal perspective:

Sleeping on crusty bedsheets. Ew. CHANGE THE DAMN SHEETS!
The violation of trust that this has prompted. Trust, once broken, is awfully hard to rebuild.
The increased risk to you of STDs, even if she's being careful.
Reality ("other guys are fucking my g/f!") has turned out to be quite different from fantasy ("Hot dog! I'm dating a sex worker! I'm getting for free what other guys pay big bucks for!"). This is unfortunately often the case when people get to live out their sexual fantasies. (I keep hearing about weird emotional issues coming up as a result of threesomes, for instance.)


As some others have noted there can be all kinds of reasons for body fluids on the bedsheets even if condoms are being used for penetrative acts. I think the bottom line is whether you can trust her or not.

Honestly I'd recommend that you both get counseling but I'm not sure there are counselors who would, or can, deal with a situation like yours.

Good luck.

txsam
07-15-2012, 09:22 AM
good luck and best wishes with this situation barry!

Solitary Brother
07-15-2012, 09:28 AM
Hope you don't mind me running this by the members here but I have a bit of a situation. I'm a newbie you please excuse if this is the wrong forum but I had to ask someone.
My girlfriend is a pre op transsexual. For a little over a year now she has been a sex worker. I was fine with that at first. She entertains clients at our place, whilst I'm at work. Things have been OK but recently we haven't been making love as often as we used to and I've been getting a bit jealous of her clients.
The thing is I'm concerned that she hasn't been using protection. We've discussed this on a couple of occasions and she assures me that she has but - to be honest - I've checked the sheets and there have been cumstains that I know aren't mine. If she'd been using condoms, they wouldn't be there surely? I don't know if she's been having unprotected sex with clients or if she's having an actual relationship with someone. I know it sounds tragic but I've even watched from a friend's car and seen a client leave and they were kissing for ages as he left. I think that's when I started feeling really jealous. I'm nuts over her and don't want us to part but I don't know what to do. Have any members been in the same situation and how did they handle it?

Why any man would deal with a woman who sleeps with other men is beyond me.
You accepted this situation in the beginning so deal with it or leave.
Your the problem not her.

BarryC
07-15-2012, 12:48 PM
I thought I'd made it clear - we don't sleep in "used" sheets. I (I'm ashamed to admit) checked through the laundry stuff. Yeah I know that's pretty low but I did. - I wish I hadn't but there you are.

suttonporksword
07-15-2012, 01:29 PM
run away, fast

Willie Escalade
07-15-2012, 02:27 PM
Reality ("other guys are fucking my g/f!") has turned out to be quite different from fantasy ("Hot dog! I'm dating a sex worker! I'm getting for free what other guys pay big bucks for!").
I felt this exact way. On the face I was just shrugging it off, but in the back of my mind it was bothering me.

I've gotten close to two other girls since then, but nothing became of the relationship (expect remaining friends) because they were both working girls.

BarryC
07-15-2012, 11:33 PM
When you love someone- it's not easy to "run away fast". Anyway, I reckon if I did run away, she'd follow me - and still do the same.

runningdownthatdream
07-15-2012, 11:41 PM
That you were desperate enough to try and get advice by posting here should tell you that you're in an irrational state of mind right now. You cannot think clearly about this situation. You should try to put some distance between each other - go away for a week or two and disconnect. Give yourself time to think AND as Yogi said try to keep from whining about it - especially here as you'll only drive yourself deeper into misery.

NJfan
07-16-2012, 12:16 AM
I used to let a (now ex)girlfriend have bareback with whatever guys she wanted as long as they were clean and she was on the pill. I loved getting her with a creampie already inside her. Now, that's a bit different than your situation.

What are you more worried about? That she is having sex with others or that she is possibly not being safe with the clients' cumming on or in her?

If you are upset with her having sex with others, get over it. Seriously, you are dating a sex worker. It's like dating a girl who is a swinger or a pornstar and she was that way before she met you. It's her lifestyle and choice. When you date someone, you don't try to change them.

But if she is doing the raw bareback sex with sketchy clients, you should talk to her about that. Ask her to get tested if you feel she is at risk. Tell her you are concerned because you love her.

As for the lack of her sex-drive, she might be trying to to keep the intimacy going between you. She might be repulsed by sex. I have to imagine a lot of the clients out there make sex vulgar and perverse for her. Think about it; if you wanted to be a female and be treated as a female but her body has the sex organs of a male. And the only reason why most men around you want to have sex with you is because they want your penis there; the imperfection that you see it as. One of the things that is keeping you from really being a female. (In some cases that is. I know there are many who will never consider going post-op.)

Maybe you have to help build her up to try and find a reason to change her lifestyle for the better. Explain it is not for just you but for her. The health risks and safety risks might help explain that.

BarryC
07-17-2012, 06:34 AM
I suppose bareback sex is something that I regarded as special. We dated for ages before she'd let me do it uncovered. Nobody likes to think that someone else is getting the "special treatment", especially in way less time than it took me - It's not so much the safety aspect - she's sensible enough to be cautious. Besides she promised me that she'd always use condoms. Now that I am thinking she isn't, it seems like a bit of a betrayal. It cheapens everything, don't you think?

NJfan
07-17-2012, 08:23 AM
Do you have proof yet? Have you asked her about the stains?

Why are you with her? Why are you here trying to resolve this instead of being with her? Do you love her?

I feel like you have already told the executioner to kill the relationship before the investigation and the judge and jury have had a chance to make their case and gather the facts.

If you want to see it as 'betrayal' that is your call. You're the one dating the escort and now having issues with her business life.

Hopefully the next time you meet a girl, she doesn't happen to be a butcher and you decide to go vegan on her and expect her to quit her living. Best of luck, in all seriousness.

magicmost
07-17-2012, 04:01 PM
I've been with a working girl (no ts) for a couple of weeks, never again.
Worst part is I've known her since highschool, always had feelings for each other & now we haven't talked in years. It was too much for me, 2 phones and clients calling day & night, when going out i don't mind seeing my gf dancing & flirting but she was always hustling for clients, she even gave her private number to clients. So i talked to her about it, a lot, we agreed on some things so i thought it could work; but once they are in the 'I'm all about my money, everyday hustlin' state of mind it's over, run Forest run.
Now people tell the craziest stories about her, she lost her window, stabbed a client, has a major drug-habbit, even heard she's doing bareback gangbangs for her drugdealer who is also a pimp...

Good luck!

BarryC
07-17-2012, 11:23 PM
All out in the open now.
I bought a new sim card and sent her a text. "Hi there. Any chance of bareback?". Got a reply "If you have a current HIV test, it's $500 for B/B, $200 extra to cum inside. $200 for me to cum..."
I confronted her with it and we had a big fight. She reckons that it was all to fund new breast implants and other plastic surgery, hormones etc.
So that's that. What a fool I've been.

loveboof
07-17-2012, 11:36 PM
So you were both right?

She was lying about the condoms, but was telling the truth about being careful...

Shouldn't have done the sim card thing cos now she knows you dont trust her - more troubles round the corner :/

rodinuk
07-17-2012, 11:52 PM
So you were both right?

She totally deceived him - he had reasonable doubts and applied a test.

I don't see why he should have any regrets for safeguarding his own health.

He's outta there -
So that's that. What a fool I've been.

Chase_Mcthirsty
07-18-2012, 01:23 AM
So you were both right?

She was lying about the condoms, but was telling the truth about being careful...

Shouldn't have done the sim card thing cos now she knows you dont trust her - more troubles round the corner :/

....Why shouldn't he have? The next thing he needs to do this go to hospital and get tested for everything. Then next would be his exit strategy. If the lease to the apt. is in his name then give that bitch 30 days notice.

Dude is basically putting his health in this chicks hands and what the hell is the point of getting breast implants when you're walking around with viruses that modern medicine haven't found cures for??? Hell there's a new strain of Gonorrhea out there that fights off traditional antibiotics.

Shit condoms don't even protect from herpes or HPV. So if she's making out with random guys daily, the odds of you already having something is moderately high.

Don't believe me then ask your PCP. And if he doesnt' have anything then count himself lucky but not for too long if she's sticking around.

Chase_Mcthirsty
07-18-2012, 01:31 AM
I suppose bareback sex is something that I regarded as special. We dated for ages before she'd let me do it uncovered. Nobody likes to think that someone else is getting the "special treatment", especially in way less time than it took me - It's not so much the safety aspect - she's sensible enough to be cautious. Besides she promised me that she'd always use condoms. Now that I am thinking she isn't, it seems like a bit of a betrayal. It cheapens everything, don't you think?

You sound like one of those battered spouses on Lifetime...

So here's the part where we tell you to kick the chick to the curb and you don't... and the worse thing that could possibly happen, does!

Good luck to you with all that.

The thing you should never do is trust a whore. Shit she doesn't even care about her own well being. And just make up lame excused to justify horrible decisions.

You being in the crossfire.

Willie Escalade
07-18-2012, 02:18 AM
All out in the open now.
I bought a new sim card and sent her a text. "Hi there. Any chance of bareback?". Got a reply "If you have a current HIV test, it's $500 for B/B, $200 extra to cum inside. $200 for me to cum..."
I confronted her with it and we had a big fight. She reckons that it was all to fund new breast implants and other plastic surgery, hormones etc.
So that's that. What a fool I've been.
Whoomp, there it is!

Hit the bricks, son. I know it'll be tough because you may still have feelings for her, but it looks like the correct thing to do.

BBaggins06
07-18-2012, 04:15 AM
All out in the open now.
I bought a new sim card and sent her a text. "Hi there. Any chance of bareback?". Got a reply "If you have a current HIV test, it's $500 for B/B, $200 extra to cum inside. $200 for me to cum..."
I confronted her with it and we had a big fight. She reckons that it was all to fund new breast implants and other plastic surgery, hormones etc.
So that's that. What a fool I've been.

Cool story bro.

amberskyi
07-18-2012, 05:07 AM
I'm sorry but i'm not believing this...i'm calling bull shit

testtickle
07-18-2012, 02:01 PM
It is me who holds the lease and - basically - I can't afford it on my wage. I'm "caught in a trap" as Elvis would say. Can't see a way out.

testtickle
07-18-2012, 02:09 PM
I'm sorry but i'm not believing this...i'm calling bull shit
I wish you were right, I truly do.

MdR Dave
07-18-2012, 06:12 PM
It is me who holds the lease and - basically - I can't afford it on my wage. I'm "caught in a trap" as Elvis would say. Can't see a way out.

Are we to assume that you, testtickle, are answering as the OP- who was actually going by BarryC when this thread started?

I now wholly support Amber's thesis and call "shenanigans".

NJfan
07-18-2012, 06:27 PM
And $900 for both of to cum during bareback? That's BS as well.

Helvis2012
07-18-2012, 07:36 PM
Good call Amber. It looks like Barry got too stoned to keep up with his lies and fake accounts. Although, there's probably a kernel of truth somewhere in that thread. Who else but a cuckold would put so much effort into such a useless enterprise?
Well done, Barry, err... testtickle....or whoever you are at this moment.

bluesoul
07-18-2012, 08:42 PM
she's my best friend (or so I think).

unless everyone on this forum is your best friend, you're technically talking about your best friend with strangers. how does that sound to you?

Chase_Mcthirsty
07-18-2012, 08:55 PM
I'm sorry but i'm not believing this...i'm calling bull shit

Exactly!

No man in there right mind other than a pimp would entertain the ideal of taking in a prostitute and letting random guys fuck her in his home...

amberskyi
07-18-2012, 09:32 PM
Exactly!

No man in there right mind other than a pimp would entertain the ideal of taking in a prostitute and letting random guys fuck her in his home...

Whenever you post on here I feel like vomiting and castrating men

loveboof
07-18-2012, 10:06 PM
whenever you post on here i feel like vomiting and castrating men

lol!

Chase_Mcthirsty
07-18-2012, 11:54 PM
Whenever you post on here I feel like vomiting and castrating men

Well Hi, I'm Chase...Chase Mcthirsty.

And you must be a prostitute.

amberskyi
07-19-2012, 12:03 AM
Well Hi, I'm Chase...Chase Mcthirsty.

And you must be a prostitute.

And you must be one of my soon to be castrated men.now you really have a reason to over molest your prostate. :)

Chase_Mcthirsty
07-19-2012, 01:48 AM
And you must be one of my soon to be castrated men.now you really have a reason to over molest your prostate. :)

Thats assuming I'd risk my life living with a prostitute...

amberskyi
07-19-2012, 02:29 AM
Thats assuming I'd risk my life living with a prostitute...

I'm sure you've risked you're life doing allot more stupider things

Schimmel
07-19-2012, 03:20 AM
I know it sounds tragic
Tragic?? Sounds like a fucking trainwreck. Sorry Barry but what the fuck. Seriously.

MdR Dave
07-19-2012, 04:45 AM
Tragic?? Sounds like a fucking trainwreck. Sorry Barry but what the fuck. Seriously.
You mean "testtickle".

He abandoned the name BarryC a few posts back- though probably by accident.

fred41
07-19-2012, 05:02 AM
You mean "testtickle".

He abandoned the name BarryC a few posts back- though probably by accident.

Even in such a tragic circumstance ...he still has the strength of personality to change his name for something more whimsical, such as..testtickle.

God Bless You BarryC (I mean testtickle)!

Battle on!



...(or make some other shit up...lol).