PDA

View Full Version : Weird Question...



NJfan
07-06-2012, 01:44 AM
For the lovely TS that are on here. How do you want a guy to react when he finds out you are a TS?

Keep in mind we are talking about a positive reaction. No one wants the negative reaction.

ARMANIXXX
07-06-2012, 01:51 AM
For the lovely TS that are on here. How do you want a guy to react when he finds out you are a TS?

Keep in mind we are talking about a positive reaction. No one wants the negative reaction.


If you don't want the genuine reactions, negative included, then what's the point of asking?
You just want the "fool me" answers?

NJfan
07-06-2012, 01:56 AM
The question is stated for "How do you want a guy to react when he finds out you are a TS?"

Nobody would answer with a negative answer like "I want him to freak out."

ARMANIXXX
07-06-2012, 02:05 AM
The question is stated for "How do you want a guy to react when he finds out you are a TS?"

Nobody would answer with a negative answer like "I want him to freak out."

For all intents and purpose,
you are right and I misread the question.

But it's still a fairly dumb question......because you're going to get pretty much the same answer...that is, if anyone cares to.

But, carry on, I guess.

nina_lisa
07-06-2012, 02:06 AM
Still see me as a woman.

errrr wait, i am dreaming, am i?

runningdownthatdream
07-06-2012, 02:08 AM
For the lovely TS that are on here. How do you want a guy to react when he finds out you are a TS?

Keep in mind we are talking about a positive reaction. No one wants the negative reaction.

Sounds like you're looking for material to use in your jack-off fantasy......you know the one.....

NJfan
07-06-2012, 02:09 AM
I dated some transgirls. One loved the fact her 'girlstick' was a turn on. Another girl was not accepting of her situation. I am curious as to what the responses can be.

And thank you for your permission to carry on.

NJfan
07-06-2012, 02:20 AM
Still see me as a woman.

errrr wait, i am dreaming, am i?

I think in time more people will be able to see that.

I have been comfortable with seeing transgirls as just girls.

I can't imagine how this situation can be.

If a guy is interested in a girl and finds out that she is a transsexual and he is interested in that, is he really just interested in her for the fetish? That's a horrible reality I think.

I feel that seeing a transexual as just a woman is the best situation. One transexual I was seeing wanted me to go to a New York gay parade with her. I was alright with that. But she wanted me to tell people I am gay or at least bisexual because I was with her. I couldn't quite understand this because she wanted to accepted as a 100% girl and I gladly did. We weren't even sexual. I felt contradicted because I accepted her for who she is but I felt like by saying I was bi or gay because I was with her was negating the fact that she is a she. I have friends who are openly gay I love them as if they were my family. But I felt like having a label to date her was... awkward.

nina_lisa
07-06-2012, 02:29 AM
My opinion is that the whole: expecting a reaction just sucks, whether positive or negative.

A girl with blond hair, does not have to wonder how the world reaction would be when they learn her natural hair in black but she just dyed her hair.

Expecting a reaction is basically: Here please have the power to accept me or reject, just based on a mistake of nature, in which i have no say.

Let it be potential lover, or job where is it: will i get that job (of course ideal expected reaction is: it does not matter if you are ts or not, but still expecting a reaction sucks) or would I keep my job once they know i am transitioning, or would my family speak to me once they know i am trans. It just sucks to have to wait for a reaction.

NJfan
07-06-2012, 02:57 AM
Even though I am not interested in guys at all, I was considering crossdressing once. I ended up getting a pair of sexy high heels. I'm 6'2" so if you can imagine, getting size 13 highs was pretty hard. I was talking to a genetic girl and we both had agreed it would be hot to have me crossdress for sexual fun and then start going out like that with her. Long story short, I lost my nerve with that. I figured it wasn't for me and I also had a though of 'How will others accept me if they see me like this?'

I loosely have a grasp on how you feel and I respect it.

MdR Dave
07-06-2012, 06:19 AM
I don't date guys.

Wait, was I supposed to vote?