misterbarnes
06-29-2012, 07:05 AM
Hi all,
I'm a New Yorker, and someone attracted only to transwomen. Haven't dated much, period, but want to finally put myself out there. My question -- is there a there, there? The threads here talk about clubs, sponsored party nights -- is there any kind of scene that's more low-keyed? Trans-friendly gay bars, or queer bars, in Manhattan or Brooklyn?
Also, I'm still hung up on the idea that I'll be treated with [maybe reasonable] suspicion by any mtf suitor -- that they will think I'm just a curious straight guy, which I know in my heart I am not. Is the bar already raised high very, so to speak?
The women admired in this forum seem to embrace a certain high-octane idea of femininity -- are there other types of women and the men who adore them? Something not about escorting and hookups?
I hope this is on-topic. No intention to offend, if I do.
Thanks,
misterbarnes
I'm a New Yorker, and someone attracted only to transwomen. Haven't dated much, period, but want to finally put myself out there. My question -- is there a there, there? The threads here talk about clubs, sponsored party nights -- is there any kind of scene that's more low-keyed? Trans-friendly gay bars, or queer bars, in Manhattan or Brooklyn?
Also, I'm still hung up on the idea that I'll be treated with [maybe reasonable] suspicion by any mtf suitor -- that they will think I'm just a curious straight guy, which I know in my heart I am not. Is the bar already raised high very, so to speak?
The women admired in this forum seem to embrace a certain high-octane idea of femininity -- are there other types of women and the men who adore them? Something not about escorting and hookups?
I hope this is on-topic. No intention to offend, if I do.
Thanks,
misterbarnes