TS BDSM

[PrincessaGianna]

In the very near future I am retiring as an escort. I have been very interested in the world of BDSM lately, and very interested in exploring my dominant side.

I have has two clients in the few months I have escorted that have requested this service and I enjoyed it very thoroughly.

Is it true that Dominatrix(s) make more money than escorts? I have heard this from many people that the service is a very in demand serivce and people will definatley pay for quality.

Who here has experience with the BDSM world... especially with a TS dominatrix?

I have been studying and investing in tools of the trade and I am very excited about it.

Honestly I know that I am going to enjoy it much more because sex is not a part of it usually, and whatever frustrations I have with men I get to let out! Not only that it's legal and according to some in the business makes more money. I most def could love it as a job.

Either way my escort days are *ovah*

Thanks for input in advance!

[ManOfSteel]

I was friends with a trassexual girl named Barbie, many of you know of her. When we were friends she was a dominatrix. She said it was great money and payed significantly more than escorting. I forgot exactly how much she made being a dominatrix but i remeber being surprised. It is in very high demand especially in big cities or major cities.
Plus she said sex was never involved. She mostly did humiliation, punishment, sissification and worship, things like that. She said she loved doing it though!

[NickTheQuick]

I was friends with a trassexual girl named Barbie, many of you know of her. When we were friends she was a dominatrix. She said it was great money and payed significantly more than escorting. I forgot exactly how much she made being a dominatrix but i remeber being surprised. It is in very high demand especially in big cities or major cities.
Plus she said sex was never involved. She mostly did humiliation, punishment, sissification and worship, things like that. She said she loved doing it though!

I just watched her doc a couple days ago and I had to laugh when that part came up. The funniest part was when she made him go out on the balcony with what looked like jizz on his face and say something like "I am a sissy bitch". That dude was a sissy to begin with, he didn't need any sissification on top of it. Lol, another fetish I don't get but oh well whatever works for them. Gianna, I say go for it. No sex AND better money?? Do it.

Btw MoS, are you Mexican, in decent shape, under the age 25 and a big Cheech and Chong fan if you know what I'm sayin'?

[ManOfSteel]

Btw MoS, are you Mexican, in decent shape, under the age 25 and a big Cheech and Chong fan if you know what I'm sayin'?

Yes I'am. Lol. How did you know?

[DJ_Asia]

Gianna,

I have been into the B/D S/M culture for most of my life.In fact it indirectly led me into my interest of TS's,but thats a different thread.

Well here is what you should know......


Most well established houses of domination hire girls only as a sub,and allow them to work their way up to a switch and then eventually a mistress.Here is why....
For most subs/switches much of the domination they need comes from a mental aspect.Being able to crack somebody's ass with a paddle requires zero talent However to be able to unlock that secret little room inside every subs mind is something these people will pay handsomely for.And once you are inside that room you have to do as little permannet damage as possible.To understand this relationship one needs to be on the bottom end both emotionally and psysically,only then will a domme become a true top.
That being said even as an independant contractor working from your home I think you will find much sucess if you become a well rounded domme who is interested more in a good mind fuck than a handjob or flogging some fatass 50 y.o. lawyer dressed in baby clothes.
I think you will have a larger client base if you sub to a true top to understand the feeling of being inferior first,so that the mental aspect of it becomes natural....To the weekend warrior it wont matter much,but for a true lifestyle submissive they will see through your inexperience instantly and will never come back.

Like I said anybody can beat another person's ass,and if you stray too high with a bullhide flogger you can do serious damage to the kidney's...so do your homework!

You also need to be quite clear on your ares of expertise as the community has hundreds of variations and offshoots.For instance true hemp rope Shibari is in very high demand to the people that are into it,as its a highly skilled practice tha not many can do.
You will find that your potential clients will have a wide range of desires and you need to be clear as to what you are into and what you are not.


Good luck with it.Like to hear how its progressing for you.

DJ Asia [/u]

[NickTheQuick]

Btw MoS, are you Mexican, in decent shape, under the age 25 and a big Cheech and Chong fan if you know what I'm sayin'?

Yes I'am. Lol. How did you know?

LMAO, just by watching Barbie's doc I noticed a pattern.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

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[latrix67]

Take a peek at these websites,(With BDSM/Fetish forums-

General fetish;
www.bondage.com
www.theboundforum.com
www.fetishlink.com

Fem/Dom sites;
www.uk-mistresses.com

Latex forums-
www.rubberist.net


The are a couple of yahoo bdsm groups worth joining-
B2G Belfast
BDSM Ireland
(even these are Irish based,they have members from all over.)

Good Luck,
L67

[cockcraver]

To be in the area of bdsm u need to be a true dominant girl with no exeptions. U must be commanding and overpowering. Obviously ur cleints will ask u in first encounter what their preferences are but u must do all that and more. To make big money u must get inside their head so they dont want but NEED to see u again and again! To me being domination is art as long as their is no physcological damage done.

[justatransgirl]

Apparently you guys haven't followed any of my posts - or been to our web site or video store?

Go to our main store and click the link to our BDSM store.

I'm not a lifestyle domme but occasionally when the situation presents itself I let "Mistress Jamie" out to play.

Giggle,
TS Jamie :-) - - That's "Mistress" to you, worm.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

LOL Talk about shameless self promotion! :lol: J/k TS Jaime. ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

[pscottyf]

I heeeeeeerd that. I agree with the above post. :roll:

[MrSteven]

I have been involved in the BDSM world for going on 30 years and I would judge that it is correct that pro dommés are in very high demand if they are good.
The thing is that the ratio of sub females to Dom men is fairly equal, somewhat skewed towards an over abundance of subs and thus the frequency of true Dom males having more than one subbie collared.
But submissive men out number real dommés by a HUGE margin.

[tsmandy]

It's not all people make it out to be. BDSM has been a longstanding part of my personal life (I'm a switch but my partner is a sub, so I've been in a dominant role for the last 3 years) for quite some time, and I have worked a bit as a domme. It's a hell of a lot more work than you might think, and it requires a lot of skill, people will not pay loads of money unless you prove yourself to be exceptional, and on top of that you will still have to choose between sex and no sex. Most houses (not all) won't hire a TS in the first place. I started sex work (mostly) working with a domme in NYC and her longstanding regular, I wasn't out to him about being trans (a mistake I've never repeated) and the sessions were fun at first, then they were just as tedious as escorting sessions. In fact I think that escorting is more fun for me, because I like BDSM and I like it less when I have to play with people who don't know what they want and expect me to figure it out.

Ultimately you would probably make more money escorting, at least for the first year or so, but maybe the piece of mind is worth less money, not having to worry about cops and such.