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TatianaSummer
06-18-2012, 11:30 AM
Are they shy or ashame that they like t-girls?
They have their penis, dogs, cars, motorcycles, comics, etc etc
but almost never they show their face.

Here in HA only a few have their real picture too, same as Tweeter. It mostly happen in tweeter accounts that guys have t-girls added in their list, regular accounts guys show their face. :mad:

magicmost
06-18-2012, 11:44 AM
i'm shy

Ryz
06-18-2012, 11:53 AM
I have no face

Token Williams-Black
06-18-2012, 12:04 PM
That's actually how I look. You know that; we talked at the Tranny Awards, remember?

Prospero
06-18-2012, 12:17 PM
Mainly because when i first joined Hung angels all i was posting was reviews of escorts. I didn't want girls I'd not met before to recognise me the minute I walked through the door fro a picture on here..
Now? Well its fun to wear a mask.

Jericho
06-18-2012, 12:20 PM
I don't want to be looking at a bunch of guys pics on the GF...Stick 'em in yer profile.

Iainlondon
06-18-2012, 12:29 PM
I do

Quiet Reflections
06-18-2012, 01:06 PM
I don't show mine for work reasons. Same reason I don't have a facebook or twitter account.

dabaldone
06-18-2012, 01:14 PM
It's because HA is primarily a porn site. I belong to a few of groups on Facebook where my face is proudly displayed.

TatianaSummer
06-18-2012, 01:40 PM
i'm shy
Don't be shy!


I have no face
Ok Mr. No face from Batman


That's actually how I look. You know that; we talked at the Tranny Awards, remember?
:) yes I remember :tongue:

Mainly because when i first joined Hung angels all i was posting was reviews of escorts. I didn't want girls I'd not met before to recognise me the minute I walked through the door fro a picture on here..
Now? Well its fun to wear a mask. ok that was back then, so I guess you still hiring girls? why pay when you can get them for free? LOL


I don't want to be looking at a bunch of guys pics on the GF...Stick 'em in yer profile.
dont worry, they dont bite.


I do
ok good, one of the 10-15% :smileysex:


I don't show mine for work reasons. Same reason I don't have a facebook or twitter account. ohh ok, they will fire you if you like tgirls? wow I wouldnt like a job that dictates who I should like or not.


It's because HA is primarily a porn site. I belong to a few of groups on Facebook where my face is proudly displayed.
Ok so thats why. Are the other groups not trans related?

Bunsdk
06-18-2012, 01:53 PM
I personally dont ever post my picture on forums, regardless of content unless its a private forum with only ppl i know.
Im on the internet, I like the anonimity it offers.

Its not that Im scared of being recognized... If someone recognizes me from here, whats to be scared of, they are here too...!!!!
I mostly just dont see the point.
Im not here to hook up, brag or talk about that weird looking mole on someones face :D
Its just easier to be anon.

dabaldone
06-18-2012, 02:07 PM
Yes, the groups are trans related and I moderate in a couple of them. I do enjoy some if the discussions on HA and enjoy the sights. I've actually dated a few women who have been featured on HA. There's no hiding or shame about being trans-attracted. I prefer trans-women and don't worry about someone "outing" me because its not something to be ashamed of.

irvin66
06-18-2012, 02:13 PM
I am a ugly son of a bitch! :wiggle:

Cecil Rhodes
06-18-2012, 02:31 PM
I am a ugly son of a bitch! :wiggle:

that is Exactly why ...... But some consider me cute and funny atleast . Wait a second, Tatiana has seen me . Then again i used Fun House Mirrors when we chatted on tinychat to warp my Beefy-ness

TatianaSummer
06-18-2012, 02:51 PM
that is Exactly why ...... But some consider me cute and funny atleast . Wait a second, Tatiana has seen me . Then again i used Fun House Mirrors when we chatted on tinychat to warp my Beefy-ness

LOL yes you are a funny guy! I like that!

Prospero
06-18-2012, 03:22 PM
Tatiana - could i get YOU for free should i get to Las vegas? I doubt it. Some of the most beautiful girls are available only if you pay. So yes, sometimes I pay and sometimes score for free as well.

But also I have a reasonably high profile profession. I'm not thr least bit ashamed of loving T-Girls - but I don't want to face the sort of shitstorm that could arise if I were recognised.

Cecil Rhodes
06-18-2012, 03:30 PM
LOL yes you are a funny guy! I like that!

Remember when we showed each other our pistols ? ..... We took them out of their holsters and pulled on them .

Quinn
06-18-2012, 03:44 PM
I have in the past. These day, I simply enjoy Vettriano paintings/prints too much not to use them as my avatar instead.

-Quinn

bossiernut
06-18-2012, 03:48 PM
I can't risk someone seeing me who knows my wife. They might say something to her. It's my dark little secret.

Quiet Reflections
06-18-2012, 03:53 PM
ohh ok, they will fire you if you like tgirls? wow I wouldnt like a job that dictates who I should like or not.

It isn't me liking TG's as much as it is the fact that any political or personal views that I express online could be easily traced back to me and put my companies private and government contracts in jeopardy. I can't risk a poorly worded statement on a public forum or social networking site causing the loss of a lucrative contract. Now if someone decides they want to pay my bills and support my kid while I sit at home and post I will quit tomorrow and put a picture up.

lifeisfiction
06-18-2012, 04:03 PM
Nothing to do with being shy or being afraid. This a porn forum, I don't really care to have my photo on a porn forum. Thats pretty much it. If I wanted my photo on a porn forum, I would just use my real name instead of lifeisfiction.

Prospero
06-18-2012, 04:04 PM
Lifeisfiction make a good point

tslvr
06-18-2012, 04:09 PM
Simple answer for me; I barely know how to use my computer and don't know how.

Jericho
06-18-2012, 04:09 PM
dont worry, they dont bite.

Not worried about them biting...Well...Ok...One or two of them, maybe!:hide-1:

tsdvdman
06-18-2012, 04:21 PM
Nothing to do with being shy or being afraid. This a porn forum, I don't really care to have my photo on a porn forum. Thats pretty much it. If I wanted my photo on a porn forum, I would just use my real name instead of lifeisfiction.
My sentiments exactly. Not only is this a porn forum..it's also used predominately by escorts who are promoting themselves. And while I thouroughly enjoy and take advantage of the perks of this site I don't want my pic to be affiliated with it. It's not like it's a dating site like match or Plenty of Fish..lol

Iainlondon
06-18-2012, 05:02 PM
Does that mean I can come and tear up your funhole ?
Don't be shy!


Ok Mr. No face from Batman


:) yes I remember :tongue:
ok that was back then, so I guess you still hiring girls? why pay when you can get them for free? LOL


dont worry, they dont bite.


ok good, one of the 10-15% :smileysex:

ohh ok, they will fire you if you like tgirls? wow I wouldnt like a job that dictates who I should like or not.


Ok so thats why. Are the other groups not trans related?

martin48
06-18-2012, 05:09 PM
My face - it would be more than you could take.

Please note disclaimer at bottom of message

buttslinger
06-18-2012, 05:55 PM
I have sent a detailed profile with pics and an open invitation to stay at my house to all the attractive girls on this site.

Prospero
06-18-2012, 06:02 PM
Okay -- here i am then. Now you understand? I warned you I had a high profile job. You WERE warned Tatiana

Cecil Rhodes
06-18-2012, 06:14 PM
Okay -- here i am then. Now you understand? I warned you I had a high profile job. You WERE warned Tatiana

Yeah right . I know that son of a bitch and you are not him .

okcboi
06-18-2012, 06:46 PM
Would posting a pic on here get me anywhere? Would That help you getting to know me?
So you being attracted to me is that going to get me a date?

loveboof
06-18-2012, 06:49 PM
Yeah, I think it's more about not wanting your photo out there on a porn site for most people.

Personally a lot of my close friends and family would recognise my username if they ever actually read through this site. So it's not so much about the DL, but anonymity is comfortable here - especially if you like the occasional 'debate' (argument).

Wendy Summers
06-18-2012, 07:22 PM
I have sent a detailed profile with pics and an open invitation to stay at my house to all the attractive girls on this site.

Well... now I know where I stand... :pissed:



:dead:

TatianaSummer
06-18-2012, 10:25 PM
Okay -- here i am then. Now you understand? I warned you I had a high profile job. You WERE warned Tatiana

OMG I just came on my booty shorts! I have to accept and admit that I do have a crush on Putin. mmmmmmmm :party::party:

Cecil Rhodes
06-18-2012, 10:33 PM
OMG I just came on my booty shorts! I have to accept and admit that I do have a crush on Putin. mmmmmmmm :party::party:

Tatty, did you see my comment regarding him ?

buttslinger
06-18-2012, 11:05 PM
Well... now I know where I stand... :pissed:

Ha ha. I can't get a joke by you, snookums....:salad

BeardedOne
06-18-2012, 11:29 PM
Well, I've posted my pic a few times here (Including a sweet ass shot from my misspent youth, if you search hard enough), but as many of the ladies here who've met me in person will attest, I'm an ugly fuck, sure to scare the horses.

Why inflict that on the masses when I can use appropriate avatars such as Emperor Norton I (To reflect my eccentricities), Gomez Addams (To show my impish side), and Czar Nicholas II (For those that see my inner style)? Frequent visitors to this and other forums will recognize those avatars as mine.

If any of the ladies wish to see the real me, they need only ask in a private message (Or gossip among themselves until they find one or more that have met me in person and have access to an actual image) and if any of the dudes are curious they can show up in Chicago or Vegas at one of the proper moments and see me, for lack of better activities, frightening the horses.

loveboof
06-18-2012, 11:41 PM
I think BeardedOne has touched on a very interesting reason here.

Namely that on an internet based forum, people can choose to represent themselves on a level other than their appearance.

For example, they may decide to highlight an aspect of their personality or humour, or they may wish to draw attention to something or someone they like. There is no need for a physical assessment to be made of them in a virtual environment. It's simply unnecessary.

I'm sure most of us would not have a problem sharing pics in private with someone we enjoy chatting to, but for the simple means of communication and sharing of ideas, personal pics of ourselves are not needed.

SmithXXX
06-18-2012, 11:50 PM
I not only have my face, but partial body too. Plus most of you have already seen me naked....lol

Lovecox
06-19-2012, 12:26 AM
My avatar is me ... or at least my ass and foot!

Jericho
06-19-2012, 12:30 AM
for lack of better activities, frightening the horses.

Oh stop bragging.
Didn't you get arrested for that last time! :whistle:

lovesall
06-19-2012, 12:36 AM
Working for a secret government agency no one needs to know I am here, so Glenn Quagmire will take my place.....Giggity!

bulldog
06-19-2012, 01:07 AM
If someone wants to see a picture of me, they have but to ask, I aint shy, aint afraid of showing myself, I just don't go out of my way to do so.

FreddieGomez
06-19-2012, 01:07 AM
why should i?

Cecil Rhodes
06-19-2012, 01:20 AM
Look Out Troll Alert ......


Well, I've posted my pic a few times here (Including a sweet ass shot from my misspent youth, if you search hard enough), but as many of the ladies here who've met me in person will attest, I'm an ugly fuck, sure to scare the horses.

Why inflict that on the masses when I can use appropriate avatars such as Emperor Norton I (To reflect my eccentricities), Gomez Addams (To show my impish side), and Czar Nicholas II (For those that see my inner style)? Frequent visitors to this and other forums will recognize those avatars as mine.

If any of the ladies wish to see the real me, they need only ask in a private message (Or gossip among themselves until they find one or more that have met me in person and have access to an actual image) and if any of the dudes are curious they can show up in Chicago or Vegas at one of the proper moments and see me, for lack of better activities, frightening the horses.

evilernie
06-19-2012, 03:11 AM
This is an honest answer.

I think of this as a fantasy. I don't think I will have a real encounter with a tgirl as a girlfriend or escort.

For the people that is part of the "regular" society, I don't think it's a good idea to post one's pic in a porn forum. I only have one pic on Facebook, one in Linked-in. My main profile is in Google+, which most pics are private.

So there.. If you're imagining that I'm hot and hoping to catch a glimpse for your masturbatory fantasies, then just keep it to yourself. I rather not be a sex object. ;)

Rivz
06-19-2012, 05:12 AM
Cause I worship the Gods of Chaos. If you played Warhammer you would know. :)

chromeheart44m
06-19-2012, 05:27 AM
cause I have a good job ...

bubbski
06-19-2012, 05:43 AM
Tatiana. mi amor...what makes you think that my avatar isn't me...

In fact, it's a live feed from my webcam of my one-handed activity whenever I visit this site!!

Yeah
06-19-2012, 06:22 AM
Mostly because I'm fat and out of shape, so i don't like how pics look with me being huge.

JustMeHere
06-19-2012, 06:30 AM
Mine's legit.

CaptainPlanet
06-19-2012, 06:38 AM
Simply stated, google images is a really easy way to search pics, so if someone outside of this site searched for say your avatar, it would link them to this site. And again Internet is not reality these days.

TatianaSummer
06-19-2012, 06:38 AM
I love all these answers, specially the one that does not post a pic so no one can use it to masturbate to it. LOL :dead: sure!

Nautica
06-19-2012, 06:39 AM
This is an honest answer.

I think of this as a fantasy. I don't think I will have a real encounter with a tgirl as a girlfriend or escort.

For the people that is part of the "regular" society, I don't think it's a good idea to post one's pic in a porn forum. I only have one pic on Facebook, one in Linked-in. My main profile is in Google+, which most pics are private.

So there.. If you're imagining that I'm hot and hoping to catch a glimpse for your masturbatory fantasies, then just keep it to yourself. I rather not be a sex object. ;)

Haven't read this entire thread, so not sure if this point has been made, but...

I agree. Whether it's TG or GG. Porn is porn. And, everyone is better than everyone else...... even if they are doing the same thing behind closed doors. Better to be logical instead of trying to prove a point.


Mine's legit.
:fuckin::jerkoff

maaarc
06-19-2012, 06:53 AM
Are they shy or ashame that they like t-girls?
They have their penis, dogs, cars, motorcycles, comics, etc etc
but almost never they show their face.

Here in HA only a few have their real picture too, same as Tweeter. It mostly happen in tweeter accounts that guys have t-girls added in their list, regular accounts guys show their face. :mad:

Blah blah blah - for cryin out loud Tatiana isn't obvious that we are a bunch of fraidy cats - cowardly men who are unworthy of you or many of the other women who post on this forum. NOW, for the love of GOD!!! will you please post some more sexy time pictures :)

TatianaSummer
06-19-2012, 07:10 AM
Blah blah blah - for cryin out loud Tatiana isn't obvious that we are a bunch of fraidy cats - cowardly men who are unworthy of you or many of the other women who post on this forum. NOW, for the love of GOD!!! will you please post some more sexy time pictures :)

LOL I will! but I do have to say I like your avatar!!!

noble1337
06-19-2012, 10:58 AM
Here in HA only a few have their real picture too, same as Tweeter. It mostly happen in tweeter accounts that guys have t-girls added in their list, regular accounts guys show their face. :mad:

its like you have a heavy Mexican accent when pronouncing twitter -_o

TatianaSummer
06-19-2012, 11:11 AM
its like you have a heavy Mexican accent when pronouncing twitter -_o

ups sorry!

Castor_Troy05
06-19-2012, 02:05 PM
I do, it's no big deal to me

bassman2546
06-19-2012, 03:00 PM
My face is right there. I'm a politician, btw.

feneman
06-19-2012, 06:15 PM
To be honest i've just looked through the thread very quickly, but why would anyone post their faces as an avatar here of all places ?

I'm a pretty lazy person and to be honest, this coupled with the fact that the internet is filled with horrible people, gives me less incentives to post pictures of me.
It has nothing to do with shame or whatnot, i'm a member of privateerpress, warseer, and bugmansbrewery forums and none of them have pics of me either. Hell, i have no twitter account and my facebook has maybe 5 pics total.

With that said, what would i gain from posting pics of myself on any of those sites ? nothing
Will seeing my face make people agree more or less with me ? no
Will my arguments have less value if i stay anonymous ? no
Will i magically have the love and admiration of the masses ? no


And to be honest, this forum has it's fair share of horrible people. The way guys are treated in general here is ... well ... "peculiar" to say the very least. Threads like "post pics of yourself" have been met with ridicule once regular guys started posting their pics.
(Girls also have it rough, but mostly from other girls which i find odd)

In general, threads that newbie posters (girls and guys) have started with a semblance of sincerity about real life problems (psychological or otherwise) linked to the lifestyle have been met with scorn and aggressiveness;

Things like "guys here don't give a crap, they are only here for free porn, delete your account and go somewhere else" type of responses, and this is a recurring theme that pops up maybe once a week, for this weeks example just browse through the first page of "life is unfair".
(people should realise, youporn offers vids without the need to register ... easier ways of getting porn i believe)

It may or may not be true that guys are only here for porn (and the aggressiveness may or may not be warranted), but there are more polite ways of saying things, not all guys (nor girls) have the same motivations and one should really not judge if they do not wish to be judged back.

So again, i ask, why would anyone want to post their pics here ?

buttslinger
06-19-2012, 06:21 PM
A man's face is his autobiography. A woman's face is her work of fiction. -Oscar Wilde

Nautica
06-19-2012, 06:40 PM
My face is right there. I'm a politician, btw.

Speaking of sucking 'face'....

FreddieGomez
06-20-2012, 12:20 AM
because i'm a celebrity

onmyknees
06-20-2012, 02:38 AM
Why no personal pic you ask Tatiana ?

Well because I'm from the government and I'm here to help.


P.S. I know there has been some changes....but has this now become a dating site?

TatianaSummer
06-20-2012, 06:04 AM
Why no personal pic you ask Tatiana ?

Well because I'm from the government and I'm here to help.


P.S. I know there has been some changes....but has this now become a dating site?

I dont think this is a dating site and I woud never date anyone from here because its a bunch of lurkers but I still think that sometimes is good to put a face to a nickname, but thats just my two cents.

I could care less if guys post their pictures or not but I just had the curiosity of whats their reason not to post any.

Cecil Rhodes
06-20-2012, 06:23 AM
I dont think this is a dating site and I woud never date anyone from here because its a bunch of lurkers but I still think that sometimes is good to put a face to a nickname, but thats just my two cents.

I could care less if guys post their pictures or not but I just had the curiosity of whats their reason not to post any.

Are we still on for chat time tonight Tatiana

buttslinger
06-20-2012, 06:58 AM
Although my posts still wouldn't make any sense with my actual photo ID, I think they'd be a lot easier to understand.

moonman
06-20-2012, 07:35 AM
lol :wiggle:

south ov da border
06-21-2012, 04:14 PM
I've posted my pix before. I guess I'm single now so I can put it out there... But I like my avatar ...

Dino Velvet
06-21-2012, 06:42 PM
No pics of me on porno site or any other site for that matter. I'm not selling anything nor harming anyone by being anonymous. The internet is eternal.

GrimFusion
06-21-2012, 08:20 PM
I think there are a LOT of reasons why dudes would prefer to stay anonymous on a forum like HA. Sometimes it's about privacy, accountability, and reputation, but I wouldn't be surprised if a good deal of dudes just can't be assed to pick up a camera, click a button and upload a picture.

I don't have much of a reputation online, so if I'm running it through the mud it isn't that big a deal. There's been times when I say something so stupid I did wish I used a completely different username on HA, but honest apologies are pretty effective too.

travelinman
06-21-2012, 08:54 PM
Been lurking for a while, first post, so please be gentle ;)

My avatar is me, but no faces. Internet anonymity is a good thing for people who aren't making a living from their internet presence. My Linkdin profile does have my face, but that's strictly work; pics of me on FB, but only "friends" see them. None of my other internet memberships have my face.

I would PM face shots, but only to special girls ;)

runningdownthatdream
06-21-2012, 09:15 PM
I'm generally averse to posting pics online and if I do it wouldn't be a clear shot. If I were independently wealthy or didn't rely on others to earn a living, I wouldn't give a shit. However, I work in a role and for a company that considers posting on a porn site as a negative. I don't want to lose my income. If this board wasn't primarily focused on porn I wouldn't have a problem posting a pic. I'm not ashamed of my opinions and don't have a problem with someone confronting me on the street about them so that doesn't factor into my reasons.

BraveHeartz
06-21-2012, 09:42 PM
Unfortunately that ugly bastard is indeed me.

SebBM
06-21-2012, 10:19 PM
I know some are in fear of friends/family/co-workers finding them here, but honestly what would they be doing here in the first place?

maaarc
06-22-2012, 12:17 AM
I dont think this is a dating site and I woud never date anyone from here because its a bunch of lurkers but I still think that sometimes is good to put a face to a nickname, but thats just my two cents.

I could care less if guys post their pictures or not but I just had the curiosity of whats their reason not to post any.

Plz we can haz sexy time picture :)

robertlouis
06-22-2012, 03:36 AM
I hide behind my guitar, but the avatar pic is indeed myself playing at a festival in Bristol a couple of years ago.

hwbs
06-22-2012, 04:19 AM
Honestly I keep my personal life seperate..I don't use this site for dating...I do that in real time.....

TSBootyLover
06-25-2012, 11:19 AM
this is my real avatar