Black Men Who Like Trans-Women

[Donjuan2416]

As a black man myself I feel like it is very stigmatized to be attracted to trans-women. You damn near have to be on the DL in fear of being rejected by your family/community. So I've started this thread as a platform for young black men like myself who need an outlet to voice their opinions. Other races and transsexuals feel free to also voice your opinions. I just wanna make sure Im not alone in my thoughts and ideas.

[Token Williams-Black]

You're not. Due to just being a black male we're stigmatized for EVERYTHING.

[Jericho]

As a black man myself I feel like it is very stigmatized to be attracted to trans-women. You damn near have to be on the DL in fear of being rejected by your family/community.

And so it shall always remain, until enough people come out and say, 'Fuck it'. :shrug

[giovanni_hotel]

No stigma here on HA, mah dude. You're free to be out and proud about your jonez for tgirls. Welcome to the club.

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[beatlephil]

I'm a middle-aged Black guy, who already takes a lot of heat for being a Black conservative Republican so having been in relationships with women in my travels who were kind enough to eventually tell me that they were post-op transsexuals has steeled me to simply not worry about what other people think. I stand firm on what i know and what I believe in and the woman by my side will always have my complete support regardless whether she was born female or not.

[FreddieGomez]

yawnn

[payload4]

Really? I'm sure whites, hispanics, and others have the same problem...all men of all races like trannies...a problem of being outed and stigmatized is not only heart felt in the so called black community but everywhere...friends, family, co-workers...ect ect...Im sure there is much more pressing issues in the so called black community then your love or black mens love for transexuals...lol

[giovanni_hotel]

It's not about it being an 'issue' in the Black community. But it's harder IMO for BM to be out about anything that isn't purely hetero oriented, especially in one's social circle if it's mostly Black.

Yeah it's hard on all ethnic groups, but I don't think people understand the level of ostracizing that goes on in the Black community for anything that appears 'gay'.

You'll def lose almost all your close BM friends if you came out that you liked TGs. I don't know if that's the same situation for other men.

[payload4]

lol thats to funny... any male who is totally hetero and found out you like trannies would be like wtf and dis you if he was not a true friend...a true friend no matter the race would be like whatever as long as you're not flaming im good...only a douche would reject u for it...I kno a lot of blacks that like trannies and i kno a lot of black trannies that are totally open and people seem cool with it..i still see white trannies having it hard when it comes to comming out...but every community has their hardcore anti-homo crowd...Its all about who your circle is personality wise not race wise...

[youngblood61]

No way I would tell anyone about my like of Tgirls. I just don't think people or friends would be ready for it.:smile:

[Legspreader]

There is no reason to tell anybody my sexual orientation. It's my life and I will live it to the fullest. Whoever finds out finds out, oh well.

[buckjohnson]

boring

[Ryz]

Ironic. I'm a black male and my parents know I've dated T-Girls. Some friends too. :/

[okcboi]

they're tgirls here in oklahoma and they're rasict so, I cannot run into this problem

[lifeisfiction]

I'm a middle-aged Black guy, who already takes a lot of heat for being a Black conservative Republican so having been in relationships with women in my travels who were kind enough to eventually tell me that they were post-op transsexuals has steeled me to simply not worry about what other people think. I stand firm on what i know and what I believe in and the woman by my side will always have my complete support regardless whether she was born female or not.

Black Republicans, they do exist.

[BellaBellucci]

Black Republicans, they do exist.

Black Republican = Libertarian. ;)

~BB~

[Drizzy]

I feel very stigmatized to for being a black guy like Tgirls but every straight guy will feel that way. My transgf lives in a different city thats more accepting of gays lesbos and TS people. Over there we can walk in the and show public affection like it's nothing. In my city everyone would be in disgust at the affection except my close friends and brother they already know I like Tgirls.

[beatlephil]

I would like to add one thing here to this discussion--It's not so much that that i like transsexuals, post-op in particular. I like women and not being into oral and anal sex I much prefer having vaginal sex with them. However, by educating myself to transgender issues I've simply come to the conclusion that a woman's transsexual status means no more to me than her race, color, religion or nationality. I will never say that it doesn't matter, only that it doesn't matter enough to change how i feel about her. And regardless of what race you are any man will have to decide how much she really means to him. Deal with it.

[brickcitybrother]

As the other poster said - all men will get flak for this preference, especially since it is either hidden or because they refuse to stand up for their preference. Now I know we get it worse because of the stigma passed on and pressed on by the hypocritical black church.

So you are not alone, but other than here you are not going to get alot of support. Of course, you could just be up front with everyone and be the support for someone else.

[BlkJewels]

Well, I don't know if THIS is the forum for it. Some of the girls here hate brothas. That said, brickcitybrother's post is on point.
And I edited 'Most' with 'Some' for obvious reasons.

[blkmamba]

Am not sure why any guys would worry about what others has to say...You just need to be you and know who you are as a man. My girl is tran and she gone through so much to be her beautiful self..so I'll be damn to put her through any more of her bad experiences in life. I'll rather be there for her and support her...So what some people dont agree with my choice, I can only be true to her and my self...

[rydermorrison]

Am not sure why any guys would worry about what others has to say...You just need to be you and know who you are as a man. My girl is tran and she gone through so much to be her beautiful self..so I'll be damn to put her through any more of her bad experiences in life. I'll rather be there for her and support her...So what some people dont agree with my choice, I can only be true to her and my self...

^^^respect :)

[blkmamba]

^^^respect :)

Thank you mama

[youngblood61]

I really don't care what people think. But I won't broadcast the fact that I like Tgirls. Plus I'm a private person,and it really is nobody's business!:smile:

[MHarrigan82]

I am a 30 year old black male living in Dallas. I have been dating a TG for two weeks now. It is not serious at the moment . I have not told any of my friends or family because they would not understand or open minded enough to understand. In my situation my family stays like 10 hours from where I live so I don't mind going out with her. I went to a resturant with her two weeks ago first date did receive a few odd looks but said to myself fuck it. I like all type of girls gg or tg. I don't see myself ever marrying a tg due to wanting to have my own biological kids.

[south ov da border]

I've had to pretty much not tell many people. My family found out because they found my videos and such, but I have told the past few girls I've been involved in. They have actually been cool with it.

Unfortunately my inner city experience tells me that you can't be yourself around a lot of folks.

[lifeisfiction]

Black Republican = Libertarian. ;)

~BB~
Libertarians and Republicans are two different creatures.

[BellaBellucci]

Libertarians and Republicans are two different creatures.

Yes and no. A Libertarian is what a Republican USED to be, as opposed to that bastardized corporate shill group that we have now. And a Libertarian, ironically, is a 'classical liberal.' Go figure. :lol:

~BB~

[amberskyi]

Okay so who else is loving blkmamba

[BellaBellucci]

Okay so who else is loving blkmamba

Aww, but you used to feel that way about me. :lol:

~BB~

[onmyknees]

As a black man myself I feel like it is very stigmatized to be attracted to trans-women. You damn near have to be on the DL in fear of being rejected by your family/community. So I've started this thread as a platform for young black men like myself who need an outlet to voice their opinions. Other races and transsexuals feel free to also voice your opinions. I just wanna make sure Im not alone in my thoughts and ideas.



Part of me understands what you're trying to convey, but why do you feel compelled to share your intimate sexual desires with your family and friends ? On a macro level....sure I wish everyone was more accepting of different lifestyles, but that's a long slog and we're not nearly there. So while I can relate to your predicament, you have to deal with society as it is...not as you want it to be. If you were married, and hangin' with the guys would you intimate details of your bedroom adventures with your wife? I would find that uncomfortable. I have gay dudes that work for me, and when we socialize I don't want to hear about their encounters, and I don't share mine. I just don't get why that's anybody's business but your own.... To me sex is a deeply personal thing. The only approval I need is from my partners...no one else. I understand and agree there should be far less judgement coming from others both black and white on how it is you chose to live your life, but neither you nor I are going to change that in the short term... While it's true you can select your friends but not your family, if you showed up to Sunday dinner with a Trans Woman and she makes you happy yet they don't except her...that's on them...not you. If you start living your life fearing what others might think...you're bound to be unhappy.

[amberskyi]

I wonder if you guys ever wonder how it makes us feel to have a boyfriend/lover only to find out that they are ashamed of us or scared to be with us publicly.do you know how painful and helpless we feel that the only reason is what we were born, something we can't help or change...

[Donjuan2416]

Yeah all that "I don't care what people think...sticks n stones" jibberish sounds good but in reality we do care what people think. We all want to feel some level of acceptance, whether that's from family or society. The same way a Trans girl doesn't want to be rejected by family/society for being who she is us men also don't want to be rejected. We live in a cruel and unforgiving world, and us Trans admirers get heat from both sides;if we like Trans-women were seen as "gay" by society and "chasers" by the girls

[south ov da border]

Yeah all that "I don't care what people think...sticks n stones" jibberish sounds good but in reality we do care what people think. We all want to feel some level of acceptance, whether that's from family or society. The same way a Trans girl doesn't want to be rejected by family/society for being who she is us men also don't want to be rejected. We live in a cruel and unforgiving world, and us Trans admirers get heat from both sides;if we like Trans-women were seen as "gay" by society and "chasers" by the girls


And that is a big problem, especially being black and liking a trans woman. I have only been with 1 and I never have had a relationship or anything because I've basically been around my family and haven't had the time to branch out and meet on my own terms. But it seems with me the last few women I have had in my life have been sexually open and we both actually liked trans women - though they had never seen one in the buff. I'll see what type of girl I do get once I can get past the whole liking them for more than an escort thing.

And I know what it is like to be ok to sleep with but not ok to bring home or take in public hand in hand. And it sucks...

[brickcitybrother]

I am a 30 year old black male living in Dallas. I have been dating a TG for two weeks now. It is not serious at the moment . I have not told any of my friends or family because they would not understand or open minded enough to understand. In my situation my family stays like 10 hours from where I live so I don't mind going out with her. I went to a resturant with her two weeks ago first date did receive a few odd looks but said to myself fuck it. I like all type of girls gg or tg. I don't see myself ever marrying a tg due to wanting to have my own biological kids.

Too many contradictions ... brain needs rest. LMAO

[JayCon2006]

No way I would tell anyone about my like of Tgirls. I just don't think people or friends would be ready for it.:smile:

I personally joined this forum for that reason

The black community , family , and friends basically suck ,
and being into t-girls wouldn't make it any better

I'm agnostic and all I get is BS ,
" you're what , and what is that exactly ? "
or mostly " you're going to hell "
Its hard to talk to a "christian" black person without some fake ass hypocrite telling ME , I'M going to hell

I mean do I wanna argue my beliefs and damn, my love for a nice t-girl
hell thas an argument I'll never win

Anytime you are black and different you are shunned ...
I love classical music and you should see my boys faces when I pull up in my car with those violins playing lol
I stopped caring - aye I like Pac and Bach
Deal with it

Now this T-girl thing is different though
Looking at Tranny porn just makes you gay in the eyes of blacks and thas the truth , you might as well just come out the closet is what they say.

The first T-girl I looked at twice was Destiny and I was like no fuckin way
Then It Was Sexxy Jade
And I was hooked
its my choice to keep my porn secrets I like a lot of fetishes Im not like hey man you gotta see this t-girl or wow girls peeing are you guys into that ... lol

Who doesnt close their doors and have a secret
And Basically WHO THE FUCK CARES

[RACQUEL]

DL Brothers are the BEST!! They Love Tgurl Ass Bigtime!! Stay on the DL and Hit dem FREAKS DADDY. XOXO

[dabaldone]

Am not sure why any guys would worry about what others has to say...You just need to be you and know who you are as a man. My girl is tran and she gone through so much to be her beautiful self..so I'll be damn to put her through any more of her bad experiences in life. I'll rather be there for her and support her...So what some people dont agree with my choice, I can only be true to her and my self...

I'm with you on this one brother. At some point you have to stand up for who you are and what you believe in. The things I do for my lady and the lady friends who just happen to be trans and what I do for other brothers who "struggle" with being trans-attracted define who I am. I don't give a damn who thinks what! And yes, I am black.

[dabaldone]

I wonder if you guys ever wonder how it makes us feel to have a boyfriend/lover only to find out that they are ashamed of us or scared to be with us publicly.do you know how painful and helpless we feel that the only reason is what we were born, something we can't help or change...

Until a man understands your statement, he will continue to live in fear and shame. Another poster said "Yeah all that "I don't care what people think...sticks n stones" jibberish sounds good but in reality we do care what people think. We all want to feel some level of acceptance, whether that's from family or society."
I don't give a shit about what people think. Im a grown man and not ashamed of who I am or the type of women I love. That's what a man does.

[fordly66]

Just an observation from a white guy. I am not black and have no idea what it is to be black. That being said, how did the trend of young black men wearing their pants down so low so that their boxers show, sometimes even as low as the crack of their ass? I heard it started in prison and that meant you was someones bitch. If this is true, seems like it is pretty common. So I conclude that in black culture, it's OK to have sex with another man so long as you are locked up in prison. So why is it not OK to have a TS girlfriend outside of prison? Like I said, just an observation.

[blckhaze]

Told my family and close friends. most got over it. Some left and I couldnt careless at this point. After 9 years serious in this world you realize being happy trumps being surround by 'friends'

[south ov da border]

Just an observation from a white guy. I am not black and have no idea what it is to be black. That being said, how did the trend of young black men wearing their pants down so low so that their boxers show, sometimes even as low as the crack of their ass? I heard it started in prison and that meant you was someones bitch. If this is true, seems like it is pretty common. So I conclude that in black culture, it's OK to have sex with another man so long as you are locked up in prison. So why is it not OK to have a TS girlfriend outside of prison? Like I said, just an observation.


yes that is true as far as the pants thing goes. This whole Secretly We Are Gay thing is getting out of hand as well.

As far as the prison thing, different rules in house. That's the gist of it...

[giovanni_hotel]

Most Black youth who wear their pants saggin' don't even know it originated as sexual code for DL brothas in prison. Showing your ass meant your ass was available.
I still laugh inside a little when I see some young dude with literally his butt out and his pants belted below his cheeks.

[buckjohnson]

yawnn

I agree

[luvsbigass]

I'm a man of color and I do see alot of post bashing bruthas. I find it funny.....in any part of American culture and sub-culture it's alright to dislike blacks. Amazing. Even a group that is treated almost as bad,still there is room for hate. It make me sad.

[llove]

i'm a black male and i love tgirls,you are not alone

[onmyknees]

I'm a man of color and I do see alot of post bashing bruthas. I find it funny.....in any part of American culture and sub-culture it's alright to dislike blacks. Amazing. Even a group that is treated almost as bad,still there is room for hate. It make me sad.


Sorry...I have to challenge you on your assertions. If you're suggesting that some brothas get bashed on here, it more than likely is brought on by themselves. I give you Darryl and Freddie (on occasion.). Several others have made some statements and been taken to task. Was it because they were black? I can't get into everyone's head, but I suspect it had more to do with dumb statements.

And with respect to your statement...."in any part of American culture and sub-culture it's alright to dislike blacks " that's going to take a little more clarification. It's wildly speculative and very general, and those kinds of statements need to be challanged no matter what racial or ethnic group makes them....you'd be hard pressed to back up "any". Look...I'm not here to tell you how good you have it, or how far you've come or that you shouldn't feel disliked. That would be condescending, and I'm not in a position to do that, but by the same measure, if you're thinking you're disliked and persecuted by any and all cultures in America, I'd say you're looking for a problem that doesn't exist, and sometimes if you try hard enough...you'll find it...real or imagined.

Peace

[mac.B]

Sorry...I have to challenge you on your assertions. If you're suggesting that some brothas get bashed on here, it more than likely is brought on by themselves. I give you Darryl and Freddie (on occasion.). Several others have made some statements and been taken to task. Was it because they were black? I can't get into everyone's head, but I suspect it had more to do with dumb statements.

And with respect to your statement...."in any part of American culture and sub-culture it's alright to dislike blacks " that's going to take a little more clarification. It's wildly speculative and very general, and those kinds of statements need to be challanged no matter what racial or ethnic group makes them....you'd be hard pressed to back up "any". Look...I'm not here to tell you how good you have it, or how far you've come or that you shouldn't feel disliked. That would be condescending, and I'm not in a position to do that, but by the same measure, if you're thinking you're disliked and persecuted by any and all cultures in America, I'd say you're looking for a problem that doesn't exist, and sometimes if you try hard enough...you'll find it...real or imagined.

Peace

Surely youre not talking about America are you? How good do we have it exactly? I'm curious.

[buckjohnson]

If you are middle aged, than rightly so you should take some heat for being a BCR. Did you live through the Reagan years? The Contract on Black America? And what are you conserving? The status quo? I live in an a hillybilly section of the country and the people here constantly vote against their economic interested. I am not Freud, but their is some serious self-hating going on. Maybe you suffer this also.

[QUOTE=beatlephil;1158432]I'm a middle-aged Black guy, who already takes a lot of heat for being a Black conservative Republican

[hngs]

This is the reason I could never get into the whole LGBT subculture. Why do you feel like you need to announce your sexual habits to the world? I mean, straight people don't do it. As people rightly point out, their sexuality is nobodys business but their own. So why do you go out of your way to make it their business? Face it, guys and gals like us are not normal, so we're never going to have widespread acceptance. We will in the sense that people are thrown out of their jobs if they go anti-politically correct, but people don't really accept what we like or what we do. So, just keep your thing to yourself. Don't advertise. Be what you are in the privacy of your own life.

[onmyknees]

Surely youre not talking about America are you? How good do we have it exactly? I'm curious.




That's not what I said, but I would ask you this.....where else might you have it better...where else might any of us have it better?

This board is not exactly the place for these type of discussions because they get off topic and go astray pretty quick....witness the Trayvon Martin shooting thread. I tried to limit my disagreement to a specific point the poster was trying to make rather than get into a whole scio-economic discussion. He said .. "in any part of American culture and sub-culture it's alright to dislike blacks " I say that's insane thinking and it's perception...not reality. But since BJ (Buck Johnson) opened the door for me I'll walk thru it. I say you're far more likely to have your property stolen, or your life taken by someone who looks like you than some red neck driving around in a pick up truck with a rebel flag in the back or some orthodox Jew in Brooklyn. That's not to suggest either of those two like you, but they're not a threat. You're more than likely forced to go to an under performing crumbling school, or provided a low income house in a dangerous neighborhood by generations of politicians who look like you and who have told you they're looking out for you in exchange for your vote...so that the cycle can continue. I won't get into specific names, but some months ago I watched a white politician venture into an inner city neighbor in a town hall type meeting to discuss education, and how it's failing those particular residents.....perhaps not all attendees, but everyone I saw interviewed after was indignant....the prevailing feeling was " who the hell does he think he is coming into our neighbor talking to us about education" . So apparently the status quo is more acceptable than some new ideas. I understand it's easier to blame Reagan, but that is incredibly short sighted given the reality of August 2012. He acts like the current reality doesn't exist. Who is Buck blaming now....you got the guy you wanted, and Reagan's been dead for years...or do we have a new scapegoat and then a new one to replace the current scapegoat? You'd have to be an absolute moron not to take the economic situation then in exchange for now.....Sometimes the enemy is within and is the hardest to identify.

Now back to Black Men Who Like Trans-Women. It's a lot less controversial

[trish]

This is the reason I could never get into the whole LGBT subculture. Why do you feel like you need to announce your sexual habits to the world? As long as gays and lesbians were in the closet heterosexuals labored under the illusion that none of their friends or family were gay or lesbian. Discrimination doesn't matter so much when it is not happening to someone you know or love. In England the penalty for homosexual behavior was chemical castration. These discriminatory practices were attenuated only when gays and lesbians came out and asserted their rights. It's called strength in numbers, having the courage of one's convictions and the courage to be who you are.


I mean, straight people don't do it. Straight people don't need to. Heterosexuality was never regarded as criminal or inherently aberrant.


Face it, guys and gals like us are not normal, so we're never going to have widespread acceptance. You like a pretty face, nice tits, hips and a firm ass...right? But if asked, "Would you like a side order of cock with that?" you're likely to reply, "Yes, ma'am." We girls love you for it. Your friends and family, probably not so much. You're different from them. Not gay. Not really straight either. There is no name yet for what you are. I suggest a game: invent an acceptable name for guys who get boners for chicks who get boners.

[hngs]

I think now that we're at the stage where sexual orientation is no longer criminal, people need to simmer down. I'm not comfortable with revealing to my friends and family that I prefer tits and butts with a side order of cock, but I don't think it's their business and I'm not burdened by the fact that they don't know.

[trish]

Of course it's none of their business; but if they did know, what would that mean to your status within your family? your friends? your community? your business or workplace? Would it have an adverse effect? Sexual orientation may not be illegal but people are stil being denied their rights and freedoms. Why don't the legislators and activists who work against gays, lesbians and transgenders their rights and freedoms simmer down? Wouldn't there be a whole lot less noise if the right just let it happen?

[mac.B]

That's not what I said, but I would ask you this.....where else might you have it better...where else might any of us have it better?

This board is not exactly the place for these type of discussions because they get off topic and go astray pretty quick....witness the Trayvon Martin shooting thread. I tried to limit my disagreement to a specific point the poster was trying to make rather than get into a whole scio-economic discussion. He said .. "in any part of American culture and sub-culture it's alright to dislike blacks " I say that's insane thinking and it's perception...not reality. But since BJ (Buck Johnson) opened the door for me I'll walk thru it. I say you're far more likely to have your property stolen, or your life taken by someone who looks like you than some red neck driving around in a pick up truck with a rebel flag in the back or some orthodox Jew in Brooklyn. That's not to suggest either of those two like you, but they're not a threat. You're more than likely forced to go to an under performing crumbling school, or provided a low income house in a dangerous neighborhood by generations of politicians who look like you and who have told you they're looking out for you in exchange for your vote...so that the cycle can continue. I won't get into specific names, but some months ago I watched a white politician venture into an inner city neighbor in a town hall type meeting to discuss education, and how it's failing those particular residents.....perhaps not all attendees, but everyone I saw interviewed after was indignant....the prevailing feeling was " who the hell does he think he is coming into our neighbor talking to us about education" . So apparently the status quo is more acceptable than some new ideas. I understand it's easier to blame Reagan, but that is incredibly short sighted given the reality of August 2012. He acts like the current reality doesn't exist. Who is Buck blaming now....you got the guy you wanted, and Reagan's been dead for years...or do we have a new scapegoat and then a new one to replace the current scapegoat? You'd have to be an absolute moron not to take the economic situation then in exchange for now.....Sometimes the enemy is within and is the hardest to identify.

Now back to Black Men Who Like Trans-Women. It's a lot less controversial

Where else would we have our history distorted? Where else would we have our industry and economy sabotaged, values corrupted and ingenuity usurped?

A few things to douse those petty flames:

1."I say you're far more likely to have your property stolen, or your life taken by someone who looks like you than some red neck driving around in a pick up truck with a rebel flag in the back or some orthodox Jew in Brooklyn."

Black economic desperation is a product of post integration welfare reforms designed to pacify blacks. Of course theyll steal from me. I live closer. They (like most Americans) are also victims of the myth of white supremacy, so very few will actually harm a white person. This is primarily an urban thing as most blacks in rural areas remain virtually unchanged by integration.
And why would someone who believes that they are in a better economic standing than a black person rob one for a few bills? The consequences are much more severe when you deal with racism outside of the south. Go to Philly if you don't believe me.

2."You're more than likely forced to go to an under performing crumbling school, or provided a low income house in a dangerous neighborhood by generations of politicians who look like you and who have told you they're looking out for you in exchange for your vote...so that the cycle can continue."

Yes. The schools are horrible thats why a lot of black entrepreneurs develop charter schools to level the playing field. Because of these more and more black people enroll in college each year. This isnt highlighted by the media for obvious reasons. White america still thinks that there is a larger number of blacks in jail.

But on the flipside a lot of black professionals are Boule and railroad blacks in order to maintain the status quo.

3."I watched a white politician venture into an inner city neighbor in a town hall type meeting to discuss education, and how it's failing those particular residents.....perhaps not all attendees, but everyone I saw interviewed after was indignant....the prevailing feeling was " who the hell does he think he is coming into our neighbor talking to us about education" . So apparently the status quo is more acceptable than some new ideas."

New ideas? So a politician came in to the "ghetto" and said some things that the people didnt belive. Makes sense. Probably because blacks have never gotten anywhere with phony white liberalism. No one believes that crap as its always from some misguided sense of superiority. "The blacks need our help"! That stuff is old. Blacks are capable enough to solve our own problems. Our main problem is that a lot of us want to be like you. And he "ventured in to the ghetto? Ventured? Really?

[amberskyi]

Mmmm...mr.mac is looking very sexy to me now.I just love intelligent men of color

[amberskyi]

I say you're far more likely to have your property stolen, or your life taken by someone who looks like you than some red neck driving around in a pick up truck with a rebel flag in the back...

poverty breeds acts of desperation (robberies, murder,crimes,etc..) regardless of race.that poor white trash redneck is just as likely to rob because he has nothing better going for him. unfortunately tho in this country the majority of the improvised happen to be people of color...

[mac.B]

Mmmm...mr.mac is looking very sexy to me now.I just love intelligent men of color


Thanks queen. Maybe you should take a trip up to Seattle. Come hang out...

[buckjohnson]

I agree



This is the reason I could never get into the whole LGBT subculture. Why do you feel like you need to announce your sexual habits to the world? I mean, straight people don't do it. As people rightly point out, their sexuality is nobodys business but their own. So why do you go out of your way to make it their business? Face it, guys and gals like us are not normal, so we're never going to have widespread acceptance. We will in the sense that people are thrown out of their jobs if they go anti-politically correct, but people don't really accept what we like or what we do. So, just keep your thing to yourself. Don't advertise. Be what you are in the privacy of your own life.

[dabaldone]

Here's a black guy talking about being trans-attracted. Let me know what you think.
http://youtu.be/xNqQHiPc2vE