Cumming too soon...?

[aboutthezote]

Thing is i'm certain I'm just so much more turned on when i'm with a transgender person, but i want to last both selfishly for me and more importantly for her...

This obviously effects anal giving more than receiving but they are both a close call...

This is my first post so go easy, eh?

Advice, similar experiences all gratefully received.

[sukumvit boy]

I wish I had your problem!
Just kidding . But I would recommend trying to turn your 'problem' into a source of added pleasure by sharing it with your partner. Explore the erotic possibilites of 'cum don't cum' ,and so forth.
Happy posting!

[Helvis2012]

Just do it again.

[sjh18722]

viagra

[saifan]

When you feel close just switch positions. Her on top has always been a good move for me also.

[MdR Dave]

Just do it again.

This sounds like your best option, at least until you learn to govern yourself.

[giovanni_hotel]

You're not fucking enough TGs regularly IMO. If you had steady TS sex, it wouldn't be such a psychological mindfuck every time you were with a girl.

I've gotten so turned on I've had to literally tell a girl to just STOP everything she was doing for a few minutes so I could calm down.

[irvin66]

No, sorry! you screwed up! :geek:

[Token Williams-Black]

You're not fucking enough TGs regularly IMO. If you had steady TS sex, it wouldn't be such a psychological mindfuck every time you were with a girl.

I've gotten so turned on I've had to literally tell a girl to just STOP everything she was doing for a few minutes so I could calm down.
Same here...and it's happened with GGs as well. It just feels SOOOO good sometimes you just can't help it! Just gotta learn to pace yourself.

[giovanni_hotel]

Dude needs to go slow and bust out a nut before he's with his girl.

[Prospero]

Masturbate before your date. That should slow you down.

[Jericho]

Keep this image in mind while you're fukking...You won't pop for days! :hide-1:

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/2/20/Margaret_Thatcher.png/220px-Margaret_Thatcher.png

[Dino Velvet]

Thinking about Aretha Franklin works for me.

http://images.quickblogcast.com/1/5/0/2/5/261334-252051/arethafranklinhugebreasts.jpg?a=86

[giovanni_hotel]

Good Good Aretha has some tiggol biddies!!!!

[GOLDENBEAR]

At least you can hold out with gg's . . . I've never gotten as good at that as I would have liked. Maybe try extra thick condoms?

[SmithXXX]

If you know your going to get laid, bust one off before you meet up. That way the easy one is out of the way, and you can last longer for both you and her. Like in the movie "There's something about Mary" "Don't leave the house with a loaded gun." Just "re-load" during the date. This is good for 2 reasons; 1. You won't be thinking about sex all night plus you can concentrate on the date it'self, and 2. If you blow it (no pun intended) you won't go home with blue balls.

[robertlouis]

Masturbate before your date.

Prospero, the rhyming sex advisor..... :dancing:

[Kulver]

I've never had the tgirl experience but I've had similar situations before...really the only thing that works for me is to do it more to get used to it and try multiple times. It's all psychological and if you let your excitement get away from you it's over. I'm definitely jealous that you've had the experience though.

[aboutthezote]

Thanks fellas... i'm going to go with getting more experience with T-girls... now just need to get more experience...

[transeeker]

I have ass-fucked several GG's andy find the sheer tightness makes it much harder to control and I always end up cummin much sooner than in the pussy. I find the prospect of fucking a t-girl far more exciting than the reality. I think that's the effect of seeing too much tranny porn: great to look at an jerk off to but the reality leaves so much wanting. So when I went with a ladyboy in the upstairs room of a Bangkok bar, anal just seemed like too much faff. I ended up sucking her cock, which wasn't as earth shattering as i thought it would be although I did like the feel of the cum on her belly. Maybe I need to experience someone different - a bigger cock to suck and a more inviting her ass on the next trip. Conclusion is that pussy is more pleasurable and easier to control.