i am normally straight but

[nina_lisa]

What is really point of people messaging us saying stuffs like: normally i am straight, but i'd consider making an exception...Etc

we don't need to know if you are straight or not, gay men are not interested in us.

[Jericho]

There is no point.
Take it as a compliment and stop over-thinking things. :shrug

[GrimFusion]

I'm normally gay, but I'll make an exception for you.

I'm off to paint my toe nails. Toodles!

[lumberjack]

"I don't usually suck cock, but when I do, I prefer trannies"

[rydermorrison]

i hate that.. i usually just smile and act like i was just complimented, but in my head the john is automatically put into the lame-o category lol..

[Token Williams-Black]

I'm not straight; I have curves...

[Chuck]

I have an answer to this. So many girls hold it against guys who have past experience with other girls. As if they're all looking for that straight virgin for whom they are the first. Truth is, a lot of girls hold past experience against you. Makes no sense to me. When I was still straight the last thing I wanted was a virgin. I wanted a girl with some experience.

[rydermorrison]

I have an answer to this. So many girls hold it against guys who have past experience with other girls. As if they're all looking for that straight virgin for whom they are the first. Truth is, a lot of girls hold past experience against you. Makes no sense to me. When I was still straight the last thing I wanted was a virgin. I wanted a girl with some experience.

Im not really sure what you mean.. The op is referring to the need that some guys have to tell us about how "straight" they are when what theyre really saying is that they consider us men..

[GrimFusion]

Im not really sure what you mean.. The op is referring to the need that some guys have to tell us about how "straight" they are when what theyre really saying is that they consider us men..

More often than not you're right, but it could also mean the dude is so insecure or unsure about his sexuality he has to reaffirm himself by informing you. Either way it's creepy, thoughtless, and disrespectful.



If PMs like that are common, I'd agree with Jericho. Ignore them and let it slide. No amount of discussion about it will keep dudes from PM'ing.

[Chuck]

Im not really sure what you mean.. The op is referring to the need that some guys have to tell us about how "straight" they are when what theyre really saying is that they consider us men..
I understood the original post. I was explaining why guys, who are likely not first timers, would feel the need to say that they are.

[Ryz]

I'm straight and everything; but i'm just dying to suck your cock

[maddygirl]

I'm straight and everything; but i'm just dying to suck your cock
Hahaha

[GOLDENBEAR]

I have an answer to this. So many girls hold it against guys who have past experience with other girls. As if they're all looking for that straight virgin for whom they are the first. Truth is, a lot of girls hold past experience against you. Makes no sense to me. When I was still straight the last thing I wanted was a virgin. I wanted a girl with some experience.

Are you talking about escorts or TS's in civilian life? I would think most escorts would prefer a john who knew what he wanted, and wasn't going to be too nervous or freaked out or have unreasonable expectations.

[BigBlackMan]

Who cares!

You're getting paid to suck cock, get fucked, fuck ass

[underdawg]

"I don't usually suck cock, but when I do, I prefer trannies"CLASSIC ! Hahaha....................

[Prospero]

I don't usually have sex, but for you I'll make an exception.....

sounds like he is doing YOU a favour

[Dino Velvet]

"I usually shit outta this thing but for you, honey..."

[scroller]

Which is MORE annoying for a tgirl to hear?

(1) I've never been with a tgirl before.
(2) I've been with numerous tgirls before.

[Jamie French]

Number 1. Inexperience is just the worst. Know what you want and be goddamned confident about it. You're paying me for sex, why would I care if you've had tons of strange? I certainly have! I'm a adult with life experience. I prefer to work with other adults who can match or best me.




Which is MORE annoying for a tgirl to hear?

(1) I've never been with a tgirl before.
(2) I've been with numerous tgirls before.

[nina_lisa]

Just got this in an email:


I have never been with a guy but am intrigued.


do people think that be insulting and disrespectful will get them any where?

[Jericho]

do people think that be insulting and disrespectful will get them any where?

Yes..Really...That.

Or maybe, just maybe, they're being neither insulting or disrespectful...just ignorant and don't know any better.

[GrimFusion]

Just got this in an email:
do people think that be insulting and disrespectful will get them any where?

Sometimes. Some dudes think being a dickhead is a turn on. It can be, but they forget the part where they prove they're not usually dickheads.

I think you just got trolled, though. It seems a little more likely some lurker just goaded (thanks, Krissy) you because they read this post. I think that's why most of the other girls just ignore this kinda junk.

[nina_lisa]

I think you just got trolled, though. It seems a little more likely some lurker just goaded (thanks, Krissy) you because they read this post. I think that's why most of the other girls just ignore this kinda junk.

It was not someone from this forum, but a German escorting website instead. Using male pronouns among potential clients is pretty common so far in my experience.

[GOLDENBEAR]

Sometimes. Some dudes think being a dickhead is a turn on. It can be, but they forget the part where they prove they're not usually dickheads.

I think you just got trolled, though. It seems a little more likely some lurker just goaded (thanks, Krissy) you because they read this post. I think that's why most of the other girls just ignore this kinda junk.

I agree. Unless it's in your nature to be an asshole; forget it. It will get you nowhere. That said, I think most guys who say stupid shit to TS's are just ignorant of how to act and that's why they feel an irrational need to explain they are not gay. Like it or not, most of America would consider a guy who seeks out sex with a TS to be gay. So men are naturally defensive about it. Nothing more to it.

[GrimFusion]

It was not someone from this forum, but a German escorting website instead. Using male pronouns among potential clients is pretty common so far in my experience.

That's lame. I'm sure it's way more awkward when it happens while they're propositioning. I had an friend back in high school who transitioned, and I pulled that shit with her the first few times we talked. It wasn't an intentional thing, and I was embarrassed as hell after she got pissed enough to say something. Most guys just don't get a chance to have a conversation with a tgirl or check out the community before shopping for escorts. I'd agree with Jericho (again). They're totally oblivious.

[nina_lisa]

The best one so far is: You look too masculine i think.

[NJfan]

You look perfect. Don't let the pricks get to you.

I am at the point where I am not even comfortable saying: shemales, trannies, transexuals, transgendered, etc. I see those people as girls or women. They just may happen to have a penis or used to have a penis. Maybe we should start saying 'Pre-Op women' ?

[bob.chicken]

i dont understand why it's such a big deal the guys are obviously confused and don't know the appropriate label. It may seem 'normal' to the escort because they hear it all the time but to the guy it's all new to him.

[a994]

Like the song says, just treat her like a lady, and think of her as one.