Passable vs Not As Passable

[qwerty94]

So, I guess this one is more for the gentlemen... I've realized that as I move along in my transition the men who I date/want to date me have changed- or at least their comfortability has... Like, the men I dated in the beginning of my transition must have known that people knew he was with a TS, right? where as now, would never date a CD or even a pre-op TS. It just made me curious about your levels of comfortability when it comes to casual sex with a TS, a few dates, relationship, etc. Which situation(s) is it irrelevant whether or not they are passable, and which situation(s) is it mandatory they are able to pass in public as a gg?

If you need any further clarification on this thread... lemme know. Lol.

[LibertyHarkness]

if a man only wants to date a post op , i think 95% of the time , they will always opt for a genetic girl over a post op ..as the post op will still have to reveal at some stage their t status .. or risk reprisals of variance later down the line if thier partner was to find out .

i think with men and their comfortability ultimately stems from their confidence in themselves and their own views on society and others around them ... i.e a man wanting to ahve kids at some point is going to steer well clear of a TS for anything longterm ..unless they are happy to adopt but i guess that is quite few and far between, people have inbuilt mechanism to want to further their own genetic line,blood line ..

I think also age of the man comes into play as well on how comfortable they are around TS people as a whole.

[qwerty94]

if a man only wants to date a post op , i think 95% of the time , they will always opt for a genetic girl over a post op ..as the post op will still have to reveal at some stage their t status .. or risk reprisals of variance later down the line if thier partner was to find out .

really? im not so sure. the men I date now- I dont find them looking for TS women. we usually meet randomly and they assume that I am a gg. I do usually tell them(like the guy I'm dating now) ETA: he didn't know in the beginning, but I told him that I was post op and he said it was ok. He said if I had been pre-op, it probably wouldn't have worked out.

[LibertyHarkness]

as i said not all but hte majoirty would opt for a gg girl in my opionon, why wouldnt they if its pussy they want, much easier to find a gg girl ... he met you thinking you was a GG ..you told him truth .. he is still sticking about ,but is he a keeper or are you just a bit of fun ultimately for him .. ask him longterm plans about kids etc .. that is generally a gauge of a guys motives in the long run .

[Chase_Mcthirsty]

So, I guess this one is more for the gentlemen... I've realized that as I move along in my transition the men who I date/want to date me have changed- or at least their comfortability has... Like, the men I dated in the beginning of my transition must have known that people knew he was with a TS, right? where as now, would never date a CD or even a pre-op TS. It just made me curious about your levels of comfortability when it comes to casual sex with a TS, a few dates, relationship, etc. Which situation(s) is it irrelevant whether or not they are passable, and which situation(s) is it mandatory they are able to pass in public as a gg?

If you need any further clarification on this thread... lemme know. Lol.

Hello, I'm Chase....Chase Mcthirsty.

And I treat my tgirls the same as my GG's which simply goes like this....

If she's beautiful then she wont leave my side.
And if she's ugly she wont leave the basement.

Pure and simple.

Note:Personality, intellect, loyalty and other positive qualities are prerequisites under the "beautiful" category. So don't dismiss my words as shallow.

[qwerty94]

as i said not all but hte majoirty would opt for a gg girl in my opionon, why wouldnt they if its pussy they want, much easier to find a gg girl ... he met you thinking you was a GG ..you told him truth .. he is still sticking about ,but is he a keeper or are you just a bit of fun ultimately for him .. ask him longterm plans about kids etc .. that is generally a gauge of a guys motives in the long run .


it is much easier to find a gg, but he wasn't looking for a TS. He was looking for a gg and I happen to have a vagina now. I think having children is def a major concern that most people have, there are other factors that go into having a relationship and there are other paths to having children(adoption, surrogate, etc)... Most men wouldn't leave a gg he connected with if they found out she couldn't bear children.

[qwerty94]

Hello, I'm Chase....Chase Mcthirsty.

And I treat my tgirls the same as my GG's which simply goes like this....

If she's beautiful then she wont leave my side.
And if she's ugly she wont leave the basement.

Pure and simple.

Note:Personality, intellect, loyalty and other positive qualities are prerequisites under the "beautiful" category. So don't dismiss my words as shallow.

fair enough. hmmmmm.... there's a difference between being pretty and being passable. does one matter more than the other?

[Chase_Mcthirsty]

fair enough. hmmmmm.... there's a difference between being pretty and being passable. does one matter more than the other?

Well since some tgirls can easily pass for unattractive genetic women my goal when looking is for one stop shopping. (both)

Now does one matter more? Of course. Masculinity is not a turn for me in any sense of the word. That doesn't mean that you have to be a complete girly girl. It just means that I don't wanna see a 5 oclock shadow at any time of the day.

Stay Thirsty ;^J

[Maxxxy]

Id fuck anything with tits...

[onmyknees]

So, I guess this one is more for the gentlemen... I've realized that as I move along in my transition the men who I date/want to date me have changed- or at least their comfortability has... Like, the men I dated in the beginning of my transition must have known that people knew he was with a TS, right? where as now, would never date a CD or even a pre-op TS. It just made me curious about your levels of comfortability when it comes to casual sex with a TS, a few dates, relationship, etc. Which situation(s) is it irrelevant whether or not they are passable, and which situation(s) is it mandatory they are able to pass in public as a gg?

If you need any further clarification on this thread... lemme know. Lol.


Ahhhhhhh...The passibility threshold. It's so subjective. Check out any thread that asks the question "is she passable" ? And you'll see widespread disagreement. I do agree with Libby on the 95% thing. I can't imagine anyone actually setting out on the search to find a post op to date exclusively. I also find it interesting that men so easily deal with your revelation...you're obviously selecting the right dudes because most guys ( and I don't mean most guys on here!) might have issues with it. You're probably very attractive as well. That might overcome some potential hang ups dudes might otherwise have.
I think there's a different threshold for dating/relationships and casual sex in terms of looks ( passibility) But if you're asking if I'd either date or have sex with someone that was clearly clockable when the sun came up....the answer is no.

[FreddieGomez]

Well since some tgirls can easily pass for unattractive genetic women my goal when looking is for one stop shopping. (both)

Now does one matter more? Of course. Masculinity is not a turn for me in any sense of the word. That doesn't mean that you have to be a complete girly girl. It just means that I don't wanna see a 5 oclock shadow at any time of the day.

Stay Thirsty ;^J


nigga i think i know who you are now

bwahaha smh

[Murderous-marge]

Reel did you fuck jasmine?

[tsadriana]

In my vie w im passable with my cock no ne ed to be a op to be passable.plenty of GG,s
out there.who want pussy goes for real one.sexy girl with cock thats the real beauty boys....

[FreddieGomez]

Reel did you fuck jasmine?


ha i knew it

[robertlouis]

So, I guess this one is more for the gentlemen... I've realized that as I move along in my transition the men who I date/want to date me have changed- or at least their comfortability has... Like, the men I dated in the beginning of my transition must have known that people knew he was with a TS, right? where as now, would never date a CD or even a pre-op TS. It just made me curious about your levels of comfortability when it comes to casual sex with a TS, a few dates, relationship, etc. Which situation(s) is it irrelevant whether or not they are passable, and which situation(s) is it mandatory they are able to pass in public as a gg?

If you need any further clarification on this thread... lemme know. Lol.

I don't really think that much about it. I've dated both gg's and tgirls, and yes, of course physical attraction is where it starts, but pretty soon after that it comes down to personality, compatibility and a whole range of emotional issues which for me have little or nothing to do with relatively shallow concepts like passability, although as I prefer girls who are petite and feminine I guess they tend to be "passable", whatever that means.

And as I'm pretty much a serial monogamist, casual sex and one night stands don't mean that much to me either. If I like a girl and she likes me, that's where we start and then build from there. And in my experience sex with a post-op girl can be mutually very rewarding and pretty damn hot too!

[MHarrigan82]

If a girl is very passable than it makes it much more comfortable going out to normal places like the grocery store, mall, amusement parks,restaurants. If a girl is not as passable in my opinion you are less likely to go out in public and stay in on most dates or go to less crowded places. Qwerty94 is very passable 95% percent of the public would not know she was born male. Women like Qwerty94, and Emilyaka Heavenly Sin are my ideal type of ts woman.

[lifeisfiction]

95% percent, I thought you would have said 100%. So what 5% is not passable.

[MHarrigan82]

I think she looks 100% percent passable but you have a tiny percent of people that would try to clock her by some trait. I had a friend of mine that thought one of my gg coworker was a tranny just because her voice is a tad bit deep and she is very attractive and feminine.

[buttslinger]

It's all a matter of personal taste and appetite.

[Vic]

I saw a point of view that stated that no one sets out to date a post op TS, and I find that hard to believe! Passable, is a requirement personally, but I think that if the T-girls is fine, and the attitude is wrong, its going to be about sex only anyway; please let me know if I'm wrong? My point is that if I could find a T-girl that was feminine, and a post op, I wouldn't care, and I would hope that the feeling for the realationship would be mutual, and not the game playing that the gg's do when the gg's are fine, and get lots of attention.

[BrendaTG]

If you can be stealth thats very nice...
But still, Id like to date a man that does not care what other people think about loving me and me loving him...

Its a turn off for me when men are difficult about dating TS...

[Vic]

I think there was a post previously that stated that its starts with the attraction first, generally beauty. Unless, we, men are looking specifically for a TS, it's shocking to find out that what's going on to start with. Difficulty there-after boils down to acceptance, and dealing with society, as probably the TS that chose to live the lifestyle. Life just ain't fair no matter how you live it! I hope that you find love, peace, and happiness.

[BrendaTG]

Its not a lifestyle...its just the way i am....and i cant change that...

Its not that i dont understand the fears of men...its just that i cant help them with it...and it takes a lot to really win my heart coz i know i am worth it...

I think its unfair that we are held accountable for something we are not able to change...

When i love someone i'd do anything i can for him but i cant change the fact im a ts...

After a while....
Its a let down...
When a guy is bothered by what others say and think about him...its understandable but still i cant believe he truely cares when he is still bothered by it...

Perhaps im drawing the wrong conclusions...
But still...

I do hope im wrong but cant convince myself otherwise