I lost my chance to be a transsexual

[deuxglass]

I grew up in a small town where transsexual was not even heard of. I have always been bisexual, a bottom, small, slim and good-looking so I believe I would have made a decent transsexual if I had had the chance. I also do dress as a girl when I get fucked. It was all there. However the time passed and now I too old to "pass". When I look at shemale porn I see myself as the transsexual sucking and getting fucked. Its my biggest regret of my life.
O any of you have the same feeling as I do? And the girls here; do you see men who "missed" it?

[TatianaSummer]

I know other people with same situation as you. Sometimes things happen for a reason. I always try to convince girls to start early for that reason, I started a bit late but just in time to be able to make it and I am very happy of the people that help me and advice me to transition.

[deuxglass]

Thanks for your kind answer. I do imagine that many men have the same problem. When its in you there is not much one can do. For those who are like me but at the right age, I would say go for it!

[TatianaSummer]

Thanks for your kind answer. I do imagine that many men have the same problem. When its in you there is not much one can do. For those who are like me but at the right age, I would say go for it!

Anytime girl!

[Prospero]

deuxglass.... missed your chance is an odd way to put it. Surely you "are' a trasexual or not. it's a question of whether you realise that in a public and visible way. I met a middle aged TS in Scotland once who came from a very small village. She had been a merchant seaman and was very very masculine looking. Also married. And yet she also knew she was a woman inside and so transitioned in her mid fifties. Remained with the wife and lived in considerable discomfort socially in her small community on a Scottish island. We went to the village pub with her and they thew us all out for "bringing that pervert in here." So it is a challenge.

[deuxglass]

you make a good point. But for me I prefer being passable in public as much as possible. when I dress up for sex men get very excited and say I look very good but I cannot deny that age is catching up now. o go for transitioning now would be just too late. Everyone is different but my perception of myself is not that way.

[alizia]

I'm 37 years old, I think I am too old for starting transition altough I looks younger, but always the decision is very personal.

[LibertyHarkness]

37 is not to old at all .... get on those hormones :) age just slows down the process that is all ....with surgery today so many things are possible ..

if your 37 and a very slim,femme framed person to start with then there is no reason ...

hell in the uk we have people in their 60s transitioning.

[BellaBellucci]

People, PLEASE stop transitioning after 30. If you couldn't handle transition when you were still young enough for pleasing results, then it's going to be exponentially harder later in life, and frankly I'm tired of 50 year old CDs taking 2/mg estradiol a day and calling themselves women, not even transsexuals, but 'women!' They're not, believe me.

And considering that teenagers are starting to transition, allowing them to blend better socially over the long run, you'll just stick out even that much more as older transitioners become fewer and fewer in number.

Do what you want, but nothing beats youth, time, and a whole lotta planning.

~BB~

[alizia]

37 is not to old at all .... get on those hormones :) age just slows down the process that is all ....with surgery today so many things are possible ..

if your 37 and a very slim,femme framed person to start with then there is no reason ...

hell in the uk we have people in their 60s transitioning.

Thanks a lot Liby, but I think it is harder at certain age, I really admire those 60's transitioning, but actually I've lost the best part of it :(

It could be a really exciting life being a shemale in my 20's and 30's, now I see the things differently, although sometimes I really want to change & my gf encourages me to take the step.

so... as I said is a very personal decission, who knows.. maybe in a couple of year I am being photographed in one aduld magazine XD (.. dreams...)

P.D. excuse my bad english. And a big hug for those girls that have the courage to take the step.

[lisaparadise]

People, PLEASE stop transitioning after 30. If you couldn't handle transition when you were still young enough for pleasing results, then it's going to be exponentially harder later in life, and frankly I'm tired of 50 year old CDs taking 2/mg estradiol a day and calling themselves women, not even transsexuals, but 'women!' They're not, believe me.

And considering that teenagers are starting to transition, allowing them to blend better socially over the long run, you'll just stick out even that much more as older transitioners become fewer and fewer in number.

Do what you want, but nothing beats youth, time, and a whole lotta planning.

~BB~hmmmm let me see im 49 never transitioned till after 40 and hotter then 90 percent of you people so i have no clue where your anger comes from kiddo as you know when your clock goes off you do what you have to do period regardless of age body size or anything else.im in my 50th year and trust me im way more woman then you could handle.how would you like it if i said people like you cant transition cause your 6 feet tall and mouthy?you wouldnt like it so dont tell her who or what makes a woman at any age period.

[TatianaSummer]

People, PLEASE stop transitioning after 30. If you couldn't handle transition when you were still young enough for pleasing results, then it's going to be exponentially harder later in life, and frankly I'm tired of 50 year old CDs taking 2/mg estradiol a day and calling themselves women, not even transsexuals, but 'women!' They're not, believe me.

And considering that teenagers are starting to transition, allowing them to blend better socially over the long run, you'll just stick out even that much more as older transitioners become fewer and fewer in number.

Do what you want, but nothing beats youth, time, and a whole lotta planning.

~BB~

What about me? I started at 37, thats when I found out I was a woman. Before that I never knew. :tongue: :dancing:

[maddygirl]

People, PLEASE stop transitioning after 30. If you couldn't handle transition when you were still young enough for pleasing results, then it's going to be exponentially harder later in life, and frankly I'm tired of 50 year old CDs taking 2/mg estradiol a day and calling themselves women, not even transsexuals, but 'women!' They're not, believe me.

And considering that teenagers are starting to transition, allowing them to blend better socially over the long run, you'll just stick out even that much more as older transitioners become fewer and fewer in number.

Do what you want, but nothing beats youth, time, and a whole lotta planning.

~BB~
That's ridiculous. I think no matter what age someone is they should transition. It's NEVER too late, don't say that. That's a load of crap. It's never too late to be happy, and sure they'll have different problems but that's totally unfair to say. You're basing happiness on looks alone... even calling people who've not had the means to transition younger and maybe not pass NOT real transsexuals. It sounds like you don't even understand being trans at all. Whether I took hormones or not I'd still be a woman... maybe not look like an ordinary woman but I'd still be a woman. Now, I decided to take hormones and it's definitely better to start younger but don't try to say that older transitioners aren't real women... that's incredibly judgmental and totally NOT true. I started hormones when I was 15 and I really feel for those older girls who maybe didn't even have the chance to transition and I think they're so strong to be able to deal with not passing and still live their lives and be themselves.

[maddygirl]

Here's my advice to you.... TRANSITION... but be prepared mentality, and realize that you may never pass... but you may pass... with FFS surgery and all the other techniques out there it's not impossible.

[alizia]

What about me? I started at 37, thats when I found out I was a woman. Before that I never knew. :tongue: :dancing:

I am 37 atm.. I'd love to have a nice transition as you :) you looks a lot younger and very very pretty !

[youngblood61]

hmmmm let me see im 49 never transitioned till after 40 and hotter then 90 percent of you people so i have no clue where your anger comes from kiddo as you know when your clock goes off you do what you have to do period regardless of age body size or anything else.im in my 50th year and trust me im way more woman then you could handle.how would you like it if i said people like you cant transition cause your 6 feet tall and mouthy?you wouldnt like it so dont tell her who or what makes a woman at any age period.Lisa you look fantastic!!!!:Bowdown::Bowdown:

[msbhaven]

I started in my 30s, I wish I had started earlier but I didn't. I don't regret being who I am now however. I know people that have started at 46, 50, and 32 and all of them are better off being who they are now rather then continuing to deny that truth. I'd like to know how old the OP to better judge whether they have missed a window or not. I wish I could have started at 20 I won't like but everything happens for a reason. I transitioned when I was suppose to and I am who I am now because of that.

Ashlee

[rydermorrison]

it seems that regardless of what age girls start they always regret not starting sooner and lament over the years lost.. myself included.. That being said, their r tons of women that transition in their 50s and 60s that pass.. In fact sometimes its easier for some to pass at that age because an older woman may not be subject to as much scrutiny in their day to day lives.. btw Lisa you look FANTASTIC!!

[GrimFusion]

That's ridiculous. I think no matter what age someone is they should transition. It's NEVER too late, don't say that. That's a load of crap. It's never too late to be happy, and sure they'll have different problems but that's totally unfair to say. You're basing happiness on looks alone... even calling people who've not had the means to transition younger and maybe not pass NOT real transsexuals. It sounds like you don't even understand being trans at all. Whether I took hormones or not I'd still be a woman... maybe not look like an ordinary woman but I'd still be a woman. Now, I decided to take hormones and it's definitely better to start younger but don't try to say that older transitioners aren't real women... that's incredibly judgmental and totally NOT true. I started hormones when I was 15 and I really feel for those older girls who maybe didn't even have the chance to transition and I think they're so strong to be able to deal with not passing and still live their lives and be themselves.

Oh, jesus... all Bella's trying to say is that transitioning over the age of 30 on hormones alone doesn't produce the same results as transitioning at a younger age. She just didn't include the minority of complainers who have transitioned post-30 and can go out in public without getting clocked. Plastic surgeries can usually make up for any image issues, but if they can be avoided by transitioning during or just after puberty, isn't that the preferable way to go?

I can kinda understand her beef with older transitioners because... well, she's jealous; but she's got good reason to be. In contrast, I can't stand it when dolt teenagers figure out how to reformat and reinstall an operating system then start calling themselves computer technicians. If they haven't been doing it for years and haven't been through the same experiences I have, they've got no right calling themselves techs. I know that's largely off-topic, but I think it works pretty well as an analogy. lol... I said "anal"ogy.

[SunshyneMonroe]

I have a good friend who trans at 48 and looks great a good doc can turn anyone fish

[maddygirl]

It was still a poorly worded comment.

[yodajazz]

That's ridiculous. I think no matter what age someone is they should transition. It's NEVER too late, don't say that. That's a load of crap. It's never too late to be happy, and sure they'll have different problems but that's totally unfair to say. You're basing happiness on looks alone... even calling people who've not had the means to transition younger and maybe not pass NOT real transsexuals. It sounds like you don't even understand being trans at all. Whether I took hormones or not I'd still be a woman... maybe not look like an ordinary woman but I'd still be a woman. Now, I decided to take hormones and it's definitely better to start younger but don't try to say that older transitioners aren't real women... that's incredibly judgmental and totally NOT true. I started hormones when I was 15 and I really feel for those older girls who maybe didn't even have the chance to transition and I think they're so strong to be able to deal with not passing and still live their lives and be themselves.

Maddygirl has the correct answer. "It's never too late, to be happy." The real issue of the original post is about age. Some people find it hard to accept their age. There are gg women in their 40's trying to look and act like they are in their 20's. But the happiest ones accept change and also understand that there are others, usually their onw age who appreciate them for who they really are. I have seen many attractive older transitioners on YouTube.

[Tara Emory]

Well, you can be over 30 and start taking hormones if your hormonal balance is already in the female range anyway. Meaning (at least to me) that some transsexuals are truly intersexed to some extent. When I started my hrt my testo levels were way low and my estrogen levels were very high for a boy. As a boy I was mostly mistaken as a girl, and even when I tried to be an adult male, I was mostly mistaken to be a lesbian tomboy.

It's tougher when you're older as more male hormones and male activities start making your body harder and not as easy to feminize. Even though I didn't start taking any hormones in an official capacity till around 32 I didn't have a problem with that as I wasn't one of these guys who joined a gym, worked on a fishing boat, a dock worker, drove a pickup truck, left the toilet seat up and drank Miller Lite beer.

So I think I would say that super-masculine confused guys should be discouraged from transitioning, because a lot of them are just that... confused.


-Tara

[TatianaSummer]

I am 37 atm.. I'd love to have a nice transition as you :) you looks a lot younger and very very pretty !

:) I was just kidding girl. :wiggle:

[BellaBellucci]

There are exceptions to every rule. It's just that most of them already posted on this thread I think. :lol:

Look, people can do whatever they like, and if they think transition will bring them happiness, then so be it. But they should be aware of the risks and if they transition expecting passing privilege and don't get it, they really shouldn't be surprised.

I'm just being real.


I can kinda understand her beef with older transitioners because... well, she's jealous; but she's got good reason to be.

I'm what now?! DAMN that's funny! :lol:

~BB~

[GrimFusion]

I'm what now?! DAMN that's funny! :lol:

~BB~

Maybe resentment was the right word. I always fuck those two up. Was I completely off with the whole analogy bit, too?

[deuxglass]

As one gets older it is socially harder to transition because you end up losing much at an age when you are usually less flexible emotionally and intellectually. You would probably lose your job and your circle of friends and family to a great extent. Transitioning younger gives you the time to rebuild your life around what you want it to be. At an older age you often have long-term friendships, jobs and family (kids for example) that you risk losing. Life is easier to start over when you are young. Transitioning young you still lose these things but you have more emotional strength and optimism to start over. Do you agree or disagree?

[maddygirl]

I agree but if you really feel you're trans, then it's a risk you have to be willing to take..

[Tyler___Durden]

deuxglass.... missed your chance is an odd way to put it. Surely you "are' a trasexual or not.
Fraking right.
This lady transitioned when 75 years old: BBC :East Sussex pensioner to have sex change op (http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-sussex-17913771)
She'll be 80 when she has SRS.

Also being a TS is zero to do with "Passing"
though it makes life easier if you do.

And it's also zero to do with dressing up for sex with men:
A transsexual woman takes her clothes off for sex.
A CD/TV puts their 'girly' clothes on for sex. http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys/smiley-basic/wink.gif (http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys.php)


Anyway, you're not about to transition, so this doesn't really matter.
So just enjoy doin' your thing and relax and have fun.

[deuxglass]

Fraking right.
This lady transitioned when 75 years old: BBC :East Sussex pensioner to have sex change op (http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-sussex-17913771)
She'll be 80 when she has SRS.

Also being a TS is zero to do with "Passing"
though it makes life easier if you do.

And it's also zero to do with dressing up for sex with men:
A transsexual woman takes her clothes off for sex.
A CD/TV puts their 'girly' clothes on for sex. http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys/smiley-basic/wink.gif (http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys.php)


Anyway, you're not about to transition, so this doesn't really matter.
So just enjoy doin' your thing and relax and have fun.
Of course I am not a transsexual! I never claimed I was. I just am saying that I feel I missed my chance of being the prettiest transsexual I possibly could. For me my being beautiful is important. Why? It's just human nature. Many guys with to have more muscles; wish to be handsome and attract girls better. Many girls wish they had better tits. It's human nature to want to please the other. I have no problem with dressing up for sex. Why should I if me and my partner find it excites us better.

[Tyler___Durden]

Eh?
How can you "miss the chance of being the prettiest transsexual I possibly could".
You are either Ts or not. It's not a lifestyle choice.
You mean: "I missed the chance of being the prettiest CD/TV, I possibly could". coz that's exactly how your posts read.

I hope that clarifies your thoughts for you.

[lisaparadise]

Of course I am not a transsexual! I never claimed I was. I just am saying that I feel I missed my chance of being the prettiest transsexual I possibly could. For me my being beautiful is important. Why? It's just human nature. Many guys with to have more muscles; wish to be handsome and attract girls better. Many girls wish they had better tits. It's human nature to want to please the other. I have no problem with dressing up for sex. Why should I if me and my partner find it excites us better.honey we are all vein in nature,ive never known a tgirl who doesnt see flaws in themselves,beautty doesnt make you more trans it just makes you more beautifull but thats not what being trans is all about so let me fill you in,being trans is all about peace and tranquilitty its about love and understanding of ones soul,its about strength dignity and self beleaf and most of all its about standing you ground and knowing you belong just as much the next person.for two decades i had felt i lost my chance i put everyone i know family and friends ahead of me,i couldnt be selfish its never been in me i made everyone around me happy being funny well just being me so i waited and waited till the right time and i realized that there never is a right time so i made calls to the right people mainly Dr.Tam and we planned out a sked that fit.and now after a decade of transitioning i still dont pass but thats ok cause that wasnt high on my objectives but i achieved my number one goal and that was to fit in never change my personality and to stay true to who i was and who i am afterall my only main objective was to change the shell and ive done that very very well.

[yodajazz]

Here is a person who transitioned in their late 40's, and says it's only been about two years into it. Each person is different. But I have heard other stories, where the person was able to accumulate money to make their transistion easier. Also, as a person ages, they produce less male hormones. So then they have less of them to fight off the effects of female ones,

Transition Late In Life Part 4 - YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oEUbtnH3bKg)

[deuxglass]

looking at your photo I would say that you pass very well! Thanks for the good advice. It is very much appreciated. maybe it is just a question of courage to take they step and do it. maybe I should stop dreaming of it and act.

[deuxglass]

honey we are all vein in nature,ive never known a tgirl who doesnt see flaws in themselves,beautty doesnt make you more trans it just makes you more beautifull but thats not what being trans is all about so let me fill you in,being trans is all about peace and tranquilitty its about love and understanding of ones soul,its about strength dignity and self beleaf and most of all its about standing you ground and knowing you belong just as much the next person.for two decades i had felt i lost my chance i put everyone i know family and friends ahead of me,i couldnt be selfish its never been in me i made everyone around me happy being funny well just being me so i waited and waited till the right time and i realized that there never is a right time so i made calls to the right people mainly Dr.Tam and we planned out a sked that fit.and now after a decade of transitioning i still dont pass but thats ok cause that wasnt high on my objectives but i achieved my number one goal and that was to fit in never change my personality and to stay true to who i was and who i am afterall my only main objective was to change the shell and ive done that very very well.
looking at your photo I would say that you pass very well! Thanks for the good advice. It is very much appreciated. maybe it is just a question of courage to take they step and do it. maybe I should stop dreaming of it and act

[deuxglass]

Here is a person who transitioned in their late 40's, and says it's only been about two years into it. Each person is different. But I have heard other stories, where the person was able to accumulate money to make their transistion easier. Also, as a person ages, they produce less male hormones. So then they have less of them to fight off the effects of female ones,

Transition Late In Life Part 4 - YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oEUbtnH3bKg)
She is exactly how I want to be!

[deuxglass]

Eh?
How can you "miss the chance of being the prettiest transsexual I possibly could".
You are either Ts or not. It's not a lifestyle choice.
You mean: "I missed the chance of being the prettiest CD/TV, I possibly could". coz that's exactly how your posts read.

I hope that clarifies your thoughts for you.
You have a good point there. You mean that I could stay a pretty TV and just be happy with that? I could but frankly I want boobs! So I must transition to have them :).

[msbhaven]

honey we are all vein in nature,ive never known a tgirl who doesnt see flaws in themselves,beautty doesnt make you more trans it just makes you more beautifull but thats not what being trans is all about so let me fill you in,being trans is all about peace and tranquilitty its about love and understanding of ones soul,its about strength dignity and self beleaf and most of all its about standing you ground and knowing you belong just as much the next person.for two decades i had felt i lost my chance i put everyone i know family and friends ahead of me,i couldnt be selfish its never been in me i made everyone around me happy being funny well just being me so i waited and waited till the right time and i realized that there never is a right time so i made calls to the right people mainly Dr.Tam and we planned out a sked that fit.and now after a decade of transitioning i still dont pass but thats ok cause that wasnt high on my objectives but i achieved my number one goal and that was to fit in never change my personality and to stay true to who i was and who i am afterall my only main objective was to change the shell and ive done that very very well.


Very well put and I agree with just about everything said here. I would like to point one thing out as well, and maybe this is just semantics or splitting hairs but to me it's important. People don't "become" transsexual they are born that way. I think what the OP meant to say is that they missed their chance to start transition young. Well so did I, so did Lisa, so did my GF and so did a lot of other girls. But it didn't stop us from taking the steps we needed to take to be who we are and IF the OP really is transsexual it shouldn't stop them either. Yes it was hard, yes a lot of us sacrificed everything or nearly everything, but some sacrifices are worth making to be true to yourself. If the OP isn't transsexual then I'm kinda scratching my head wondering what it is they think they've missed.

Ashlee

[msbhaven]

You have a good point there. You mean that I could stay a pretty TV and just be happy with that? I could but frankly I want boobs! So I must transition to have them :).

Uh what? You can get the best boob job on the planet and that doesn't mean you are transitioning. There is a lot more to transitioning then a boob job, or facial hair removal, or a new wardrobe. This isn't a costume you put on and take off, it is an entire life you are moving from one gender role to another. At this point I'm going to recommend you seek help from a gender psychologist to help you figure out exactly where you are on the gender spectrum because I'm not really sure you know yourself.

Ashlee

[bluesoul]

I grew up in a small town where transsexual was not even heard of. I have always been bisexual, a bottom, small, slim and good-looking so I believe I would have made a decent transsexual if I had had the chance. I also do dress as a girl when I get fucked. It was all there. However the time passed and now I too old to "pass". When I look at shemale porn I see myself as the transsexual sucking and getting fucked. Its my biggest regret of my life.
O any of you have the same feeling as I do? And the girls here; do you see men who "missed" it?

i'm not a tranny, but i can assure you, that you're not late. post a nude picture of yourself here, then designate yourself a female name. not only will people treat you as a woman, but they will be scorned for even suggesting otherwise.

just don't mention this thread prior to posting as such.

[deuxglass]

Uh what? You can get the best boob job on the planet and that doesn't mean you are transitioning. There is a lot more to transitioning then a boob job, or facial hair removal, or a new wardrobe. This isn't a costume you put on and take off, it is an entire life you are moving from one gender role to another. At this point I'm going to recommend you seek help from a gender psychologist to help you figure out exactly where you are on the gender spectrum because I'm not really sure you know yourself.

Ashlee
Oh I know that part. Been studying it for a long time and of course I would want the whole package pain and all. It's long, hard and expensive work to become a transsexual. That's one reason I admire those who have done it. They have guts!

[jamiethewild]

Oh I know that part. Been studying it for a long time and of course I would want the whole package pain and all. It's long, hard and expensive work to become a transsexual. That's one reason I admire those who have done it. They have guts!

if your a ts by nature , some way some how even the weakess minded individual has guts to transition regardless of how their going to look i started at age 17 so my transition went pretty smooth never needed any surgery other my boobs!

[deuxglass]

if your a ts by nature , some way some how even the weakess minded individual has guts to transition regardless of how their going to look i started at age 17 so my transition went pretty smooth never needed any surgery other my boobs!
Your words give me hope. Maybe I can do it. The support you girls give me is just wonderful! I didn't expect it.

[BellaBellucci]

Here is a person who transitioned in their late 40's, and says it's only been about two years into it. Each person is different. But I have heard other stories, where the person was able to accumulate money to make their transistion easier. Also, as a person ages, they produce less male hormones. So then they have less of them to fight off the effects of female ones.

That may be true, but as you age, you become more and more masculine if you have testosterone in your system. By the time that's no longer so, the damage is done. I know plenty of middle-aged transitioners who have taken hormones for years and seen -ZERO- results, but swear that they have... but the funniest ones are the ones who get SRS and think it makes them 'more a woman' than the rest of us. First of all, 'more a woman?' Secondly, if you look like a man, act like a man or a male-influenced version of a woman, dress like a male-influenced version of a woman, smell like a man, walk like a man, and talk like a man, then SRS or not, you must be a man.

This has nothing to do with 'passing.' As has been said, you're either transsexual or you're not, and if you have -NOTHING- about you that says female other than your assertion, then you're just confused. :geek:

~BB~

[alizia]

:) I was just kidding girl. :wiggle:

Sad, I was going to ask you the secret to become eternal young.

[deuxglass]

That may be true, but as you age, you become more and more masculine if you have testosterone in your system. By the time that's no longer so, the damage is done. I know plenty of middle-aged transitioners who have taken hormones for years and seen -ZERO- results, but swear that they have... but the funniest ones are the ones who get SRS and think it makes them 'more a woman' than the rest of us. First of all, 'more a woman?' Secondly, if you look like a man, act like a man or a male-influenced version of a woman, dress like a male-influenced version of a woman, smell like a man, walk like a man, and talk like a man, then SRS or not, you must be a man.

This has nothing to do with 'passing.' As has been said, you're either transsexual or you're not, and if you have -NOTHING- about you that says female other than your assertion, then you're just confused. :geek:

~BB~
I am anything but "masculine" . slim, short, little hair and cute when dressed. Am I a Tgirl in my head? Well I discovered dressing as a girl young at 11 years old. I still remember putting on a bra and panties then. I felt wonderful and whole. I remember vividly the first cock I sucked. I had the same feeling. And when first time fucked I was in heaven! When dressed I am "myself" and I do dress in non-sexual situations too. Does that make me a Tgirl in spirit? You tell me please.

[deuxglass]

Sad, I was going to ask you the secret to become eternal young.
Last time I heard it was somewhere in florida :)

[BellaBellucci]

well i discovered dressing as a girl young at 11 years old. I still remember putting on a bra and panties then. I felt wonderful and whole.

... yeeeeeah. :geek:

~BB~

[maddygirl]

Of course I am not a transsexual! I never claimed I was. I just am saying that I feel I missed my chance of being the prettiest transsexual I possibly could. For me my being beautiful is important. Why? It's just human nature. Many guys with to have more muscles; wish to be handsome and attract girls better. Many girls wish they had better tits. It's human nature to want to please the other. I have no problem with dressing up for sex. Why should I if me and my partner find it excites us better.
Then I don't think you should transition. Transitioning isn't a game of who can be the prettiest... it's being yourself. I was a woman before a hormone entered my body and it's certainly not been a cake walk being myself. It doesn't make any sense to me why a man would want to pretend to be a woman and take hormones... it's not fun and games... It's not all about sex...

[deuxglass]

... yeeeeeah. :geek:

~BB~
It was a revelation as to my true nature........... But I didn't know what to do with it at the time.

[rydermorrison]

That may be true, but as you age, you become more and more masculine if you have testosterone in your system. By the time that's no longer so, the damage is done. I know plenty of middle-aged transitioners who have taken hormones for years and seen -ZERO- results, but swear that they have... but the funniest ones are the ones who get SRS and think it makes them 'more a woman' than the rest of us. First of all, 'more a woman?' Secondly, if you look like a man, act like a man or a male-influenced version of a woman, dress like a male-influenced version of a woman, smell like a man, walk like a man, and talk like a man, then SRS or not, you must be a man.

This has nothing to do with 'passing.' As has been said, you're either transsexual or you're not, and if you have -NOTHING- about you that says female other than your assertion, then you're just confused. :geek:

~BB~

i agree with this..and much of the time theyre taking a negligible amount of hormones ne ways.. they're delusional.. but if it makes them happy then whatev..

[Tyler___Durden]

There is a lot more to transitioning then a boob job, or facial hair removal, or a new wardrobe.
Those were three of the five main reason's I transitioned.
The other two being that:
Men would hold doors open for me and
I'd have first access to the lifeboats on the Titanic! :tongue:

[Mayrah]

That may be true, but as you age, you become more and more masculine if you have testosterone in your system. By the time that's no longer so, the damage is done. I know plenty of middle-aged transitioners who have taken hormones for years and seen -ZERO- results, but swear that they have... but the funniest ones are the ones who get SRS and think it makes them 'more a woman' than the rest of us. First of all, 'more a woman?' Secondly, if you look like a man, act like a man or a male-influenced version of a woman, dress like a male-influenced version of a woman, smell like a man, walk like a man, and talk like a man, then SRS or not, you must be a man.

This has nothing to do with 'passing.' As has been said, you're either transsexual or you're not, and if you have -NOTHING- about you that says female other than your assertion, then you're just confused. :geek:

~BB~

Also, a real transgendered person with GiD wouldnt be on a porn forum talking about how late they are. They'd be plague'd with the disorder of disliking/hating their current body's and they'd wanna fix it NOW, not think about how amazing it could have been yesterday.

[deuxglass]

Also, a real transgendered person with GiD wouldnt be on a porn forum talking about how late they are. They'd be plague'd with the disorder of disliking/hating their current body's and they'd wanna fix it NOW, not think about how amazing it could have been yesterday.
Of course I am confused! That is evident. But this contradiction within me has caused me problems throughout my life. I am bipolar I and my shrink believes that my condition has been very much exacerbated by this conflict.

[lisaparadise]

That may be true, but as you age, you become more and more masculine if you have testosterone in your system. By the time that's no longer so, the damage is done. I know plenty of middle-aged transitioners who have taken hormones for years and seen -ZERO- results, but swear that they have... but the funniest ones are the ones who get SRS and think it makes them 'more a woman' than the rest of us. First of all, 'more a woman?' Secondly, if you look like a man, act like a man or a male-influenced version of a woman, dress like a male-influenced version of a woman, smell like a man, walk like a man, and talk like a man, then SRS or not, you must be a man.

This has nothing to do with 'passing.' As has been said, you're either transsexual or you're not, and if you have -NOTHING- about you that says female other than your assertion, then you're just confused. :geek:

~BB~you may be right im sure you know and see more trans girls then i because you go to clubs and stuff accociated with trans where i may see one or two girls every few years just because i live in a small town but ill say one thing and thats whatever makes one happy is a very good thing and afterall who are we to judge?dont we het enough of that in real life.its there life let them be and save the judging to the homos.