Think i am stopping this

[nina_lisa]

To be honest i am thinking about stopping any ts related work let it be escorting or other.

Just the amount of disrespect you get, once people know you are ts is big and i am fed up and tired with it. i don't want any more sell my dignity for a few dollars.

[zulusierra]

i don't want any more sell my dignity for a few dollars.


You cannot put a price on dignity. If it's not for you and doesn't feel right, then it's best to let it go and be the person you were meant to be. Good luck!

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[jamesedwards]

To be honest i am thinking about stopping any ts related work let it be escorting or other.

Just the amount of disrespect you get, once people know you are ts is big and i am fed up and tired with it. i don't want any more sell my dignity for a few dollars.

Who said escorting is all their is? You can find a job that you want and if you need education in it go back to school get your degree or certificate get a job and rock on and don't have to tell anyone about you being a TGirl unless you meet that special guy. I know a couple of TGirls that have regular jobs, one is snobbish she look down on other TGirls that escort and I told her she shouldn't do that. The other one she makes over 90,000 K a year and she is living well and no one knows she is a TGirl and like she said "I'M THERE TO DO MY JOB AND THEY DON'T NEED TO BE IN MY BUSINESS" and she's right. She is what they call passable, guys hit on her all the time a work or around it.

So do your thing you can do it. :werd:

[onmyknees]

To be honest i am thinking about stopping any ts related work let it be escorting or other.

Just the amount of disrespect you get, once people know you are ts is big and i am fed up and tired with it. i don't want any more sell my dignity for a few dollars.

That's disappointing.
Both my experience and commonly held beliefs here in the US is that a place like Berlin would is far more open minded and tolerant of such things.

[Helvis2012]

You have to do what you think is right.
Good luck.

[Dino Velvet]

To be honest i am thinking about stopping any ts related work let it be escorting or other.

Just the amount of disrespect you get, once people know you are ts is big and i am fed up and tired with it. i don't want any more sell my dignity for a few dollars.

Sorry for what you went through. If you feel it is not the right profession for you then you made the right decision. I see escorts as a client. I try to be extra nice to them realizing some of the people she deals with might be jerks.

Good luck in whatever you do, Nina.

[robertlouis]

Sorry for what you went through. If you feel it is not the right profession for you then you made the right decision. I see escorts as a client. I try to be extra nice to them realizing some of the people she deals with might be jerks.

Good luck in whatever you do, Nina.

I agree entirely with Dino, Nina. Everyone should make the choice that's right for them. But don't go, you've made friends here who will stand by you.

Viel gluck, Liebchen.

[jamiethewild]

To be honest i am thinking about stopping any ts related work let it be escorting or other.

Just the amount of disrespect you get, once people know you are ts is big and i am fed up and tired with it. i don't want any more sell my dignity for a few dollars.


I have a question for you "nina_lisa" how long have you been doing this ?

Omg when i start escorting at 18 i was soooooo scared and i know when your talking about dignity i felt the same way but eventually life brought me what you call strong transgender mother that though me to escort and a strong friend that does escorting , and believe me i know its hard i remember and i sometimes still go through it when i break down and just have to cry and cry and cry because this job can be too much . But my friend and t-mom thought to be strong mentality and emotionally and suck it up and eventually with time i feel i became a strong independent woman and am 22 now and i feel and think going back i say wow to myself you really progress , now this job is like whatever however i plan around my late 20's give myself an opportunity for another career because i really don't want to see myself stuck in this but i will force myself be successful in other ways ..

srry hear that you hate this job some might be ok with it some may love it , some are going to have it

[nina_lisa]

i've been doing this for maybe 3-4 weeks. For me it is not a career or profession, more a mean to an end, transition can be very expensive and i mean extremely expensive.

So escorting is a mean to finance it. Now my impressions are:

1) escorting does not mean always, earning good money, i see many girls that struggle to make a living with it, maybe the top 5%-10% earn well and the rest not. maybe i need to put more effort into it, but it does not seem like the most profitable job.

2) I am sure there are gentlemen as clients, but the amount of jerks you deal with seem like a majority to me.

I have other work, and never in 1000 years would i drop the normal job i do, for me escorting is more extra income to continue to be able to transition, but the reality is difference off respect i get between normal job and escorting is huge.

[LibertyHarkness]

escorting is not for everyone ..some people are able to deal with it mentally much easier than others ..

interms of money , as long as your half decent looking you will make money in any reasonable european city ...it all depends what your pricing at as well vs competition ..

Respect hmmm well your selling sex its never going to b really respected by many, but on other hand i rarely see a client that is disrespectful as i wont tolerate it and remove them if it arises .

If you want to earn extra money and a stable amount of money simply do webcamming on streammate, imlive, adultwork etc pick one or two of them cam sites and just build a routine a couple of hours each night will net you at least 100bucks , multiply that by 5 days, nice 2k a month etc and your in control and not having sex with strangers

[msbhaven]

escorting is not for everyone ..some people are able to deal with it mentally much easier than others ..

interms of money , as long as your half decent looking you will make money in any reasonable european city ...it all depends what your pricing at as well vs competition ..

Respect hmmm well your selling sex its never going to b really respected by many, but on other hand i rarely see a client that is disrespectful as i wont tolerate it and remove them if it arises .

If you want to earn extra money and a stable amount of money simply do webcamming on streammate, imlive, adultwork etc pick one or two of them cam sites and just build a routine a couple of hours each night will net you at least 100bucks , multiply that by 5 days, nice 2k a month etc and your in control and not having sex with strangers


All good advice, Libby. IMO it's not the sex that's hard when you are working for a living, it's the meet and greet that's nerve wracking as Hell. I know I could do it if I had no other choice, but it's not something I really want to do if I can help it. Caming is a lot safer and saner as a choice IMO. Gotta admit I haven't done as well as Libby described with caming but maybe I'm just not holding my mouth right as the saying goes. As far as respect goes, well no matter who you are or who people think you are you are always going to get disrespected sometimes. You can be disrespected for being a whore, or being a porn star, or being a cam model, or just for being trans. Hell even cisgender women get disrespected all the time for no other reason then that they are women and not men. If you are going to get hung up on being respected you are going to have an uphill climb. That being said, weeding out disrespectful clients is all about screening and qualifying properly on the phone. If they start out sounding like a gentleman they have a good chance of staying that way, likewise if they start out sounding like a douche, well you know the rest I'm sure.

Ashlee

[Nikka]

welcome to the real world

[GroobySteven]

Nina ... are you a troll?

[jamiethewild]

i've been doing this for maybe 3-4 weeks. For me it is not a career or profession, more a mean to an end, transition can be very expensive and i mean extremely expensive.

So escorting is a mean to finance it. Now my impressions are:

1) escorting does not mean always, earning good money, i see many girls that struggle to make a living with it, maybe the top 5%-10% earn well and the rest not. maybe i need to put more effort into it, but it does not seem like the most profitable job.

2) I am sure there are gentlemen as clients, but the amount of jerks you deal with seem like a majority to me.

I have other work, and never in 1000 years would i drop the normal job i do, for me escorting is more extra income to continue to be able to transition, but the reality is difference off respect i get between normal job and escorting is huge.

I see your point see , your emotions about escorting are, where i used to be and think about it , SEE i knew your weren't in the escorting biz for too long the beginning point is you want to quit thats how i used to feel .

But if you have other avenues for work then give it a shot , as for me i didn't had other avenues around my childhood i left home because my parents weren't supportive and then is when i meet my trans-mom in transgender groups therapy and she gave housing and etc so i left home at 17