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metalingus
05-16-2012, 10:44 AM
Hi, just wanted to share with you this little story. My Girlfriend and I are together now for 2 month. Right from the beginning I knew I could tell her that I'm into transsexuals too. We told us everything, so I knew, she is into some nasty stuff too. Anal (also with toys), gay-porn, choking, she likes to be submissive and so on. And her ex-boyfriend was bi and she was cool with that.
So I started with telling her, I like to to fuck me with dildos and plugs. Then 2 Weeks ago I told her I'm into tgirls too and once had sex with a tgirl prostitute, and she is totaly cool with it.
First she had some doubts, that she wouldn't be enough for me, and that she couldn't give me everything I need. But I told her, that it's not the case. I love her the way she is, I dont need more. She is the best. And it's ok for her, when I continue to watch tgirl-porn. Because she continues to watch her porn too :D
So, sometimes I still watch it, but not as much as I used to. Maybe someday we watch it together :mrgreen:

giovanni_hotel
05-16-2012, 10:52 AM
Congrats.
I'm jealous of any man who's involved with a woman he knows he can tell anything.

metalingus
05-16-2012, 11:14 AM
Thank you. Yeah, I'm lucky ;)

Hardbodyshemale
05-16-2012, 12:29 PM
wow good for you

top4bigbutt
05-16-2012, 03:07 PM
Man you have balls and an awesome girlfriend
Take care of your relationship, don't fuck it up, lol

metalingus
05-16-2012, 03:20 PM
Thx, I'll do my best ;)
Since that, I have the feeling our love has grown <3

GrimFusion
05-16-2012, 05:16 PM
I understand that there's a risk of ill-acceptance when guys spill their guts to girlfriends, wives, friends, and family about their interests in transsexuals. A fear of conflict is usually pretty obvious especially regarding friends and family... essentially people that don't have a need to know, but a girlfriend or wife shouldn't be kept in the dark. If they can't accept you for everything but your sexual interests, it's pretty obvious the relationship is shallow and likely won't last anyhow.

I digress, though. You did the right thing. I told my girlfriend about three years ago. She's bisexual, and though it might sound a little odd, she doesn't like bisexual guys, so I had to sit her down and attempt to explain why I was interested and why that doesn't necessarily place me in the same category as most bisexual men. She understood, and by the end of the conversation I found out she not only accepts me despite my sexual interests, but she's into transsexuals too.

phillyguy21
05-16-2012, 05:21 PM
Congrats, OP. You have a keeper! My girlfriend and I have been exploring the pandora's box of each other's sexuality, and have revealed many things to each other (this has made are sex life good, because we are both into some kinky shit). The last thing left for me to reveal is my affinity for transsexual women. I've been trying to figure out a good way to present this.

Nivek
05-16-2012, 08:24 PM
OP congrats, you have just set the foundation for an amazing relationship. I tell every girl I'm with EXACTLY what I'm into if I decide to enter into a relationship with them. Honesty right from the start is key to any relationship having a successful future. I've never had a woman that I was with get freaked out or disgusted by my infatuation with transexual Women. Actually, I think more than a handful were turned on to TS's ever after.

jasonsteele
05-16-2012, 08:27 PM
dats a cool girl bro. although i myself dont really feel the need to share that kinda thing with my gf. im totally happy keeping that to myself. shes not gonna suddenly sprout a dick and im not gonna cheat so it doesnt really make much difference to me.

Ryz
05-16-2012, 08:48 PM
yu coo nd yo girl coo too

Helvis2012
05-17-2012, 02:02 AM
Good for you. Secrets can kill.

phillyguy21
01-14-2019, 04:10 AM
I told my gf last night (different one from earlier in this thread lol). She was so understanding about my trans attraction, and the fact that I've been with transwomen. Sorry to necro this thread, but it's a good thread, and I didn't want to make a new one. It feels so fucking good to finally share this aspect of myself with someone.

Kindredmac
01-14-2019, 07:59 PM
This is my first post on here. I tried telling a woman I was involved with once. At first she was OK with it, but then things took a turn and went all to hell and I ended up losing a few friends in the process. So for me, it's something I will keep to myself for now.

mrtrebus
01-14-2019, 08:32 PM
Wonder if the OP is still with his girl?

chi73inla
01-15-2019, 10:03 PM
Lucky. I have to live my life as a deeply closeted homosexual.