Have You Ever Had a Girl Who Was ANTI Dick Play?

[RangeHova]

From the time that i realized that I was into T-girls I researched the subject of transsexuality. I had always heard about the high numbers of girls that hated thier penis so much that they did not want to see it, touch it and damn sure didn't want thier men to have anything with them.

In meeting t-girls over time the girls that i meet were in NO WAY the kind of women that didn't enjoy getting some kind of pleasure from thier dicks. Some may have talked the game but as soon as the panties drop they are grabbin your hand, grabbing you head, or sticking it out at you non verbally inviting you to experience it.

Then ONE DAY I meet her. Latina beauty with a body carved from 100% real butter. Just fine as she wanted to be and oooooozing sexuality. She is all over me and just beggin to take it to the bed. We dated twice before we gor into sex beyond dry humping and by hands under her blouse.

We get to taking off clothes but she NEVER takes her panties off. She puts a condom on me and gets on top of me, all the while with her panties on. She slides over the back of the panties to the side of her ass and slides me in her. I'm like, OK, it's weird but damn it felt good. By the way, she was the kind of girl that got wet the more she felt it. How that works, i still don't know.

I go to slide the front off her panties aside and she grabs my wrist and kisses me real good and deep. I flip her around a few times as we go through different positions. Everytime I reach to take off the panties or reach for that front panel she coyly stops me.

I'm like, did she forget that i already know that she has a cock in those panties?

I've never been cock crazy, but i'm the pleasing type. I want to make a girl feel good. Shit, it turns me on to turn on my girl. Not to mention when I'm feeling it, i like to grab on to the clitty dick. So here i am all about to bust and I'm really going for that front panel or just trying to get the panties off and she damn ear puts a death grip on me.

Come to find out, that this FINE BORIQUA BEAUTY never lets her dick be seen, touched, sucked or handled in anyway. She said for her to touch it while she is tucking even disgust her. It took somuch away from the experience.

Anyone else ever came across one of these kinds of girls?

[tsntx]

that is just damn weird... seems to me shes trying to play the ULTRA- fem card .. seems phishy ;) to me - j

[hondarobot]

Nearly every TS girl I know of has a stipulation they have made to themselves that they wouldn't want to be in a serious relationship with a guy who likes the fact that they have a dick. It's true. They became girls for a number of reasons, and a big factor for most is finding a "straight", non-dick liking guy to hook up with long term. Can't blame 'em for that.

Unfortunately, those 100% "straight", vagina loving guys don't want anything to do with a girl with a dick. This is also true.

Then there are guys who truely don't care what the girl has going on "downtown" one way or the other (these guys are extremely rare), or actually likes the idea of a girl having a dick. Many TS girls consider guys in the latter catagory to be "cocksuckers", "tranny chases" or "closet fags".

I myself consider the vagina to be the one thing I don't like about "genetic girls". I don't hate it, but it is a bit weird. It gets "yeast infections" (yuck), it oozes blood on occasion, if sperm is ejaculated into it a fricken human being might start forming inside it, and sad to say but most of them just look plain weird. Frequently smell bad, taste bad, I could go on and on. Most of that only applies to genetically born vaginas, surgically created ones have a whole set of other factors that, in my opinion, are equally unappealing. A dick is something I can understand, and on a girl it looks pretty cute.

Unfortunately, guys, if you're honest about your interest in a girl with a dick rather then a vagina, that suddenly becomes (in the girls opinion) the sole reason you may be interested in them, not just one of many, many factors. Like girls with big tits? That's fine. Blue eyes, no problem. Nice butt, all good. But don't like the girldick, or at least admit it openly. Maybe someday this attitude will change, but for now it seems to be pretty common.

Personally I'm not looking for a LTR with anyone, so this isn't an issue I really have a problem with, but it is a central and interesting subject in regards to this whole TS girls/guys who like TS girls dysfunctional dynamic.

And, hey, we'll always have Hung Angels so we can explore this topic endlessly. We should start a betting pool on how long before the next guy posts wondering if he's "gay".

:?

[south ov da border]

PPl are ppl except when it comes down to sex. So sad...

[BeardedOne]

A long time ago, in a galax...oh...wait...wrong roll-by. :)

Some years back I found myself in a cuddlefest with a TS that I'd known for a while. As the event heated up she turned it into a wrestling match wherein she would play every card outside the panty lines. I even got the impression that she was trying to protect me from the 'tranny surprise', somehow thinking I didn't already know (It was public knowledge that she was pre-op TS).

A few years later, another TS friend explained that what I'd encountered was not uncommon. It had everything to do with the fact that she was projecting an image of being a woman and that by revealing or acknowledging her dick that image would be broken.

*Sigh*

Cats are so much easier to understand: Feed me, pet me, give me a wakeup call for next Tuesday. :)

[flabbybody]

hondarobot may be on to something.
vaginas are "a bit weird, lots of oozing and bad smells"

I'm never sure if I'm doing the right thing down there with a gg.
OK, this is the ultimate 'Am I gay?' post. I don't understand pussy. that's why I want to be with a tgirl.

please advise

[BeardedOne]

please advise

[RangeHova]

For me, it wasn't so much that I just HAD to see her dick. It was more that something was off limits more than anything.

I've dated girls who had em and it was something that I hardly dealth with or barely glanced at. Dated some postop girls and didn't miss the ding dong for a second. And one was a girl who I had dated before the operation (and what she had was very nice). I told that story hear before, lets just say that she traded in a fantastic piece of dick for an even better pussy (no lie).

Girls, when you go, go to Canada to get em done.

Oh yeah, prior to her surgery, she went through an anti dick play phase. I think it was a part of her therapy. She wanted to not use it so much. She tried to resist it but it would only build up to the point where she was throwing me down and shoving it deep in my mouth like her life depended on it.

But with the no dick play girl, it was like fuckinmg a girl who refused to take off her sweater or let you touch her breast. All that does is build up the desire to get at the tits even more.

[SimonTemplar]

I've experienced gurls who hate their penises and those who love it..
One gurl in particular loved her "clit"... she would give me a sly look indicating her little lady needed some attention. And I gladly obliged !

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

I dont think this is anything weird at all. I myself didnt have anyone see mine, touch it or whatnot up until that guy I dated for 3 years back in MN ('97-'00). Since him, Ive no problems being touched or having someone see it or play with it.

I guess that's a big change considering one's views and from experiences..someone's degree of comfort level with a partner and herself changes over time.

~Kisses.

HTG

[Ecstatic]

With an escort, it's so much easier. I've been with several escorts who truly enjoy using their dicks and having them played with, sucked, and in many cases they really enjoy topping. Yet perhaps these same girls--or the majority of them (having only known 10 or so intimately, I can only go on what I've heard)--don't want their dicks touched and certainly don't want to top in an actual relationship. I'll probably never know, since I'm not looking for an LTR with anyone (other than my lovely wife). It is an interesting question, though, and you've all raised interesting points.

[Dengoza]

Of course everyone is entitled to their desire and own way of giving and recieving pleasure, thats obvious. But it seems to me a shame not to enjoy every bit of the sensuous body you have!

[Ecstatic]

Good point, but it's hard to feel well-adjusted if you feel you're trapped in the wrong body. Thankfully, some girls have managed that. ;)

[RangeHova]

It was a TRIP for me because one of the things that I enjoy about t-women is that in a lot of cases they seem to be more sexually connected to thier bodies and desires.

On a percentage scale, I have not found NEARLY as many repressed and/or prudish t-women. Even this girl that sparked this post, she was highly sexual except for the dick thing.

[swimnn]

Found this add on a personals site (almost all non-pro's)...


Description

I seek one type of man. I live my life as a very beautiful woman and do not identify as TS. Although I am awaiting sex reassignment surgery, I want any man interested in me to see me as the woman I am. Labels do not appeal to me. I am completely passable and seek one man who is confident and secure in his heterosexuality.

I would like to get to know ONE GENTLEMAN WHERE SOMETHING MORE MEANINGFUL IS POSSIBLE IN THE FUTURE. I want someone real and genuine.

Please do not email me if you do not meet the following qualifications. My ideal man must:

ALWAYS BE THE TOP (No need to pay attention to my current “extra something;” I prefer that it be ignored).

SINGLE

He must be taller than 5'11''

Older than 35

White

Hairy is a plus

Military background is a plus

Confident

Blue or Green eyes, maybe Brown eyes with the right personality

100% straight, as I am a 100% straight woman

He must be the man/agressor in all settings.

Gentlemen should send me an email with their description, writing how they meet my requirements. I am a gem and these gentlemen will not regret having emailed me.

Non-qualified men should not hold grudges against me by sending me unpleasant emails. Accept the fact that I am not your girl!
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[drock]

HOw do you expect to find a man who's not going to pay attention to it? I think you're being somewhat delusional why men like women like you in the first place.