Why does it matter if i want surgery or not?

[nina_lisa]

It is like there is a trend among men to ask the following question: do you want one day to have surgery?

if i am an escort, and we are together for 2hours, why does it matter what i'll do a few years from now?

Other annoying question: do you have a boyfriend? like it is enough to meet a random ts, and she will want to be the GF of the first man that want her? If i want to date 5 men per day i can do it. LOL

[jimbo1974]

Its just small talk

As Peter Kay says when you get in a taxi, you ask the driver "What time are you on til" and "you been busy"

[Wendy Summers]

They ask due to their secret fear the cock will get made into an inny.

[LibertyHarkness]

you just tell them .. of course not if anything i will have my cock made bigger with injections :)

[nina_lisa]

you just tell them .. of course not if anything i will have my cock made bigger with injections :)

Sure they will give me an extra $300 to support this noble cause.

[LibertyHarkness]

probably would if you asked them

[sexyasianescorts]

I think its just questions clients ask the common ones at least...

The most common I get is do you work? To which I reply yes I answer the phone LOL

[Prospero]

I think this is a bit harsh. There is among guys who seek escorts a suspicion - not necessarily correct - that you girls are working because you wish to raise money for your transition and that, given an alternative, you'd probably not escort. After all it is a route to making a fair bit of money in a short time span - t meet the massive costs of cosmetic surgery and the more profound medical issues. Yes - it is indeed none of our business. The cold heart of this is a business transaction. But I am a friendly guy and I like to chat with girls I see - like to find out a bit about them. Where they come from? What do they like? Do they do other work? and other stuff. And so i sometimes ask if they are on the road to surgical transition. There are times when it seems like a perfectly reasonable piece of small talk after the event - if you're into small talk. I sometimes do if the girl is someone i have seen before or if we're in an amiable and chatty mood. I've never yet had a negative reaction. I am genuinely interested in what motivates people. That's my experience anyway.

[LibertyHarkness]

i dont mind small talk etc ... but i only talk about or expand on things that i wish to .. if i dont like something is asking me i just change the topic .

[jimbo1974]

i dont mind small talk etc ... but i only talk.

*awkward silence*

So, uhh, are you gonna keep your dick ?

What time are you on till ?

[LibertyHarkness]

with that i would ask the person (if htey are married, as i clock the ring first) are you going to stay with your wife ? or tell her about your love for cock/gay sex at somepoint :)

[LibertyHarkness]

the problem with many guys asking about hte chop shop op is that its double edged for them mentally ...

on one hand they are being nice and just asking out of curiosity seeing wehre hteir money they are spending is going and if its benefiting a person .. on the flip side the moment you say yes i hate my cock, cant wait to get shot of it .. you alter their mood massively ..as your effectively telling them i dotn enjoy this i dont want to do this but i am as i want the money for surgery .. thats how i see it ..

so some questions are best left avoided i think ..until after the session at least anyway lol

[Prospero]

You're right on both those points Liberty. Of course there is a bit of a power transacation going on in this kind of conversation. I've never asked a girl before we play. As you say - if she says she hates her dick then it alters the mood. V
Conversley i have certainly been asked many times if i am married - before, during (!) and after.

One final example. had a great session with a visiting girl not so long ago. We got along very well and spent a lot of time afterwards talking. She told me she was going to have the op soonish and then told me all about her plans for life afterwards. it was a good converation. For ME - and not for everyone - I want to be with a person even if I'm paying - some some erotic robot. I really am interested in who they are. Maybe that makes me a sad old git.

[Nicole Dupre]

I tell them with a smile, "interviews are extra, baby" and they usually just smile back and drop it.

[nina_lisa]

I think this is a bit harsh. There is among guys who seek escorts a suspicion - not necessarily correct - that you girls are working because you wish to raise money for your transition and that, given an alternative, you'd probably not escort. After all it is a route to making a fair bit of money in a short time span - t meet the massive costs of cosmetic surgery and the more profound medical issues. Yes - it is indeed none of our business. The cold heart of this is a business transaction. But I am a friendly guy and I like to chat with girls I see - like to find out a bit about them. Where they come from? What do they like? Do they do other work? and other stuff. And so i sometimes ask if they are on the road to surgical transition. There are times when it seems like a perfectly reasonable piece of small talk after the event - if you're into small talk. I sometimes do if the girl is someone i have seen before or if we're in an amiable and chatty mood. I've never yet had a negative reaction. I am genuinely interested in what motivates people. That's my experience anyway.

what you say is fair enough, and many times guys don't only want sex they also want company and to know who we are and have a nice chat.

To your list, i'll even add how hard it can be to find a job as a ts girl, and even without surgery hormones blood tests, laser hair removal..Etc it is a lot of money.

What annoy me is more the type, once you say: yes i want to fully transition. They go and say: oh come on come one please please, i beg you don't cut it.

[Prospero]

Nina - I for one would never-ever say to a girl don't cut it. You gotta respect the person you're with. it's a two way thing. I know just how tough you girls have it - and sorry i did forget to add that it is really very difficult to get any other sort of job.

[amberskyi]

i a big believe in discretion being a two way street....guys always desire discretion and privacy when it comes to them seeing the girl but they always dont give me that same level of respect and privacy.
i dont mind small talk...i love to chat but certain things are personal and off limits.when they get to personal i just change the subject or giggle uncontrollably lol

[robertlouis]

I'm absolutely with Prospero on this, so I must be another sad old git lol, but I simply can't go in for cold, mechanical sex - I do like to know about the person I'm with. Any absence of connection beyond the animalistic physical and you might as well just masturbate and save the money.

But I would never intrude on a girl's intentions unless she raised the subject first. And as I'm not a cockhound I would always encourage her to do what she feels is right for her mind and her body. Every man here should have the grace and commonsense to do the same. After all, it's about her, not you.

[alyssaluxor]

I'm absolutely with Prospero on this, so I must be another sad old git lol, but I simply can't go in for cold, mechanical sex - I do like to know about the person I'm with. Any absence of connection beyond the animalistic physical and you might as well just masturbate and save the money.

But I would never intrude on a girl's intentions unless she raised the subject first. And as I'm not a cockhound I would always encourage her to do what she feels is right for her mind and her body. Every man here should have the grace and commonsense to do the same. After all, it's about her, not you.

Im also like this i prefer to have little chat first before sex

It would be hard for me to get turn on and have sex if its just fuck instantly and just doing it for a job. I like it a little bit of warmth, chemistry, touch, feel, passion and as much as possible I try to enjoy it and cum also lol

:jerkoff

[alyssaluxor]

If a client is cold and doesnt have feelings and emotion I feel like I just want to get out of the room for it might just end up fucking with a cold dead vegetables in bed

Just what I feel

[robertlouis]

Im also like this i prefer to have little chat first before sex

It would be hard for me to get turn on and have sex if its just fuck instantly and just doing it for a job. I like it a little bit of warmth, chemistry, touch, feel, passion and as much as possible I try to enjoy it and cum also lol

:jerkoff

As I've said before, Alyssa, you're my kind of girl. :)

[alyssaluxor]

As I've said before, Alyssa, you're my kind of girl. :)

MARRY me! :fuckin:

[nina_lisa]

I'm absolutely with Prospero on this, so I must be another sad old git lol, but I simply can't go in for cold, mechanical sex - I do like to know about the person I'm with. Any absence of connection beyond the animalistic physical and you might as well just masturbate and save the money.



everyone is different, but i guess some clients might even feel good if they know their money help a girl with her dreams or need, not everyone run after pure beauty.

[nina_lisa]

If a client is cold and doesnt have feelings and emotion I feel like I just want to get out of the room for it might just end up fucking with a cold dead vegetables in bed

Just what I feel

So you hate to fuck a hot vegetable i guess? is it more refreshing if the veggie was in fridge before?

[Prospero]

Alyssa is clearly a very nice person. I understand what she ays about vegetables. Perhaps she prefers fruit?

[robertlouis]

MARRY me! :fuckin:

At the drop of a hat, Alyssa. :kiss:

[robertlouis]

Alyssa is clearly a very nice person. I understand what she ays about vegetables. Perhaps she prefers fruit?

...of which oranges are, of course, not the only kind.

[alyssaluxor]

So you hate to fuck a hot vegetable i guess? is it more refreshing if the veggie was in fridge before?

hihihi i prefer to eat hot vegetables

i prefer fucking with a human being with life, warmth and emotions lol :jerkoff

[alyssaluxor]

Alyssa is clearly a very nice person. I understand what she ays about vegetables. Perhaps she prefers fruit?

Owww sorry in my country theres like a saying, people whos like comatose in bed not moving and no emotions and life are like vegetables :salad

[robertlouis]

Owww sorry in my country theres like a saying, people whos like comatose in bed not moving and no emotions and life are like vegetables :salad

Over here we call them politicians.

So, missy, when are we getting married then? :fuckin:

[TempestTS]

If a guy asks me if Im plan on having surgery or if I plan on keeping my cock I usually respond with " Im sorry, were you talking? Apparently I need to find the ball gag again..."

[hippifried]

do you want one day to have surgery?
Since I'm not presently a client... ...Do ya?

It's just curiosity more than anything else. All y'all who spotlight yourselves for pay, do so by stressing that curiosity. Now if your own curiosity gets peaked by others being curious about you, that's cool. But it's nothing to get upset over or take offense at. If someone's asking the question, the greatest liklihood is that they mean no offense. The reality is that your clientele have no idea how you think, why you're transxual in the first place, what that means, or anything else about you or the lifestyle you live. If they weren't curious, they wouldn't be your client. Everybody's hungry for knowlege.

[mildcigar_2001]

In reading this thread I am a little surprised that people who are currently escorting come on HA and bitch about their clients. Not that the clients don’t deserve to be bitched about, but I would think it would be bad for said escort's future business prospects. If I was looking for an escort, I’d at least want the illusion of a pleasant experience for both participants. I would steer clear of escorts that endlessly bitch about their job.

[Nicole Dupre]

In reading this thread I am a little surprised that people who are currently escorting come on HA and bitch about their clients. Not that the clients don’t deserve to be bitched about, but I would think it would be bad for said escort's future business prospects. If I was looking for an escort, I’d at least want the illusion of a pleasant experience for both participants. I would steer clear of escorts that endlessly bitch about their job.
... as opposed to people who come to HA to anonymously complain about how they're being victimized by black people, which is such a more classy and predictable move. lol

[nina_lisa]

In reading this thread I am a little surprised that people who are currently escorting come on HA and bitch about their clients. I would steer clear of escorts that endlessly bitch about their job.

It is not bitching but starting a conversation, you have both escorts and clients here, which allow to have both point of view presented.

Same way trans escort raise a number of issues, clients can do the same. i am sure a client sometime here once complained, that he he hired an escort that couldn't cum 6times, or fill the bath tube with cum like he wished. To wish girls answered: hormones we take have this effect, you want us passable, but to pass one need hormone.

[nina_lisa]

Ok here is a question to clients, the reason 99% of customers might hire a ts escort, is because of the dick she had. If an escort said: i hate it, i want it gone, what are the chances the client will not want to be a repeat customer of the escort?